Monday, January 30, 2017

Are Women Genetically Programmed To Cheat On Men? The SHOCKING Answer

Are women genetically programmed to cheat on men? The answer is that female infidelity and competition with other men is far more serious than most men realize.

99% of male sperm is designed to DESTROY other men's sperm in a woman, and only 1% is designed to fertilize the egg. (Proof by biologist Robin Cook in "Sperm Wars".)

In this life-or-death battle in terms of your DNA being replicated to the next generation, it's all about being BETTER than the competition of other men- it's about being the ALPHA MALE, instead of the BETA male, and the number one thing women instinctively are attracted to is the man who resonates POWER.

One of the WORST mistakes a man can make is to "beta" himself by QUALIFYING himself to a woman, as this denotes a LACK of belief in your own power, your own value, your own desirability. ANOTHER horrible mistake is to compromise your own values in order to supposedly "win points" with a woman, as this again demonstrates "beta" status, a LACK of power, a lack of belief in your own desirability to a woman.

In today's video, I explain this in further detail:

As you can see, attracting the women or woman
you want is all about being BETTER than the
competition. And I have spent over 14 YEARS
devoted to ensuring men succeed with women.

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Till next time,

MIchael Marks

Tuesday, January 24, 2017

The DEEPEST Levels Of Attracting Women

A lot of men want to know how to never run out of things to say to a woman, especially when in the initial "pick-up". This article is going to answer that question on a very DEEP level, and it is going to answer SO MUCH MORE on attracting women as well, on a very DEEP level. 

Let me just state that I was the first dating coach to teach men how to pick-up and attract women and never run out of things to say, and how to do all this WITHOUT using pick-up lines or memorized routines. 

The fact of the matter is, that when you PROJECT both power and warmth, then not only does EVERYTHING you say "work", but also you are able to tap into the most COOL parts of your mind and ALSO have AWESOME things to say as well. 

AND, of course, you are also able to use my most ADVANCED concepts as well that will make your conversation EVEN MORE powerful from an attraction standpoint.  

Attraction is not a static thing. That's the truth. A woman is either feeling more and more of it for you, or she is feeling less and less. It NEVER stays the same.

So you have to ask yourself a question: Which do you prefer, a woman feeling she is "settling" for you for "practical" reasons and her attraction thus eroding for you day by day, or a woman feeling that she MUST HAVE you?

In the real world, attraction doesn't care about the politically correct b.s. definition of it. Ultimately, REAL attraction feels like a NEED, it's not some kind of thing that is "nice" to have. It feels as if you NEED it.

THAT'S what attraction is.

Attraction Is Primal, It's Not "Nice"

When you feel MASSIVE ATTRACTION for a woman, it's not some kind of, "oh that is nice" feeling. It's A HECK OF A LOT more than that. It's PRIMAL. And THAT'S what you want women to feel for you.

So, if you are going to actually make a woman FEEL this level of attraction, you have to first understand just where the BAR is in terms of what IS a confident secure fun intriguing guy.

Because of the ocean of guys who still kiss up to women, her mind's default setting is set to politely and quickly vaporize all guys who approach her. The only way you are going to overpower that setting is if your behavior and style clearly and immediately indicate that there is something very different about you, in a cool way.

I want to put an END to any notion that you can get the kind of results you want with only a half-assed attitude about this stuff. It's really important to realize the full REALITY of an attractive woman.

The Reality Of How An Attractive Woman Thinks

The REALITY of having infinite guys WORSHIP her and willing to SERVE her and TAKE abuse from her. And the EFFECT that has on a woman in terms of what is attractive to her.

And the EFFECT it has on how she THINKS. You have to be in the same reality to understand it, which is what actually ultimately happens when you get good at this stuff.

And TRULY being great at self-acceptance is the seed where it all begins. It unleashes infinitely attractive power.

But when you have been BRAINWASHED buy society for so many years, as most good guys have been since the day were born, it is ABSOLUTELY CRUCIAL to have an EFFECTIVE METHOD on how to get back to being the ULTIMATE version of you in terms of how you communicate from your body language, your tonality, your sense of fashion, your sense of humor, and just about everything else you do to communicate.

It can be impossible to do this alone, because these dimensions of yourself are currently UNRECOGNIZABLE to you. It's been so long since you've ever FELT them, but they are still there, lying dormant, awaiting to be AWOKEN.

Where I Come In

That's where I come in. My programs and materials are the most powerful resources on the planet for massively changing your life with women. You will learn all the NEW skills required for success, and you will also REGAIN the REAL you that you don't even realize is waiting, begging, and SCREAMING inside of you to come out and LIVE.

You Will Notice Results Immediately

You will get improved results in your reactions with women IMMEDIATELY, and the changes and improvements will CONTINUE to become stronger and stronger for the rest of your life. The only thing YOU have to supply is the practice.

What Women Want Vs. What Guys Want

Guys keep giving WOMEN what GUYS would want, in the typical guys' frame of scarcity and desperation.

Bu this is like giving SALTY PRETZELS instead of water to a man dying of THIRST, and then wondering why he doesn't seem to appreciate it.

