I want to share something very important with
you regarding attracting women, and that is the
connection between THREE important elements
The first one is this concept of PLAYFUL teasing.
So the whole point behind this is that you are
doing several things at once. By playfully
teasing her, you are showing that you aren’t
worshiping her, so that you are making it
clear you are not beneath her and not
supplicating to her.
Yet you are ALSO showing that you and her
can be PLAYFUL with each other and not have
to be FORMAL and not have to follow social
conventions---and by doing all that, you create
the atmosphere that is FLIRTATIOUS.
Now, let me be really clear here about this playful
On ONE hand, this is SUPER important, ESPECIALLY
for men living in the western world where third wave
feminism has really brainwashed men into supplicating
to women, and supplication ALWAYS destroys attraction.
So this playful teasing is a way to IMMEDIATELY
make it clear that you are not supplicating.
But so many guys end up CALIBRATING their teases
INCORRECTLY in the following ways:
They go too far, and they come across as MEAN.
Or they simply aren’t funny, they just come across
as goofy or weird. Or the guy just keeps on doing
it again and again and again and doesn’t know
when to stop, and then comes across as mean
again, or lacking social skills.
So one of the MOST IMPORTANT things to remember
regarding playful teasing is to PAY CLOSE ATTENTION
to the specific woman you are interacting with.
The more she seems to ALREADY VALUE you, or
respect you, or be giving you her attention, the
LESS intense your tease should be, and in fact you
may even be able to ABANDON the whole tease
and JUST be playful with her, and accomplish
the same goal of creating a non-formal and
And this is where I need to bring up the third-wave
feminist stuff again.
Because I promise you, it is NO COINCIDENCE that
almost EVERY SINGLE TIME that my students (and
in my own personal experience in terms of the women
I have dated and been in relationships with) were able
to SKIP the heavy teasing or other related ideas, it was
with women who were from countries where third-wave
feminism never took off.
Whether it was women from countries in South America
or parts of Eastern Europe or certain other countries,
they were always countries where the man-hating versions
of feminism never took off.
And it makes perfect sense, because these women
haven’t been indoctrinated with toxic attitudes towards
And the IRONY, just by the way, of course, is that
when a man experiences what it feels like to have
this kind of NATURAL woman, who is more positive
in her attitude toward men, it makes a man WANT
to treat her even BETTER, it makes him OF COURSE
want to respect her to the ULTIMATE MAX, because
most men LOVE women, when things are not distorted
by a crazy society.
The UNIVERSAL point here, though, is that the
TEASING part is something that is there to show
that you aren’t supplicating, but if you are chatting
with a woman who doesn’t even EXPECT or THINK
you WOULD be supplicating, then there is NO NEED
And in fact, it would be COUNTER-PRODUCTIVE.
It could easily come across as MEAN-SPIRITED.
Again, this is a CULTURAL thing.
Think about how Britney Spears releases a song, and
this is a woman with MILLIONS of teenage girl fans,
and her song says, “It’s Britney, bitch” in the lyrics.
Or all the songs by female pop stars about how
they are in charge and promiscuous etc, etc.
This is an EROSION of values, of femininity.
But not all cultures think this is COOL for women.
And more importantly, the women in many cultures
think this is DISGUSTING.
CULTURE is very, VERY important.
And we are living in a culture that goes AGAINST nature.
It tries to turn women into men, and men into women.
But within any dominant culture, there are subcultures.
So it is still possible to meet women who don’t subscribe
to the third-wave feminist thinking- and this includes not
only women who have recently moved here from
countries with better attitudes towards men, but
also it includes women who grew up in families
where the old-school values were somehow still
So, to translate this into a practical example, if you
are about to approach a woman you see somewhere,
and she is giving off a friendly vibe to you from the
GET-GO, like smiling at you, or any other kind of
friendly attitude from the start, you really should
HOLD OFF from the teasing part, and just keep
it playful and confident in other ways.
Let your TONALITY and body language show your
confidence and your flirty vibe.
Also, even when interacting with women who are
more typical of western women, as soon as they
show signs of ATTRACTION, e.g. they start
asking you what your name is, they start smiling
more, maybe even touching you playfully, etc.,
it is a good idea to move to the NEXT stage
of the interaction, which is building a connection
and finding commonalities that are meaningful.
This is where it’s a good time to ask her things
like what she enjoys doing, and seeing if you
can relate to any of those things, especially
if you can relate to it in a way that is intriguing,
funny, or inspiring-and mostly just a way
that is MEANINGFUL and true.
