The Power Of Self-Belief

There are two aspects of being successful
when it comes to meeting and attracting
a woman. The first part is having the
finesse in terms of skills to approach
a woman anywhere in any situation and
smoothly get a conversation rolling that
demonstrates attractive character traits,
such as confidence, intelligence, wit,
and empathy.

The second part, though, is what is going
on “behind the scenes” so to speak, in
your mind, in your life, etc. It’s a little
hard sometimes to be confident and
be in the right states of mind when
everything else is going to hell in your
life.

So, today, I just want to briefly yet in
an important way address that other
side.  Now, the examples I am about
to give are dramatic but all true, and
you don’t necessarily have to do the
same things in your life, but the point
is going to be the same nonetheless:

Nothing breeds success like success.
So if you are successful in one thing,
it’s easier to take that confidence to
another thing as well.  This includes
being successful in any goal in your life.

And the number one thing you need to
know regarding being successful in  
any goal in your life is that most people
fail due to FEAR, which also leads to
lack of EFFORT.  If you are too afraid
of failure, for example, you won’t put
in the effort, you will lose motivation,
you will be easily overwhelmed by
the slightest setback.

And the most horrifying thing about
fear is that it DISTORTS your perception
of the actual situation, it makes you think
things are worse than they are.
This is why, so often in life, people NEED
to have someone or something to FORCE them
to do important things because if it wasn’t through
force, they would give into their fear.

So, sometimes, for example a kid might be
afraid to go to the doctor, but the parent,
after trying all kinds of other ways that
don’t work, has to ultimately force the kid to go,
and it’s a good thing.

But once you’re an adult, you really don’t get
someone to force you to do the right things
in your life.  YOU have to force yourself.

YOU have to push through the fear.
YOU have to work your butt off.
YOU have to do the research and learning.

The good news, though, is that once you
understand this, suddenly you are able to
accomplish so much, and as you accomplish
this, you start to see how so many people
fail due to fear.

When Arnold Schwarzenegger was a kid
who wanted to become a champion bodybuilder,
his parents thought he was off his rocker. He
was a kid in a town in Austria after World
War II where bodybuilding was considered
even stranger than it was in America at that
time, and there was little opportunity for
financial success in that sport anywhere,
even in America.

But he didn’t let anyone’s thoughts of him
failing allow him to stop him from achieve
this goal.  Not only did he become a champion,
but along the way, before then, when he lost,
you could not even tell he lost from his
expression on his face- there is a famous
photo of him coming in second before the
years where he won undefeated year after
year.

In that photo, where he lost, from his face,
he looks like he won.  That is confidence, that
is happiness, that is passion for your sport.

He worked HARD.  Before getting any movie
roles, he was already a millionaire. He had
worked as a bricklayer, he started a construction
company, he sold bodybuilding manuals through
the mail. 

And when he wanted to become an actor,
at the time being insanely muscular was not
in vogue for actors or even action stars.

And they said he had too thick of an accent.
They said he could never play anything more
than a tiny role as a bouncer or other similar
minor roles in any film.

But within a few years, he became the highest
paid actor and conquered two genres, both action
and comedy.

And then when he wanted to become a politician,
they said he could never win, they made fun of
his lack of experience and said he should stick
to movies, but he ended up winning TWO terms
as governor of California.

When a person conquers a sport, conquers the
acting profession, conquers politics, and also
becomes a millionaire before even landing
an acting gig, it is not a coincidence.

Similarly, when James Cameron, the guy who
made Avatar, wanted to make films, they said
he was too old and he didn’t have the education,
since he had never gone to film school and was
already 30 years old.

And even after proving to the world his ability
and expertise with The Terminator, they said he
would fail with each film, whether it was
Terminator 2, Titanic, or Avatar.  They said
he would never make back the money it cost
to make Terminator 2. 

They said that Titanic would be a failure
since everyone already knew the ending,
and since it didn’t feature stars who were
famous at the time, and since it was too
long at about 3 hours, and since it was
a historical period piece, a genre that
tends to not do well at the box-office.

And when it came to Avatar, people were
saying it was also going to fail, that no
one is going to be interested in a bunch
of blue aliens with tails.

So, my point is that you need to have one
HELL of a strong INTERNAL DRIVE
because if you expect to be “encouraged”
by the outside world, you WON’T BE.

In fact, so often the most successful people
are driven to succeed BECAUSE they
were told they would fail, because they
wanted to PROVE these people wrong.