Women are EMOTIONALLY DYING OF THIRST for some masculine confidence, wit, humor, and leadership, as well as for some sexual tension, unpredictability, intrigue, fun, and excitement.

Instead, guys are giving women the opposite, because as guys they want assurance, permanence, and reliability, since they have been dunked in the matrix illusion of "scarcity of women" and the matrix illusion that as men they don't have the same intrinsic worth in society as women.

And even when guys DO hear solid advice, such as "be like women" in the sense of being hard to get, guys do it wrong, because they are doing it with the wrong INTENT.

They are doing it almost with a sense of ANGER. As if they are "getting back" at women, as if it's tit for tat, pardon the pun.

It's not about that at ALL.

When you do it like that, you are totally INCONGRUENT with what attraction IS. That TOTALLY ruins the vibe.

The Vibes Of Attraction

Attraction is about giving off the awesome emotional vibes of having MASSIVE AWESOME COOL SEXY VALUE. How the heck can someone have VALUE and yet be the kind of person who gets UPSET? You can only get upset if you are LOSING.

Does the GENERAL worry about the remarks of some guy ranked as just a private?

That's why although attraction ultimately IS about perceived value and superiority, the irony is that to ACHIEVE this EFFECTIVELY, you have to FEEL there is NO power gap between you and a woman to begin with.

That's why the problem is not "being nice". In fact, some guys who act like jerks are CLEARLY coming across as insecure and that's just as bad as being "too nice".

It's all the FILTER that the behavior is being passed through. If it is insecurity, it makes ANY behavior look repulsive. If it's security, it makes any behavior look cool. So that's why when you are with your GOOD friends, you all can tease around and it actually BONDS you all. 

Because it's clear that it's not malicious.

If you FEEL a power gap between you and a woman, your emotions will give you away in infinite micro expressions and forms of body language, and your emotions will betray you by the way you live your life.

She will see that you are actually bitter, etc.

Putting It All Together

The REAL power of attraction comes from PUTTING IT ALL TOGETHER, from the way you dress, to the comfort you have with being sexual, to the sense of humor you have, to the way your voice projects, to the very way you MOVE, and much, much more.

Think about it: When you are totally under control and relaxed and confident, you speak and move with less hurried rush and you never run out of "things to say".

In fact, it seems bizarre to even worry of "having things to say". You start to realize that your secure, inspired, or fun mood is what is fueling your ability to have a great conversation, enabling you to access all the parts of your mind that give you infinite "material".

You also start to realize that this vibe you are giving off results in "energy-return" from the woman, as you and her ping-pong the energy, vibes, and conversation back and forth, each of you enjoying this interaction.

So if you saw a woman you were interested in you wouldn't feel it's some kind of RACE or some kind of CONTEST.

You would roll up casual and laid back, and your conversation wouldn't be about trying to MAKE anything happen, but rather about reflecting your inner vibes, mood, state, etc.

Developing Your Identity

One of the most important elements of high level "game" is simply a byproduct of who you ARE. It's your identity. Once you are ARE in the right state, quality "game" is the uninterrupted flow of your own mood and energy outwards.

Women's Psychology, Culture And Human Emotion

Quality "game" however is ALSO about understanding some important things about women and female culture so that you understand the real critical issues they need to know that you are aware of, and quality "game" is ALSO about understanding HUMAN EMOTION in general, including YOUR OWN emotions.

The result of quality "game" is that you wouldn't be afraid to say something NICE to a woman when you FELT it, but you would also not be NEEDY for a woman who was hot, so complimenting her on her LOOKS would instinctively not be the first thing that you did.

This idea of not kissing up to a woman based on her looks would be instinctive to you, you would not even feel the emotional desire or impulse to focus too much on her looks. It's the neediness and scarcity and lack of perspective that creates these wrong behaviors in the first place.

And if you saw she was really into you, which she most likely would be as a result of all this, you wouldn't feel the need to ROB HER of the pleasure of WONDERING about you, (which is what needy guys do out of their fear of losing her) of the pleasure of not knowing everything about you, and of the pleasure of wondering if she "had" you or not.

You would UNDERSTAND that once you are secure in your own value, it's actually FUN to not know right away that you "have" someone, and yet you would also know how far to push this and not to push this into the realm of the absurd, cruel, or just plain dorkyish.

Becoming A True Natural

In fact, a MAJOR component of attraction is a result of the behaviors you exhibit that flow from the way you THINK, which is based on the way you see yourself and the world.

Let me give you a real life example, of how REAL CONFIDENCE in your value is reflected POWERFULLY and instinctively. This example actually took YEARS for me to fully realize the full effect of.

I remember a girl from many years ago, before I got into this stuff. A girl who I felt I was "lucky" to be with at the time.

Even though I was getting mistreated, I thought I was "lucky" because I had fallen under the brainwashing spell of society to believe that a woman who was attractive was scarce, (which isn't even true at all) and that men had to "work" to "prove themselves" to women, because women were "innocent" while men were just sex-hungry animals.