This brings us to the NEXT related idea, which is
One of the greatest feelings we get from any social
interaction is the feelings of being ACCEPTED,
being CONFIRMED, being VALIDATED by others.
Most human beings have a need for some kind
of SOCIAL validation, approval, etc.
It is part of how we form our self-concepts.
And so this TOO is affected by the kind of values
and attitudes towards MEN that a woman grows
If she grows up in a society where she is constantly
told that WOMEN DO EVERYTHING THAT MEN
DO BUT WOMEN DO IT BETTER, and she is told
that WOMEN ARE NOBLE but MEN ARE EVIL,
etc, etc, etc., well it’s going to take MORE to
convince her that ANYTHING a man says to
her is worth anything.
So, THAT is the REASON why the TEASING
is more important in our society. It’s because
most men are so brainwashed to supplicate
to women, especially attractive women, that
it’s not AS VALIDATING to these women when
a man gives her a compliment right out of the
blue- unless his tonality ALREADY implies
MASSIVE confidence in himself.
The TEASING shows that he is NOT going
to worship her so fast, that he has NOT already
MELTED into A PUDDLE beneath her just because
she is a woman.
So THAT makes her feel “HMMMMM. THIS
GUY MUST BE DIFFERENT. WHY IS HE
NOT MELTING LIKE EVERY OTHER GUY?
WHAT IS IT ABOUT HIM THAT MAKES HIM
Now, this doesn’t happen CONSCIOUSLY,
it happens subconsciously in her brain.
So NOW, she actually WANTS him to VALIDATE
her, because she senses that unlike other men,
she does not AUTOMATICALLY have his
validation, and this REALLY TURNS HER
WORLD UPSIDE DOWN.
And it is VERY IMPORTANT to her to get it
RIGHT SIDE UP again. This need is very
real, it strikes her on a core level in terms
of her VERY SELF-CONCEPT that her
WHOLE LIFE she has been taught that she
is SUPERIOR. And so now EVERYTHING
hangs in the balance, and all this SKYROCKETS
the value of this guy who is NOT validating her.
And so when you DO validate her, it should be
based on a compliment that you give her for things
such as her EFFORT to treat you WELL, or based
on things she says that reflect well on her CHARACTER.
Only THEN do you validate her or compliment her.
HOWEVER, if you are so slow to validate a woman
who ALREADY respects men in general, and you
come in with a HARD tease, it is just MEAN.
And then, instead of triggering her desire to be
validated, you instead sent her a message that
you are CRUEL.
Now, obviously there is a RANGE of women’s
attitudes towards men, and they are not all
on the extremes, and also there is a RANGE
of intensities of playful teases.
This is where CALIBRATION comes in, where
you have to read the situation, read the woman’s
expressions and body language and reactions,
and you have to adjust for the situation.
NONE of this means that you are supposed to
KISS UP to women from cultures or countries
that are free from third-wave feminism, either.
These women want their men to be MEN,
and that may sound simple, but when a
man grows up in a culture that tells him
he is worthless and evil and that it is his
job to impress a woman but not vice versa,
being a man is something many men have
been conditioned to be AFRAID to show.
So believe me, these women from non-third-wave
feminist countries and cultures can TAKE a joke;
they have great senses of humor, and they
don’t want you to supplicate.
And this leads to the final topic for today,
which is TRUST.
Without TRUST, the whole foundation becomes
very shaky, and it can destroy the initial interaction,
and it will DEFINITELY destroy any chances of a
LONG-TERM success with the woman.
Without TRUST, there is the primal ALARM
saying: DANGER! DANGER! DANGER!
And when her mind senses DANGER, she will
just want one thing- to get AWAY.
So it is REALLY important that when you are
teasing, not only that you don’t go TOO far,
but also that you don’t forget to build up the
TRUST as well, later on in the interaction.
She needs to feel she can TRUST you with not
only her PHYSICAL self, but also with her EMOTIONS.
So this is why it is of MASSIVE, MASSIVE, MASSIVE
importance to be able to also show her that she is
in good hands with you, on every level.
This is why it is important to demonstrate and have
GENUINE empathy, and to take the time to
find out about her personality, to listen well,
to make a maximum effort to create a bubble
of safety for her where she feels it is safe to
continue building this connection with you,
and to continue escalating this interaction
Now, if you are reading this right now, you can
probably tell that this level of detail can ONLY
come from YEARS AND YEARS AND YEARS
of actual EXPERIENCE with all KINDS of women.