So, when it comes to your own life, JUST
STICK TO YOUR GOALS and don’t let
people screw with your CONFIDENCE.

This includes your confidence with women
as well. In fact, I have seen this countless
times: A woman will give a guy the cold
shoulder, and then his REACTION is so
confident, that his REACTION actually
GETS the woman interested.

For example, I’ve seen in my bootcamps
situations where a woman will say to a
guy she is too busy to date anyone, and the
guy will tell her that is perfect, because he
has no time either, instead of telling her
how much he needs to have her in his life,
and all of a sudden she laughs and starts
to melt and starts to re-engage in the
conversation and starts to chase him.

It’s a very crazy world, and I didn’t make it
this way, it just is what it is.  The hungry
never get fed.  Those that have the power get
everything. Most women will give nothing to
the guy that is a nice guy but has no confidence
and no power.

But to the guy that has the confidence and
the power,  they will throw themselves at
him, and excuse just about all his negative
behaviors.

I always find it strange that certain women
(not all) will condemn a celebrity who is unfaithful
to his girlfriend or wife, but yet these same
“condemners” would never give the time of
day to a “nice guy” WITHOUT the power,
without the confidence, and would in a
heartbeat be THRILLED to be the next
in line to be with that celebrity.

In the same way that some men are brainwashed
by the “halo effect” of a beautiful woman,
and will excuse or rationalize the WORST
behavior of a woman who is beautiful,
so too some women are overwhelmed by
the halo effect of a man who resonates
POWER and CONFIDENCE.

Looks can definitely help a man as well, but
when it comes to men, women’s attraction is
not limited to this, it extends to his strength
of personality- the BEHAVIORS he displays.

And the only way to resonate those things
is to LIVE it.  You must be INTERNALLY
driven, you can’t depend on a woman or
anyone actually, to tell you how smart you
are, how great you are, how successful you
will be, that you will make it, etc, etc.

YOU must believe.

And the irony is, that when you do this,
in the long run, EVERYONE believes in you,
which is just another one of those things in
life that is ironic, when you don’t need
anyone to believe in you because YOU
believe in you, then ultimately everyone
believes in you.

For my most powerful program on
SKYROCKETING your INTERNAL
self, for conquering fears, for building
your SELF-BELIEF, so that you DO approach
ANY woman you would like to pick-up,
I seriously suggest you download my program
'OBLITERATING APPROACH ANXIETY'.

It’s at:

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Till next time,

Michael Marks

How To Respond To Women Teasing You

Today you are going to learn something
PRICELESS for helping you attract women.

Did you know that when a woman LIKES
you, she tends to actually TEASE you?

Most men either aren't even aware this
is true, or they have NO CLUE how to
HANDLE this, and how to respond to it.
And trust me, it is of MASSIVE importance
to do this right, or you can so easily
lose a woman who might otherwise have
been HAPPY AND EXCITED to be with you
and who would have made it EASY for
you, if you JUST got this part right.

So, let's begin:


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Till next time,

Michael Marks

Massive Proof Women Aren't Attracted To Men's Looks (And Other VITAL Keys To Success With Women)

If you think that women are attracted to a man's LOOKS,
then I have MASSIVE PROOF for you that this is NOT the
case and that men have INFINITELY more power to attract
women than most men have ever DREAMED of before.

I explain all of this and MUCH MORE in a NEW video
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Michael Marks, The Dating Wizard

How To Create A Deep Connection With A Woman

I have a powerful new video for you today on

how to immediately create a deep connection

with a woman who is fantastic on all levels.   

It’s important to understand that this kind of woman

values connection far more than the kind of women

for whom promiscuity and drunken behavior sum up

their attitude regarding “getting physical”.

So when I say connect, I mean this on a much,

MUCH higher level than typically passes for

connection in the low-level connections where

some dude is making out with some drunk woman.

You may have heard me explain before how important

congruency is in other aspects of the pick-up, and here

is yet ANOTHER place where CONGRUENCY rules.

Congruency means your actions, your words,

your EVERYTHING lines up consistently,

right down to your MICRO-EXPRESSIONS.

Can some guys FAKE this?

Maybe, but faking it takes THOUSANDS of hours

of practice, and also only works in the short-term.

FAKING it is simply NOT WORTH THE EFFORT for

most guys when there is no NEED to fake it because

there are so many women around who are promiscuous

and who require virtually no connection.