Anyway, not to get into a whole life-story here, I remember once waking up a BIT to the reality of what was going on, but still not GETTING it enough to rise from the ashes of that life. But I had managed to come to the conclusion that her behavior wasn't very good, even though I thought I was still "lucky" to have her because most guys I knew couldn't get an equally hot woman EVER.

The Rise Of Self-Esteem

For all men who are in the ABYSS of abuse by women, and eventually get OUT, there has to be a point at which the BEATEN corpse of your self-esteem somehow is REINCARNATED and it's bloody heart begins to slowly PUMP again. Even though it is barely alive, your inner voice HEARS it.

And with me, it happened then. It didn't happen all at once, but slowly.

I basically confronted her with the fact her behavior was pretty atrocious, and politely told 
her that after I stripped away the attraction I felt for her, I honestly couldn't think of one reason I was with her.

I WANTED to have a reason, and I even said something like "what are the good things about you?" (And of course, by this time, she had already taken the power for granted, so this was interpreted by her not as challenging her, but as me HOPING for goodness.)
Well, her response was a calm: "Not much."

This had a profound effect on me, causing reverberations of learning that lasted with me for years. I remember at the time, feeling all this ANGER, and yet, there was NOTHING I could do, for, after all, she was not trying to resist my argument that she was no good.

In fact, by DOING THIS, she was actually INDIRECTLY saying "I don't NEED to prove myself, and I don't CARE to either. And, in fact, I AM good for nothing EXCEPT the ONE THING THAT COUNTS: ATTRACTION."

And it was very spontaneous.

When was the last time a woman asked YOU something about yourself and your reply was that you weren't good for much?

You see, on the SURFACE it sounds like self-deprecation. And I don't recommend it for beginners, because beginners are usually SO congruent with INFERIOR beliefs, that when they say a self-deprecating comment, it will be taken SERIOUSLY to mean inferiority.

Untangling The Matrix

But once you GET IT, internally, and your body language, tonality, lifestyle, and BEHAVIORS show that you know that indeed you are VERY desirable, well if you THEN were to say you were worth "nothing much" in RESPONSE to a woman TRYING to get you to prove your worth to her, the results would be powerful as hell.

Because you are saying all the right things about yourself. Now, this doesn't mean to be abusive, i.e. if a woman is REALLY feeling HURT by you, and she asks you what is the good side of you, etc. Don't be a bastard at a time like that.

But you have to understand the UNDERLYING message here, which is your BELIEFS about yourself create your BEHAVIORS. Which create your REALITY.

The answer of "nothing much" was an EMOTIONAL communication. The kind that is EFFECTIVE. Not the useless kind that is LOGICAL.

At the time, I honestly felt that she really couldn't help it, i.e. that this was her REAL personality, but that she still had value.

And I couldn't figure this out at the time. I figured this was just her personality. Until one day I couldn't take it anymore.

I finally came to the conclusion that NO WOMAN on earth was worth being with if I couldn't get some basic level respect. Even if "wasn't her fault".

So I didn't get angry, I actually REALLY thought that this girl was useless to me, because her attractiveness was no longer worth it, and even though she "couldn't help it" I figured that it wasn't my job to be her therapist, and that I had already tried for years to "rehabilitate" her cold ways.

Well, the interesting thing is that, because I TOTALLY BELIEVED that this woman was of NO USE to me, and because I TOTALLY BELIEVED it was not her fault, I was TOTALLY CONGRUENT when I told her "This is over, and I don't hate you either."
Because it implies that she has no worth to you, and it robs her of her sense of superior value. How can she have value if she is worthless to you? Your relative value to hers becomes superior.


Attraction is born.

Beliefs Create Reality

I didn't realize it at the time, but I had GROWN internally, my beliefs about my own value and hers had changed. My beliefs had become more ATTRACTIVE.

It wasn't a "technique" I learned, it was how I really felt. Within DAYS, suddenly YEARS of supposedly INGRAINED behaviors in her TOTALLY REVERSED themselves. To say the least, she started behaving the way a person who respects another person behaves.

I won't go into the details, but suffice to say, apparently she COULD "help it" a lot all those years. She proved she could be the warmest, most giving woman on the planet, most dedicated, most COMMITTED woman to making it WORK.

In fact, I couldn't find a place to HIDE from her, she found me wherever I was. This actually didn't make me happy.

What it did do was prove to me that I had wasted YEARS of my life ACCEPTING substandard behavior and heartache and indignity because I thought that was "just the way it is", when in reality a woman could be TOTALLY capable of being every bit as perfect as a SAINT.

The Power Of Learning

The only thing that made it NOT a waste was the super powerful learning experience that it was for me.

For the next several YEARS, I totally started doing WHATEVER I wanted to with women. My new my beliefs were cemented, and consequently, my new behaviors were repeated with tons of different women, with the same powerful results, ad infinitum.

Most women were great RIGHT OFF THE BAT, since my frame was solid before they could possibly have a chance to doubt it.

But even the few who started off as trying to be "challenging" in return to me, eventually melted pretty fast, if I had repeated chances to interact with them. My frame took over, because I REALLY believed in it, it was not some type of act.

