Showing posts with label inner game. Show all posts
Showing posts with label inner game. Show all posts

Thursday, November 14, 2019

Attracting Great Women By Overcoming Your Inner Obstacles

Attracting great women does NOT take a long time, and it is NOT something that is supposed to be very difficult. So, if you are finding that it IS really hard, the good news is that this issue can be solved. What is of PARAMOUNT importance, though, is that you are willing to actually see and overcome your own inner obstacles.  


And, to get you off to the most AWESOME success right NOW, I am even making my LIVE coaching service available now for only $99 per session, instead of the $400 per session that it normally costs.

To book a consultation with me, just email me at michael@thedatingwizardreturns.com and let me know a few potential time slots that could work for you, and whether you wanted the coaching session to be via Skype or via the phone. 

I will get back to you within 24 hours to confirm a time with you, and I will email you a special link for ordering the coaching session.

ALSO, for a LIMITED TIME ONLY, until Saturday night (November 16)  at 11:59 pm Eastern Standard Time, I am making a special BUNDLE offer to get FOUR of my special audio programs for only $59 instead of the approximately $80 cost it would be to get them all separately. These programs are:

"Attraction Accelerators"
This audio program contains golden gems that come right out of my Bootcamp program designed for gaining maximum skill in picking up women.

"Acing The Approach"
This audio program is like a sequel to Attraction Accelerators and contains even more super-effective strategies for successfully approaching and attracting women anywhere you see them.  
 
"Being The Selector"
This audio program will show you how to come across to women in a way that shows her YOU are the one who does the selecting, which effectively "flips the script" on women since usually women are the ones who do the selecting. By "flipping the script" this way, you will attract women far more powerfully.
 
"Attracting The Ultra-Hotties"
Women who are super attractive have seen a lot and heard a lot when it comes to guys trying to pick them up. So it's important that what YOU do stands out from all of those other guys. This program shows you how to do exactly that.

The special link for getting these four programs together in the "bundle" offer is here:

Click Here For Special Bundle Offer Described Above 

I look forward to your success with women.

Until next time, be cool...

Michael Marks

Saturday, August 4, 2018

Secrets For Tapping Into Your "Inner Game" To Attract Women

Today, I'd like to help you tap into your
"INNER GAME", which is another word
for your internal strength of emotional
state and your ability to enter the right
states of mind at the right moment.

The truth is that inner game is the most
important part of your development, and
it's the secret that enables you to do incredible
at not only pick-up without using memorized
pick up lines, but it also helps you at every
stage of an interaction including even
relationships.


The best part of all this is that it's not a game.
It's the real you.

Women will respect this development and
be attracted to you because they simply
can't NOT be attracted to it. It's too
rare, too precious, too liberating and
empowering even just to WITNESS
somebody like this, for anyone to
be able to IGNORE it.

The irony of course though is that you
can't really do this just to get a woman,
as that in itself is kind of weak.

The FIRST thing to become aware of is
all the TRASH in your mind that is holding
you back from being as powerful as you can be.

99% of this trash is all FEAR based.

And the craziest part of all, is that 99% of these
fears are ABSURD.

We've just become so damn good at brainwashing
ourselves that these fears are IMPORTANT.


For example, when you see a woman you'd like
to talk to, and you don't approach her, it's not
because you are going to go to jail if you talk
to her.

And you don't avoid her because you think she
will attack you, or hurt you.

The biggest reason for avoidance is to avoid
having our EGO damaged.


We don't want to RISK damaging something
that doesn't even EXIST.

Our ego is our own ARTIFICIAL CREATION.

We create it, and we arbitrarily decide what's
good for it, and what's bad for it. As if we
KNOW what's good for us.

But the truth is, the BEST thing you can do
is banish that ego, because all it does is set
up limiting options for your life, because
you won't do anything that might damage
that ego. And that means you won't ever
GROW as a person, and worst of all, you
will never be free of fear.

Because you will always be living with the
fear of "what if something comes along that
might damage might ego?""

But if you throw your ego out, then you
can EMBRACE whatever the hell you need
to do to grow and learn.

This is why it's actually good to NOT get
fantastic success with women right away,
because if you never "fail", then you will
be TERRIFIED of it happening, as you
have no clue what it might be like, and
your imagination will make it far worse
than it is.


Life is nothing but a bunch of short moments.
None of these moments is something to be
afraid of, but we arbitrarily decide to create
FEARS based on our own artificial GROUPING
of moments. So for example, seeing a beautiful
woman is not a thing to fear.

It's actually pretty cool, right?
Okay, now, walking UP to a woman is also
nothing to fear, you do this all the time
without even THINKING about it, let's
say if she happens to be on the bus or
train or whatever and you are walking
past her. Or if you are in a crowd,
and you don't even notice her there.

So, clearly walking near or up to a
woman is nothing to fear.

Now, TALKING to woman who is beautiful
is nothing to fear either. We do it all the time
and think nothing of it if it's not about doing
an actual "pick-up".

It all only becomes a problem or FEAR
when we attach EGO to it. So we decide
to make it a fear when we want to get her
APPROVAL of our own worth.


We think, "Damn, if only she would LIKE
me, then things would be AWESOME!"


Then I would feel GREAT!

Now, this actually isn't true though, it's
actually YOU allowing YOURSELF to
feel that way, but you are only giving
yourself permission to feel this if SHE
says you are great, or desirable, etc.

Do you see how we are the ones making
the problem? We are the ones creating
the pain?

And the truth is, how do you explain the
stars in Hollywood who have all the
most beautiful women, and yet who are
all depressed and end up in rehab or
worse, committing suicide or destroying
themselves in other ways?

Do you think these people are somehow
DIFFERENT? They are the same like
anyone else, and the truth is that no THING
brings any emotion to anyone unless we
ALLOW it. As soon as you get the thing
you thing will bring you happiness, the
moment lasts for a brief moment, and then
it's GONE, and you start to feel a LACK
again--unless you start looking at the
JOURNEYS OF LIFE as the actual
joy and not the destination.


Sure, enjoy the destination when you are there,
but realize it's the journey that's the bigger
deal. This is why the coolest people constantly
challenge themselves with new cool things.

But we ALLOW this thing called EGO to
TAKE OVER and all it does is try to CONTROL
everything so that it doesn't get hurt- and yet
THIS is what causes us all the pain. So
it avoids challenges and avoids any potential
ego risk.

And yet here's the thing- if you can just
FORGET about what you can GET from
a woman, including even just her approval,
and you instead just live in the MOMENT,
and stop focusing on the past pain, and
stop thinking about how GOOD things
would be in the FUTURE if you "just had her",
you would do SOOOOOO much better
in the actual pick up with her!

The reason for this, is because your mind
and emotions are INFINITELY powerful
when they are not being driven in opposite
directions.


Your mind is the most UPDATED model of
a SUPER POWERFUL tool that has helped
your ancestors come up with all kinds of
brilliant ways to triumph against challenges
like hunger, horrible weather, traveling
across wild oceans, surviving life among
dangerous beasts and animals, surviving
against enemies, a mind that has been
resourceful enough to come up with
creative ways to also win friends and
allies and to attract a female mate to
continue your genes from generation
generation.

