Recently, I’ve been getting into some really
advanced stuff, all the way into how to take
things to an erotic level of the highest caliber
after you meet a woman, but today I want to
focus on some more of the FOUNDATION
in terms of how to GET the woman you want
in the first place.
1. GET OUT IN REAL LIFE INSTEAD OF ONLINE
Unless you happen to live in some artificial reality
where there are actually MORE attractive women
who are sane and ONLINE than there are such
great women to be met OUT IN REAL LIFE,
there is almost NO WAY to match the statistics
in your favor by going online.
The problem online is that BECAUSE it takes LESS
effort, less courage, less EVERYTHING, there are
WAY more men on it than women, and it makes it
HARDER to stand out-to even be SEEN at ALL.
Now, if there is a very, very, VERY SPECIFIC kind
of woman you are looking for, and if you are an
EXPERT at creating emotion with words, AND if you
understand how to attract women, then you can still
attract women online, and it’s one of the reasons
I have a special online dating COACHING service.
Online dating, even with this, should be AN
ADDITIONAL strategy, not your ONLY strategy.
In real life, you get to actually MAKE THINGS HAPPEN
by, pardon my language, getting RIGHT UP IN HER FACE!
I don’t mean that in a RUDE way, I’m just saying that
you can MAKE SURE THAT YOU ARE SEEN AND
There is NO WAY to be OVERLOOKED.
You get to use your VOICE, your BODY, and your MIND,
and she will EXPERIENCE all these things in PERSON
Online, it is as if you are blindfolded and seated with
your hands tied behind your back like James Bond
in a movie, and now you have to STILL find a way to
escape and get the mission accomplished.
So with that out of the way, let’s get to more of the
2. THE MOST MOBILE PART OF YOUR EXPRESSION
Your EYES are the most mobile part of your face and expression,
and of HER expression as well. The EYES reveal so much information
from how they move and look at you, and of course there
is also the sheer PRIMAL EFFECT of eye contact.
So what this means is that it is ESSENTIAL to maintain
Many men will simply feel like they are too anxious to
maintain eye contact, because on some subconscious
level they don’t feel they have enough VALUE – and
I don’t mean monetary value, I mean simply being
of WORTH to the woman because she is beautiful.
So my suggestion is to CHANGE the focus in your
mind so that the REASON you are maintaining eye
contact is NOT because you HAVE to show your
CONFIDENCE, but rather because it is a sign of
Think about it: If you DON’T maintain the eye contact,
it will just make her NERVOUS. It will make her wonder
WHY are your eyes darting around?
Remember, women have no choice but to SEE the
expressions and body language you reveal, and human
beings in general tend to see SHIFTY EYES as a sign
of somebody being nervous.
And states of mind are CATCHY.
So if YOU are showing signs of being nervous, it makes
HER start to feel nervous and NOW she is feeling it may
be DANGEROUS to hang around you!
So EYE CONTACT is not only to show confidence, it is
ALSO to help her RELAX around you!
So if you won’t keep eye contact out of BELIEF in your
VALUE, then at LEAST keep eye contact out of the
desire to help her feel CHILLED out.
It really drives me nuts that the most arrogant jerks
in the world often end up coming across as more
THOUGHTFUL than really NICE guys, simply because
the BODY LANGUAGE gets misinterpreted- the
nice guy is only avoiding eye contact because he
VALUES HER TOO MUCH, and the JERK only
HAS EYE CONTACT because he doesn’t CARE
about her thoughts at ALL.
In time, of course, women find out if a guy is a jerk,
but it would be better if the GOOD GUYS out there
got it RIGHT with women from the START so they
don’t lose out.
So I hope this HELPS you STAY MOTIVATED to
ACTUALLY MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT with women.
Remember, you are doing it not only because it
ATTRACTS, but also because it helps her feel
RELAXED. You are doing a THOUGHTFUL THING
by maintaining eye contact.
3. GET TALKATIVE & PLAYFUL WITH A FRIEND FIRST
This is a little trick I learned back from when I
first started doing pick-up many years ago.
Before actually doing pick-up on an evening,
usually a weekend evening, my buddy and I
would just meet up first, and we would start
joking around, seeing a movie, getting something
to eat, and we became SUPER CONVERSATIONAL
and JOKING AROUND so that by the time we were
at the places we were going to in order to meet
and attract women, we were ALREADY IN THE RIGHT
TALKATIVE/WITTY/HUMOROUS state of MIND.
