How to Approach Women | 3 Idiot-Proof Ways To Destroy Approach Anxiety

It’s very normal to feel anxious about approaching a woman you don’t even know, especially if you are interested in her and want to attract her. The problem with feeling this anxiety is not only does it stop most men from approaching women, but even if you do approach women, the anxiety can give you a mental block where you don’t even know what to say!

Plus, to a woman, the nervous feeling you are having might seem like something WORSE. It might seem like you are hostile, or in a bad mood. She doesn’t know the REASON for WHY
you are not relaxed and positive!  The good news is that in today's new video, you are going to get THREE ROCK-SOLID SOLUTIONS to approach anxiety that are so good they are IDIOT-PROOF.


And if you are reading this right now and would like the ULTIMATE program for destroying your approach anxiety, I suggest you download my audio program called Obliterating Approach Anxiety. This program is PROVEN to work, and I painstakingly devised it over the course of several YEARS. I am extremely proud of this program, because I know it will truly solve your approach anxiety forever.

It's at:

https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/approach-anxiety.html

Be cool...

Michael Marks

Where It All Starts For Picking Up Women

Today's new video is about what to do if you want to meet and attract women, but don't know where to start. This is extremely important, because even if you've been in several long-term relationships, but you one day find yourself single, it can be a very lonely and scary feeling if you have no idea how you are ever going to get yourself a woman again. 

And if you're looking to get your first girlfriend, then it's even more obvious how important this is. So let's get right to it:


Helping men succeed in attracting women is more than just "a thing" I do.  It's my MISSION:


When it comes to what I teach, it's all about making sure there is NO B.S. at ALL. You will find that I never teach gimmicks, sleazy tactics, or manipulation. I focus on just the truth of what works to get women great women. And I have the credentials and the record to prove my results with ensuring men attract the women they want:

 
And if you are reading this right now and want to know the best way to start approaching women, attracting women, and destroying the fear that creeps up inside when you want to approach women, then I suggest you take two actions immediately. First, download my E-Book, called The Dating Wizard, which is packed with important, easy-to-use strategies for approaching and attracting women. This is like ROCKET FUEL for your success with women

The The Dating Wizard E-Book is at:

https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/ebook.html

I also suggest you download my audio program called Obliterating Approach Anxiety, which I absolutely guarantee you is the most effective program in the world for ensuring you obliterate and totally destroy the fear the creeps up inside when you want to approach a woman you are attracted to.

Obliterating Approach Anxiety is at:

https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/approach-anxiety.html

If you have any question for me, just email me at: michael@thedatingwizardreturns.com

Till next time, be cool....

Michael Marks 
https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com

Adding "Rocket Fuel" To Jordan Peterson's Advice For Overcoming The Fear Of Approaching Women

When it comes to meeting women, the hardest thing for men to do is the actual APPROACH itself. When you see a woman you want to approach, there is suddenly this invisible WALL that feels as if it’s made of CONCRETE and is a thousand miles high and a hundred feet thick.  And TODAY, I want to help you SOLVE that problem. 

In today’s new video, I dissect the advice on this topic given by an extraordinary man of our times: A man who is not only a clinical psychologist, but also a man who stands up for MEN in these times of horrifying political correctness and feminism gone off the rails. His name, in case you don’t already know, is Jordan Peterson.


When it comes to success with women, a comparison can be made to race-car driving. To design the car itself and all its components, you need the engineers. And to keep the car working, you need the mechanics. I think of Dr. Peterson like the engineer and the mechanics. Yet, when it comes race time, you need the DRIVER.

And for over sixteen years now, I have been taking all the most advanced theories out there in human psychology and applying them in the real world of pick-up, dating, and relationships. And this was not just done for myself, but for literally THOUSANDS of men over the years. 

Whether it was in my bootcamp program where men actually perform pick-up on real women, or whether it was one-on-one coaching over Skype where men need to see results IMMEDIATELY in their real lives, I have the real-world experience to know what works and what doesn’t. 

And, keep in mind, this is about approaching quality women who are sober-this is not about getting into bed with drunk, promiscuous women who will never turn into great girlfriends and who will never in a million years be “the one”.

As a result, what I have done in this video is add ROCKET FUEL to Dr. Peterson’s advice to make it even MORE powerful and MORE efficient and practical for men who want to overcome their fear of approaching women.