The thing is, this mind that is more
sophisticated than the greatest computer
gets all JAMMED and screwed up when
it's being given OPPOSITE messages-
i.e. GET THAT GIRL, vs. DON'T
GET YOUR EGO HURT!

It's like having your foot on the brake
and the accelerator at the same time.


So how do you get rid of all these ego-based
FEARS?

Well, one powerful thing you can do is to
learn to STOP thinking about anything other
than the MOMENT.

This doesn't mean to start acting like an
impulsive idiot, what it means is to start
focusing on the PRESENT and to stop
doing things out of the PAIN of the PAST,
and to stop doing things for some type
of FUTURE "NIRVANA".

The truth is that the past doesn't exist,
the future doesn't exist, they are only
in your MIND, and also NO "THING" will
bring you some type of 'NIRVANA',
however the JOURNEY is what is the
JOY in things. So learning to enjoy
the PROCESS is what will make
your entire LIFE meaningful and
rewarding.


So when you see a woman you like,
let THAT in itself be the motivation
to just TALK to her, stop thinking
what it will LEAD to, because that
is the FUTURE, and thinking about
things other than the present will only
DETRACT from your ability to DEAL
with the present.

And the whole POINT of this training
of your mind, is to realize anyway that
there is no such thing as the past or future,
and that the joy is in the MOMENT.

Of course, by being in the PRESENT,
you will chat with her in a way that
SHOWS you are in the PRESENT,

You will, for example, take note of the
MOMENT, and make a comment that is
IN THE PRESENT. She, in turn, will
respond by being in the moment-
for example, if you are both at the
supermarket counter line-up, and it's
taking forever for the person at the
front to find his wallet, cash, or
coupon, etc, and you say "I'm so
hungry, I think I'll eat this loaf
of bread right here and pay for
it when I get up to the front"
the woman will SENSE that you
are in the present and it will disarm
her.

She will not feel the need to resist you,
because there is nothing TO resist, you
are simply being in the PRESENT, which
is exactly where you ALL are.

And, more importantly, because you are
not worried about the past or future, your
DELIVERY of these words will show
in your voice, your body language, your
expression on your face a certain type of
strength, a certain type of humor that also
shows you are secure and that you are
not so fragile that you need to be so
serious about everything, that it will
CHARM her.


This is just a TINY SPECK of the
MASSIVE POWER that exists by tapping
into the skill of being in the PRESENT.

And let me mention one thing:
Even if this DOESN'T lead to always getting
her in BED with you, you know for SURE
that this INCREASES YOUR CHANCES
ABOUT A BILLION TIMES MORE
with women in general by adopting this
attitude than by being focused on anything
EXCEPT the present.

If you start thinking too much about the future
and past, you will come up with a BILLION
reasons NOT to take action, your ego will
start interfering with things, and you will
also sound WAY WORSE when you do
finally decide to take action, because you
will be emotionally coming from a place
of confusion and that weakness will be
conveyed in your every subtlety, from
your voice, to your mannerisms, to your
smile or lack of it.


When you can finally let GO of your
EGO and let go of anything but the
PRESENT, you will start to see a
friggen whole other UNIVERSE
open up for you, and you are going
to have more women, of higher quality
as well, than you will possibly have time
for. I mean this, every word, it's not
an exaggeration.

Your ego is like a EMOTIONAL POLLUTION
MAGNET for your mind - it stores all kinds
of emotional TRASH that does NOTHING
for you. It's a tricky sucker, because it
makes you think it's protecting you,
it makes you think it IS you, it makes
you think that you are your current
emotions or thoughts even if they are
totally destructive and negative and
weak.

And it makes you think that the REWARD
is in the destination, rather than in the
PROCESS and in the ATTITUDE.

Here's a great exercise for you:
Next time you see a woman you'd like
to chat to, see how much INSPIRATION
YOU CAN PACK INTO THE MOMENTS
YOU SPEND TALKING TO HER.


I PROMISE YOU, that there is magnificence
in every single thing that you currently think
is MUNDANE or BORING.

I don't care if you are in the line at the
supermarket, or if you are on the bus
and she is reading the newspaper,
there is something AWESOME
or FUNNY or INSPIRING or
BEAUTIFUL in it.

Don't let the brainwashed world turn YOU
into a brainwashed person who is zombie
with his most empowering and awesome
emotions turned off.

The trick is to be in the PRESENT.
The reason you find it hard to "come up"
with cool stuff to say is because you are
trying to be PERFECT, because you don't
want to fail. Trust me, I understand this,
I'm human and once in a rare while, this
happens to me too, even after training
for years. But if it happens, it's only
because I've let myself get wrapped
up in something other than the MOMENT.

So the trick is to work into your life
a way of BREAKING this habit.

For years, I used to every morning and
every night go out and pour cold water
buckets over me, and it TOTALLY got
me out of "thinking" state and into
BEING IN THE MOMENT!!!!!


The name of that moment is
"WHOAHHHHHHHHHHHH!"

You may want to try this, after consulting
with your doctor, or you can come up with
something equally state-changing.

One final message I want to say is that
PERSPECTIVE is your greatest friend.

So often, the greatest PAIN we experience
is also the ONLY thing that allows us to
truly LEARN and to GROW.

Think about it- how often did you ONLY
learn a great lesson the HARD WAY?

This is why the guys who get the greatest
success are usually the guys who had the
greatest amount of "failures"- so it starts
to make you realize that actually "failures"
are the only way to learn the MOST.

So is it really failure, if failure is the ONLY
way to great success? It's actually pretty
CRAZY that we live in a society that
calls "not getting what you want" as
"failure" when it REALLY should be
called ONE MASSIVE STEP CLOSER
TO SUCCESS.

Chances are, that if you really suffer
"failure", you are ready to LEARN
from it.

And regarding PERSPECTIVE, I want you
to start letting go of any HATE AND PAIN
that you are storing inside of you regarding
ANY woman who has EVER hurt you.

This was the hardest thing for me to do,
and once I did this, I started to TAKE
OFF.

And guess what, those people who hurt you,
very often are the ones who actually need
the love the most. So of course if you are
being abused by any woman, then you should
get the HELL out of there, but there's no
reason to let this person bring YOU down
by making you have to carry all that negativity
with you for life. And when you realize that
these people who hurt others are the ones
who are hurting the most, it's much easier
to LET GO of those negative emotions.

Again, it's the EGO and it's being in the
PAST or the FUTURE that holds us back.
All these things don't even EXIST, and
they hold us back from the only thing
that DOES exist- the PRESENT.

And if you are reading this right now, and
you would like to tap into your FULL
POTENTIAL with women, then I suggest
you download my Warrior Within
video program.


This program is truly LIGHT YEARS ahead of
any other program out there on this topic.

It will show you how to take yourself
to a whole new level internally and
how to "sweep a woman off her feet"
without ever having to use cheesy
artificial tactics. You will be attracting
her through the power of who you have
become internally.


It's at:

https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/warrior.html

Till next time,

Michael

Saturday, June 3, 2017

Climbing Out Of Darkness

One of the BIGGEST MISTAKES that I used to make
regarding the whole idea of attraction is that I
thought you were supposed to be this type of
STOIC, serious guy. Brooding.