And not only for the purpose of attraction in general,
but ESPECIALLY for the kind of attraction that leads
to REAL girlfriends, and not one-night stands.
A promiscuous woman looking for a one-night stand
is not investing emotionally, so she doesn’t require
as much when you initially try to attract her.
But if you are looking for a woman to truly be
your girlfriend, she needs to know she is making
a WISE decision.
The FASTEST way to learn how to do all this is
by taking my BOOTCAMP program, where you
will get CUSTOMIZED coaching in a private,
EXCLUSIVE bootcamp with me, and you will
actually be approaching and attracting women
in all types of public places like shops and
cafes, as I coach you one-on-one.
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This book is as important to attracting women as
OXYGEN is to LIFE.
Till next time,
Friday, July 29, 2016
Tuesday, July 26, 2016
Today you are going to get a SUPER powerful
and super EASY strategy for attracting women,
that actually attracts women in MANY WAYS
all at ONCE.
And by the way, I learned this strategy from
observing-you guessed it-WOMEN.
It is a great IRONY that these days, it is WOMEN
who are the ones that show OVERWHELMING
confidence with the opposite sex, and it is not
MEN who are doing this with WOMEN.
This is because women grow up in an environment
that constantly tells them how AMAZING they are
for men, while men grow up in an environment telling
them how TERRIBLE they are to women, and how
men must pay for women, prove themselves to women,
and die for women, while women owe men NOTHING.
So what I am going to show you today is something
to put a MASSIVE AMOUNT OF ATTRACTIVE POWER
back in your hands when you are interacting with women.
And not just any women, but especially the women
who are typical in western society today, and even
more so if they are attractive.
Before I get started, I just want to quickly print
one of the emails that came in today from the
readers regarding the latest newsletter:
As always you are so far ahead of the game.
If you are not killing it business-wise above
and beyond the competition, it's because the
masses just don't get it sometimes.
They don't recognize quality.
I really hope you grow from strength to strength
in your business, you deserve it for having the
most spot-on, timely, factual deep-level thinking
about the dynamics between men and women today.
The stuff about simple, wholesome, no b.s.
women from some overseas countries not affected
by feminization is so true, and the old v crappy new
Ghostbusters comparison is funny as well because
it is also true.
Seriously, feel free to use this email as an example
of some positive feedback from one of your avid
readers if you like, ok?! ;)
Thank you, Flynn, first of all for the kind words.
One of the main DRIVES I have is to be the
guy who actually helps men who want to get
a GREAT GIRLFRIEND that would make for
a truly successful LONG-TERM relationship.
And in the western world with third-wave feminism
running amok, that really DOES require skill and
There are three aspects to it:
ONE is the FINDING of a quality woman to begin with;
a woman who hasn’t been corrupted with promiscuity,
being spoiled, and with a lack of appreciation for men
who are loyal, hard-working, and thoughtful.
TWO, is men learning to GET BACK THEIR CONFIDENCE
with WOMEN, because this society tends to turn men
into wusses with women who will SUPPLICATE to
any woman just because she is attractive, or just because
she is a woman.
And for a woman, a man without confidence is
UNATTRACTIVE, while a man with confidence
is HIGHLY ATTRACTIVE.
THREE is the mastering of all the skills that AMPLIFY
attraction, such as how to create sexual tension, how
to create intimate bonds, how to bridge to the erotic
side of things, and many other related skills.
My materials and programs focus on all THREE aspects of
success in getting a great quality woman.
So, thanks again, and on that note, what TODAY’S
newsletter is going to show you is a SUPER POWERFUL
strategy that you can use in almost ANY interaction with
women to show that you have SUPREME CONFIDENCE
in yourself, especially in regards to your confidence with
So, here’s how it works:
The first part involves something you already
KNOW hopefully, and is not the main focus
of this newsletter, but I need to mention it
because what I am teaching you today is
HIGHLY CONNECTED to this part.
So, one of the big “attraction creators” is playfully
TEASING a woman, which is a form of playfully
BREAKING rapport instead of what most guys
do, which is try to CREATE rapport by kissing
up in various ways, such as immediately giving
massive compliments to women.
For example, if a woman has a bright purse, you
might say to her, “Hey, how many batteries does
that thing take to stay so bright?”
If she is sitting on the floor in the bookstore aisle
with her Starbucks coffee and she is reading the
books rather than paying for them, you can tease
her with a comment like, “Sure, treat it as a library!
