You are getting the JACKPOT today when it comes to golden tips on how to attract a great woman who is the "total package" and who has what it takes to make things work long-term as well. I have FOUR important new videos for you.
First off, I think we need to understand WHY the pick-up artist community that was initially a TINY community suddenly EXPLODED all over the western world about fifteen years ago. It is IMPORTANT to realize that it is NOT a coincidence that political correctness and radical feminism took off at this time as well.
And although I believe that many of those mainstream pick-up artist tactics are DESTRUCTIVE to both short-term and long-term success with women, and in fact I spent YEARS showing SUPERIOR methods, it is STILL crucial to understand WHY those destructive tactics seemed so "right" to so many guys. It is because, in a nutshell, feminism and political correctness had launched a WAR on men-including INNOCENT men.
When people are suffering, they become emotional, and they become irrational and suddenly even strategies that are counter-productive can SEEM "right". And men were and still ARE being treated HORRIBLY in this new culture:
It is important to understand that all this indoctrination of men and women to believe that basically most men are scumbags and all women are immaculate and morally superior to men has been going on for DECADES, and has reached even HIGHER levels of insanity in the last several years.
The LATEST example, of course, is the Gillette ad against men, which was made, ironically by a woman who is an extreme feminist, and it is beyond comprehension why a company marketing to men would hire such a woman to create a commercial that is basically telling men they are scumbags. You would NEVER see a product aimed at women telling women they are morally reprehensible. On the contrary, you would ONLY see commercials telling women how AWESOME and VALUABLE they are, such as the "L'Oreal" commercials telling women they are "worth it".
So as men we must REMIND ourselves that we are NOT scumbags, and that we must be CONFIDENT, and that women WANT men with SELF-ESTEEM, PRIDE, and CONFIDENCE.
And not only is approaching women ok, it is actually pretty much the ONLY way you are going to meet them, as most women do NOT approach men, and most women EXPECT that men are going to do the approaching--the KEY is to do it with a bit of CLASS, and to show some confidence and wit, which is pretty HARD to do if you are being INDOCTRINATED your whole life to believe that basically all women are being treated like CRAP by men and as if women are all TERRIFIED of you.
So you must REJECT the indoctrination and APPROACH women anyway and realize that the propaganda is exactly that-extreme feminist, politically-correct PROPAGANDA.
And by the way, in case you didn't know, I have DEDICATED my life to fighting political correctness, as it is currently the most dangerous threat on the planet. It threatens EVERYTHING we hold dear: Our entire concept of family, our belief that education should ENRICH minds rather than IMPRISON them, our entire foundation of science, our entire sense of morality, values, and culture that have shaped our civilization and that helped us achieve developments that would have seemed nothing short of MIRACULOUS to anyone living just a few generations ago.
If we let political correctness continue to dominate over LOGIC, over EVIDENCE, over MORALITY, we will lose EVERYTHING.
This is why I am also using my passion, experience, abilities, and obsession with film-making to create a film designed to COUNTER the propaganda that bombards us:
I want to wrap up this message with one final point: I really have been consistent in my integrity on this mission, this message, since day one. I could have so easily just "sold out" to the fads and gimmicks over the years, as I was around during all of it, but REJECTED it wholesale.
I wasn't interested in just getting promiscuous women, as I KNEW they would create more problems mentally and physically than most guys at the time realized. Just getting "laid" was never the point, and in fact this is not as big a deal as most guys think, because there are, unfortunately, thanks to feminism, more promiscuous women around today than EVER before in history.
The real challenge is finding and keeping a woman where there is mutual attraction and where she has her moral act together and has not been "brainwashed" by third-wave feminism and political correctness.
Getting a great woman like this requires understanding a lot more than just one thing. It's not just confidence. It's not just social skills. It's not just screening for the right woman. It's not just detoxifying yourself of the politically-correct brainwashing that may have emasculated you over the years. It's not just looking your best. It's not just getting your life figured out. It's not just about being in a great state of mind. It's ALL these things.
And that means understanding details and nuances. The kind of thing that can't be summed up in a highly simplistic click-bait marketing video.
But if you want the TRUTH on success with great women, then I'm the man to help you with that:
To learn more on how to attract women, simply go here where you can find my entire collection of books, audio programs, and video programs, as well as my one-on-one live coaching services including Skype as well as in-person Bootcamp programs:
https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/catalog.html
And to support the film I am working on, which I truly believe is an absolutely CRUCIAL step in countering the forces of political-correctness and radical feminism, go here now:
https://igg.me/at/lovebound/x
Stay cool,
Michael Marks
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Tuesday, January 29, 2019
Attract Women By Detoxifying Your Mind Of Political Correctness
Friday, December 28, 2018
Political Correctness Is Killing Common Sense
Political correctness is killing common sense, and it should be the other way around! Today, I reveal to you what may be the most important video I have ever released:
If you've just watched the video, let's start the Common Sense Revolution by getting this movie made: Let's Start The Revolution And Get This Movie Made!
Over the course of thousands of years, our civilization has accumulated wisdom. A wisdom that came at great cost through learning from horrifying mistakes over the millennia.
The result of that wisdom was a society that flourished-a society that balanced freedom with responsibility, free enterprise with ethics, the rights of the individual with the needs of the family and the community. There was a respect for man and for woman and how they are both vital to each other and to their children.
Today, however, all this is going DOWN THE TUBES. What used to be SIMPLE and COMMON SENSE to just about EVERYONE in our society is now UNKNOWN, and not only unknown but most people actually tend to think and believe the ABSOLUTE OPPOSITE of what is the TRUTH!
Here are just SOME of the important topics I discuss in this new video:
By showing, in an emotionally compelling way that only a great film can, how PRECIOUS this is and how it is in jeopardy today, this movie will be a catalyst for CHANGE, so that our society can take ACTIONS in the right direction to restore the traditions and values that made it an incredible place to live in the first place.
Let's start the Common Sense Revolution by getting this movie made:
Let's Start The Revolution And Get This Movie Made!
Till next time,
Michael Marks
If you've just watched the video, let's start the Common Sense Revolution by getting this movie made: Let's Start The Revolution And Get This Movie Made!
Over the course of thousands of years, our civilization has accumulated wisdom. A wisdom that came at great cost through learning from horrifying mistakes over the millennia.
The result of that wisdom was a society that flourished-a society that balanced freedom with responsibility, free enterprise with ethics, the rights of the individual with the needs of the family and the community. There was a respect for man and for woman and how they are both vital to each other and to their children.
Today, however, all this is going DOWN THE TUBES. What used to be SIMPLE and COMMON SENSE to just about EVERYONE in our society is now UNKNOWN, and not only unknown but most people actually tend to think and believe the ABSOLUTE OPPOSITE of what is the TRUTH!
Here are just SOME of the important topics I discuss in this new video:
- The truth about how to approach women anywhere.
- The most important thing to consider when you approach women.
- Why most PUA teachings are the WORST advice for attracting a quality woman.
- The PROOF that women who are in relationships who go out with so called "platonic male friends" and who do everything but actually have sex with those guys, and then say that it's all innocent because there's no sex involved, actually KNOW 100% how SERIOUS of a moral ISSUE this is.
- Why people are more UNFIT than ever even though here are more GYMS than ever!
- Why FREEDOM and CAPITALISM can be the GREATEST thing, but will also DESTROY us without ETHICS and MORALS being the foundation of our society.
- Why men and women start off dating on the WORST foundation today, and what they should do instead.
- Why feminism is setting up most women to fall in love with the most ABUSIVE men, which then messes up these women for life.
- Why promiscuity is not a form of freedom but rather a sign of compulsive behavior and a predictor of infidelity.
- Scientific studies that prove having great relationships is so powerful, that the effects are greater than the effects of MORPHINE, and that it creates deep happiness even in people experiencing physical pain, and also promotes long-life as well as healthy brain function even into OLD AGE!
- The ROOTS of political correctness-the WHY and the HOW our culture has been sucked in by the LIES of political correctness. Hint: It has to do with the SELF-HATRED that has been indoctrinated into us since we were kids.
- Why more women than men tend to support political correctness. Hint: It has to do with women scoring higher on the trait of "agreeableness" (which means going along with the majority) than men!