This is NOT ego here. This is just a FACT. Go and try it in the real world and you can confirm this.

I picked up women however *I* wanted to, never giving them ANY privileges, never for a SECOND thinking any of them were "special". I made ALL the decisions, teased them, didn't take them overly seriously.

I didn't smile like an approval-seeking geek around women, because I honestly didn't think they had superior opinions, I thought of them as primarily being very smart and feisty when it came to feigning superiority, mystique, innocence and value, and in getting men to chase them because of this.

Letting Go Of The Bitterness

But I slowly let go of the bitterness as I realized that this was just the way women learned to work their way through the world since time immemorial, and that it was men who had given the extra power to women without adjusting to this change themselves.

Instead of thinking of what gift to buy a woman, I focused on my own goals, my own things, FIRST, and I also dumped women at the slightest thing, which ALWAYS resulted in them only chasing me HARDER.

I ENTERED the same level of reality that I thought was exclusively reserved for women, But the power of that reality had become MY REALITY.

I learned some pretty crazy stuff too, such as if you REALLY want to stop a woman from being with you, the best way is to kiss UP to her. And make sex predictable, boring, and regular.

Being Formal Ruins The Vibe

I also started to see how most guys really act around women, and I could SENSE the vibe that they were creating, because I could finally see how RIDICULOUS and REPULSIVE their behavior was to a woman who NEEDED a challenge, who needed something COMPELLING, something more emotionally powerful, something more FUN, as opposed to all these guys who were so serious!

The only thing that all that serious stuff ends up doing for a guy, if done in the early stages at least, is making a woman think the guy is inferior. And also, serious stuff tends to be formal and official and correct and it lacks all those fun and erotic feelings of breaking the rules!

The Biggest Things To Learn From Women

The reality is that, if you think about it, women have in a way given men a GIFT in terms of the erotic joy that comes about from actually GETTING a woman who behaves sexy, hard to get, who is playful, fun, confident, etc. The more women behave as if they are forbidden, the more emotional kick you get when you DO get them. Now, be smart and give women the same thing.

It's just gotten a little out of hand these days, but the reality is that how sexy would it be if it were the opposite, i.e. if women just ripped off their clothes for you within minutes of meeting them, if they acted like typical desperate GUYS????

The fact of the matter is that women are damn smart, and throughout history they trumped the men who thought they could control women. Men figured they were in power, but women learned to use sexuality as the ULTIMATE power. They were slow to give it away, they knew how to cloud the secrets to female sexuality in mystery, making it more appealing and desirable and adding all kinds of illusions about it to make it seem more special.

And men FELL for it ALL, they fell for it GOOD, they fell for it BIG TIME.

And women are not so stupid as to give all that power away in a world of "equality". It's more like "yeah, thanks for making us equals now but we'll keep the sexual power superiority thank you very much". Women wouldn't feel more attraction to men by GIVING men all the power, women only feel that attraction by you EXHIBITING SOME OF THAT POWER.

Women Want Men Who Know All This

If a woman has to TEACH you this, then she doesn't want you.

And this as well as most of women's behavior is not even CONSCIOUS totally. It's been INTERNALIZED. So women are totally CONGRUENT with everything they do.

Regarding the idea of women making their "gift" of sex something "special" and "rare", this is why being labeled a "slut" is something she will avoid at all costs. (It's actually often very DIFFERENT in the bedroom sometimes, because the FORBIDDEN ASPECT of something, which is RESTRICTING a behavior, i.e. being a slut, then becomes far more DESIRABLE and erotic, hence the appeal of talking dirty).

But otherwise, i.e. when doing a cold approach pick up where you are both total strangers, you have to be massively careful not to do ANYTHING that would imply she is a slut, yet you also have to still ensure that conversation has indirect sexual vibes to it, which is not the same as talking dirty. I go into detail on this in my materials.

Being labeled a slut is such a negative thing because it strips AWAY women's power which comes from their image, i.e. that they have a "special" sexuality that is only given to a "rare" guy who "earns" it.

And AGAIN, I repeat, these ideas are INTERNALIZED to most women, so they BELIEVE it, so they are CONGRUENT with it. It's not like women feel they are using a "technique".

And THIS is what you must pick up from women, the fact that the beliefs are INTERNAL. AND you must learn from women how to present your entire reality in the most attractive light, otherwise the reality is that you are portraying yourself as INFERIOR, and perception is reality when it comes to these things.

Applying What You Learn

Now, for YOU to get to that point where it ALL feels totally instinctive, I'm not going to bull*&^% you, you are going to have to WORK at it for a bit. You WILL notice SERIOUS results IMMEDIATELY, but for FULL effect, you are going to have to practice. That means practicing on women whenever you can. Typical MAJOR results for most guys take a few weeks, with new levels of success being reached every few months.

We are talking about LEARNING new skills AND debrainwashing yourself, to reset the internal wiring back to the way it is meant to be.

