How To Create A Deep Connection With A Woman

I have a powerful new video for you today on

how to immediately create a deep connection

with a woman who is fantastic on all levels.   

It’s important to understand that this kind of woman

values connection far more than the kind of women

for whom promiscuity and drunken behavior sum up

their attitude regarding “getting physical”.

So when I say connect, I mean this on a much,

MUCH higher level than typically passes for

connection in the low-level connections where

some dude is making out with some drunk woman.

You may have heard me explain before how important

congruency is in other aspects of the pick-up, and here

is yet ANOTHER place where CONGRUENCY rules.

Congruency means your actions, your words,

your EVERYTHING lines up consistently,

right down to your MICRO-EXPRESSIONS.

Can some guys FAKE this?

Maybe, but faking it takes THOUSANDS of hours

of practice, and also only works in the short-term.

FAKING it is simply NOT WORTH THE EFFORT for

most guys when there is no NEED to fake it because

there are so many women around who are promiscuous

and who require virtually no connection.

And the BETTER a woman is when it comes to her

appreciation for bonding, commitment, and longevity

in relationships, the EASIER it is for her to spot a faker,

and she can do this SUBCONSCIOUSLY.

She has spent YEARS of her life simply being HER,

and she is a person who CARES about these

things, so she has had THOUSANDS of hours of

LIFE PRACTICE simply seeing and naturally observing

the behaviors of the men she has dated and spoken

with over the years.

So by this point in time, she has a very refined

INSTINCT that can detect the INCONGRUENCIES

in guys that are shady and who don’t REALLY

mean what they are saying in the connection

part of the conversation.

I have to wonder when I hear and see so-called

“pick up experts” telling guys that they can get

GREAT FAITHFUL WOMEN anytime they want,

while SIMULTANEOUSLY speaking out of the

OTHER side of their mouths saying how

AWESOME it is to sleep around with tons of

women.

Trust me, as Aristotle said:

"We are what we repeatedly do.

Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit.”

Or, as I say:

YOU ARE AS YOU THINK AND DO.

And again, do NOT underestimate the power of the

MOST TINY SUBTLETIES HERE.

This is because it is ONLY those subtleties that

DEFINE and SEPARATE those who are AUTHENTIC

from those who are not.

And the reason so many people get fooled by

so-called experts is because it can take YEARS

to DETECT the difference between someone who

knows what they are talking about and someone who

does not.

Often, the only way to tell is to become at least proficient,

if not an expert, one’s self.

But let me prove how important LITTLE differences are:

Do you think Michael Jordan was really A HUNDRED

TIMES better than average player on the court?

Or even 50 times better?

Or TEN times better?

Do you think the FASTEST man alive is really a

HUNDRED times faster than the other runners?

Or even ten times?

Or even five times?

Or even just TWICE?

In reality, he’s often just MILLISECONDS faster.

The REAL truth, is that the difference is not

NEARLY as much as you think it is.

BUT, to get even a LITTLE bit better, takes a

a WHOLE LOT.

EFFORT. FOCUS. DISCIPLINE. COMMITMENT.

The same thing happens in any successful area.

One might argue that the original Star Wars film,

(Episode 4), is no different than a hundred other

sci-fi films taking place in space, with battles,

action, and special effects.

But the truth is, there are COUNTLESS tiny subtleties

that most people aren’t consciously aware of that went

into the making of the film at every level, from the

script to the design of the every last character and

vehicle, from the music to the casting, from the effects

to the locations and the editing, and so on and so forth.

All the tiny subtleties add up to one MASSIVE but unconscious

effect experienced by the VIEWER.   

Just like all the tiny subtleties that you express in your

micro-expressions, body language, and tonality add

up to one MASSIVE but subconscious effect on a

woman.  And all these subtleties can only be generated

properly from the DEEPEST LEVELS of your emotions

and your inner game.

They are too subtle and too numerous to try to

actually do each one consciously.

It would be absurd, i.e. “So now, move your left

eye-brow up by one-thousandth of a millimetre”

and “breathe .001% slower and deeper”, etc.

This is why you must be super-careful to adopt,

regarding women, yourself, and attraction, the

RIGHT beliefs and perspectives, and to know the

full truth about women and attraction, because your

KNOWLEDGE, BELIEFS and EMOTIONS regarding
women (which are things that the current environment
of political correctness HIDES from most men) will 
automatically SHOW UP into your corresponding 
MICRO-EXPRESSIONS, body language and tonalities- 
and THESE are the BIGGEST things that matter
when it comes to ATTRACTING women.  

The WINNING in life in any area is really

about the TINY SUBTLETIES that may seem

like very LITTLE to the UNTRAINED eye, ear,

or mind, but that are OBVIOUS and MASSIVE

to anyone who KNOWS that field.

And GOOD, FAITHFUL, LOYAL women know ALL

ABOUT being good, loyal, and faithful, on a very

instinctive level; they can SNIFF IT OUT on a guy

without even being CONSCIOUS of it.