- Why the politically correct left-wing movements i.e. "progressives" (who should be called "REGRESSIVES") have no moral issues with telling OUTRIGHT LIES to further their own agenda.
- Why political correctness can ONLY exist in societies that are PROSPEROUS enough to allow people the option to be SHELTERED and DISCONNECTED from the BRUTAL TRUTHS about life.
- Why men are actually NOT the superficial stereotype portrayed by women, and in fact are MORE WILLING to compromise on superficial characteristics about the opposite sex than women are!
- What is REALLY going on with the EPIDEMIC now of men being accused of sexual harassment.
- Why the majority of women's attitudes toward the family unit has created a nightmare scenario for the moral integrity of our culture, and how it jeopardizes the psychological health of children, the family, and our entire society's present and future.
By showing, in an emotionally compelling way that only a great film can, how PRECIOUS this is and how it is in jeopardy today, this movie will be a catalyst for CHANGE, so that our society can take ACTIONS in the right direction to restore the traditions and values that made it an incredible place to live in the first place.
Let's start the Common Sense Revolution by getting this movie made:
Let's Start The Revolution And Get This Movie Made!
Till next time,
Michael Marks
Saturday, August 26, 2017
Attracting Women & Surviving As A Man In A Feminist, Politically Correct World
Women are attracted to men who radiate
power, and yet as a result of feminism
and political-correctness, men today not
only behave in ways that show weakness
and a total LACK of power, but also
women are indoctrinated to view men,
boyfriends, husbands, and FATHERS as
being DISPENSABLE and UNWORTHY.
This video shows how you as a man
can do two things: First, how to
IMMEDIATELY radiate more power to
attract women, whether that is in
person or even through texts.
Secondly, it shows you how to deal
with the political correctness and
third-wave feminism that is undermining
men and traditional values through
destroying the respect that used to
be given to men, husbands, boyfriends,
fathers, and the family unit.
To contact me, email me at:
michael@thedatingwizardreturns.com
Or visit my site at:
https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com
Till next time,
Michael Marks
power, and yet as a result of feminism
and political-correctness, men today not
only behave in ways that show weakness
and a total LACK of power, but also
women are indoctrinated to view men,
boyfriends, husbands, and FATHERS as
being DISPENSABLE and UNWORTHY.
This video shows how you as a man
can do two things: First, how to
IMMEDIATELY radiate more power to
attract women, whether that is in
person or even through texts.
Secondly, it shows you how to deal
with the political correctness and
third-wave feminism that is undermining
men and traditional values through
destroying the respect that used to
be given to men, husbands, boyfriends,
fathers, and the family unit.
To contact me, email me at:
michael@thedatingwizardreturns.com
Or visit my site at:
https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com
Till next time,
Michael Marks
Tuesday, July 11, 2017
A FOOLPROOF Way To Pick-Up Women Anywhere, Anytime!
I want to make pick-up and attracting women as EASY as possible for you. And as Einstein said, if you can't explain something to a six year old, than you don't know it yourself. So, in that vein, I am going to teach you today a UNIVERSAL solution for attracting women, anywhere, anytime, and I'm going to make it as SIMPLE and easy-to-use as possible.
Are you ready? Here we go:
1. Bust on her, and as she reacts with mild disbelief, bust on her some MORE.
2. Introduce yourself.
3. Make "small talk".
There are very DEEP and COMPLEX reasons for WHY this all works, and understanding that stuff will help you with women as well, but if you are in the dark and need to get RESULTS right NOW, what you have just learned is INFINITELY VALUABLE.
AND as awesome as what you have just learned is, it truly is just the TIP of the ICEBERG of what you will learn from me in my digital and live one-to-one programs for your ultimate success with women.
I SERIOUSLY suggest you take advantage of ALL my programs, because together, they will make you UNSTOPPABLE with women.
They're at:
https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/catalog.html
Not sure where to start? Then go HERE first:
https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/ebook.html
Till next time,
Michael Marks
Are you ready? Here we go:
1. Bust on her, and as she reacts with mild disbelief, bust on her some MORE.
2. Introduce yourself.
3. Make "small talk".
There are very DEEP and COMPLEX reasons for WHY this all works, and understanding that stuff will help you with women as well, but if you are in the dark and need to get RESULTS right NOW, what you have just learned is INFINITELY VALUABLE.
AND as awesome as what you have just learned is, it truly is just the TIP of the ICEBERG of what you will learn from me in my digital and live one-to-one programs for your ultimate success with women.
I SERIOUSLY suggest you take advantage of ALL my programs, because together, they will make you UNSTOPPABLE with women.
They're at:
https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/catalog.html
Not sure where to start? Then go HERE first:
https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/ebook.html
Till next time,
Michael Marks
Friday, June 23, 2017
Freedom & Responsibility: The Winning Combination To Attracting Women
There are two forces, that when combined,
result in MASSIVE power to attract women.
These two forces are FREEDOM OF EXPRESSION
and RESPONSIBILITY.
And what is CRAZY is how these two
values are increasingly becoming
EXTINCT in the western world.
So, in a way, attracting women is about
unleashing the two forces that are
being QUASHED not only in men, but
that are being crushed in our entire
SOCIETY and in our CULTURE.
Let me explain:
More than EVER, you can't say ANYTHING
that might offend ANYONE, even if what
you say is TRUE.
Actually, I need to clarify a bit:
This culture DOES allow people to
offend those who RESPECT traditional
values.
The values that BUILT our entire
civilization.
Things like the family unit.
Things like marriage.
Things like raising children
in a traditional way.
Things like championing the free exchange
of IDEAS.
Things like capitalism and the free market.
So in our insane society today, you can
spew hatred and use free speech when it
comes to DESTROYING these things.
You can go on ALL day long spewing
HATRED against the institutions of
traditional marriage, against the
free market, against the family
unit, against allowing conservative
values to flourish.
And this is why we get things like
third-wave feminism, and even laws
that forbid you from DISCUSSING
certain topics in public, and why
we get the increasing involvement
of the government in everyone's lives.
POSTMODERNISM AND POLITICAL CORRECTNESS
It's all part of POSTMODERNISM and
POLITICAL CORRECTNESS, which
MASKS itself as something COMPASSIONATE
and caring, (e.g. "to defend women", and
to "embrace all cultures equally") when
in reality it is about manipulating the
masses into voting for them so they can
gain power.
So what does this have to do with
pick-up and attracting women?
EVERYTHING.
If you can't be FREE to let your mind
EXPRESS itself with women, you can't
display your real PERSONALITY with
women.
You end up REPRESSING yourself around
women because you want to make sure you
are doing everything that is POLITICALLY
CORRECT, that sounds like you are a
perfect match for all the politically
correct things that you are supposed to
be.
And the thing about political correctness
is that it is a LIE; it is not based on
truth. So OF COURSE it FAILS to attract
women.
It DENIES reality.
For example, REALITY is that women want
men who resonate POWER. And they want
men who make women feel FEMININE.
How on EARTH can you do this when you
are told by politically correct forces
that you are supposed to look at women
as basically MEN who just happen to have
a different ANATOMY on the surface???????
And of course the politically-correct
forces also stop you from discussing
ANYTHING in a truly RELEVANT way, because
it's all based on BULLSHIT!
Here's something else too about our culture
these days: Part of political correctness
is also about BLAMING people for your
problems and challenges in life.
It says that someone ELSE is in power,
it says that people are VICTIMS,
and it tries to put people into camps,
e.g. WOMEN are into the WOMEN camp,
and different races are into their camps,
and it is always someone being the
OPPRESSED and someone being the OPPRESOR.
And it looks for VILLAINS, and not
just individual VILLIANS, but
GROUPS.
So MEN are the villains, AS A GROUP.
WOMEN are the VICTIMS, as a GROUP.
And then there are MORE subgroups:
So if you are a man, you can STILL
complain, by saying you are POOR
man, and you are the VICTIM of the
WEALTHY.
It also likes to pit races against each other.
Meanwhile, the TRUTH is that in the
western world, even those who think
they are POOR, are ACTUALLY wealthier
than 95% of the ENTIRE PLANET!
And that wealth is the RESULT of the
TRADITIONAL VALUES of our culture;
it is what BUILT our entire civilization,
and though far from perfect, it is the
BEST system there is, compared to
communism, dictatorships, etc.