You're going to have to go out and APPLY the things I teach you, and at first it might not be easy. You might have a fragile ego and it might get hit emotionally by women, and yet you are only going to get TOUGHER and emotionally stronger if you follow through in the way I suggest, ultimately leading you to the point where your WORDS match your FEELINGS.

Internalizing Your "Game"

Your "GAME" will become so tight that in fact it will not be much of a GAME at all, it will be INTERNALIZED. And it will be congruent.

It's WORTH it. It's the ONLY way. If you don't put in your dues, and you don't work on INTERNALIZING your game, and if you don't work on your ability to create COOL EMOTIONS in women, well then YOUR uncool emotions will ruin your game no matter how cool your "lines" are or your memorized "tactics".

Incongruity is always evident to people, even if they are not consciously aware of it. So the incongruity in a guy who is SAYING cool things but hasn't paid his dues developing the internal stuff, will never fool most women.

You have to get to the point that your EMOTIONS really ARE feeling the same stuff ABOUT YOURSELF that a hot woman feels regarding HER intrinsic value.

In my life, I keep only the best people around me, (although it's hard at times to find the time to just "hang out") we all make each other's FOUNDATIONS stronger by pushing each other, encouraging each other, and reminding each other to stay on track when we veer off the right MENTAL FRAME for a situation.

Now, believe it or not, all this stuff should be considered part of FOUNDATION LEVEL understanding. You NEED to have this understanding to create SOLID and CONSISTENT attraction with the kind of women that make your heart pound.

Take Yourself To The Next Level

Beyond this level, rests an even DEEPER level of understanding and skill. This level is part of what I like to call the INFINITE BEYOND. It includes an understanding of the deepest recesses of a woman's desire and in fact ALL her emotions.

This is the level where you are able to understand the nuances and subtleties of a woman's behavior in a way that will give you such power that you genuinely feel EMPATHY for the woman in front of you, no matter who she is.

And you will be congruent with it, because it will come from your knowledge that you can give her the GREATEST gift she has ever experienced- which is EMOTIONAL fulfillment. When you KNOW you have something AWESOME to GIVE, you are bathed in an infinite sense of calm and security.

This is MORE than just losing any neediness. It's about also being able to GIVE a woman what she EMOTIONALLY NEEDS, for REAL.

This will enable you to not only create massive attraction, but also a DEEP sense of connection that most QUALITY women are YEARNING for.

Women's Deepest Desires

Most guys don't realize how important it is for a woman to have both, because they don't understand that raw SEX is easy for a woman to get. As a result, her self-esteem does not depend on it at all. Therefore ultimate sexual desire in a woman can only be unleashed when you ALSO know how to satisfy her other intense emotions, because the REALITY is that all these emotions are VERY MUCH connected. One unlocks the door to the other.
Emotions are the ONLY truth that matters in this arena.

And you are going to be the biggest GIVER she ever had, because you are going to be GIVING her EXACTLY what she NEEDS to feel INSANELY GREAT.

And believe me, when you can do THAT to a woman, she won't just be attracted to you. She will be OBSESSED with you. So this is responsibility that you must take with great sincerity.
And if you are ready to gain the most advanced level of skill and understanding with women on the face of this earth, SIGN UP FOR BOOTCAMP with me NOW.

In Bootcamp, you get the full advantage of ONE-ON-ONE training with me so that you are actually SUCCESSFULLY APPROACHING AND ATTRACTING WOMEN ANYWHERE within 48 hours! 


And of course, if you haven't yet downloaded ALL my digital programs for SKYROCKETING your success with women, do that NOW.  EVERY SINGLE ONE of these programs is PACKED with PURE GOLD on attracting women.  And you can download them IMMEDIATELY and be using them NOW, by going HERE:

Till next time,

Michael Marks

Monday, January 23, 2017

How To Build A Connection With Women

Men and women are DIFFERENT.
This is what makes it so hard
with women.

But at the same time, men and
women are the SAME in the ways
that MATTER. They want EACH OTHER.
They want connection. They want

The way to BRIDGE this difference
is to have AMAZING listening skills,
so that you can actually UNDERSTAND
what she REALLY is communicating
to you. Plus, these listening
skills ALSO enable you to have
INFINITELY better and more
powerful conversations that
help you make super strong
CONNECTIONS with the woman
you are interacting with.

And if you think listening skills
are something COMMON, let me show
you how RARE they are, and how
will make if YOU show you
are one of those RARE men
who HAS this skill:

And if you are reading this right now,
you may be wondering what YOU should
do next, to GET the woman you WANT.

The most POWERFUL step you can take
right now is BOOTCAMP.

That's where I train you and you
see the results on women right in
front of your own eyes as you pick


And if you haven't yet downloaded all my
should do that IMMEDIATELY.

These programs are the absolute GOLD STANDARD
in the field, and you will benefit MASSIVELY
with women from EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THEM.

I really mean it-EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THEM.

They're at:

Men are also taking my SKYPE coaching from all
around the world, to take their success with
women to the NEXT LEVEL.

It's at:

P.S. I was doing this YEARS before that movie
came out. I'm the REAL LIFE version of it.