They have had their entire lives to practice.

So, the UNTRAINED person might superficially

REPEAT A FEW WORDS he heard from

a valid source on how to go about getting a

great woman or a great relationship, and then

THINK he can fool and immediately go and

get and keep any good woman he wants, after

living a life of wild abandon and not giving a damn

about things like bonding, commitment, and relationships,

but REALITY doesn’t work that way.

Our behaviors SHAPE our minds and emotions and

actions on the DEEPEST of levels.

The greatest predictor of one’s future behavior is one’s

past behavior. We are what we think and do.

And although we can always CHANGE our path,

it would be INSANE to advise one to do the OPPOSITE

of what gets the BEST results in obtaining the results

one desires.

A lifetime spent on LOW LEVEL bonding trains you to

FEEL on a low level of human bonding, to think on

a low level of human bonding, and to feel WEIRD

going into a higher level of human bonding.

And so a woman who is FAITHFUL AND LOOKING

FOR A FAITHFUL MAN will SNIFF this stuff out

in the wrong guy FAST.

His real attitudes and beliefs formed over years

and years will SHOW in subtle ways in micro-expressions

in his face.  He might make a split-second frown when he

hears about commitment, he might have this strange

look in his eyes that is only a THOUSANDTH of a second

long, but that the woman detected on the most powerful

subconscious level.

Remember, human COMMUNICATION has had

A LONG, LONG, LONG time to develop, and the

ability of humans to communicate to each other

has developed into the most complex of all the

other living creatures on the planet. 

It is the reason that humans can mate face-to-face

instead of just from behind like most animals.

This was and is not a coincidence; it is because

human communication is a MASSIVE part of 

mating, and because the FACE can communicate

TRILLIONS of bits of data to the other person

about how we feel and what we are thinking.

And, the other person SUBCONSCIOUSLY processes

all these signals we are giving off, which is why people

get “FEELINGS” about people instead of reams of raw

data that they can articulate.

This is because humans usually aren’t CONSCIOUSLY

aware of what every single tiny bit of communicated data was,

and where it came from, and which body language motion

from the other person delivered it, etc.

Do you see now how the most typical “pick-up artist”

advice in terms of lifestyle and attitude toward relationships

is the EXACT OPPOSITE of the REAL way to pick-up

a quality woman?

The very language and mentality floods your

brain with all the wrong thoughts and emotions,

which end up SHOWING CLEARLY to a woman!

They show like a BLARING RED SIREN

to her! And then the so called “experts” start

to call these women bad names when the

interaction doesn’t go well!

They say, “Oh, she’s cold, she didn’t want to

go jump into bed.  She must have emotional

issues. She must not be a liberated woman.”

And this kind of insanity is then spread and

taught to millions of men, all of whom get

so brainwashed that they make sure to vote

with a big “Thumbs Up” on any insanity

preached- again, because they can’t tell

the difference since these guys don’t have

the experience to know the difference between

good advice and bad advice, and faithful women

and unfaithful women, and the winning lifestyle

and the losing lifestyle when it comes to getting

a faithful woman.

In the video in this article, I demonstrate a powerful

strategy and a powerful FRAME to use when going

to approach a woman that you want to turn into a

great girlfriend.

It is POWERFUL and will BLOW AWAY any

“competition” from other guys who are trained

in the typical way, by those who continue to taint

the minds of good men who just want to meet

and attract good women.

They want you to think that drunk promiscuous

women who disrespect traditional values are the

same thing as women who care about relationships,

family, and other traditional values.

And if you think THAT is powerful, just

wait till you see what is in my new book,

called THE DATING WIZARD RETURNS.

It BOLDLY GOES WHERE NO OTHER

“ATTRACT WOMEN” TEACHINGS HAVE

GONE BEFORE.

You see, every thought and emotion you have 

ends up showing.  So, if you feel nervous, if you
feel women are not as sexual as you, if you feel
women cannot be trusted, if you feel clueless,
if you feel like you can't be manly enough for
a woman, and EVERY OTHER EMOTION
>and thought that is relevant to dating, attraction,
>and "getting physical" all ends up having an
EFFECT.

It either ENHANCES the attraction or WEAKENS it.

My book will make sure you get all this stuff RIGHT 
in your own head and emotions so that you SHOW  
all the right micro-expressions, body language, and 
tonalities that ATTRACT the women you want.
    

I took it upon myself to ANSWER all the important

questions on how to meet, attract, and keep a great

woman, while still living in OUR politically correct

society, so that you don’t have to travel abroad.

I really do mean that- this book is DIFFERENT.

It pulls no punches, and gives you the

DIRECT, PRACTICAL, AND EASY-TO-USE

answers for how to go about everything in order

to get yourself an amazing and beautiful woman.

It’s at: 

http://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/book.html

To learn more about my bootcamp, go here:

http://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/bootcamp.html   

Till next time,

Michael Marks, The Dating Wizard