That way, someone else will have to pay for a
used book that you already read! NICE.”
Now, obviously, you have to calibrate properly,
and deliver this PLAYFULLY, not in a mean way.
But here is the thing that I want to mention TODAY:
Whether you playfully tease her or not, it is VERY,
VERY LIKELY that at some point in the conversation
with her, she will TEASE YOU back.
And the truth is, this is actually a very GOOD sign
that she is HIGHLY ATTRACTED to you.
It means that she UNDERSTANDS that you are
FLIRTING, and she is now FLIRTING back.
And let me just quickly state here that the whole
SUBCONSCIOUS reason why this stuff is so attractive
is because it shows CONFIDENCE in one’s inherent
If you think about it, attraction is TRIGGERED by
SIGNS of the other person’s GENETIC value.
Men in every culture and every society SHARE a
preference for women with the SAME waist-to-hip
ratios! This is because women with those ratios
tend to be more capable of CHILDBIRTH.
And women tend to be attracted to signals from
men that show that these men are inherently
desirable based on either things like SKILLS,
leadership, status, social alliances, etc, etc.
Well, when you BEHAVE in a way that shows
CONFIDENCE in yourself, you are helping a
woman to SUBCONSCIOUSLY feel that you
MUST be desirable on a very DEEP level.
So, that is one of the reasons the PLAYFUL
TEASING is so powerful.
Now that I have given you the mini-dissertation
on all the BACKGROUND info, let me tell you
how to CONTINUE to show MASSIVE CONFIDENCE
when a woman TEASES you BACK.
What you should do is NEVER argue.
NEVER get defensive.
DON’T get upset.
INSTEAD, you should AGREE with her and
even TAKE what SHE said even FURTHER!
So, for example, let’s say you teased her regarding
her sitting on the floor in the bookstore with her
coffee and reading the books there instead of
buying them, and she laughs and then says
to YOU something like this:
“It’s so wrong, I know. But I am reading real books,
are you at the comic book section usually?”
So at this point, you have TWO directions you
can go in, and one is ATTRACTIVE, and one
The UNATTRACTIVE one is where you start to
try to explain how you are so smart and how you
read complicated, highly challenging books, and
explain how smart you are and what you studied,
All THAT would do, though, is show INSECURITY
and a lack of social intelligence in understanding
that she was flirting back with you.
The ATTRACTIVE response is where you AGREE
with every WORD she said and even take it
FURTHER TO THE EXTREME.
So, for example, you respond with:
“I am ONLY in the comic book section. I love the
PICTURES, and pretty soon I might even get to
to the part with READING actual WORDS!!!!!”
This does SEVERAL things at once:
It shows you are CONFIDENT.
It shows a sense of HUMOR.
It shows EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE.
It shows SOCIAL INTELLIGENCE.
And it shows you know how to FLIRT.
One of the IRONIES is that this level of
CONFIDENCE in one’s self is something
that more WOMEN are developing today
with the OPPOSITE sex than MEN are
developing with the opposite sex!
This is because WOMEN are bombarded,
in western culture, with messages of
EMPOWERMENT and “You’re worth it!”
and “You go, girl!” and “Girl power!!!!”
and “Women KICK BUTT!” while MEN
in our culture are being bombarded by
messages of having to APOLOGIZE
for even BEING men!
So the irony is that women, who are the
gender that is MORE attracted to things
like CONFIDENCE in the opposite sex,
are the ones that actually POSSESS
the confidence, while MEN are the ones
who tend to LACK this confidence with
the opposite sex.
And if a woman is attractive, most men don’t
even NEED her to be so confident, it’s enough
that she is attractive.
But WOMEN absolutely NEED TO SEE THIS
in men to feel attraction to men.
And again, the irony is that WOMEN are the ones
who have PERFECTED this art of expressing confidence
through words, teases, and confident RESPONSES to
In a recent film, that wasn’t a great film overall but
had a GREAT example of this ONE thing, the guy
in the movie is teasing the woman about her
COLLEGE, which is Arizona State University,
by hinting that it is PARTY university rather than
a serious place for STUDYING.
The guy goes, “Did you write your dissertation on
the collective works of RED BULL?”
(Which, by the way, would be a great playful
tease in real life!)
And the woman demonstrates SUPREME confidence
in her PLAYFUL response, when she says:
“Yeah, yeah I did. I got an A on it.”
This kind of response shows ZERO NEED to be
This is the LANGUAGE OF CONFIDENCE.
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