And we all have the access to things
like information, libraries, and
FREE SPEECH which we can all use to
CLIMB UP the ladder to GREATER success.
But instead of APPRECIATING this,
political correctness breeds CONTEMPT,
it breeds HATRED and NEGATIVITY, and
it breeds SPOILED ARROGANT behaviour
instead of displaying one IOTA
of gratitude.
It breeds a VICTIM MENTALITY that
blames everyone else instead of
being empowering and taking
RESPONSIBILITY for improving one's
life.
Meanwhile, PREVIOUS GENERATIONS such as
those before WWII in the West who had
it MUCH harder financially than we do
today, and who had much LESS than us,
somehow THEY were able to be HAPPIER,
TO WORK HARDER, AND TO TAKE MORE RESPONSIBILITY
and to require LESS from the government.
And let me tell you something:
WOMEN WANT MEN WHO AREN'T WHINERS.
This is why we talk about a time
"when men were men".
Women don't want men who play the
VICTIM card.
They don't want men who think they
are so deprived of power, and who
think they are helpless.
Such behavior is the 'ANTI-ATTRACTOR',
because on a hard-wired level, women
are subconsciously attracted to men
who will THRIVE and who will help
them have chilren who will THRIVE.
They want the "THRIVING DNA",
not the "WHINING" DNA.
Now, of course, this culture RUINS
millions of women as well. Because
feminism, for example, BLAMES men
for all women's problems.
And on top of this, it STRIPS
women of RESPONSIBILITY for
bad behavior.
And, as explained, this culture of SHIRKING
responsibility has affected men as well.
Millions of men have grown up in this
politically correct culture that keeps
on telling men that it's someone else's
fault they aren't successful.
That tells them to show ZERO gratitude
for living in the most free societies
on Earth, with the most opportunities
on Earth.
But as far as ruining a pick-up goes,
because it is men who approach women
and not the other way around, it
REALLY screws up a man if he has
been brainwashed by this new
politically correct culture.
It makes him come across as weak
and bitter and arrogant.
RESPONSIBILITY
There's one last part here, and that
is the component of RESPONSIBILITY.
When I am doing a pick-up, I take
RESPONSIBILITY very seriously.
It shows in every DETAIL of what I do.
So yes, I am FREE in the pick-up, and it
shows in my demeanor, in my words, in my
attitude.
In fact, one of the things men tend
to say when they come to my bootcamps
is that they notice how FREE I am when
I'm interacting with women-how the entire
pick-up just seems to FLOW in a way
that just seems so natural-as if the
women and I have known each other
for years.
And this is the quality I instill in
the men I coach as well-so that they
can approach any woman anytime anywhere,
and have it STILL be totally free and
natural.
But I am also exercising great RESPONSIBILITY.
I don't take the woman for granted.
I have NEVER filmed a pick-up for public gain
even ONCE, even though I was the FIRST on
the scene in the public media with doing
bootcamps, and I could have made TEN TIMES
the profits by filming the women I was
picking up or that my students were
picking up.
Also, the CONTENT of what I chat about with
women, in the pick-ups, SHOWS that I have
that BALANCE, that I will get them laughing,
get them thinking, get them inspired, even
get them aroused-but not PUSH too far too
fast even if COULD have, because I want
the women to be able to go home and
REFLECT on the pick-up, and consider
whether they want to continue this-
EVEN THOUGH I COULD PUSH IT FARTHER
AND FASTER in the moment --but I don't.
This is RESPONSIBILITY, and lo and behold
it actually is GOOD for the REAL success
in terms of getting a woman to want to
see you again. Instead of the incredibly
HUGE DROP-OUT RATE that so many guys
get from women when they try to just
PUSH PUSH PUSH for physical escalation
whether it is for pick-up videos marketing
or for their own selves.
Most women DEEPLY VALUE this responsibility
COMBINED with that FREEDOM in your expression,
that LACK OF REPRESSION due to political
correctness-so that you come across as
a man in all the dimensions of being
a man and not hiding the sexual interest
in her, done in a tasteful way.
FREEDOM and RESPONSIBILITY.
Instead of repression and blaming others.
And really, that is what postmodernism
and political correctness is-it seeks to LIMIT
your freedom of speech, and it seeks
to make you view yourself as a VICTIM
of some other group.
And that's NOT attractive to women.
FREEDOM and RESPONSIBILITY.
They are INFINITELY POWERFUL and they
go HAND-IN-HAND.
What you have just read is the TIP
of the ICEBERG of what you will learn
from me in my programs.
Do you want to UNLEASH the FULL EXTENT
of your power to attract women?
Then before doing ANYTHING else, make SURE
you download my program that is ESPECIALLY
designed for OVERCOMING the anti-attractive
forces of POLITICAL CORRECTNESS that
I discussed in this newsletter.
The name of this program is Politically Incorrect Pick-Up,
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Allow me to also CUSTOMIZE your training
by working with you ONE-ON-ONE.
You can book a SKYPE session with me,
and you can take my Bootcamp PICK-UP training
where you actually successfully approach
and attract women in REAL TIME by having
me as your coach.
My programs will GET YOU THE SUCCESS
YOU WANT WITH WOMEN.
It's that simple, and there is NO ONE
ELSE on the PLANET offering this kind
of intensive, comprehensive, GENUINE
training in the skill of attracting women.
Seriously, it's the truth.
NO. ONE.
So if you want the REAL THING, then
take action NOW:
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https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/politically-incorrect-pick-up.html the NEXT step is to download my other important programs at:
https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/catalog.html
Then, take things to the NEXT level with BOOTCAMP:
https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/bootcamp.html
You can also get PRIVATE coaching via SKYPE with me, at:
https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/consultations.html
Till next time,
Michael Marks
result in MASSIVE power to attract women.
These two forces are FREEDOM OF EXPRESSION
and RESPONSIBILITY.
And what is CRAZY is how these two
values are increasingly becoming
EXTINCT in the western world.
So, in a way, attracting women is about
unleashing the two forces that are
being QUASHED not only in men, but
that are being crushed in our entire
SOCIETY and in our CULTURE.
Let me explain:
More than EVER, you can't say ANYTHING
that might offend ANYONE, even if what
you say is TRUE.
Actually, I need to clarify a bit:
This culture DOES allow people to
offend those who RESPECT traditional
values.
The values that BUILT our entire
civilization.
Things like the family unit.
Things like marriage.
Things like raising children
in a traditional way.
Things like championing the free exchange
of IDEAS.
Things like capitalism and the free market.
So in our insane society today, you can
spew hatred and use free speech when it
comes to DESTROYING these things.
You can go on ALL day long spewing
HATRED against the institutions of
traditional marriage, against the
free market, against the family
unit, against allowing conservative
values to flourish.
And this is why we get things like
third-wave feminism, and even laws
that forbid you from DISCUSSING
certain topics in public, and why
we get the increasing involvement
of the government in everyone's lives.
POSTMODERNISM AND POLITICAL CORRECTNESS
It's all part of POSTMODERNISM and
POLITICAL CORRECTNESS, which
MASKS itself as something COMPASSIONATE
and caring, (e.g. "to defend women", and
to "embrace all cultures equally") when
in reality it is about manipulating the
masses into voting for them so they can
gain power.
So what does this have to do with
pick-up and attracting women?
EVERYTHING.
If you can't be FREE to let your mind
EXPRESS itself with women, you can't
display your real PERSONALITY with
women.
You end up REPRESSING yourself around
women because you want to make sure you
are doing everything that is POLITICALLY
CORRECT, that sounds like you are a
perfect match for all the politically
correct things that you are supposed to
be.
And the thing about political correctness
is that it is a LIE; it is not based on
truth. So OF COURSE it FAILS to attract
women.
It DENIES reality.
For example, REALITY is that women want
men who resonate POWER. And they want
men who make women feel FEMININE.
How on EARTH can you do this when you
are told by politically correct forces
that you are supposed to look at women
as basically MEN who just happen to have
a different ANATOMY on the surface???????
And of course the politically-correct
forces also stop you from discussing
ANYTHING in a truly RELEVANT way, because
it's all based on BULLSHIT!
Here's something else too about our culture
these days: Part of political correctness
is also about BLAMING people for your
problems and challenges in life.