I thought this showed that you were TOUGH.
I thought TOUGH was what it was all about.

I didn't see how you could be both TOUGH
and yet PLAYFUL.


Not only that, I was so dark and brooding that
I LIVED in a world of darkness. I dressed in all
black. I felt very CONGRUENT this way too,
especially since I was so pissed off at so many
things.


And the way my interactions were going with the
girls that I liked didn't help any, in fact that
probably made me feel more angry than
anything.


I was this decent guy, who would never cheat
on a girl, who was totally genuine and meant
every word I said, and yet the girls I really
wanted just didn't seem to feel the same
way.


They didn't seem to appreciate any of my
decency, or my serious-mindedness, even though
they kept on SAYING they wanted a serious
guy who wouldn't cheat on them, etc.


So I used to assure them over and over again
that I would NEVER cheat on them, and that
I would ALWAYS appreciate them. I used to
call a girl again and again to show her that
I did NOT take her for granted. To show her
that I was NOT the type of guy that they said
they hated.


Of course, this made the problem worse.
This just pushed the girls away even more,
and this made me even more brooding, angry
and pissed off.


It ultimately EXPLODED one day as I became
totally and completely fed up. I became blunt
with girls, doing NOTHING for them, no favours,
sick and tired of being abused and used.


I was super direct in my 'pick-up' style, basically
just approaching girls and going right into any
conversation and then telling them to give me
their contact info, which they often did.


I gave no compliments because I was sure
girls didn't deserve them. And, in a completely
calm way, (because I really didn't care about
any girl, since I felt they were pretty evil anyway,
so I had no anger, I was more EMOTIONALLY
DEVOID). I disqualified girls for the SLIGHTEST
thing that **I** didn't approve of, in fact I told
them that things wouldn't work out and I meant
it.


I would do this calmly on the way driving them
home. So if a girl pulled out a cigarette for
example, earlier in the evening, she found out
later on the ride home from me, that in my
opinion things wouldn't work out, I often didn't
even explain why, because I didn't care enough
to even let these girls know, since I figured
they were too insensitive to appreciate the
reason anyway.


The key to remember is that I said this super
perfectly calmly, which is something that 99
percent of guys don't do, they get emotionally
involved, which actually BOOSTS THE
GIRLS' EGO, since she feels she got the
guy to REACT to her.


Usually, these girls, who by the way happened
to be INSANELY HOT, then started to CHASE me,
asking me to call them and not to judge them
based on one night. They kept telling me to
call them. To give them a chance.


Which was ironic, because when I was always
doing the chasing, and doing all the work in the
world to make these girls happy and feel good,
they wouldn't give me the time of day.


But in the 'then' new version of myself, I called
girls only when I happened to feel like it, and
didn't call them when I didn't feel like it. I
promised girls nothing, and had more girls
than I could count, so I really didn't mind
much if some of them didn't like the way
I rolled.


So what was the problem?
There were a few problems:

ONE.
These relationships lasted for a VERY SHORT
time.


Most girls are compelled and intrigued and
attracted to a guy who really is THE MAN in
the sense that he is emotionally strong,
doesn't need anything from anybody,
certainly not from a woman. They are
also attracted to the dominance shown
by a guy who leads the show.


However, they also hope to have SOME
connection to the guy. The way I was
behaving made any long-term relationship
impossible.


TWO.
When trying to actually PICK UP girls in
'HAPPY' environments like clubs, (where
TONS of girls hang out) my behaviour wasn't
helping very much. It's just like trying to mix
oil and water, they don't mix.


I hated the music, I hated the whole happy
thing actually. Hated it. Thought it was
'weak'.


So this style was not useful in clubs or lounges.
And there are TONS of girls in these places.

THREE.
 

In general, this whole attitude I had was not
making ME very happy. My attitude was that
chicks were 'evil', and they had to be shown
'who's boss'.


Which is kind of depressing if you really
believe it, which I kinda did at the time.
 

Not a great paradigm or formula for
happiness, on your own, or with women.

All this changed SLOWLY, as I evolved to
gain a far greater and more comprehensive
understanding of attraction.


It took YEARS for me to CLIMB OUT OF
THE DARKNESS.




 









I grew to understand that attraction has
NOTHING to do with being a jerk. It has
to do with making a girl feel you are
SUPERIOR to her, and yet it also has to
do with making her feel that you in fact
really DO LIKE her, for she has something
special about her.
 

Superior does NOT mean abusive
at ALL.


It's just a FACT that people are attracted
to that which they feel is SUPERIOR.
 

So says ME.

I also grew to understand that YOUR STATE
OF MIND is the GREATEST POWER ON
EARTH you can possibly EVER have with
women.


This state of mind is a combination of BEING
IN AN AWESOME MOOD, of KNOWING
that you are DESIRABLE, and of feeling
SEXUAL as well as of feeling DOMINANT.

When you are operating in THIS DIMENSION,
then you are in a WHOLE NEW BALL GAME.
 

Seriously, no goddamn exaggerations, it's a
WHOLE - NEW - BALLGAME.


Suddenly, you no longer have to 'run game'
on women. YOU are all the game you need.
YOU have BECOME what attraction IS.


And your attitude toward women changes
as well. The reason this happens is because
you are not only getting results, but you
also finally 'get' that attraction is not about
being MEAN.


Ultimately, it's about making women feel
GREAT, which happens because YOU feel
great (which is VERY different than the
stereotypical 'nice guy' who actually feels
very down and inferior). You are able to
make women feel great because you
KNOW IN YOUR GUT that you are
THE guy who will make her feel GREAT.

But the thing is, WHAT IF YOU ARE FEELING
LIKE TOTAL CRAP???????


If state of mind is SO CRITICAL for
success in your interactions with women,
then what the hell should a guy do if he is
feeling like total crap???


Should he stay home and say affirmations
to himself?
 

Should he tell a girl that he is feeling crappy,
that he is having an 'off day'?

NO!

The answer is that he should IMMEDIATELY
GO OUT FROM THE HOUSE AND GO INTERACT
WITH WOMEN AS BEST HE CAN.


Yup. 
THIS is what he should do.

Otherwise, he will just go DEEPER into his
negativity, and by focusing on it, he will only
make it WORSE.


And NEVER, EVER EVER give in to the negative
emotions. WEATHER THE STORM with everything
you've got.


For example if some EX-GIRLFRIEND who
treated a guy like crap is making a guy feel
bad, then the BEST thing he can do is GO OUT
AND INTERACT WITH WOMEN!!!


And even if he feels like crap while he is
doing this, he is doing the BEST AND MOST
EFFICIENT THING for his success and for his
state of mind to change.


The reason for this is because interacting with
women requires ALL OF YOUR SENSES TO
BE ENGAGED.


Your sense of timing, your sense of humor,
your visual senses, your alertness and dominance,
your tone of voice and vocal abilities.


YOUR FOCUS IS THUS PUT IN THE RIGHT PLACE:
YOUR INTERACTIONS WITH WOMEN, rather than
some negative PAST event or even some negative
current emotion.