And the BETTER a woman is when it comes to her

appreciation for bonding, commitment, and longevity

in relationships, the EASIER it is for her to spot a faker,

and she can do this SUBCONSCIOUSLY.

She has spent YEARS of her life simply being HER,

and she is a person who CARES about these

things, so she has had THOUSANDS of hours of

LIFE PRACTICE simply seeing and naturally observing

the behaviors of the men she has dated and spoken

with over the years.

So by this point in time, she has a very refined

INSTINCT that can detect the INCONGRUENCIES

in guys that are shady and who don’t REALLY

mean what they are saying in the connection

part of the conversation.

I have to wonder when I hear and see so-called

“pick up experts” telling guys that they can get

GREAT FAITHFUL WOMEN anytime they want,

while SIMULTANEOUSLY speaking out of the

OTHER side of their mouths saying how

AWESOME it is to sleep around with tons of

women.

Trust me, as Aristotle said:

"We are what we repeatedly do.

Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit.”

Or, as I say:

YOU ARE AS YOU THINK AND DO.

And again, do NOT underestimate the power of the

MOST TINY SUBTLETIES HERE.

This is because it is ONLY those subtleties that

DEFINE and SEPARATE those who are AUTHENTIC

from those who are not.

And the reason so many people get fooled by

so-called experts is because it can take YEARS

to DETECT the difference between someone who

knows what they are talking about and someone who

does not.

Often, the only way to tell is to become at least proficient,

if not an expert, one’s self.

But let me prove how important LITTLE differences are:

Do you think Michael Jordan was really A HUNDRED

TIMES better than average player on the court?

Or even 50 times better?

Or TEN times better?

Do you think the FASTEST man alive is really a

HUNDRED times faster than the other runners?

Or even ten times?

Or even five times?

Or even just TWICE?

In reality, he’s often just MILLISECONDS faster.

The REAL truth, is that the difference is not

NEARLY as much as you think it is.

BUT, to get even a LITTLE bit better, takes a

a WHOLE LOT.

EFFORT. FOCUS. DISCIPLINE. COMMITMENT.

The same thing happens in any successful area.

One might argue that the original Star Wars film,

(Episode 4), is no different than a hundred other

sci-fi films taking place in space, with battles,

action, and special effects.

But the truth is, there are COUNTLESS tiny subtleties

that most people aren’t consciously aware of that went

into the making of the film at every level, from the

script to the design of the every last character and

vehicle, from the music to the casting, from the effects

to the locations and the editing, and so on and so forth.

All the tiny subtleties add up to one MASSIVE but unconscious

effect experienced by the VIEWER.   

Just like all the tiny subtleties that you express in your

micro-expressions, body language, and tonality add

up to one MASSIVE but subconscious effect on a

woman.  And all these subtleties can only be generated

properly from the DEEPEST LEVELS of your emotions

and your inner game.

They are too subtle and too numerous to try to

actually do each one consciously.

It would be absurd, i.e. “So now, move your left

eye-brow up by one-thousandth of a millimetre”

and “breathe .001% slower and deeper”, etc.

This is why you must be super-careful to adopt,

regarding women, yourself, and attraction, the

RIGHT beliefs and perspectives, and to know the

full truth about women and attraction, because your

KNOWLEDGE, BELIEFS and EMOTIONS regarding
women (which are things that the current environment
of political correctness HIDES from most men) will 
automatically SHOW UP into your corresponding 
MICRO-EXPRESSIONS, body language and tonalities- 
and THESE are the BIGGEST things that matter
when it comes to ATTRACTING women.  

The WINNING in life in any area is really

about the TINY SUBTLETIES that may seem

like very LITTLE to the UNTRAINED eye, ear,

or mind, but that are OBVIOUS and MASSIVE

to anyone who KNOWS that field.

And GOOD, FAITHFUL, LOYAL women know ALL

ABOUT being good, loyal, and faithful, on a very

instinctive level; they can SNIFF IT OUT on a guy

without even being CONSCIOUS of it.

They have had their entire lives to practice.

So, the UNTRAINED person might superficially

REPEAT A FEW WORDS he heard from

a valid source on how to go about getting a

great woman or a great relationship, and then

THINK he can fool and immediately go and

get and keep any good woman he wants, after

living a life of wild abandon and not giving a damn

about things like bonding, commitment, and relationships,

but REALITY doesn’t work that way.

Our behaviors SHAPE our minds and emotions and

actions on the DEEPEST of levels.