Till next time,

Michael Marks

Friday, January 20, 2017

"Women Are Impossible"

"Women are impossible." Have you ever said this to yourself? Today, more than ever, this feeling resonates among men. For the first time ever in history, we are seeing masses of men either opting out or giving up on almost any kind of sexual or romantic interaction with women, including long-term relationships. 

There is an entire movement called MGTOW, standing for "men going their own way" which, for many men, means completely opting out of any romantic, dating, or sexual interactions with women at all.  This is obviously a response to the horrifying issues created by feminism when it comes to dating, sex, and relationships. I should note that MGTOW ultimately is about choice-men can still pursue the same old path the same old way if they want to.

There is also an entire trend called "The Sexodus" where young men are deciding a life without sex with women, and instead with video games and other entertainment as well as other pursuits, is preferable.

So, in light of all this, and in light of the fact that I have been in this field called "dating coaching" for a decade and a half now, I want to lend my perspective on all this.

First of all, there IS a serious problem going on in many western countries today that makes things MUCH more difficult for men when it comes to successfully attracting women, and this problem takes on different forms, whether it is attracting women for the short term or the long term.

In a nutshell, feminism and political correctness has glorified women and vilified men, and it has made many men feel confused about what women really want, and it has also drained men of much of their confidence, and worst of all, it has actually made men think that women are attracted to things that in reality women are not attracted to.  It has also made many women behave in vulgar and promiscuous ways that men find repulsive, especially in terms of looking at women as long-term relationships.

So, from that perspective, I GET IT. I understand. I realize how it can feel to go up to a woman and get treated in a way, that if you are not used to it, can make you feel as if you are criminal. I understand how hard it can be for a man who is not trained, who is not properly informed, to make an approach, to succeed at a pick-up, and to stay on track in a relationship.

I am 100% convinced that MANY of the men in these movements, ranging from MGTOW to "The Sexodus", are truly great guys, cool guys, good guys, who are just FED UP and have opted OUT.  They feel they have hit a brick wall with women, and just can't take it anymore. In many ways, that was me, about 20 years ago.

At the same time, there are ALSO some folks who may still be great guys, but who also have other issues they need to work on, issues that have nothing to do with feminism, and yet many of these guys don't REALIZE the extent of the issue, and it becomes something that is one of their "blind spots" that they just don't recognize in themselves. They refuse to see the problem, refuse to work on it, and are just using these groups and movements like MGTOW as a place to vent and complain, rather than learn how to succeed with women. In some ways, this TOO was me, about 20 years ago! (Although MGTOW didn't exist then.)

So the TRUTH is that YES, absolutely, there IS a problem today going on when it comes to men getting success with women-and this is ESPECIALLY true for men who actually want beautiful, faithful, warm, women who would make for great long-term relationships, possibly even wives, etc.

And the truth ALSO is that you CAN STILL, yes STILL, you can STILL have amazing success with women. You can even do it if you live in the western world where feminism has wreaked so much havoc. But you MUST, you absolutely MUST, be properly INFORMED and you must be properly TRAINED. 

There is simply no other way.  Things are NOT like they were for your grandfather's generation. In those days, men NATURALLY would learn the right way to attract women,  and they didn't have the brainwashing effects of feminism, and women would not be CORRUPTED by feminism either.  There was a natural social pressure on both men and women to actually be in HARMONY with each other, as there were male roles and female roles, and men would try to show their qualities as mates, and women would show their appreciation for this.  Men would try to show they would be great husbands, and women would show their appreciation for this.

In order to solve this problem, you need to understand the full truth of attraction, and how to BREAK THROUGH all the feminist-brainwashing barriers that are in a woman's head when you approach her and when you continue to build up the connection with her. You need to do all this very quickly as you have very little time to attract a woman who is a stranger. 

Success with women is not just about INFORMATION. Getting the best INFORMATION is IMPORTANT, but not everything.  The other part of success with women is getting the SKILL.  

It is like having a driving manual and having to actually do the driving test. Just because you mastered the manual doesn't mean you can actually drive, although mastering the manual is ABSOLUTELY THE FIRST STEP and IS ESSENTIAL as well. 

I have been helping men get BOTH the information AND the skill. And BELIEVE me, the skill IS something that is very, very, VERY REAL. The difference between men who ATTRACT the women and the men who don't boils down to how well they actually CARRY OUT the important things they learned in terms of the attraction information. 

I see this in BOOTCAMP all the time. A man will approach a woman, and USE a strategy he learned from me from my material.  He will often generate attraction, but after getting the LIVE FEEDBACK from me on how to BETTER APPLY what he learned, his NEXT approach will generate INFINITELY MORE attraction.  

This LIVE FEEDBACK from actually OBSERVING you approach and attempt to pick-up women makes ALL THE DIFFERENCE IN THE WORLD. And here is something SUPER IMPORTANT TO REALIZE-the CHANGES you will make as a result of getting my coaching are often VERY SUBTLE, and yet it is THESE SUBTLETIES THAT MAKE ALL THE DIFFERENCE IN THE WORLD. 