As a brilliant friend I know explains, don't REPRESS
the thoughts, but don't FOCUS on them either!

THERE IS NO INSTANT PERFECTION.

But there is the QUICKEST route to GETTING
to that powerful state of mind-- a state
of mind that is the combination of several
specific emotions.


And that's through DOING IT, through DOING
pick up, and through interacting with women.


And of course, not only are you concentrating
your focus away from the negative LIES in
your brain, but chances are that you will also
get POSITIVE feedback from women if you
take advantage of the things that I teach,
which will VALIDATE your sense of self-esteem
and self-worth.


This will BLOW TO BITS the feelings
of insecurity that were causing you the
negative feelings in the first place!!!


And of course, you should ALSO be immersing
your life with POSITIVE sources of energy and
you must CUT OFF the negative sources of energy,
you must Do EVERYTHING in your power to avoid
negative people and negative sources.


Your mind should be fed a diet of EMPOWERING
input, i.e. music that is 'THE MAN' approved.

Blow the wuss music the hell out of the water. 

For now, you can't take chances.


Also, remember that chances are if any woman
ever did something CRUEL to you, (this is different
than simply not being attracted), chances are
INSANELY HIGH that she did this to you because
SHE FELT INSECURE. She felt horrible, so
she wanted YOU to feel horrible. It was her
CONTRIVED PLAN to make you feel like
crap.

It was CONTRIVED, it's not what you are
REALLY worth, it's what she WANTED YOU
to THINK you are worth.


Insecurity is the cause of all hell and bad
personalities. Yes it's true. It's the cause
of both behaviour that is FAKELY NICE
and also behaviour that is MEAN.
 

Both of which are "anti-attractants".

Notice how both FAKE NICE, i.e. a guy
that kisses a woman's ass because he
feels inferior, is not 'nice', it's just a feeling
of inferiority, and notice also how being
MEAN is ALSO a reflection of someone
feeling inferior inside and thus feeling
the NEED to put down others so that
they will (in his mind) accept him or
her as superior or at least worthy.


Either way, BOTH are not the ways to achieve
optimum attraction.


If you want to gain the GREATEST POWERS
of attraction with women, you MUST learn
to achieve a very specific state of mind that
is the product of a unique COMBINATION
of several emotions.


And if you want to learn exactly HOW to
ACHIEVE this state of mind, it's up to
YOU to take action. I can think of no finer
way for you to do this than by IMMEDIATELY
downloading my eBook-
The Dating Wizard Returns, at:

https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/book.html

Inside, you'll learn:
-How to trigger attraction in ANY WOMAN instantly.
-How to approach women and create 'instant dates.'
-How to get physical.
-How to handle tests.
-How to create a powerful sense of connection.
-And much, much more.


Download it all at:

https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/book.html

And if you would like to get the MASSIVE POWER
of PERSONAL ONE-ON-ONE COACHING

with me, where I will focus exclusively
on you, on taking you past any sticking
points so that you can achieve your
goals as fast as possible, you can now
arrange this by going to:


https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/consultations.html

And if you are ready for the IMMERSION EXPERIENCE,
where you will be pushed to your limits and then
taken WAY BEYOND what you thought was ever
possible, it's time for you to sign up for my
EXCLUSIVE ONE-TO-ONE BOOTCAMP.


These bootcamps are sold out for
several weeks, so if you are interested
in signing up for this summer, let me
know asap.


Get all the details at:

https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/bootcamp.html

My eBook and my services truly form
the DNA of attraction, and I look forward
to hearing your success stories!


Till next time,

Michael W. Marks

Tuesday, March 28, 2017

Inner Game And Being A Man With Women

There are two crucial aspects of attracting women that go hand-in-hand, and are PARTICULARLY important these days when it comes to attracting women. These two things are your "inner game" and being more of a MAN with women.


When you combine the power that an attractive woman has over men, with the added power that feminism gives women in the sense of STRIPPING men of their own power and draining men of their confidence when it comes to women, the result is that most men are turned into MINCED MEAT in their efforts to attract women.

Then on top of that, you also have this major issue of men behaving in IMMATURE ways today. As much as I love movies, video games, and comic books, these things cannot be the over-riding traits that describe a man, if he wants to attract women. And whether we like it or not, immaturity harms a man much more than it harms a woman.  A woman will exude infinite sexual power simply by looking attractive, but the same is not true with men. 

Women, especially young women, don't want BOYS.  They want MEN.  And they want men who BEHAVE like men. This includes a general tendency to not complain much, to handle their own world, to be in control of their reality, and to be able to even handle an attractive woman who may have just a bit of an attitude and who actually finds it ATTRACTIVE when a man can make sure she does NOT walk all over him.

On a fundamental level, in a world where an attractive woman can get ANY MAN by snapping her fingers, and where these women have SEEN EVERY LAME-ASS PICK-UP TACTIC from men THOUSANDS AND THOUSANDS OF TIMES, one of the BIGGEST mental steps you have to take internally is being willing to WALK AWAY from a GORGEOUS woman. You have to be really willing to "cash that cheque" mentally, in order to BEHAVE in the right ways with women at all times.

Also, when it comes to pick up, many men fail because they use GOOFY humor, which is a sign of lack of confidence. Why is this? It's because goofy humor says outright that it is goofy, so it's like an excuse you are giving for not being GENUINELY funny--and using excuses for yourself is a form of QUALIFYING yourself. Plus, goofy humor is  often when you're laughing at your own incompetence, which LOWERS YOUR VALUE even further.

Women want men who exude POWER, who aren't so afraid of failure they are already starting with excuses before they even start the actual pick-up!  

In my programs, you will learn how to truly become the MAN that women DREAM about. I will GET YOU THE RESULTS you want with women, and if you take my bootcamp now and aren't happy with your results, I'll pay you a THOUSAND BUCKS! THAT'S how sure I am of your results if you train with me.

BOOTCAMP is at:

https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/bootcamp.html

And my catalog, crammed with GOLDEN programs on skyrocketing your success with women, is at:

https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/catalog.html

Till next time, 

Michael Marks   

Tuesday, February 14, 2017

Special Extension: 24 HOURS Left For My Special Valentine's Day Offer!

This is one of those situations that really
made me say, "Yes, I understand".


As you know, the special Valentine's Day
offer was originally set to expire at
11:59 pm tonight.  This is an offer
to get all my digital programs for
SKYROCKETING your success with women,
bundled into one package, for over
ONE HUNDRED DOLLARS OFF the normal
cost of buying them all separately.

However, I received an email notifying
me of the timing-which is that many
people get paid on the 15th of each
month, including federal employees,
and it would make it easier for them
if the deadline for ordering was
extended to 11:59 pm of the FIFTEENTH,
instead of the FOURTEENTH.


So that is EXACTLY what I am doing.


This rare and important offer has
been extended for approximately
24 HOURS.


And the place to GET it all is:
 

CLICK HERE For The Link To This Amazing Offer!









 





Remember, these programs are PURE GOLD
when it comes to EVERY skill and EVERY
aspect of attracting AMAZING women.

Till next time,

Michael Marks

Saturday, February 4, 2017

The ZERO BULLSHIT Truth On Attracting Women (ZERO Political Correctness)

I have released my MOST
POWERFUL, IMPORTANT video
on attracting women EVER.