And if you want to overcome the fear of approaching women, I suggest you download my audio program called Obliterating Approach Anxiety immediately. In this program, I show you the exact STEPS to take so that you are NEVER overwhelmed, and so that you are assured to succeed. I cannot possibly emphasize how important this program is. If you really want to get this area of your life handled, download this program NOW at:

https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/approach-anxiety.html

If you would like private coaching with me for any aspect of success with women, whether it is one woman in particular or women in general, you can do that with me now as well through Skype. To learn more about how to arrange Skype coaching with me, go here:

https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/consultations.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

The SECRET To Obliterating Approach Anxiety

When it comes to overcoming "approach anxiety",
it really is crazy how so many people are
telling guys stuff that sounds good but
actually HARMS their results.

For example, trying to tell guys all kinds
of positive thinking to overcome approach
anxiety.

But positive thinking only makes approach
anxiety WORSE, in the same way that most
itches only get WORSE if you SCRATCH them.

REASSURANCE, such as positive thinking, only
makes the approach anxiety more INTENSE.

I have a program that truly WORKS to
OBLITERATE APPROACH ANXIETY, and it
has been PROVEN, and is based on
absolute EVIDENCE, and it is a
STEP BY STEP program. 


Get this program by going here NOW:

https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/approach-anxiety.html

Next time you see a woman you want to approach,
if you have taken this program, you WILL approach
her and you will NOT give into ANY excuses.

There is NOTHING like this program out there,
ANYWHERE.

I take what I do SERIOUSLY, and a HELL of a lot of 
testing and research went into this, just like my other
programs, including my Warrior Within program.

Also, as a quick reminder, my Warrior Within
program which is an absolute MUST for men
who want massive success with women, is,
available for only 24 more hours at the
MIND-BLOWING special offer-it is normally
THREE TIMES this cost.

It's at:

https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/warrior.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

What Women Want MORE Than The "Alpha-Male PUA" - Plus SEVEN NEW VIDEOS!

You are in for a real treat today, with SEVEN truly KICK-BUTT new videos that will get you in HIGH GEAR for attracting amazing, quality women!   

The FIRST gets us off to a roaring start with the most IMPORTANT aspect for attracting women both in the INITIAL pick-up AND for the long-term attraction as well. The IRONY is that this very skill is something that the "seduction community" and "PUA" community tends to "POO-POO" and mock as being "beta" when in reality it is the LIFEBLOOD of success for attracting women:


Of course, the fact that the entire PUA community "poo-poos" this idea and underestimates it does not surprise me, as the entire PUA community ALSO thought for many years that pick up lines and memorized routines were the best way to attract women, as evidenced by the content and popularity of the book "The Game", which was all about pick-up lines and memorized routines--and is now completely DISCREDITED in terms of having any relevance to being the best way to attract women at all.  

Even the author HIMSELF rejects those ideas and has gone on record as such.

And, even while the entire community of PUAs (pick up artists) and dating "gurus" in that book SWORE by those methods, I was teaching my students something very different; I was teaching them how to ACTUALLY attract women with far superior skills and insights into attraction, using concepts, tools, and strategies such as the ones you are learning here. 

So once again, in time, the entire PUA community will eventually adopt what I am teaching you here today-things that my students have been learning from me since long before "The Game" was ever written. The PUA community just won't acknowledge that it was me who they learned it from. 

Anyway, NEXT we move onto a CRUCIAL point about creating a deep sense of CONNECTION with a woman, and the great part about this is how EASY it is and how IMPORTANT it is. 

It's about giving a woman that sense of being able to just CHILL with you and feel RELAXED around you.  Without THIS, there is NO WAY ON EARTH she can feel comfortable enough to escalate to greater levels of intimacy.

 
Now, have you EVER felt, when seeing a woman you were CRAZY about, that you just "weren't good enough" for her? That you didn't "have the value" to get her????

Well, let me OBLITERATE that fear from your mind FOREVER, because what women get turned ON by is DIFFERENT in its very NATURE than what MEN get turned on by. 

Allow me to explain with a quote from Michael Castleman, M.A.: 

Romance novels are often called "porn for women." Porn is all about sexual fantasies. In porn for men, the fantasy is sexual abundance--eager women who can't get enough and have no interest in a relationship. In porn for women as depicted in romance novels, the fantasy is to be desired so much that the man loses all control, though he never actually hurts the woman, and in the end, marries her.

For women, the fantasy is to be desired to an extraordinary degree. 

Allow me to elaborate with this next video!