It says that someone ELSE is in power,
it says that people are VICTIMS,
and it tries to put people into camps,
e.g. WOMEN are into the WOMEN camp,
and different races are into their camps,
and it is always someone being the
OPPRESSED and someone being the OPPRESOR.
And it looks for VILLAINS, and not
just individual VILLIANS, but
GROUPS.
So MEN are the villains, AS A GROUP.
WOMEN are the VICTIMS, as a GROUP.
And then there are MORE subgroups:
So if you are a man, you can STILL
complain, by saying you are POOR
man, and you are the VICTIM of the
WEALTHY.
It also likes to pit races against each other.
Meanwhile, the TRUTH is that in the
western world, even those who think
they are POOR, are ACTUALLY wealthier
than 95% of the ENTIRE PLANET!
And that wealth is the RESULT of the
TRADITIONAL VALUES of our culture;
it is what BUILT our entire civilization,
and though far from perfect, it is the
BEST system there is, compared to
communism, dictatorships, etc.
And we all have the access to things
like information, libraries, and
FREE SPEECH which we can all use to
CLIMB UP the ladder to GREATER success.
But instead of APPRECIATING this,
political correctness breeds CONTEMPT,
it breeds HATRED and NEGATIVITY, and
it breeds SPOILED ARROGANT behaviour
instead of displaying one IOTA
of gratitude.
It breeds a VICTIM MENTALITY that
blames everyone else instead of
being empowering and taking
RESPONSIBILITY for improving one's
life.
Meanwhile, PREVIOUS GENERATIONS such as
those before WWII in the West who had
it MUCH harder financially than we do
today, and who had much LESS than us,
somehow THEY were able to be HAPPIER,
TO WORK HARDER, AND TO TAKE MORE RESPONSIBILITY
and to require LESS from the government.
And let me tell you something:
WOMEN WANT MEN WHO AREN'T WHINERS.
This is why we talk about a time
"when men were men".
Women don't want men who play the
VICTIM card.
They don't want men who think they
are so deprived of power, and who
think they are helpless.
Such behavior is the 'ANTI-ATTRACTOR',
because on a hard-wired level, women
are subconsciously attracted to men
who will THRIVE and who will help
them have chilren who will THRIVE.
They want the "THRIVING DNA",
not the "WHINING" DNA.
Now, of course, this culture RUINS
millions of women as well. Because
feminism, for example, BLAMES men
for all women's problems.
And on top of this, it STRIPS
women of RESPONSIBILITY for
bad behavior.
And, as explained, this culture of SHIRKING
responsibility has affected men as well.
Millions of men have grown up in this
politically correct culture that keeps
on telling men that it's someone else's
fault they aren't successful.
That tells them to show ZERO gratitude
for living in the most free societies
on Earth, with the most opportunities
on Earth.
But as far as ruining a pick-up goes,
because it is men who approach women
and not the other way around, it
REALLY screws up a man if he has
been brainwashed by this new
politically correct culture.
It makes him come across as weak
and bitter and arrogant.
RESPONSIBILITY
There's one last part here, and that
is the component of RESPONSIBILITY.
When I am doing a pick-up, I take
RESPONSIBILITY very seriously.
It shows in every DETAIL of what I do.
So yes, I am FREE in the pick-up, and it
shows in my demeanor, in my words, in my
attitude.
In fact, one of the things men tend
to say when they come to my bootcamps
is that they notice how FREE I am when
I'm interacting with women-how the entire
pick-up just seems to FLOW in a way
that just seems so natural-as if the
women and I have known each other
for years.
And this is the quality I instill in
the men I coach as well-so that they
can approach any woman anytime anywhere,
and have it STILL be totally free and
natural.
But I am also exercising great RESPONSIBILITY.
I don't take the woman for granted.
I have NEVER filmed a pick-up for public gain
even ONCE, even though I was the FIRST on
the scene in the public media with doing
bootcamps, and I could have made TEN TIMES
the profits by filming the women I was
picking up or that my students were
picking up.
Also, the CONTENT of what I chat about with
women, in the pick-ups, SHOWS that I have
that BALANCE, that I will get them laughing,
get them thinking, get them inspired, even
get them aroused-but not PUSH too far too
fast even if COULD have, because I want
the women to be able to go home and
REFLECT on the pick-up, and consider
whether they want to continue this-
EVEN THOUGH I COULD PUSH IT FARTHER
AND FASTER in the moment --but I don't.
This is RESPONSIBILITY, and lo and behold
it actually is GOOD for the REAL success
in terms of getting a woman to want to
see you again. Instead of the incredibly
HUGE DROP-OUT RATE that so many guys
get from women when they try to just
PUSH PUSH PUSH for physical escalation
whether it is for pick-up videos marketing
or for their own selves.
Most women DEEPLY VALUE this responsibility
COMBINED with that FREEDOM in your expression,
that LACK OF REPRESSION due to political
correctness-so that you come across as
a man in all the dimensions of being
a man and not hiding the sexual interest
in her, done in a tasteful way.
FREEDOM and RESPONSIBILITY.
Instead of repression and blaming others.
And really, that is what postmodernism
and political correctness is-it seeks to LIMIT
your freedom of speech, and it seeks
to make you view yourself as a VICTIM
of some other group.
And that's NOT attractive to women.
FREEDOM and RESPONSIBILITY.
They are INFINITELY POWERFUL and they
go HAND-IN-HAND.
What you have just read is the TIP
of the ICEBERG of what you will learn
from me in my programs.
Do you want to UNLEASH the FULL EXTENT
of your power to attract women?
Then before doing ANYTHING else, make SURE
you download my program that is ESPECIALLY
designed for OVERCOMING the anti-attractive
forces of POLITICAL CORRECTNESS that
I discussed in this newsletter.
The name of this program is Politically Incorrect Pick-Up,
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Allow me to also CUSTOMIZE your training
by working with you ONE-ON-ONE.
You can book a SKYPE session with me,
and you can take my Bootcamp PICK-UP training
where you actually successfully approach
and attract women in REAL TIME by having
me as your coach.
My programs will GET YOU THE SUCCESS
YOU WANT WITH WOMEN.
It's that simple, and there is NO ONE
ELSE on the PLANET offering this kind
of intensive, comprehensive, GENUINE
training in the skill of attracting women.
Seriously, it's the truth.
NO. ONE.
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You can also get PRIVATE coaching via SKYPE with me, at:
https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/consultations.html
Till next time,
Michael Marks
Monday, June 5, 2017
The Power Of Self-Belief
There are two aspects of being successful
when it comes to meeting and attracting
a woman. The first part is having the
finesse in terms of skills to approach
a woman anywhere in any situation and
smoothly get a conversation rolling that
demonstrates attractive character traits,
such as confidence, intelligence, wit,
and empathy.
The second part, though, is what is going
on “behind the scenes” so to speak, in
your mind, in your life, etc. It’s a little
hard sometimes to be confident and
be in the right states of mind when
everything else is going to hell in your
life.
So, today, I just want to briefly yet in
an important way address that other
side. Now, the examples I am about
to give are dramatic but all true, and
you don’t necessarily have to do the
same things in your life, but the point
is going to be the same nonetheless:
Nothing breeds success like success.
So if you are successful in one thing,
it’s easier to take that confidence to
another thing as well. This includes
being successful in any goal in your life.
And the number one thing you need to
know regarding being successful in
any goal in your life is that most people
fail due to FEAR, which also leads to
lack of EFFORT. If you are too afraid
of failure, for example, you won’t put
in the effort, you will lose motivation,
you will be easily overwhelmed by
the slightest setback.
And the most horrifying thing about
fear is that it DISTORTS your perception
of the actual situation, it makes you think
things are worse than they are.
This is why, so often in life, people NEED
to have someone or something to FORCE them
to do important things because if it wasn’t through
force, they would give into their fear.
So, sometimes, for example a kid might be
afraid to go to the doctor, but the parent,
after trying all kinds of other ways that
don’t work, has to ultimately force the kid to go,
and it’s a good thing.
But once you’re an adult, you really don’t get
someone to force you to do the right things
in your life. YOU have to force yourself.
YOU have to push through the fear.
YOU have to work your butt off.
YOU have to do the research and learning.