Only listen to this if you want
ZERO BULLSHIT and zero political
correctness on attracting women.

Attracting women is about radiating
POWER, and this is then CEMENTED by
also showing warmth, and creating
a powerful connection.



It's time to STOP "being a victim"
and to STOP giving yourself EXCUSES,
and to STOP listening to BULLSHIT
advice from 99% of "gurus" and
"pick up artists" or PUAs, and to
stop doing hocus-pocus nonsense
like yelling and jumping up and
down on chairs! Inner game isn't
a gimmick, it must be the most
SOLID commitment to CHANGE.


Make that change NOW.

Sign up for BOOTCAMP at:


https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/bootcamp.html

Download my DIGITAL PROGRAMS at:

https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/catalog.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

Thursday, October 13, 2016

Should You Let A Woman Know You Are Trying To Pick Her Up? The FULL ANSWER.

I have so much I want to tell you about
attracting women, that I feel my HEAD
is going to EXPLODE if I don't SHARE
it with you.


By the way, as well, if you happen to
live in Toronto, I will be holding
MINI-SEMINARS on pick-up and attraction,
on SELECT WEEKENDS.

And they will be FREE.

Email me for further details ( michael@thedatingwizardreturns.com

And in this newsletter, I PROMISE you,
I am going to share something of
ABSOLUTELY ESSENTIAL IMPORTANCE TO
YOUR SUCCESS IN ATTRACTING WOMEN
FOR REAL.

I just need to say a few things first.

I am constantly learning NEW THINGS that
really BLOW my mind regarding attracting
women-things that NO ONE ELSE talks about,
simply because they DON'T KNOW.

These are things that I discover by
actually BEING OUT THERE both on my
own and with students doing ONE THING-
attracting women from SCRATCH, without
knowing them AT ALL beforehand.

The first thing I want to tell you is that
ACCEPTED WISDOM on almost EVERYTHING that
is IMPORTANT is usually WRONG.


This INCLUDES how to attract women.
And it includes the most COMMERCIAL
dating coaches as well.

This is NOT me just saying something
to toot my own horn about how I do
things.

IT IS THE TRUTH.

And the REASON why most of the "accepted
wisdom" on things is wrong is because
it only became "accepted" in RECENT
DECADES, where MASS MARKETING, MASS
CORRUPTION, MASS LIES, MASS COMMERCIALISM,
AND MASS INCOMPETENCE has become ACCEPTED
by the MAINSTREAM.


Whether it's politics, health, fitness,
finance, education, the REAL "accepted
wisdom" which lasted for THOUSANDS OF YEARS,
and WORKED for THOUSANDS OF YEARS, has been
WIPED OUT of the mass-consciousness in recent
decades until we got to the CURRENT POINT in
HISTORY where most people actually think that
they are FURTHER AHEAD than those in the
past, but they are actually FAR BEHIND them.

And let me tell you something-IT ALL BOILS
DOWN TO MONEY AND THE POWER OF MASS MARKETING,
as well as the EMOTIONAL DUMBING DOWN OF
MOST PEOPLE.

Notice I said EMOTIONAL DUMBING DOWN.
Because you can have a PH.D and STILL
be an emotional WEAKLING WHO CAN BE
MANIPULATED LIKE A PUPPET.

It is only NOW in OUR time, that SO MANY
PEOPLE CAN BE BRAINWASHED AT ONE TIME,
through screwed up messages that BOMBARD
us on TV, on the INTERNET, and every
other media as well.


But I will focus THIS here on ATTRACTING
WOMEN.

The BEST WAY TO SELL SOMETHING is NOT
by being ETHICAL.

It's by MANIPULATING PEOPLE.

So that means FAKE VIDEOS of how to pick-up women.
Videos that are FLASHY and OUTRAGEOUS.
It means PUSHING PEOPLE'S BUTTONS to get them
to NOT be logical.

And in order to make the FAKE VIDEOS seem
REAL, they also put in some AUTHENTIC and less
flashy ones as well to make the whole thing seem
more realistic.

This is why I have never released any such
videos-it is because I know that my REAL
videos will then be the reason that others
make FAKE videos that seem more flashy and
"cool" and "impressive", as if attracting
women is supposed to look like an episode
of GIRLS GONE WILD instead of a NORMAL MAN
TO WOMAN interaction.

So I don't want to be a part of that, or
feed into that, or encourage that.

I know that as a result, I will never
sell as many copies of my material
or as many programs or bootcamps as
they will.

Or at least, not as quickly.
I've made peace with that.

Everywhere you look, you get LIES and
DISTORTIONS about attracting women, so
let me tell you some CRUCIAL THINGS
for attraction that NO ONE ELSE TELLS YOU.

NUMBER ONE:
'BAD BOYS' REALLY JUST MEANS POWER


Many years ago, I used to do STUPID things
in order to attract women because I heard
they were attracted to BAD BOYS.

Well, the parts of being a BAD BOY
that are attractive are the parts of
exuding POWER and SEXUALITY. 

POWER IS THE SINGLE GREATEST APHRODISIAC
FOR WOMEN.


And BAD BOYS have ONE thing going for them:
THEY TEND TO DO WHAT THEY WANT AND NOT
CARE MUCH ABOUT WHAT PEOPLE THINK.

This is a certain type of POWER.
Especially in a society that tends to
tell you that you are EVIL for even
HAVING THOUGHTS OF WOMEN AS SEXUAL
CREATURES.


BUT the problem is that bad boys also
have something going HORRIBLY WRONG
AGAINST THEM--the FACT they don't
care what people think ALSO ultimately
causes them to LOSE the very women they
ATTRACTED.

NOT GIVING A DAMN ABOUT WHAT WOMEN THINK
AT ALL IS ACTUALLY NOT GOOD ADVICE.

It ultimately DESTROYS connection, rapport,
and trust.

Those things ARE AN ABSOLUTE MUST FOR
SUCCESS WITH WOMEN.

Also, BAD BOYS eventually tend to LOSE
things that HELP with power-things like
losing their freedom, losing their money,
losing their alliances/friendships, etc.

And you don't have to get a criminal record
or be a 'bad boy' to become FREE and to
STOP REPRESSING your fun, confident personality.

REPRESSION of your fun, confident personality
comes from FEAR of what others might DO
or FEEL when you DO attempt to interact
with them.


The ULTIMATE man is IMMUNE to the
NEGATIVE reactions of others, including
women, while ALSO still finding ENHANCED
happiness when he DOES get positive reactions
from others, especially women.

Trust me, BAD BOYS are NOTHING compared
to GOOD MEN WITHOUT REPRESSION AND FEAR.

NUMBER TWO:
DON'T BRING ATTENTION TO THE FACT YOU
ARE PICKING A WOMAN UP.


CONFIDENCE IN PICKING-UP WOMEN DOES
NOT MEAN BRINGING ATTENTION TO THE
PICK UP ITSELF!

This is DEFINITELY one of the BIGGEST things
that is MISUNDERSTOOD by men, including many
men who claim to be pick-up artists!