Next, I want to explain something of VITAL importance, which is the DEEP PSYCHOLOGICAL REASON for WHY it's important to not kiss up. It has to do with MORE than just being "masculine"; it actually has to do with the way HUMANS are HARD-WIRED:


"But WAIT! There's MORE!" :)

In my NEXT video for you, I get into something a little UNPOPULAR in our POLITICALLY-CORRECT society that loves to BASH AND DESTROY all the traditional values on which our entire CIVILIZATION was built.

I explain how there may really be no such thing as "casual sex".  Aristotle used to believe that when a woman has sex with a man, then even if she later has sex with another man, the CHILD that is born may still carry the traits of PREVIOUS lovers/mates that were with that woman.  

Well, science and the study of HEREDITY came along and at first REJECTED that idea of telegony, thinking this was impossible in nature.  However, it now has been PROVEN that this actually DOES occur in at least SOME species and scientists have DOCUMENTED it in detail.   

I look at this as a little hint, a "whisper in your ear" if you will, that lets us know sex is not "just sex".  The connections between man and woman as a result of sex, and the  RAMIFICATIONS of those connections, are DEEP, POWERFUL AND PERMANENT, regardless of how much our politically-correct, tradition-bashing, insane society tries to destroy this notion.

The reason WHY so few people in our society ever know the truth about anything, including how to attract amazing women, is because they get TRICKED into believing B.S. through the forces of SOCIAL PROOF, as I explain in this video:


In my NEXT video, I once AGAIN fly in direct CONTRADICTION to the supposed "pick up experts" out there who say that you should just THINK POSITIVE to get over the fear of "approach anxiety".  

The ACTUAL TRUTH, and this has been something I not only had to LEARN the HARD WAY, but is also something I poured YEARS into RESEARCHING FOR REAL, is the OPPOSITE!!!!!!

The REAL way to overcome intense "approach anxiety" is to learn the proper way to EMBRACE THE ABSOLUTE WORST, AGAIN AND AGAIN AND AGAIN!

Check out the video for more details right here:

  
Now, unless you've been living on another planet, you probably know that there is a popular book called 50 Shades of Grey, which was turned into a hit movie as well, along with a hit sequel.  You probably also know that the themes in them include bondage and fantasies of forced sex, and that these books and movies are loved by WOMEN. 

Well, it turns out this is nothing new, and that RAPE FANTASIES are EXTREMELY COMMON in women. And the women they are MOST common in are NOT women who are weak, or low self-esteem, or victims of abuse, contrary to what people used to think when there was no EMPIRICAL DATA regarding these women.  

The truth turns out to be the OPPOSITE of that old notion! The women who have these fantasies the MOST are women who are HIGH SELF-ESTEEM, who are OPEN to sex, and who feel confident and great!

So I want to explain what all this means for YOU as a man when you are out there approaching women and trying to attract them:

 
Now, if you have been reading and watching this so far, I hope you can see that I take this field very seriously, with a great degree of responsibility, and that I am the real thing. And, as powerful as these videos are, they represent just the tip of the iceberg of what I can do for your success with women through my programs and live one-on-one coaching. 

If you want solutions when it comes to getting success with women, I suggest you first download my books and programs. Each one contains pure GOLD on attracting women. Then, take your success to the NEXT level by contacting me for live, one-on-one private coaching, either through bootcamp in person, or through Skype. 

To download my IN-DEPTH program on conquering "approach anxiety" which I discussed in the video "The Solution To Approach Anxiety Is NOT Positive Thinking", go here immediately:

https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/approach-anxiety.html

The name of that program is Obliterating Approach Anxiety, and there is nothing else out there that comes even CLOSE to its level of effectiveness for ensuring you conquer "approach anxiety" forever.

To find about everything else I can do to SKYROCKET your success with women, go here:

https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/catalog.html

I also suggest you subscribe to my YouTube channel by going to the following page and clicking "Subscribe":

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCCLBZkbVMsDy3T-ErLOkVdw?sub_confirmation=1
 
Life with an amazing woman enhances your entire experience OF life. And time is precious. If you don't take action now, it's very possible you will find that YEARS have gone by and nothing has changed. So take action NOW.

Once again, my programs are at:
 
https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/catalog.html

If you have any questions about my programs, you can contact me by email at:

michael@thedatingwizardreturns.com

Till next time,

Michael Marks

The Power Of Self-Belief

There are two aspects of being successful
when it comes to meeting and attracting
a woman. The first part is having the
finesse in terms of skills to approach
a woman anywhere in any situation and
smoothly get a conversation rolling that
demonstrates attractive character traits,
such as confidence, intelligence, wit,
and empathy.