The good news, though, is that once you
understand this, suddenly you are able to
accomplish so much, and as you accomplish
this, you start to see how so many people
fail due to fear.
When Arnold Schwarzenegger was a kid
who wanted to become a champion bodybuilder,
his parents thought he was off his rocker. He
was a kid in a town in Austria after World
War II where bodybuilding was considered
even stranger than it was in America at that
time, and there was little opportunity for
financial success in that sport anywhere,
even in America.
But he didn’t let anyone’s thoughts of him
failing allow him to stop him from achieve
this goal. Not only did he become a champion,
but along the way, before then, when he lost,
you could not even tell he lost from his
expression on his face- there is a famous
photo of him coming in second before the
years where he won undefeated year after
year.
In that photo, where he lost, from his face,
he looks like he won. That is confidence, that
is happiness, that is passion for your sport.
He worked HARD. Before getting any movie
roles, he was already a millionaire. He had
worked as a bricklayer, he started a construction
company, he sold bodybuilding manuals through
the mail.
And when he wanted to become an actor,
at the time being insanely muscular was not
in vogue for actors or even action stars.
And they said he had too thick of an accent.
They said he could never play anything more
than a tiny role as a bouncer or other similar
minor roles in any film.
But within a few years, he became the highest
paid actor and conquered two genres, both action
and comedy.
And then when he wanted to become a politician,
they said he could never win, they made fun of
his lack of experience and said he should stick
to movies, but he ended up winning TWO terms
as governor of California.
When a person conquers a sport, conquers the
acting profession, conquers politics, and also
becomes a millionaire before even landing
an acting gig, it is not a coincidence.
Similarly, when James Cameron, the guy who
made Avatar, wanted to make films, they said
he was too old and he didn’t have the education,
since he had never gone to film school and was
already 30 years old.
And even after proving to the world his ability
and expertise with The Terminator, they said he
would fail with each film, whether it was
Terminator 2, Titanic, or Avatar. They said
he would never make back the money it cost
to make Terminator 2.
They said that Titanic would be a failure
since everyone already knew the ending,
and since it didn’t feature stars who were
famous at the time, and since it was too
long at about 3 hours, and since it was
a historical period piece, a genre that
tends to not do well at the box-office.
And when it came to Avatar, people were
saying it was also going to fail, that no
one is going to be interested in a bunch
of blue aliens with tails.
So, my point is that you need to have one
HELL of a strong INTERNAL DRIVE
because if you expect to be “encouraged”
by the outside world, you WON’T BE.
In fact, so often the most successful people
are driven to succeed BECAUSE they
were told they would fail, because they
wanted to PROVE these people wrong.
So, when it comes to your own life, JUST
STICK TO YOUR GOALS and don’t let
people screw with your CONFIDENCE.
This includes your confidence with women
as well. In fact, I have seen this countless
times: A woman will give a guy the cold
shoulder, and then his REACTION is so
confident, that his REACTION actually
GETS the woman interested.
For example, I’ve seen in my bootcamps
situations where a woman will say to a
guy she is too busy to date anyone, and the
guy will tell her that is perfect, because he
has no time either, instead of telling her
how much he needs to have her in his life,
and all of a sudden she laughs and starts
to melt and starts to re-engage in the
conversation and starts to chase him.
It’s a very crazy world, and I didn’t make it
this way, it just is what it is. The hungry
never get fed. Those that have the power get
everything. Most women will give nothing to
the guy that is a nice guy but has no confidence
and no power.
But to the guy that has the confidence and
the power, they will throw themselves at
him, and excuse just about all his negative
behaviors.
I always find it strange that certain women
(not all) will condemn a celebrity who is unfaithful
to his girlfriend or wife, but yet these same
“condemners” would never give the time of
day to a “nice guy” WITHOUT the power,
without the confidence, and would in a
heartbeat be THRILLED to be the next
in line to be with that celebrity.
In the same way that some men are brainwashed
by the “halo effect” of a beautiful woman,
and will excuse or rationalize the WORST
behavior of a woman who is beautiful,
so too some women are overwhelmed by
the halo effect of a man who resonates
POWER and CONFIDENCE.
Looks can definitely help a man as well, but
when it comes to men, women’s attraction is
not limited to this, it extends to his strength
of personality- the BEHAVIORS he displays.
And the only way to resonate those things
is to LIVE it. You must be INTERNALLY
driven, you can’t depend on a woman or
anyone actually, to tell you how smart you
are, how great you are, how successful you
will be, that you will make it, etc, etc.
YOU must believe.
And the irony is, that when you do this,
in the long run, EVERYONE believes in you,
which is just another one of those things in
life that is ironic, when you don’t need
anyone to believe in you because YOU
believe in you, then ultimately everyone
believes in you.
For my most powerful program on
SKYROCKETING your INTERNAL
self, for conquering fears, for building
your SELF-BELIEF, so that you DO approach
ANY woman you would like to pick-up,
I seriously suggest you download my program
'OBLITERATING APPROACH ANXIETY'.
It’s at:
https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/approach-anxiety.html
Till next time,
Michael Marks
when it comes to meeting and attracting
a woman. The first part is having the
finesse in terms of skills to approach
a woman anywhere in any situation and
smoothly get a conversation rolling that
demonstrates attractive character traits,
such as confidence, intelligence, wit,
and empathy.
The second part, though, is what is going
on “behind the scenes” so to speak, in
your mind, in your life, etc. It’s a little
hard sometimes to be confident and
be in the right states of mind when
everything else is going to hell in your
life.
So, today, I just want to briefly yet in
an important way address that other
side. Now, the examples I am about
to give are dramatic but all true, and
you don’t necessarily have to do the
same things in your life, but the point
is going to be the same nonetheless:
Nothing breeds success like success.
So if you are successful in one thing,
it’s easier to take that confidence to
another thing as well. This includes
being successful in any goal in your life.
And the number one thing you need to
know regarding being successful in
any goal in your life is that most people
fail due to FEAR, which also leads to
lack of EFFORT. If you are too afraid
of failure, for example, you won’t put
in the effort, you will lose motivation,
you will be easily overwhelmed by
the slightest setback.
And the most horrifying thing about
fear is that it DISTORTS your perception
of the actual situation, it makes you think
things are worse than they are.
This is why, so often in life, people NEED
to have someone or something to FORCE them
to do important things because if it wasn’t through
force, they would give into their fear.
So, sometimes, for example a kid might be
afraid to go to the doctor, but the parent,
after trying all kinds of other ways that
don’t work, has to ultimately force the kid to go,
and it’s a good thing.
But once you’re an adult, you really don’t get
someone to force you to do the right things
in your life. YOU have to force yourself.
YOU have to push through the fear.
YOU have to work your butt off.
YOU have to do the research and learning.
The good news, though, is that once you
understand this, suddenly you are able to
accomplish so much, and as you accomplish
this, you start to see how so many people
fail due to fear.
When Arnold Schwarzenegger was a kid
who wanted to become a champion bodybuilder,
his parents thought he was off his rocker. He
was a kid in a town in Austria after World
War II where bodybuilding was considered
even stranger than it was in America at that
time, and there was little opportunity for
financial success in that sport anywhere,
even in America.
But he didn’t let anyone’s thoughts of him
failing allow him to stop him from achieve
this goal. Not only did he become a champion,
but along the way, before then, when he lost,
you could not even tell he lost from his
expression on his face- there is a famous
photo of him coming in second before the
years where he won undefeated year after
year.
In that photo, where he lost, from his face,
he looks like he won. That is confidence, that
is happiness, that is passion for your sport.
He worked HARD. Before getting any movie
roles, he was already a millionaire. He had
worked as a bricklayer, he started a construction
company, he sold bodybuilding manuals through
the mail.
And when he wanted to become an actor,
at the time being insanely muscular was not
in vogue for actors or even action stars.
And they said he had too thick of an accent.
They said he could never play anything more
than a tiny role as a bouncer or other similar
minor roles in any film.
But within a few years, he became the highest
paid actor and conquered two genres, both action
and comedy.
And then when he wanted to become a politician,
they said he could never win, they made fun of
his lack of experience and said he should stick
to movies, but he ended up winning TWO terms
as governor of California.
When a person conquers a sport, conquers the
acting profession, conquers politics, and also
becomes a millionaire before even landing
an acting gig, it is not a coincidence.