The confusion comes from the following thinking:

"If I am a man without fear, then there should
be nothing stopping me from telling a woman that
I wanted to pick-her up, or that I practice pick-up,
and there should be nothing wrong if she SEES me
scoping her out, or if I give off SIGNS of showing
that I have REHEARSED this pick-up on other women".


But what you MUST understand is that we are
living in VERY DIFFERENT TIMES these days,
where women are BOMBARDED from BIRTH with
contradictory messages about men.


On one hand, they STILL want the KNIGHT in
shining armor. They still see the COWBOY
and feel NATURAL ATTRACTION.

But on the OTHER hand, they are BOMBARDED
by messages about SEXUAL HARASSMENT, about
how men just want one thing, about how
women must take over and 'show men who's
the boss' (as if most men want to boss
women around instead of date them, have
sex with them, love them, or just talk
to them!) etc.

So BECAUSE of this reality, a reality
where EVERY ASPECT OF POP CULTURE is
now INFILTRATED by feminism, to the point
that even STAR WARS is no longer about
MEN, but where the HEROES are now all
WOMEN!  It's almost as if there is
A CULTURAL WAR against ANYTHING that
was DESIGNED for BOYS or for MEN!

So BECAUSE OF THE MASSIVE FEMINIST SLANT
in our culture, you simply MUST avoid the
things that CONSCIOUSLY tell a woman to
RUN AWAY.

Now, SUBCONSCIOUSLY, on her BIOLOGICAL
LEVEL and on her EMOTIONAL HARD-WIRING,
she DOES like the fact you are talking
to her, and she DOES understand why
a man WOULD want to learn the skill of
how to attract women, and she even
WANTS you to HAVE this skill.

You just have to make sure you don't
tell her this message with a DIRECT
MESSAGE that goes straight to her
CONSCIOUS mind.

This means that you don't SAY anything about
the fact you ARE picking her up.

You don't even SUGGEST it.

You just instead make the pick-up go
SO SMOOTHLY that she feels it all just
MAKES SENSE, because it was a natural
attraction for both of you-so it just
HAPPENED TO BE RIGHT, as opposed to you
PRACTICING THIS AS A SKILL---because in
her CONSCIOUS MIND, if you MENTION THAT
YOU PRACTICE THIS AS A SKILL, you
IMMEDIATELY bring up her FEMINIST
BRAINWASHED REFLEXES.

And so even if on a DEEPER LEVEL she
LIKES YOU, she CAN'T proceed, so she
WILL DO WHAT HER FEMINIST TRAINED
REFLEXES HAVE CONDITIONED HER TO DO-
which is to REJECT you--EVEN IF SHE
IS ATTRACTED, AND SINGLE, AND EVERYTHING
IS PERFECT OTHERWISE.

So you NEVER talk about the fact you
do or are doing PICK-UP to a woman.


In fact, it's better you don't talk to
ANYONE about it, unless you KNOW they
are into it as well.

This is because there is so much
pressure in our society AGAINST
men, that MOST MEN have GIVEN IN
and they are SO SCARED OF BEING
SOCIALLY OSTRACIZED that they would
rather NEVER ATTRACT A WOMAN FOR REAL
and simply go around acting in ways
that society ACCEPTS but that NEVER
ATTRACT WOMEN and in fact REPEL WOMEN.

You ever see these guys?
They will CONDEMN any man who seems
TOO SEXUALLY COMFORTABLE AROUND WOMEN
and who ENJOYS the sight of women instead
of feeling ENSLAVED and GUILTY in front
of women.

These politically correct guys get the
APPLAUSE of women, but never get the
actual ATTRACTION of women.


And of course, when these women end up
with OTHER guys, the politically correct
guys end up feeling BAD for women, saying
how sad it is that women end up with these
guys who are 'bad boys'--and of course to
them ANY GUY who is not like THEM is
suddenly a BAD BOY!

They feel BAD for these women who are
having the TIME OF THEIR LIVES with
these OTHER guys!!!!

This is how far the brainwashing goes.

I hope you are starting to see at least a
GLIMPSE of how thing REALLY WORK when it
comes to attracting women.

And I have some even BETTER NEWS for you.

LEARNING HOW TO ATTRACT WOMEN CAN
ACTUALLY BE DONE MUCH FASTER THAN
YOU PROBABLY EVER THOUGHT.


It all depends on WHO is teaching you.

Let me tell you something about LEARNING.
I have spent TWENTY FIVE YEARS in the
field of EXPERIMENTAL EDUCATION, including
EXPERIENTIAL EDUCATION, which means learning
from EXPERIENCE, such as the EXPERIENCE
of BOOTCAMP which is a PRACTICAL experience
instead of just learning in a classroom.

So although I had to spend several years
learning the "accepted wisdom", I also
had the amazing opportunity to CHALLENGE
conventional wisdom when it comes to
learning ANY SKILL, and I had the chance
to EXPERIMENT.

And what I learned over the years is that
YOUR ABILITY TO LEARN IS MIND-BLOWING!!!!

And it's not all about how much TIME you
spend learning-it's about the QUALITY as well.


For example, do you know which country has
students that are doing the BEST in grades
1-9?


It's FINLAND.

And guess what?
These students who are ranked the BEST in the
WORLD when it comes to things like math,
writing, computer science, etc--THEY GET
VIRTUALLY NO HOMEWORK, and spend LESS TIME
in school t
han MOST other students in
the world, including in the USA.

AND the government actually spends LESS
money on them per student than for example
the US government spends on each student!

Does that not FLY in the FACE of ACCEPTED
WISDOM???


How many times have you heard that HOMEWORK
IS THE ONLY WAY TO EXCELLENCE?

It all depends on WHAT IS HAPPENING DURING
THE TIME THE STUDENT IS ACTUALLY IN SCHOOL.

And by the way, Finland didn't ALWAYS
used to be the best.  They used to be
pretty MEDIOCRE when it came to
education, but they decided to actually
SOLVE the problem instead of just
using more of the "conventional wisdom".

In the same way, in bootcamp with me, you are
benefiting from someone who has spent YEARS
experimenting and tweaking the LEARNING process
so that, if you just bring me your MOTIVATION,
I can TURBOCHARGE THE SPEED AT WHICH YOU LEARN
TO SUCCESSFULLY PICK UP WOMEN.


And these are women who are SOBER, not DRUNK
and not promiscuous.

Students who come to me range from total beginners
to men who are already amazing with women but want
to be even BETTER and have the ability to attract
women in EVERY possible situation.

And they learn FAST.
I'm talking going from being TERRIFIED of
approaching women to being able to actually
get women MELTING before them.

The bottom line TRUTH is that I am the
absolute BEST in this field.

I'm a bit like FINLAND, though.
Rather than spend my ENERGY and FOCUS on
MASS CORRUPTION MARKETING AND MANIPULATION,
I just quietly focus on how to actually GET RESULTS.


The other guys out there, well they focus on
HOW TO SELL STUFF. Which means screwing with
guy's heads and screwing them up with HALF-TRUTHS
and HALF-LIES instead of HELPING GUYS GET GOOD WOMEN.

I'm also the ORIGINAL when it comes to
NATURAL PICK UP, without using pick-up
lines or psychologically harmful tactics.