There was no need to make a TRANSITION to
For example, we would go see the movie “300”
on a Friday night, then hit up the local cafes,
coffee shops, and even lounges, and we were
playfully shouting out lines from the movie, like
“THIS. IS. SPARTA!!!!!!!” and then we would
respond to each other in crazy playful ways
like “NOOOOOO! THIIIIIIIIS! IS. SPARTA!!!!”
And so IN THIS FRAME OF MIND, we would
do stuff like go up to a group of women who
themselves were hanging out with their
female friends and say stuff to them
like “ARE YOU FROM SPARTA??????”
And because we were so TOTALLY CONGRUENT
with having a good time, EVERY SINGLE WOMAN
TOTALLY GOT IT, and they would open and giggle
and were IN.
And it doesn’t have to be a line from a MOVIE.
It was the fact we were IN the right STATE,
and that state is CHATTY, CONVERSATIONAL,
PLAYFUL, EMPOWERED, and of course we
always knew in the back of our minds that all
this was going to lead to meeting WOMEN,
so the FLIRTATIOUS vibe was ready to
EXPLODE as soon as we saw women
For example, we would go up to women
and just point blank say "WATERMELON??
And if they said watermelon, we would give
them high-fives, saying that watermelons
were the PARTY ANIMALS and GOOD TIMES.
Of course honeydews were SUBLIME, SERENE,
like SUNDAY MORNING.
This was all spontaneous fun because we were
ALREADY HAVING FUN.
The other good thing about this strategy is that
it allows you to attract women at ANY moment
when they show up ANYWHERE, because
you are ALREADY IN THAT STATE OF MIND.
Of course, we both learned to do this separately
by ourselves as well, but it was a great way to
LEARN and to have FUN at the same time,
AND of course to successfully meet women.
Plus, there is also the element of social PROOF.
The mere FACT that these women saw that
we were BOTH having a great time on our
OWN without them actually showed them
that we were BOTH cool people who didn’t
NEED anything from anyone in order to feel
It also showed the women a WORLD that was
clearly FUN without THEM, and so they wanted
TO BE IN THAT WORLD TOO.
And we would do all kinds of fun playful stuff
with the women we met, like for example checking
in with each other when we would separate into
him with his girl and me with mine, and saying to
each other “Is she cool? Because if she AIN’T COOL,
And we would say this LOUD on purpose in a
And of course the irony here is that this only made
the women TRY EVEN HARDER to please us,
saying things like “NOOOOOOOOO! Don’t kick
us out! We’re cool!!!”
To which we would say things like “What makes
you so cool?”
And this would lead to the women going on trying
REALLY hard to win our approval, whether it was
explaining how they can make chocolate brownies,
delicious lasagnas, or that they are awesome at giving
massages, or WHATEVER else.
Women LOVE it when guys are PLAYFUL and
CHALLENGING at the SAME time. I could go into
a whole DISSERTATION on the reasons for this,
but for now, just remember this WORKS.
The greatest thing about this strategy is that it
makes pick-up EASY AND FUN.
4. DON’T PAY ATTENTION TO ALL THE
THIRD-WAVE FEMINIST PROPAGANDA
Just STOP listening to it, reading it,
or paying attention to it.
If you do, your ATTRACTIVE POWER will be VAPORIZED.
Acting apologetic, submissive, and waiting for HER
to lead the way, and being SO SERIOUS about
the whole idea of talking to her, getting to know her,
flirting with her will ONLY activate the part of her
mind that says YES, THIS IS VERY SERIOUS,
AND YOU MEN ARE FREAKING EVIL, AND
WHAT CAN YOU MEN DO FOR ME. AND
WHATEVER IT IS, IS NOT ENOUGH.
I know this is going to sound CRAZY, but the
FACT of the matter is that with MOST attractive
women, the WORST thing you can do is start
getting all SERIOUS with how you are the kind
of guy to COMMIT and NEVER CHEAT.
You have been BROUGHT UP BY FEMINIST
to think this will ATTRACT these women.
Instead, attractive women are REPELLED by this.
They think you want to CONTROL them!