Similarly, when James Cameron, the guy who
made Avatar, wanted to make films, they said
he was too old and he didn’t have the education,
since he had never gone to film school and was
already 30 years old.
And even after proving to the world his ability
and expertise with The Terminator, they said he
would fail with each film, whether it was
Terminator 2, Titanic, or Avatar. They said
he would never make back the money it cost
to make Terminator 2.
They said that Titanic would be a failure
since everyone already knew the ending,
and since it didn’t feature stars who were
famous at the time, and since it was too
long at about 3 hours, and since it was
a historical period piece, a genre that
tends to not do well at the box-office.
And when it came to Avatar, people were
saying it was also going to fail, that no
one is going to be interested in a bunch
of blue aliens with tails.
So, my point is that you need to have one
HELL of a strong INTERNAL DRIVE
because if you expect to be “encouraged”
by the outside world, you WON’T BE.
In fact, so often the most successful people
are driven to succeed BECAUSE they
were told they would fail, because they
wanted to PROVE these people wrong.
So, when it comes to your own life, JUST
STICK TO YOUR GOALS and don’t let
people screw with your CONFIDENCE.
This includes your confidence with women
as well. In fact, I have seen this countless
times: A woman will give a guy the cold
shoulder, and then his REACTION is so
confident, that his REACTION actually
GETS the woman interested.
For example, I’ve seen in my bootcamps
situations where a woman will say to a
guy she is too busy to date anyone, and the
guy will tell her that is perfect, because he
has no time either, instead of telling her
how much he needs to have her in his life,
and all of a sudden she laughs and starts
to melt and starts to re-engage in the
conversation and starts to chase him.
It’s a very crazy world, and I didn’t make it
this way, it just is what it is. The hungry
never get fed. Those that have the power get
everything. Most women will give nothing to
the guy that is a nice guy but has no confidence
and no power.
But to the guy that has the confidence and
the power, they will throw themselves at
him, and excuse just about all his negative
behaviors.
I always find it strange that certain women
(not all) will condemn a celebrity who is unfaithful
to his girlfriend or wife, but yet these same
“condemners” would never give the time of
day to a “nice guy” WITHOUT the power,
without the confidence, and would in a
heartbeat be THRILLED to be the next
in line to be with that celebrity.
In the same way that some men are brainwashed
by the “halo effect” of a beautiful woman,
and will excuse or rationalize the WORST
behavior of a woman who is beautiful,
so too some women are overwhelmed by
the halo effect of a man who resonates
POWER and CONFIDENCE.
Looks can definitely help a man as well, but
when it comes to men, women’s attraction is
not limited to this, it extends to his strength
of personality- the BEHAVIORS he displays.
And the only way to resonate those things
is to LIVE it. You must be INTERNALLY
driven, you can’t depend on a woman or
anyone actually, to tell you how smart you
are, how great you are, how successful you
will be, that you will make it, etc, etc.
YOU must believe.
And the irony is, that when you do this,
in the long run, EVERYONE believes in you,
which is just another one of those things in
life that is ironic, when you don’t need
anyone to believe in you because YOU
believe in you, then ultimately everyone
believes in you.
For my most powerful program on
SKYROCKETING your INTERNAL
self, for conquering fears, for building
your SELF-BELIEF, so that you DO approach
ANY woman you would like to pick-up,
I seriously suggest you download my program
'OBLITERATING APPROACH ANXIETY'.
It’s at:
https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/approach-anxiety.html
Till next time,
Michael Marks
Saturday, June 3, 2017
Climbing Out Of Darkness
One of the BIGGEST MISTAKES that I used to make
regarding the whole idea of attraction is that I
thought you were supposed to be this type of
STOIC, serious guy. Brooding.
I thought this showed that you were TOUGH.
I thought TOUGH was what it was all about.
I didn't see how you could be both TOUGH
and yet PLAYFUL.
Not only that, I was so dark and brooding that
I LIVED in a world of darkness. I dressed in all
black. I felt very CONGRUENT this way too,
especially since I was so pissed off at so many
things.
And the way my interactions were going with the
girls that I liked didn't help any, in fact that
probably made me feel more angry than
anything.
I was this decent guy, who would never cheat
on a girl, who was totally genuine and meant
every word I said, and yet the girls I really
wanted just didn't seem to feel the same
way.
They didn't seem to appreciate any of my
decency, or my serious-mindedness, even though
they kept on SAYING they wanted a serious
guy who wouldn't cheat on them, etc.
So I used to assure them over and over again
that I would NEVER cheat on them, and that
I would ALWAYS appreciate them. I used to
call a girl again and again to show her that
I did NOT take her for granted. To show her
that I was NOT the type of guy that they said
they hated.
Of course, this made the problem worse.
This just pushed the girls away even more,
and this made me even more brooding, angry
and pissed off.
It ultimately EXPLODED one day as I became
totally and completely fed up. I became blunt
with girls, doing NOTHING for them, no favours,
sick and tired of being abused and used.
I was super direct in my 'pick-up' style, basically
just approaching girls and going right into any
conversation and then telling them to give me
their contact info, which they often did.
I gave no compliments because I was sure
girls didn't deserve them. And, in a completely
calm way, (because I really didn't care about
any girl, since I felt they were pretty evil anyway,
so I had no anger, I was more EMOTIONALLY
DEVOID). I disqualified girls for the SLIGHTEST
thing that **I** didn't approve of, in fact I told
them that things wouldn't work out and I meant
it.
I would do this calmly on the way driving them
home. So if a girl pulled out a cigarette for
example, earlier in the evening, she found out
later on the ride home from me, that in my
opinion things wouldn't work out, I often didn't
even explain why, because I didn't care enough
to even let these girls know, since I figured
they were too insensitive to appreciate the
reason anyway.
The key to remember is that I said this super
perfectly calmly, which is something that 99
percent of guys don't do, they get emotionally
involved, which actually BOOSTS THE
GIRLS' EGO, since she feels she got the
guy to REACT to her.
Usually, these girls, who by the way happened
to be INSANELY HOT, then started to CHASE me,
asking me to call them and not to judge them
based on one night. They kept telling me to
call them. To give them a chance.
Which was ironic, because when I was always
doing the chasing, and doing all the work in the
world to make these girls happy and feel good,
they wouldn't give me the time of day.
But in the 'then' new version of myself, I called
girls only when I happened to feel like it, and
didn't call them when I didn't feel like it. I
promised girls nothing, and had more girls
than I could count, so I really didn't mind
much if some of them didn't like the way
I rolled.
So what was the problem?
There were a few problems:
ONE.
These relationships lasted for a VERY SHORT
time.
Most girls are compelled and intrigued and
attracted to a guy who really is THE MAN in
the sense that he is emotionally strong,
doesn't need anything from anybody,
certainly not from a woman. They are
also attracted to the dominance shown
by a guy who leads the show.
However, they also hope to have SOME
connection to the guy. The way I was
behaving made any long-term relationship
impossible.
TWO.
When trying to actually PICK UP girls in
'HAPPY' environments like clubs, (where
TONS of girls hang out) my behaviour wasn't
helping very much. It's just like trying to mix
oil and water, they don't mix.
I hated the music, I hated the whole happy
thing actually. Hated it. Thought it was
'weak'.
So this style was not useful in clubs or lounges.
And there are TONS of girls in these places.
THREE.
In general, this whole attitude I had was not
making ME very happy. My attitude was that
chicks were 'evil', and they had to be shown
'who's boss'.
Which is kind of depressing if you really
believe it, which I kinda did at the time.
Not a great paradigm or formula for
happiness, on your own, or with women.
All this changed SLOWLY, as I evolved to
gain a far greater and more comprehensive
understanding of attraction.
It took YEARS for me to CLIMB OUT OF
THE DARKNESS.
I grew to understand that attraction has
NOTHING to do with being a jerk. It has
to do with making a girl feel you are
SUPERIOR to her, and yet it also has to
do with making her feel that you in fact
really DO LIKE her, for she has something
special about her.
Superior does NOT mean abusive
at ALL.
It's just a FACT that people are attracted
to that which they feel is SUPERIOR.
So says ME.
I also grew to understand that YOUR STATE
OF MIND is the GREATEST POWER ON
EARTH you can possibly EVER have with
women.