Plus, I'm the guy who focuses on how to attract
quality women who are sober, loyal, and who
are not promiscuous.


If you want to attract an amazing woman,
or if you just want to get the skills to
be able to attract women in general so
that you have OPTIONS with women, join
the intelligent men from all over the
globe who have taken my bootcamp.

It will be one of the GREATEST decisions
you have made your ENTIRE life, one that
will pay you back dividends forever not
only with the women you get, but also
in terms of the EMOTIONAL energy you
save, and the TIME you save, and the
money you save by actually attracting
women immediately instead of spending
money on them or spending money on
trying to impress them.

And the INCREASED confidence you get
from this will spill over into EVERY
aspect of your life.

BOOTCAMP is at:

https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/bootcamp.html

Before coming to bootcamp, I HIGHLY RECOMMEND
that you study as much of my materials as
possible, because the more you know when
you arrive, the less time I need to spend
with you on theory and the more time I
can spend with you on the actual pick-ups.

Each ONE of these programs is DIFFERENT,
and contains UNIQUE and URGENT strategies
as well as insights into pick-up, attraction,
and "inner-game" that you won't find in any
of my other programs.


Download ALL of my PROGRAMS for attracting women at:

https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/catalog.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

Sunday, September 25, 2016

Pulling Women Into YOUR Reality

The most important thing for attracting women
is creating something known as the VIBE.

This means stimulating their EMOTIONS in 
a relaxed, positive way that includes getting 
them to experience feeling turned on, feeling 
excited, feeling laughter, feeling just the right 
degree of safety, feeling intrigued, feeling 
adventurous, and many other emotions.

This causes a woman to STOP everything else

she is doing and be obsessed with just ONE
thing: YOU.
















 


You don't need to stimulate all these emotions
at once, although many of them can combine
at once to create an even more powerful effect.

Notice that just the plain "feeling aroused"
is not it alone, and this is because for women
emotions tend spill into each other and create
new experiences that are even more meaningful.

A student of mine explains EXACTLY how he used
what he learned from me both in my book and in
my bootcamp to successfully pick-up and attract
women this way.


His letter is MASSIVELY helpful for ANY guy
who wants to know how EASY it can be to
attract the most incredible women on Earth!

The entire message is tremendously informative,
and I have highlighted sections that I think are
of PARAMOUNT significance:

LETTER FROM A READER/BOOTCAMP STUDENT

Hey Michael,

Just had to write in to you, to tell you how
you have transformed my life with women.

I still can’t believe that a few short weeks ago,
I was living in despair, misery, and loneliness after finding
out that the girl I have had a crush on for years
is now “seriously” dating some new guy.

She works at the same company I do, she is
beautiful. She’s a petite dyed blonde, the most
feminine giggle you have ever heard, the most
sweet voice on the face of this earth, and the
drop-dead curves on her in every place a man
could ask for.

And she’s a great personality, too. Completely
down-to-earth; not stuck up at all.


We have been friends for three years- or should I
say I have been her “girlfriend” as I was the
one she would come to for support as she
would come crying revealing her bad dates
and relationship issues to me.


All that time, I thought she would eventually see
what was right in front of her, a guy that was caring
and devoted to her best interests, always.

And somehow, she just bypassed me and went
from one bad boyfriend to some totally new guy.

That’s when I discovered you and your new book
online. I devoured it in one sitting, and at first it
was too much for me to accept, it had my entire
vision of women and reality upside down, and
yet it confirmed what I had suspected on some
gut level for so many years.

So I read it again, and again. And again.
Four times I read your book, Michael, and
each time it hit me like a locomotive.

I started to realize how I had been screwing up
every single opportunity I ever had with women,   
including this one that I had my heart set on.

Constantly trying to appeal to women by doing everything
except what really counts- getting their emotions pumping!

All those years, I was still trying to appeal to women
based on a male perspective of things, so I would
try to improve my looks by being in the gym, and
try to make more money, and also try to provide
logical reasons for her to be with me, like being
supportive, giving her good advice in life, etc.


Your book truly blew open my mind to how
off-track I was in terms of creating attraction,
and your tips on creating the sexual vibe
and on just how far we can go with this
when interacting with women got my mind
racing and excited to try them out on real
women!

So I started following the tips you gave for changing
my internal emotional baseline, so that I am truly
exuding the right combination of “vibes”.


And I started doing this while also “pushing the envelope"
in my interactions with women I would see anywhere, and
it was as if I had suddenly been shifted to an alternate reality,
where instead of getting pissed off and slapping me
across the face, women were melting and flirting back
with me! 


One gorgeous waitress I had only flirted with, wrote her
number along with a borderline explicit dirty message,
on the receipt, which I had almost thrown out when
I got home because I didn’t even know she had done
that!

Well, before this point, I had wasted enough years
doing things the way I thought they were supposed
to work, and I wasn’t going to waste one more second
of my life being less than I could be with women, so I
signed up for your bootcamp that same night- I knew your stuff
would work, and I wanted to get to my full potential
with women as absolutely fast as possible.

I believe you only live once, and so every second counts.
Why wait years to have the greatest level of ecstasy with
women when I could have it now?


For your readers, I’d like to impart the moment of bootcamp
that left the most permanent effect on me that I will take with
me for the rest of my life.


We were walking along the sidewalk downtown,
you and I, discussing some of the finer details
regarding creating the all-important “vibe” that
swallows women up into your reality and makes
them never want to leave- when the most heavenly
creature entered my reality.

She had just stepped out of a taxi, and was walking up
ahead of us, a pony-tailed brunette, about 5 foot 6, clad
in baby-blue short-sleeves and a tasteful white skirt that
showed off her lightly tanned, shapely, womanly legs,
in strapped black heels that accentuated her feminine
calves.


Just the sight of her instantly shot my pulse into orbit.

I took your subtle nod as my cue to go into action, and
I knew, in a humorous way, you would never forgive me
for not taking action!

So I stepped up my stride and quickly caught up
to her, when I realized she was even more beautiful
than she looked from afar. About 26 or 27, angelic face, 

a bit like Mila Kunis, her arms and legs were toned-she
had clearly spent time in the gym. 


And curves that made it difficult for me to even think! 

She was truly "poetry in motion". 


And here is the part your readers need to understand:
What I said next came with unbridled passion, sincerity,
and joy for life. I truly felt more alive in the presence of
this woman than I had felt in my entire life. 

Also, rather than interpreting my exploding heartbeat
in a way that would cause me to give into fear, I took
what you said and interpreted it as a sign my body was
giving me everything it had to be my best and give me
as much energy, resourcefulness, and ingenuity as
required to succeed.


I told her what was on my mind:

“You have to stop”.
And I slowed down to a stop.

At first, she didn’t know what was going on.
So I repeated myself.
“You have to stop’”

She looked at me curiously as she slowed down
and then stopped walking!

Step one accomplished. I had this woman now
stopped and giving me opportunity.

Your readers should also realize the power of this,
because by getting her to stop, and not chasing her,
it sends off a message of your own power and your
own internal state of mind. It shows just how mch
you know that you are worth every bit of her time.