In fact, SKILL in just about EVERY area really is about SUBTLETIES. Anyone can tell you that playing the guitar is about strumming on the strings, but it is the SUBTLETIES involved that make the difference between a skilled performer and an unskilled one. Anyone can put together some ingredients to make something edible, but it is the SUBTLETIES involved that make one a great CHEF.

It's the same thing with being able to attract women.  Subtleties in your timing, in your vocal tonality, in your humor, in your opening, in your reactions, in the degree of challenge you present, in the degree of validation you provide for her, ALL these things are where the REAL MAGIC OF ATTRACTION occurs. 

This is the truth. I can honestly tell you that no matter WHAT you think your limits are, you can BREAK THROUGH them and get the success with women you want.  

I have done this for over 14 years now, helping THOUSANDS of men from across the continent and around the world, including through my bootcamp program. I urge you to make the most of this life, and being with a woman you are crazy about adds so much to your entire experience of life. You can even check video testimonials from men who have taken my programs-you can see them on website right now. And you can learn about my bootcamp, which I bring to your city personally if you prefer it in your own city, by going here immediately:

Also, I seriously suggest you download my program called Unleashing Your Power With Women by going here RIGHT NOW:

I am NOT your typical "pick up artist". I take dating and relationships VERY seriously, and many of the men I have helped are even on my Facebook page, where you can see for yourself that they have used what they learned from me to attract incredible women beautiful inside and out, usually for long-term relationships and sometimes have even gone on to get married and have families with these awesome women!

Till next time,

Michael Marks

Saturday, January 14, 2017

Why Intelligent Men Fail With Women, And What To Do About It

Intelligent men fail with women for a very IRONIC reason: They actually read, learn, and absorb more information on the topic of attracting women-the only problem is that all that information is wrongMost of what men are told about attracting women is feminist, politically-correct propaganda, or half-truths from so-called "experts" that actually DESTROYS attraction and REPULSES women. 

Attracting women is about emanating POWER and confidence, and it is about DEFYING political correctness-it is about having no SHAME about being a man who is interested in a woman or in women in general.

Most of today's feminism, and political correctness in general, appear like something good on the surface, but they are actually  evil, and they get away with evil by masquerading themselves as something good, noble, and virtuous, such as being about "equality", "fair treatment for women" and "anti-racism".  

One of the products of feminism and political correctness are men who are known as "White Knights" who actually BELIEVE all the politically correct feminist propaganda, and think they are GETTING SOMEWHERE with women by "standing up" for all the BULLSH*T.

Here is a diagram (click to enlarge), made with a sense of humor, illustrating this point:

Political correctness and feminism relies on people being DUPED by these manipulative tactics, and political correctness and feminism also relies on SHAMING people if they don't AGREE with political correctness-so that people will AGREE with it all just in order to not be considered social outcasts or be considered "crazy".

In this video, I discuss not only overcoming political correctness, but also the importance of seeing the "window" that a woman gives you for sexually escalating physically with her - most men never even RECOGNIZE these brief "windows" of opportunity and when these windows CLOSE, they are usually SHUT for GOOD, at which time you become FRIEND-ZONED.  

Plus, I also discuss how to prevent a woman CHEATING on you, as well as  important tips on SCREENING a woman for LOYALTY and other essential traits for a great long-term relationship.

For the ULTIMATE training on how to attract women ANYWHERE, sign up for my ONE-ON-ONE BOOTCAMP at:

For all my DIGITAL PROGRAMS on EVERY ASPECT OF ATTRACTING WOMEN, as well as to learn about my SKYPE coaching and consultation service, go here:

Till next time,

Michael Marks 

Sunday, January 8, 2017

How To Make A Woman Go From "NO" To "YES!"

The "red pill" truth is that the only way to make a woman go from "no" to "yes" is to exude MORE power, and to demonstrate MORE value. All the niceness in the world doesn't mean zilch until you FIRST do this. 

In today's video, I show how you can demonstrate that value and power through using social proof and through showing confident, high self-esteem behaviors.

And if you're reading this right now and want to be able to attract women INSTANTLY anywhere you see them, then sign up for my BOOTCAMP program by going HERE:

And to get the FULL EDUCATION on how to attract women, go here:

Til next time,

Michael Marks

Saturday, January 7, 2017

Why Women Say They Like "White Knights" But SLEEP With ALPHA MALES

Ever wonder why women keep on telling
you about how many men are jerks and
how they can't stand these men, but
yet these are the ONLY men these
women date and sleep with?

In today's video, I'm going to explain
this phenomenon:

The good news is that you don't have
to be a JERK to attract women, you
just have to radiate POWER and
understand some important things
about women. 

Women say they like "White Knights" but
actually SLEEP with alpha males because
women are HARDWIRED to be sexually attracted
to confident, masculine men.

This is the way women evolved, so they
could survive and so their OFFSPRING
could survive. 

Women say they like "White Knights"
because on the very surface level,
that is what they believe since they
are bombarded with feminist messages
of how bad men are, how superior women
are, and how important it is for men
to kiss up to women.