This state of mind is a combination of BEING
IN AN AWESOME MOOD, of KNOWING
that you are DESIRABLE, and of feeling
SEXUAL as well as of feeling DOMINANT.
When you are operating in THIS DIMENSION,
then you are in a WHOLE NEW BALL GAME.
Seriously, no goddamn exaggerations, it's a
WHOLE - NEW - BALLGAME.
Suddenly, you no longer have to 'run game'
on women. YOU are all the game you need.
YOU have BECOME what attraction IS.
And your attitude toward women changes
as well. The reason this happens is because
you are not only getting results, but you
also finally 'get' that attraction is not about
being MEAN.
Ultimately, it's about making women feel
GREAT, which happens because YOU feel
great (which is VERY different than the
stereotypical 'nice guy' who actually feels
very down and inferior). You are able to
make women feel great because you
KNOW IN YOUR GUT that you are
THE guy who will make her feel GREAT.
But the thing is, WHAT IF YOU ARE FEELING
LIKE TOTAL CRAP???????
If state of mind is SO CRITICAL for
success in your interactions with women,
then what the hell should a guy do if he is
feeling like total crap???
Should he stay home and say affirmations
to himself?
Should he tell a girl that he is feeling crappy,
that he is having an 'off day'?
NO!
The answer is that he should IMMEDIATELY
GO OUT FROM THE HOUSE AND GO INTERACT
WITH WOMEN AS BEST HE CAN.
Yup.
THIS is what he should do.
Otherwise, he will just go DEEPER into his
negativity, and by focusing on it, he will only
make it WORSE.
And NEVER, EVER EVER give in to the negative
emotions. WEATHER THE STORM with everything
you've got.
For example if some EX-GIRLFRIEND who
treated a guy like crap is making a guy feel
bad, then the BEST thing he can do is GO OUT
AND INTERACT WITH WOMEN!!!
And even if he feels like crap while he is
doing this, he is doing the BEST AND MOST
EFFICIENT THING for his success and for his
state of mind to change.
The reason for this is because interacting with
women requires ALL OF YOUR SENSES TO
BE ENGAGED.
Your sense of timing, your sense of humor,
your visual senses, your alertness and dominance,
your tone of voice and vocal abilities.
YOUR FOCUS IS THUS PUT IN THE RIGHT PLACE:
YOUR INTERACTIONS WITH WOMEN, rather than
some negative PAST event or even some negative
current emotion.
As a brilliant friend I know explains, don't REPRESS
the thoughts, but don't FOCUS on them either!
THERE IS NO INSTANT PERFECTION.
But there is the QUICKEST route to GETTING
to that powerful state of mind-- a state
of mind that is the combination of several
specific emotions.
And that's through DOING IT, through DOING
pick up, and through interacting with women.
And of course, not only are you concentrating
your focus away from the negative LIES in
your brain, but chances are that you will also
get POSITIVE feedback from women if you
take advantage of the things that I teach,
which will VALIDATE your sense of self-esteem
and self-worth.
This will BLOW TO BITS the feelings
of insecurity that were causing you the
negative feelings in the first place!!!
And of course, you should ALSO be immersing
your life with POSITIVE sources of energy and
you must CUT OFF the negative sources of energy,
you must Do EVERYTHING in your power to avoid
negative people and negative sources.
Your mind should be fed a diet of EMPOWERING
input, i.e. music that is 'THE MAN' approved.
Blow the wuss music the hell out of the water.
For now, you can't take chances.
Also, remember that chances are if any woman
ever did something CRUEL to you, (this is different
than simply not being attracted), chances are
INSANELY HIGH that she did this to you because
SHE FELT INSECURE. She felt horrible, so
she wanted YOU to feel horrible. It was her
CONTRIVED PLAN to make you feel like
crap.
It was CONTRIVED, it's not what you are
REALLY worth, it's what she WANTED YOU
to THINK you are worth.
Insecurity is the cause of all hell and bad
personalities. Yes it's true. It's the cause
of both behaviour that is FAKELY NICE
and also behaviour that is MEAN.
Both of which are "anti-attractants".
Notice how both FAKE NICE, i.e. a guy
that kisses a woman's ass because he
feels inferior, is not 'nice', it's just a feeling
of inferiority, and notice also how being
MEAN is ALSO a reflection of someone
feeling inferior inside and thus feeling
the NEED to put down others so that
they will (in his mind) accept him or
her as superior or at least worthy.
Either way, BOTH are not the ways to achieve
optimum attraction.
If you want to gain the GREATEST POWERS
of attraction with women, you MUST learn
to achieve a very specific state of mind that
is the product of a unique COMBINATION
of several emotions.
And if you want to learn exactly HOW to
ACHIEVE this state of mind, it's up to
YOU to take action. I can think of no finer
way for you to do this than by IMMEDIATELY
downloading my eBook- The Dating Wizard Returns, at:
https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/book.html
Inside, you'll learn:
-How to trigger attraction in ANY WOMAN instantly.
-How to approach women and create 'instant dates.'
-How to get physical.
-How to handle tests.
-How to create a powerful sense of connection.
-And much, much more.
Download it all at:
https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/book.html
And if you would like to get the MASSIVE POWER
of PERSONAL ONE-ON-ONE COACHING
with me, where I will focus exclusively
on you, on taking you past any sticking
points so that you can achieve your
goals as fast as possible, you can now
arrange this by going to:
https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/consultations.html
And if you are ready for the IMMERSION EXPERIENCE,
where you will be pushed to your limits and then
taken WAY BEYOND what you thought was ever
possible, it's time for you to sign up for my
EXCLUSIVE ONE-TO-ONE BOOTCAMP.
These bootcamps are sold out for
several weeks, so if you are interested
in signing up for this summer, let me
know asap.
Get all the details at:
https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/bootcamp.html
My eBook and my services truly form
the DNA of attraction, and I look forward
to hearing your success stories!
Till next time,
Michael W. Marks
regarding the whole idea of attraction is that I
thought you were supposed to be this type of
STOIC, serious guy. Brooding.
I thought this showed that you were TOUGH.
I thought TOUGH was what it was all about.
I didn't see how you could be both TOUGH
and yet PLAYFUL.
Not only that, I was so dark and brooding that
I LIVED in a world of darkness. I dressed in all
black. I felt very CONGRUENT this way too,
especially since I was so pissed off at so many
things.
And the way my interactions were going with the
girls that I liked didn't help any, in fact that
probably made me feel more angry than
anything.
I was this decent guy, who would never cheat
on a girl, who was totally genuine and meant
every word I said, and yet the girls I really
wanted just didn't seem to feel the same
way.
They didn't seem to appreciate any of my
decency, or my serious-mindedness, even though
they kept on SAYING they wanted a serious
guy who wouldn't cheat on them, etc.
So I used to assure them over and over again
that I would NEVER cheat on them, and that
I would ALWAYS appreciate them. I used to
call a girl again and again to show her that
I did NOT take her for granted. To show her
that I was NOT the type of guy that they said
they hated.
Of course, this made the problem worse.
This just pushed the girls away even more,
and this made me even more brooding, angry
and pissed off.
It ultimately EXPLODED one day as I became
totally and completely fed up. I became blunt
with girls, doing NOTHING for them, no favours,
sick and tired of being abused and used.
I was super direct in my 'pick-up' style, basically
just approaching girls and going right into any
conversation and then telling them to give me
their contact info, which they often did.
I gave no compliments because I was sure
girls didn't deserve them. And, in a completely
calm way, (because I really didn't care about
any girl, since I felt they were pretty evil anyway,
so I had no anger, I was more EMOTIONALLY
DEVOID). I disqualified girls for the SLIGHTEST
thing that **I** didn't approve of, in fact I told
them that things wouldn't work out and I meant
it.
I would do this calmly on the way driving them
home. So if a girl pulled out a cigarette for
example, earlier in the evening, she found out
later on the ride home from me, that in my
opinion things wouldn't work out, I often didn't
even explain why, because I didn't care enough
to even let these girls know, since I figured
they were too insensitive to appreciate the
reason anyway.
The key to remember is that I said this super
perfectly calmly, which is something that 99
percent of guys don't do, they get emotionally
involved, which actually BOOSTS THE
GIRLS' EGO, since she feels she got the
guy to REACT to her.