The second part, though, is what is going
on “behind the scenes” so to speak, in
your mind, in your life, etc. It’s a little
hard sometimes to be confident and
be in the right states of mind when
everything else is going to hell in your
life.

So, today, I just want to briefly yet in
an important way address that other
side.  Now, the examples I am about
to give are dramatic but all true, and
you don’t necessarily have to do the
same things in your life, but the point
is going to be the same nonetheless:

Nothing breeds success like success.
So if you are successful in one thing,
it’s easier to take that confidence to
another thing as well.  This includes
being successful in any goal in your life.

And the number one thing you need to
know regarding being successful in  
any goal in your life is that most people
fail due to FEAR, which also leads to
lack of EFFORT.  If you are too afraid
of failure, for example, you won’t put
in the effort, you will lose motivation,
you will be easily overwhelmed by
the slightest setback.

And the most horrifying thing about
fear is that it DISTORTS your perception
of the actual situation, it makes you think
things are worse than they are.
This is why, so often in life, people NEED
to have someone or something to FORCE them
to do important things because if it wasn’t through
force, they would give into their fear.

So, sometimes, for example a kid might be
afraid to go to the doctor, but the parent,
after trying all kinds of other ways that
don’t work, has to ultimately force the kid to go,
and it’s a good thing.

But once you’re an adult, you really don’t get
someone to force you to do the right things
in your life.  YOU have to force yourself.

YOU have to push through the fear.
YOU have to work your butt off.
YOU have to do the research and learning.

The good news, though, is that once you
understand this, suddenly you are able to
accomplish so much, and as you accomplish
this, you start to see how so many people
fail due to fear.

When Arnold Schwarzenegger was a kid
who wanted to become a champion bodybuilder,
his parents thought he was off his rocker. He
was a kid in a town in Austria after World
War II where bodybuilding was considered
even stranger than it was in America at that
time, and there was little opportunity for
financial success in that sport anywhere,
even in America.

But he didn’t let anyone’s thoughts of him
failing allow him to stop him from achieve
this goal.  Not only did he become a champion,
but along the way, before then, when he lost,
you could not even tell he lost from his
expression on his face- there is a famous
photo of him coming in second before the
years where he won undefeated year after
year.

In that photo, where he lost, from his face,
he looks like he won.  That is confidence, that
is happiness, that is passion for your sport.

He worked HARD.  Before getting any movie
roles, he was already a millionaire. He had
worked as a bricklayer, he started a construction
company, he sold bodybuilding manuals through
the mail. 

And when he wanted to become an actor,
at the time being insanely muscular was not
in vogue for actors or even action stars.

And they said he had too thick of an accent.
They said he could never play anything more
than a tiny role as a bouncer or other similar
minor roles in any film.

But within a few years, he became the highest
paid actor and conquered two genres, both action
and comedy.

And then when he wanted to become a politician,
they said he could never win, they made fun of
his lack of experience and said he should stick
to movies, but he ended up winning TWO terms
as governor of California.

When a person conquers a sport, conquers the
acting profession, conquers politics, and also
becomes a millionaire before even landing
an acting gig, it is not a coincidence.

Similarly, when James Cameron, the guy who
made Avatar, wanted to make films, they said
he was too old and he didn’t have the education,
since he had never gone to film school and was
already 30 years old.

And even after proving to the world his ability
and expertise with The Terminator, they said he
would fail with each film, whether it was
Terminator 2, Titanic, or Avatar.  They said
he would never make back the money it cost
to make Terminator 2. 

They said that Titanic would be a failure
since everyone already knew the ending,
and since it didn’t feature stars who were
famous at the time, and since it was too
long at about 3 hours, and since it was
a historical period piece, a genre that
tends to not do well at the box-office.

And when it came to Avatar, people were
saying it was also going to fail, that no
one is going to be interested in a bunch
of blue aliens with tails.

So, my point is that you need to have one
HELL of a strong INTERNAL DRIVE
because if you expect to be “encouraged”
by the outside world, you WON’T BE.

In fact, so often the most successful people
are driven to succeed BECAUSE they
were told they would fail, because they
wanted to PROVE these people wrong.

So, when it comes to your own life, JUST
STICK TO YOUR GOALS and don’t let
people screw with your CONFIDENCE.