The IRONY is, that these women will RESPECT
you MORE and be MORE attracted if they see
you are actually NOT so interested in getting
SERIOUS so fast, and if they KNOW that you
can EASILY get OTHER women.
I know, this is the OPPOSITE of what third-wave
feminists tell you, but it is the TRUTH.
Attractive women would WAY RATHER be with
the guy who exudes CONFIDENCE and sexuality
and who can attract TONS OF OTHER WOMEN,
than the guy who KEEPS ON PROMISING HOW
FAITHFUL HE WOULD BE and who DOESN’T
show the same CONFIDENCE and PLAYFUL
attitude as well as comfort with exuding
sexuality in a subtle and tasteful way.
But OF COURSE these women are not going
to TELL you this, because most women don’t
actually THINK about the TRUTH of what
ATTRACTS them to men.
And this is why it is so insane to ask an attractive
woman what she is attracted to, because she will
tell you what she LOGICALLY thinks MAKES SENSE.
What women will do is FALL for a guy, and then
LATER they will BACKWARDS RATIONALIZE
that they fell for him for a host of LOGICAL
reasons that they only discovered or made up
By the way, most men do this too with women.
A guy will be with a woman who is TOTALLY
ABUSIVE and when you ask him why is he
with her, he will find ONE good thing about her
and pretend she is GREAT.
But what ATTRACTS a woman is DIFFERENT
than what attracts a man.
Which leads me to my next point:
5. EROTIC PLASTICITY
Women have a FAR GREATER RANGE of
things that AROUSE THEM compared to men.
If you have my new materials, you know just how
FAR this actually GOES, and it’s INFINITELY FAR.
And men just DON’T understand this, because
THIRD WAVE FEMINISM KEEPS ON PRETENDING
THAT MEN AND WOMEN ARE EXACTLY THE SAME.
The ONE thing though that ALL these ways of attracting
women have in common is that they require you to
use your PERSONALITY to STIMULATE EMOTIONS
in them, whether it is through charisma, humor,
effective storytelling, leadership, exuding sexuality,
or a million other ways!
But you can’t attract them by being a zombie or
And that leads to my NEXT tip:
6. INTERPRET THINGS AS COMPLIMENTS OR
MISINTERPRET THEM IN NAUGHTY WAYS
This is an AMAZING tip for having more EFFECTIVE
conversations and interactions with women so that
they are ATTRACTED to you.
So let’s say you are at the grocery store, and the
clerk makes a mistake in bagging your groceries,
you can playfully say “YOU’RE FIRED”.
In fact, you can use this on any woman who makes
any mistake around you- the key is to CALIBRATE
so that she KNOWS you are JOKING.
That doesn’t mean to say it WEAKLY.
Say it clearly, but make sure the situation is such
that she knows she isn’t actually in any problem.
It works on several levels, because your TONALITY
when saying this authority is actually ATTRACTIVE
as a man, and yet because it is a joke she also gets
to be SAFE in it, and to laugh as well.
If you are able to then FOLLOW THIS UP with a
COMPLIMENT, she gets the best of BOTH worlds,
because the CONTRAST makes the compliment
even MORE powerful, PLUS it also makes you
UNPREDICTABLE so her emotions can’t get
USED to you or bored by you.
And if you are flirting with a new woman somewhere,
let’s say at the store, and she says something to you
like "Hey, do you do this to all the women? Are you
the kind of guy that just likes to try to pick up women?”
You should INTERPRET IT ALL AS A COMPLIMENT.
“What attracts you to men that like to pick-up women?”
All delivered with a mischievous SMILE.
Do you see the power in this?
NEVER have an ARGUMENT when trying to pick-up!
Even if you WIN on some logical level, you will LOSE
on the only level that COUNTS- the emotional level.
And besides, arguing seems weak and defensive.
If you’re with a woman and she says she is
looking for the washroom, you can playfully
say “Hey, I hardly know you, so I’m not going
in there with you before you build up some more
connection with me. I want to feel like I am not
a piece of meat to you.”
This really flips third-wave feminism on its head
and is funny to boot, and it all makes you more
attractive and less needy.
And the fact is, it was still a sexual comment,
so it still puts her mind in that frame, except
you did it in the most innocent way that that
makes you like TEFLON against any third-wave
And if you are reading this right now, and
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It’s time to lift the CURTAINS that third-wave
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Till next time,
Saturday, July 23, 2016
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