Usually, these girls, who by the way happened
to be INSANELY HOT, then started to CHASE me,
asking me to call them and not to judge them
based on one night. They kept telling me to
call them. To give them a chance.
Which was ironic, because when I was always
doing the chasing, and doing all the work in the
world to make these girls happy and feel good,
they wouldn't give me the time of day.
But in the 'then' new version of myself, I called
girls only when I happened to feel like it, and
didn't call them when I didn't feel like it. I
promised girls nothing, and had more girls
than I could count, so I really didn't mind
much if some of them didn't like the way
I rolled.
So what was the problem?
There were a few problems:
ONE.
These relationships lasted for a VERY SHORT
time.
Most girls are compelled and intrigued and
attracted to a guy who really is THE MAN in
the sense that he is emotionally strong,
doesn't need anything from anybody,
certainly not from a woman. They are
also attracted to the dominance shown
by a guy who leads the show.
However, they also hope to have SOME
connection to the guy. The way I was
behaving made any long-term relationship
impossible.
TWO.
When trying to actually PICK UP girls in
'HAPPY' environments like clubs, (where
TONS of girls hang out) my behaviour wasn't
helping very much. It's just like trying to mix
oil and water, they don't mix.
I hated the music, I hated the whole happy
thing actually. Hated it. Thought it was
'weak'.
So this style was not useful in clubs or lounges.
And there are TONS of girls in these places.
THREE.
In general, this whole attitude I had was not
making ME very happy. My attitude was that
chicks were 'evil', and they had to be shown
'who's boss'.
Which is kind of depressing if you really
believe it, which I kinda did at the time.
Not a great paradigm or formula for
happiness, on your own, or with women.
All this changed SLOWLY, as I evolved to
gain a far greater and more comprehensive
understanding of attraction.
It took YEARS for me to CLIMB OUT OF
THE DARKNESS.
I grew to understand that attraction has
NOTHING to do with being a jerk. It has
to do with making a girl feel you are
SUPERIOR to her, and yet it also has to
do with making her feel that you in fact
really DO LIKE her, for she has something
special about her.
Superior does NOT mean abusive
at ALL.
It's just a FACT that people are attracted
to that which they feel is SUPERIOR.
So says ME.
I also grew to understand that YOUR STATE
OF MIND is the GREATEST POWER ON
EARTH you can possibly EVER have with
women.
This state of mind is a combination of BEING
IN AN AWESOME MOOD, of KNOWING
that you are DESIRABLE, and of feeling
SEXUAL as well as of feeling DOMINANT.
When you are operating in THIS DIMENSION,
then you are in a WHOLE NEW BALL GAME.
Seriously, no goddamn exaggerations, it's a
WHOLE - NEW - BALLGAME.
Suddenly, you no longer have to 'run game'
on women. YOU are all the game you need.
YOU have BECOME what attraction IS.
And your attitude toward women changes
as well. The reason this happens is because
you are not only getting results, but you
also finally 'get' that attraction is not about
being MEAN.
Ultimately, it's about making women feel
GREAT, which happens because YOU feel
great (which is VERY different than the
stereotypical 'nice guy' who actually feels
very down and inferior). You are able to
make women feel great because you
KNOW IN YOUR GUT that you are
THE guy who will make her feel GREAT.
But the thing is, WHAT IF YOU ARE FEELING
LIKE TOTAL CRAP???????
If state of mind is SO CRITICAL for
success in your interactions with women,
then what the hell should a guy do if he is
feeling like total crap???
Should he stay home and say affirmations
to himself?
Should he tell a girl that he is feeling crappy,
that he is having an 'off day'?
NO!
The answer is that he should IMMEDIATELY
GO OUT FROM THE HOUSE AND GO INTERACT
WITH WOMEN AS BEST HE CAN.
Yup.
THIS is what he should do.
Otherwise, he will just go DEEPER into his
negativity, and by focusing on it, he will only
make it WORSE.
And NEVER, EVER EVER give in to the negative
emotions. WEATHER THE STORM with everything
you've got.
For example if some EX-GIRLFRIEND who
treated a guy like crap is making a guy feel
bad, then the BEST thing he can do is GO OUT
AND INTERACT WITH WOMEN!!!
And even if he feels like crap while he is
doing this, he is doing the BEST AND MOST
EFFICIENT THING for his success and for his
state of mind to change.
The reason for this is because interacting with
women requires ALL OF YOUR SENSES TO
BE ENGAGED.
Your sense of timing, your sense of humor,
your visual senses, your alertness and dominance,
your tone of voice and vocal abilities.
YOUR FOCUS IS THUS PUT IN THE RIGHT PLACE:
YOUR INTERACTIONS WITH WOMEN, rather than
some negative PAST event or even some negative
current emotion.
As a brilliant friend I know explains, don't REPRESS
the thoughts, but don't FOCUS on them either!
THERE IS NO INSTANT PERFECTION.
But there is the QUICKEST route to GETTING
to that powerful state of mind-- a state
of mind that is the combination of several
specific emotions.
And that's through DOING IT, through DOING
pick up, and through interacting with women.
And of course, not only are you concentrating
your focus away from the negative LIES in
your brain, but chances are that you will also
get POSITIVE feedback from women if you
take advantage of the things that I teach,
which will VALIDATE your sense of self-esteem
and self-worth.
This will BLOW TO BITS the feelings
of insecurity that were causing you the
negative feelings in the first place!!!
And of course, you should ALSO be immersing
your life with POSITIVE sources of energy and
you must CUT OFF the negative sources of energy,
you must Do EVERYTHING in your power to avoid
negative people and negative sources.
Your mind should be fed a diet of EMPOWERING
input, i.e. music that is 'THE MAN' approved.
Blow the wuss music the hell out of the water.
For now, you can't take chances.
Also, remember that chances are if any woman
ever did something CRUEL to you, (this is different
than simply not being attracted), chances are
INSANELY HIGH that she did this to you because
SHE FELT INSECURE. She felt horrible, so
she wanted YOU to feel horrible. It was her
CONTRIVED PLAN to make you feel like
crap.
It was CONTRIVED, it's not what you are
REALLY worth, it's what she WANTED YOU
to THINK you are worth.
Insecurity is the cause of all hell and bad
personalities. Yes it's true. It's the cause
of both behaviour that is FAKELY NICE
and also behaviour that is MEAN.
Both of which are "anti-attractants".
Notice how both FAKE NICE, i.e. a guy
that kisses a woman's ass because he
feels inferior, is not 'nice', it's just a feeling
of inferiority, and notice also how being
MEAN is ALSO a reflection of someone
feeling inferior inside and thus feeling
the NEED to put down others so that
they will (in his mind) accept him or
her as superior or at least worthy.
Either way, BOTH are not the ways to achieve
optimum attraction.
If you want to gain the GREATEST POWERS
of attraction with women, you MUST learn
to achieve a very specific state of mind that
is the product of a unique COMBINATION
of several emotions.
And if you want to learn exactly HOW to
ACHIEVE this state of mind, it's up to
YOU to take action. I can think of no finer
way for you to do this than by IMMEDIATELY
downloading my eBook- The Dating Wizard Returns, at:
https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/book.html
Inside, you'll learn:
-How to trigger attraction in ANY WOMAN instantly.
-How to approach women and create 'instant dates.'
-How to get physical.
-How to handle tests.
-How to create a powerful sense of connection.
-And much, much more.
Download it all at:
https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/book.html
And if you would like to get the MASSIVE POWER
of PERSONAL ONE-ON-ONE COACHING
with me, where I will focus exclusively
on you, on taking you past any sticking
points so that you can achieve your
goals as fast as possible, you can now
arrange this by going to:
https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/consultations.html
And if you are ready for the IMMERSION EXPERIENCE,
where you will be pushed to your limits and then
taken WAY BEYOND what you thought was ever
possible, it's time for you to sign up for my
EXCLUSIVE ONE-TO-ONE BOOTCAMP.
These bootcamps are sold out for
several weeks, so if you are interested
in signing up for this summer, let me
know asap.
Get all the details at:
https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/bootcamp.html
My eBook and my services truly form
the DNA of attraction, and I look forward
to hearing your success stories!
Till next time,
Michael W. Marks
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