This includes your confidence with women
as well. In fact, I have seen this countless
times: A woman will give a guy the cold
shoulder, and then his REACTION is so
confident, that his REACTION actually
GETS the woman interested.

For example, I’ve seen in my bootcamps
situations where a woman will say to a
guy she is too busy to date anyone, and the
guy will tell her that is perfect, because he
has no time either, instead of telling her
how much he needs to have her in his life,
and all of a sudden she laughs and starts
to melt and starts to re-engage in the
conversation and starts to chase him.

It’s a very crazy world, and I didn’t make it
this way, it just is what it is.  The hungry
never get fed.  Those that have the power get
everything. Most women will give nothing to
the guy that is a nice guy but has no confidence
and no power.

But to the guy that has the confidence and
the power,  they will throw themselves at
him, and excuse just about all his negative
behaviors.

I always find it strange that certain women
(not all) will condemn a celebrity who is unfaithful
to his girlfriend or wife, but yet these same
“condemners” would never give the time of
day to a “nice guy” WITHOUT the power,
without the confidence, and would in a
heartbeat be THRILLED to be the next
in line to be with that celebrity.

In the same way that some men are brainwashed
by the “halo effect” of a beautiful woman,
and will excuse or rationalize the WORST
behavior of a woman who is beautiful,
so too some women are overwhelmed by
the halo effect of a man who resonates
POWER and CONFIDENCE.

Looks can definitely help a man as well, but
when it comes to men, women’s attraction is
not limited to this, it extends to his strength
of personality- the BEHAVIORS he displays.

And the only way to resonate those things
is to LIVE it.  You must be INTERNALLY
driven, you can’t depend on a woman or
anyone actually, to tell you how smart you
are, how great you are, how successful you
will be, that you will make it, etc, etc.

YOU must believe.

And the irony is, that when you do this,
in the long run, EVERYONE believes in you,
which is just another one of those things in
life that is ironic, when you don’t need
anyone to believe in you because YOU
believe in you, then ultimately everyone
believes in you.

For my most powerful program on
SKYROCKETING your INTERNAL
self, for conquering fears, for building
your SELF-BELIEF, so that you DO approach
ANY woman you would like to pick-up,
I seriously suggest you download my program
'OBLITERATING APPROACH ANXIETY'.

It’s at:

https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/approach-anxiety.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

The Power Of GRIT Combined With SKILL & KNOWLEDGE In Attracting Women

I have two URGENT points for attracting
women for you today.

The first is that when you approach an
attractive woman, out of the blue, who
is a total stranger, it's important to
realize that even though most men don't
make these approaches, some men do,
and they tend to do it in a way that
really is NOT cool.

They do things like just make cat-calls,
or they expect the woman to just say
'YES!' to going out with them just on
the basis of the guy saying NOTHING except,
"Hi, do you want to go out some time?"

So this kind of thing has made a lot of women
a bit cautious or even on the surface sometimes,
and I do say SOMETIMES, a bit quick to want to
just avoid the whole interaction.

So there are TWO solutions to this,
and the best is the COMBINATION of
them BOTH:

The FIRST THING is to initially open the
conversation with something that she
just can't HELP but have a POSITIVE
emotional reaction toward.

This is why getting her giggly, laughing,
smiling, is so HELPFUL.

By the way, for my program on
CONFIDENT HUMOR, go here:

https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/humor-and-attracting-women.html 

One quick tip for humor by the way, is to
STOP censoring your WORDS & THOUGHTS and also to
start LOOKING for the FUNNY side of things
even just for your OWN entertainment.

Not mean-spirited humor, just FUNNY humor.

Another MAJOR tip for humor is that it must
be UNEXPECTED.

This is HUGE element of effective humor.

And to be UNEXPECTED, it helps if you
use a touch of CREATIVITY.

So, for example, let's say you see a woman
anywhere, especially in a line or browsing
in a store, or in some kind of social gathering,
you might say something like this:

"Hi, my name is Bazztoord.
Don't laugh, it's spelled differently."

So let's just examine this for a moment here:

Notice how this is many things at once:

1. It gets her smiling.
2. It's playful.
3. It shows you don't need approval.
4. It shows you are secure.
5. In a subtle way, it says you are a "bad boy".

And of course, DELIVERING this with that
TOTAL sense of NOT being DEPENDENT on the
OUTCOME- so that your tonality and body
language are CONSISTENT with the INTENTION
of the message.

Notice also how NONE of this is mean-spirited.
It's just playful, confident, flirty, and
says you don't need social approval to
feel great.