The greatest predictor of one’s future behavior is one’s

past behavior. We are what we think and do.

And although we can always CHANGE our path,

it would be INSANE to advise one to do the OPPOSITE

of what gets the BEST results in obtaining the results

one desires.

A lifetime spent on LOW LEVEL bonding trains you to

FEEL on a low level of human bonding, to think on

a low level of human bonding, and to feel WEIRD

going into a higher level of human bonding.

And so a woman who is FAITHFUL AND LOOKING

FOR A FAITHFUL MAN will SNIFF this stuff out

in the wrong guy FAST.

His real attitudes and beliefs formed over years

and years will SHOW in subtle ways in micro-expressions

in his face.  He might make a split-second frown when he

hears about commitment, he might have this strange

look in his eyes that is only a THOUSANDTH of a second

long, but that the woman detected on the most powerful

subconscious level.

Remember, human COMMUNICATION has had

A LONG, LONG, LONG time to develop, and the

ability of humans to communicate to each other

has developed into the most complex of all the

other living creatures on the planet. 

It is the reason that humans can mate face-to-face

instead of just from behind like most animals.

This was and is not a coincidence; it is because

human communication is a MASSIVE part of 

mating, and because the FACE can communicate

TRILLIONS of bits of data to the other person

about how we feel and what we are thinking.

And, the other person SUBCONSCIOUSLY processes

all these signals we are giving off, which is why people

get “FEELINGS” about people instead of reams of raw

data that they can articulate.

This is because humans usually aren’t CONSCIOUSLY

aware of what every single tiny bit of communicated data was,

and where it came from, and which body language motion

from the other person delivered it, etc.

Do you see now how the most typical “pick-up artist”

advice in terms of lifestyle and attitude toward relationships

is the EXACT OPPOSITE of the REAL way to pick-up

a quality woman?

The very language and mentality floods your

brain with all the wrong thoughts and emotions,

which end up SHOWING CLEARLY to a woman!

They show like a BLARING RED SIREN

to her! And then the so called “experts” start

to call these women bad names when the

interaction doesn’t go well!

They say, “Oh, she’s cold, she didn’t want to

go jump into bed.  She must have emotional

issues. She must not be a liberated woman.”

And this kind of insanity is then spread and

taught to millions of men, all of whom get

so brainwashed that they make sure to vote

with a big “Thumbs Up” on any insanity

preached- again, because they can’t tell

the difference since these guys don’t have

the experience to know the difference between

good advice and bad advice, and faithful women

and unfaithful women, and the winning lifestyle

and the losing lifestyle when it comes to getting

a faithful woman.

In the video in this article, I demonstrate a powerful

strategy and a powerful FRAME to use when going

to approach a woman that you want to turn into a

great girlfriend.

It is POWERFUL and will BLOW AWAY any

“competition” from other guys who are trained

in the typical way, by those who continue to taint

the minds of good men who just want to meet

and attract good women.

They want you to think that drunk promiscuous

women who disrespect traditional values are the

same thing as women who care about relationships,

family, and other traditional values.

And if you think THAT is powerful, just

wait till you see what is in my new book,

called THE DATING WIZARD RETURNS.

It BOLDLY GOES WHERE NO OTHER

“ATTRACT WOMEN” TEACHINGS HAVE

GONE BEFORE.

You see, every thought and emotion you have 

ends up showing.  So, if you feel nervous, if you
feel women are not as sexual as you, if you feel
women cannot be trusted, if you feel clueless,
if you feel like you can't be manly enough for
a woman, and EVERY OTHER EMOTION
>and thought that is relevant to dating, attraction,
>and "getting physical" all ends up having an
EFFECT.

It either ENHANCES the attraction or WEAKENS it.

My book will make sure you get all this stuff RIGHT 
in your own head and emotions so that you SHOW  
all the right micro-expressions, body language, and 
tonalities that ATTRACT the women you want.
    

I took it upon myself to ANSWER all the important

questions on how to meet, attract, and keep a great

woman, while still living in OUR politically correct

society, so that you don’t have to travel abroad.

I really do mean that- this book is DIFFERENT.

It pulls no punches, and gives you the

DIRECT, PRACTICAL, AND EASY-TO-USE

answers for how to go about everything in order

to get yourself an amazing and beautiful woman.

It’s at: 

http://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/book.html

To learn more about my bootcamp, go here:

http://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/bootcamp.html   

Till next time,

Michael Marks, The Dating Wizard