"White Knights" parrot this feminist
drivel to women, and women nod their
heads and maybe even befriend these men-
but women have no actual sexual attraction
or interest in these men

Let me show you how to attract women
ANYWHERE you see them. You can learn
by taking my BOOTCAMP where you
actually get to PROVE what you are
learning by picking up women right
in front of your own eyes in


And if you haven't yet downloaded my LATEST
book, called 30 Days To An Amazing Woman,
then definitely do that IMMEDIATELY by
going here NOW:

This book is ESPECIALLY awesome if you
already HAVE some of my other programs
and materials, as illustrated by a
reader who wrote in about it:


Hi Michael,

...This program is an action oriented
book, more like the drive manual of
a car, and how to operate it, and I see
it more as a mini self-boot camp which
I think is fantastic, although I am 3/4
complete with the reading.

You might also agree with me on this:
I think that you have to study all your
previous materials, and review it, to
have the full affect of the 30 awesome
days "guide."

This reminds me as a person who studies
to get his driver's license, studying
the theory first before anything, and
move into the "driving test mode."

I also love how gradual the program gets
in terms of levels...I love it.

I am going to sprinkle a little bit of
feedback/question when it comes to the
core of attracting women: POWER. I began
to wonder and realize that "the feeling
of power" can smoke just about any amazing
trait a woman is attracted to in a man
whether it is warmth, security, confidence,
being a good person etc.

Just like a lion is at the top of the food
chain, so does power (form the top of
the food chain in terms of its effect on

As I began to think through these things,
good qualities don't last as long as power
does to attract women. Power might seem
arrogant on the surface, and I remember
in your first book, The Dating Wizard,
you wrote how women are repulsed by
"nice guys", if the niceness does not
come from a feeling of abundance and
from feeling worthy.

One thing that I question myself is how
to gauge and not get corrupted by power, a
and keep all the best attractive qualities
to a woman-not becoming abusive and power
unbalanced? Maybe through kindness, balance
of power, calibration? I don't know.

Since I remember in one of your newsletters,
you hit on the concept of the "sweet spot"
(the "Star Wars" reference to hitting the
exact spot on the Death Star that created
a chain reaction blowing up the whole thing),
I begin to see POWER and KINDNESS must go
hand in hand, and kindness cannot come before

I begin to see it as the ultimate combination,
and the most powerful attraction combination
there is on this earth. You can see it in
just about everything attractive from a man
to women throughout the history of human kind.

I have a feeling this might be a very good
question and beneficial for other readers
too if you'd like, but you're the one who
makes the calls.

Thank you again! You're awesome.


Zack L.



Thank you for the kind words! And yes, this
book is even MORE powerful for men who HAVE
already studied my materials, because now
that they have all the theory, they can
put into ACTION the 30-Day plan outlined
in the book.

I felt this would be extremely valuable
because I know how it can seem OVERWHELMING
to put EVERYTHING you know into action,
so this way there is an exact ORDER
one can follow, on the days outlined
in the book, to actually DEVELOP the
skills and actually get the woman,
and not just have it be concepts
and theories.

At the same time, even if a guy doesn't
have the previous material, he can get
a real "crash course" on pick-up this way,
and truly hit the ground running!

You also asked a really good question,
regarding power and how to not get
corrupted by it, since in fact women
do also want the warmth and sincerity
as well, even though exuding POWER
from your behaviors and actions
comes first and foremost.

The answer, I have found, is to calibrate
based on the woman's emotional investment
in you, and how hard she is trying to
please you.

If a woman is bending over backwards to
please you, then she definitely VALUES
your VALIDATION more, and probably even
NEEDS it. So she is going to value more
warmth, more validation, more connection,
more kindness, etc.

If she is not doing this as much, then
she is not going to want or need the
other stuff as much, so you should
calibrate the warmth, the giving,
in proportion to this.

Ultimately, the goal is to meet the kind
of woman who is so crazy about you that
you can give her more warmth without
her becoming spoiled by it.

There's always calibration involved,
but the more she is crazy about you,
the easier it is :)

It's also funny how that Star Wars
reference is STILL so useful, and
what's amazing is that this actual
reference came to me from a man
who was taking my bootcamp years

As I was teaching him about calibration,
he compared it to this idea of the "sweet
spot" and the Death Star, which, when
hit in the right spot, caused this
massive chain reaction that blew
up the entire massive thing which
was the size of a small planet!

So it is the same thing with women,
which is calibrating just right,
between exuding POWER and also
the right degree of warmth and
connection that is perfect for
HER, and it is MADE perfect by
YOUR SKILL in calibrating for her.

Hit the "sweet spot" in this sense, 
and she will be ECSTATIC and
CRAZY for you.  

Speaking of BOOTCAMP, if you are
reading this right now and want
to get success with women in the
for my BOOTCAMP today!

Learn more at:

And for my latest book, 30 Days To An Amazing Woman,
go here:

There's nothing out there like this book,
to help you achieve success with women
as fast as possible, ANYWHERE.

Till next time,

Michael Marks

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