So this makes it WAY MORE LIKELY that she is
going to be RECEPTIVE to your approach, even
from the very GET-GO, from the very first
second, and when you SEE that in her eyes,
it can make you feel more confident.

So this is all great stuff, yet at the SAME TIME
I am SUPER CAREFUL to actually put the RIGHT
amount of emphasis on these EXTERNAL strategies, 
and not make men OVERLY-RELIANT on them either,
because MOST men want to avoid the even more
important aspects of attracting women, which 
go much DEEPER.

Allow me to explain:

Although seeing a woman LIGHT UP to your initial
humor DOES give you a good feeling, the PROBLEM
is if you JUST RELY on that, you might end up becoming
RELIANT on external MATERIAL, and you might start 
to think that it is not YOU who is attracting the woman, 
but rather that it is something EXTERNAL to you.

And THAT is not good for your confidence or your
SELF-CONCEPT in the LONG-TERM.

Also, it is CRUCIAL to realize that a big part of
humor and more importantly so much about
ATTRACTION is about your "inner game". 

And THE IRONY is that with the deep confidence
in yourself, suddenly you are able to take all that 
knowledge about humor and every other strategy
for attracting women that you have learned about 
from me, and now you can make it have TEN TIMES 
the IMPACT on attracting women that it had previously!   

Even the GREATEST comedians will tell you that
DELIVERY is MASSIVELY important, and that the
CHARACTER of the PERSON making the comedy
is A MASSIVE part of what MAKES humor work.

Whether is CK Louis, Seinfeld, Chris Rock,
we all know that we EXPECT a certain
and different CHARACTER type behind
each of these guys, and THAT CHARACTER
whether real or not, is what MAKES
a huge part of the entire humor!!!!

Similarly, your DEEP ROOTED confidence
makes your CHARACTER stand out, and
it MASSIVELY affects EVERYTHING you say
and do, making it TEN TIMES more powerful 
with women.

So this is why I try to include the
DEEP CONFIDENCE aspects in EVERYTHING 
that I teach, including the humor.

In fact, even the NAME of the above program 
on humor is called "CONFIDENT HUMOR".
 
Now, remember I said there are TWO ways to
overcome the initial concerns that a lot
of women have regarding men approaching them?

Well, the SECOND way is to simply BARREL THROUGH
ANY INITIAL OBSTACLES through using sheer GRIT.

So even if she DOESN'T have this MASSIVE
SMILE on her face when you approach her
and in reaction to whatever you said to
start the conversation, you can VERY OFTEN
just HANG IN THERE AND KEEP ON GOING
and she will simply be WON OVER by your
CONFIDENCE that is implied through your
TONALITY and BODY LANGUAGE.

And I LOVE training guys by STARTING them OUT
actually THIS way, and only THEN LATER giving
them the special EXTRA tools to make it even
EASIER.
 
This is because this way, you are forced to
SEE THE TRUTH- that women can really be attracted
to nothing but YOU. And you don't become dependent
on external tactics.

After starting out guys by working on sheer confidence,
I like to then integrate the BEST of BOTH worlds, 
where you practice FIRST with JUST BARRELING 
THROUGH, and then later mixing in the
relevant "external" tactics for each situation.
 
This way, you get BOTH the supreme confidence
with women and you also get to add more 
to your repertoire of tools to attract women 
in any situation.

Here's a fun way to think about it:

The character of "Batman" is himself a
very powerful dude. He has a great mind,
he is a great martial artist, he is
POWERFUL all on his own.

Then, he ALSO has external TOOLS, including
various devices on his belt, and of course
his Bat-Cave, Batmobile, etc.

But without the MAN himself and all the work
he has done on himself, the tools would be
POINTLESS.

Now, let's move to the even DEEPER stuff I
mentioned that I want to get to at the
beginning of this article.

DEEP INNER CONFIDENCE WITH WOMEN

The greatest IRONY about confidence and being a man,
both when it comes to success with women and also
with just about EVERYTHING ELSE IN LIFE, is that
truly confident men aren't so obsessed with
AVOIDING REJECTION.

This is because they KNOW their OWN worth, and THAT
is what drives them, and no matter WHAT other people
say or do does not change their FUNDAMENTAL self-concept,
and also what they WANT is so DESIRABLE to them that
it is WORTH the EFFORT.

Also, getting GOOD at any skill TAKES practice,
so if you refuse to get any rejection, you are
never going to do the work required to become
truly SKILLED. You'll just avoid it out of fear
of rejection.   

So the irony in this field is that if you will
not approach women due to fear of rejection,
the FIRST issue you REALLY need to break through
is your PERCEPTION of this IDEA of 'rejection'.

What does it really MEAN if a woman does NOT
give you her number, go out with you, etc.?

How does it change ANYTHING ABOUT YOU???

Real life is EXPLODING AT THE SEAMS with example
after example after example of the most INCREDIBLE
people being REJECTED over and over again, and
then breaking through to UNIMAGINABLE success.

So for example, allow me to print a review that
was published in the NEW YORK TIMES about the
ORIGINAL film called ROCKY, way back in 1976,
when it was JUST released and no one knew
just how MASSIVE of an impact this film
and its sequels and its star, Sylvester
Stallone, would have on the world-wide
BOX-OFFICE and culture for DECADES to
come. 
 
And this review was written by the most
INFLUENTIAL film-reviewer back in those
days, and in those days, unlike now when
there are a million reviews on the internet,
a reviewer like him had MASSIVE POWER 
over a film's success. 

His name was Vincent Canby.

Here is just a tiny GLIMPSE of the
HATRED he had for the movie:

He called Sylvester Stallone “the large
hole in the center of the film.”
 
Canby wrote that “Mr. Stallone’s Rocky is
less a performance than an impersonation.
It’s all superficial mannerisms and movements,
reminding me of Rodney Dangerfield doing a
nightclub monologue.”

And he stated "Throughout the movie we are
asked to believe that his Rocky is compassionate,
interesting, even heroic, though the character
we see is simply an unconvincing actor imitating
a lug.”

Well, it turns out that he was wrong.
The film ended up winning BEST PICTURE of the year,
and audiences LOVED it around the WORLD.

And life for Sly Stallone was way MORE full
of rejection BEFORE this point. Virtually
every casting director had turned him down
for any major roles in films before this point,
and he was rejected for his work as an actor,
a writer, and no one even DREAMED that he
would ever be allowed to direct anything.

The same thing has happened to just about
ALL major success stories. No one DREAMED
that Bill Gates was actually going to
REVOLUTIONIZE the WORLD with personal
computers.

In fact, IBM let him walk away
with technology he developed for them
that he believed was priceless- they 
thought it would be WORTHLESS
to anybody else, when it ultimately 
became worth BILLIONS AND BILLIONS
and BILLIONS.

Don't get caught up on what OTHERS think
of your value, and instead just EMBRACE
every single so called rejection or failure,
as THIS is the ONLY way to succeed.

This does NOT mean there isn't such a
thing as SKILL, in any area of life,
INCLUDING in ATTRACTING WOMEN.

It's about SKILL and it's ALSO ABOUT
learning from failure, and also about
EMBRACING a certain amount of rejection
even if there is not always much to learn
from it!
 
And Michael Jordan stated all of this
eloquently, and summed up his own
success this way:

'"I've missed more than 9000 shots in my career.
I've lost almost 300 games. 26 times, I've been
trusted to take the game winning shot and missed.
I've failed over and over and over again in
my life. And that is why I succeed."

Does this mean that Michael Jordan didn't have
and didn't use tons of SKILL? 

Of course it doesn't mean that. He had GRIT.
He WORKED on his SKILLS, and he EMBRACED failure as well.

These kinds of men simply don't CARE what
people who DON'T "get them" think, because they
KNOW that in LIFE, rejection and GRIT is PART of the
PROCESS, and that the only way to get SUCCESS
is to BARREL THROUGH the rejection, and they also
knew that THEY BELIEVED in their OWN stuff,
so it didn't MATTER if many or most OTHERS
did NOT appreciate THEM.

Also, this ability to BARREL THROUGH
what on the surface at first seems
like DIFFICULTY/HARD EFFORT, is really
actually an ATTRACTIVE quality called
having GRIT.

GRIT is what makes men SUCCESSFUL in ANY endeavor.

Your GENIUS and TALENT is actually NOT the
greatest indicator of your success, although
OBVIOUSLY having genius and talent is AWESOME,
but only if it comes with GRIT.

James Cameron, the guy who made The Terminator,
Titanic, Aliens, and AVATAR has said time
and again that he KNEW he wasn't the most
TALENTED, so he worked TEN TIMES HARDER.

This is GRIT once again.
And women actually get attracted to men
who DON'T fall to pieces just because
a woman isn't INITIALLY jumping up
and down immediately with excitement
for them. 
 
This is all part of BARRELING THROUGH
in the interaction with a woman you
just met.

It's one of the reasons I tell men to
STAY IN THE INTERACTION FOR AS LONG AS
POSSIBLE- it not only builds up your
resistance to the pressure and the
anxiety, but it also shows the woman
you are the kind of man who means
BUSINESS in life; who goes full tilt
after what he wants and who doesn't
give up.
 
Notice how in the rest of life,
GRIT is ESSENTIAL FOR SUCCESS.

And when it comes to attracting WOMEN,
IT'S THE SAME THING.

YOUR SELF-CONCEPT MUST NOT DEPEND ON THE OUTCOME
of the interaction with the woman.

You can't QUIT the pick-up just because it
would feel EASIER to eject and leave.

You must FEEL SO MUCH SELF-WORTH that what she
SAYS OR DOES really does NOT change ANYTHING.

And the IRONY of IRONIES here is that the
more you actually BELIEVE AND FEEL THIS,
the more you SUBCONSCIOUSLY END UP
SHOWING ALL THE RIGHT ATTRACTIVE TONALITIES
AND BODY LANGUAGE EXPRESSIONS, AND THE MORE
YOU ALSO TEND TO SAY FUNNIER STUFF,
MORE WITTY STUFF, ETC.

So if you are reading this right now, I have
TWO major suggestions.

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And I also suggest you get my program called
OBLITERATING APPROACH ANXIETY, which goes into
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EMOTIONS that PREVENT you from taking ACTION.

It's at:

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Till next time,

MIchael Marks

A Secret To SUPREME Confidence With Women

I have a super-short but super-powerful
TIP for you for CONFIDENCE with women.

Instead of FORCING yourself to try so
hard to think YOU ARE CONFIDENT,
what you should do INSTEAD is to
actually focus on your DESIRE to
succeed with women SO MUCH, that
you are WILLING to embrace ANY
consequence of that DESIRE.

This is one of the things that transformed
MYSELF.

I honestly don't give  &^%! about the
idea of REJECTION.  And in fact, when
I first started doing this stuff years
ago, I would PARTICULARLY look for the
CRAZIEST situations to approach women in,
as the more DRAMATIC it was, the more it
became EXCITING to me.

There are TWO benefits to this approach:
 
First of all, your WILLINGNESS to accept
anything, including your greatest FEARS,
actually FREES you FROM those fears.

Whether it's the fear that you think she
doesn't like you, the fear that you are
going to look stupid, the fear that you
are going to be shunned, IT DOESN'T MATTER,
the TRICK is to WANT IT SO BAD that you
GLADLY EMBRACE ALL THIS STUFF because
you are so WILLING to do ANYTHING.

The SECOND benefit of all this is that
women can DETECT when you mean BUSINESS
and when you are just HALF-WAY, kind of
fence-sitting, kind of 'namby-pamby',
and when you are FULLY COMMITTED,
it is ATTRACTIVE.

It subconsciously tells her you are man
who is a SURVIVOR, a man who can survive
in this crazy world, a man who is not
captive to his fears.

And that triggers her ATTRACTION TO YOU,
because on a deep subconscious level,
female attraction is based on what will
produce GOOD OFFSPRING, and that means
"SURVIVOR" type offspring.

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Till next time,

Michael Marks

Obliterating Approach Anxiety

The first thing a man needs to do
before being able to attract women
anywhere he sees them is get over
the hurdle known as "approach anxiety".

Approach anxiety ends up either
preventing men from approaching
women at all in the first place,
or the anxiety itself interferes
with the proper performance of
the pick-up, causing men to
"crash and burn" in their
approaches.

I have a brand-new and important video
for you on how to OBLITERATE APPROACH ANXIETY,
so that you can take advantage of the
TONS OF OPPORTUNITIES TO MEET WOMEN
RIGHT OUTSIDE YOUR DOOR EVERY DAY!!!

Here it is!



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In this program, you will learn the FULL PICTURE
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FEAR OF YOURS away regarding approaching women,
and I go into EXACT STEP-BY-STEP details for
how to do this, including confronting the
internal fears that go BEYOND what happens
in the approach.

This is a major part of the program, because
SOME of the approach anxiety goes DEEPER
than what happens in the approach itself,
and I show you HOW to get CONQUER those
internal fears in the most CLEAR AND
EASY TO FOLLOW INSTRUCTIONS.

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Till next time,

Michael Marks