So naturally, this makes a woman feel better
about the interaction than stopping for some guy
who himself feels unworthy of her.

 

I continued:

“You are a woman who makes a man feel like
a man; and there is no way on Earth I am going to
let you slip through my fingers without the greatest
battle and effort of all time, anywhere, everywhere”.


Now, I admit, that some of this came from my conversations
with you, but it was not conscious, it was subconsciously
“stealing” from my conversations with you where you had
taught me earlier. 

But as you said, the key was my state of mind as I delivered
the message, as she would pick up subconsciously on
my full intent and meaning regardless of the words if
the feeling was truly there in my gut.

Her expression went from curious and concerned to
lit up with a really warm smile! She understood fully.

I also knew from you how important it was to continue
the interaction because it’s not enough to break the
ice; otherwise these women would be going out with
every guy!

So I started to work on building the foundation.
I took in the cues, including her toned muscles,
and accomplished humor and connection at once:

“Whoa! (pointing to her biceps) Are you a bodyguard?!
I could use a bodyguard! Too many women are always
after my body and I need protection! Especially from
a woman who could appreciate my mind and not treat
me like meat!”


To this, she started laughing, and looked me
straight in the eyes:


“Is that such a problem? What’s wrong with that?”

“It’s a huge problem! What if I want to make a living
Using my mind? No one will take me seriously!”


She laughed even harder! She totally got it!

Michael, as you taught me, turning around the entire
third-wave feminism thing on its head is so powerful!
It’s powerful because women really are as sexual as
men, and because especially attractive women are
so confident that they need to meet men who are
also as confident and who aren’t going to fall for the
“helpless female victim” perception of all women that
so many men have.


These women are so confident, they absolutely want
men who can have fun with them, and play and push
the envelope, and who understand that women are
even more sexual than men!

By playing up the angle of me being the one trying to
push women away, there was just the right amount of
challenge for her, combined with the natural chemistry
of man and woman, plus of course there was my sincere
compliments by sheer virtue of the fact I had opened
her in such a direct way about her feminine beauty
and how it made me feel more alive than ever.

Women really do want the pick up to be done in a way that
is not vulgar, that shows class, that shows personality.
Which makes so much sense as it just feels so much
better this way for everyone involved!

And yes, part of what I said again came from things
you taught me, but I wasn’t trying to repeat lines or
routines, I was just naturally drawing on the themes
and principles about women you had taught me.

And I’m sure in a very short time I will be creating
completely new ideas on the fly spontaneously
based on the truth and concepts you taught me.

At this point in the conversation, I had given her
the most sincere compliments and delivered it with
feeling, with passion, and with confidence, and we
both felt so good, that it was easy to start getting
to know each other.

I also used other things you had taught me.
Before meeting you in bootcamp, I might have said
something like “Are you a personal trainer?” because
of her toned body.


But you taught me to avoid the obvious for many
reasons. First of all, the obvious tends to get overplayed,
which means a million guys probably say the same thing
and therefore there is less of an emotional HIT from that
kind of comment.

Secondly, the so-called obvious is often not true.


So what I did was, I actually said that I bet most guys
think she is a personal trainer, but that I knew she was
probably something else, and I made a joke like she is
bent on taking over the world.

She giggled and told me she was actually a nurse,
and on her way to the gym, because she works the
night shift!

I then couldn’t resist the opportunity for more fun!
I told her that we could play doctor and patient later,
to which she again started laughing, and then I got
even more emotions pumping by telling her to get
her might out of the gutter and that I had meant
in terms of the health insurance information, that
we could discuss the boring financial issues involved!


She then punched me playfully in the arm, to which
I yelled out in mock pain and told her that I was definitely
going to call my lawyer and have her make me a rich
man as a result of this.

The next part of this is the part that will forever be
burned into my memory:

She commanded me to take out my phone!
Her actual words were:
“Okay mister, what is your name?”
“Andrew”.
“Andrew, give me your phone”.


Cautiously, I took out my phone and placed it in her waiting,
open palm.


She keyed in her number and her own phone rang
from her purse. She took her phone out and called
my own phone back.


She holds up my phone and puts it in front of my eyes:
“You have my number. Use it. Call me.”


Before parting, we embraced her for a long
moment in a tight hug, and I didn’t push further,
in order to keep things from getting out of control
in the wrong place.

I felt like I had entered a science-fiction realm, where
I was sucked into a worm-hole into another dimension,
where I was being catapulted past endless realities
and across space and time, to a universe where
there were no rules, no laws, aside from one:
Make what you want, happen.

Now, I had to come back to my own city after bootcamp,
but I am still in touch with this amazing woman.

More importantly, the confidence and the lessons
learned from bootcamp, including of course from
that particular experience, will stay with me forever,
and I currently have three incredible women that
I am seeing, and for the first time in my life, I have
a “quality” problem with women, in that I must decide
which of these women I truly think is best, because
I love them all.

 
Michael, you have changed my life, and for
your readers, they should know that bootcamp
truly will give them the power to attract the kind
of women most men only dream about.

If it wasn’t for your book and your bootamp,
I would still be rotting away in misery, pining
over one woman, when an entire universe of
gorgeous, superior, amazing women were out
there for me, for the taking.


Thank you, Michael. 

Andrew, Los Angeles


My Comments:

Thank you, first of all for that detailed and truly
informative email that helps guys understand the
HOW part of applying what I teach.

For anyone reading this, did you notice what
DIDN’T come up in the ENTIRE conversation?

NONE of the things that most guys think is part
of a real conversation. The part where you go on
and on about your job, about you trying to say how
cool you are, or about how much you appreciate
serious things, or about how you try to prove
your worth.

NONE of that.

Instead, Andrew just focused on what actually
WORKS to get EMOTIONS pumping in women.


He also did this from a place that was empowering
for HIM as well.  He didn’t memorize jokes. He
didn’t try to put himself down to be the butt of a joke.

He also didn’t shy away from showing he was a
MAN interested in her as a WOMAN. No apologies
for that at all.

 
In fact, that was the very FIRST thing he did, he
showed immediately he was approaching her out
of his natural desire as a man, so there was no
confusion in her mind about what was going on.

And since he gave HIMSELF permission, she
found it easy to ALSO give him permission, and
she found it easy to give HERSELF permission to
be a woman and not a robot.

And he made the process fun, and never LET UP.
When he told her to get her mind out of the gutter,
he did something UNEXPECTED, which means
she had an even STRONGER emotional reaction
to it, and that emotion was POSITIVE; it was a shock
but a good kind of shock. A playful innocent funny
shock!

These kinds of behaviors are EXTRAPOLATED
by women subconsciously; they can’t help but
feel that THIS is the way you are EVERYWHERE,
that you are a fun, sexual guy, who they will
have a great time with, in regular life, in the bedroom,
EVERYWHERE. 

 
And there is the INDIRECT message given off
by these behaviors which also says that since
you are SOCIALLY SAVVY in general as well,
which means that you are good with people,
and this tells her that you are going to be good
with EVERYONE in her life as well.

So it’s all PLUS PLUS PLUS in terms of the
MASSIVE benefits this kind of interaction means
for you when it comes to women.

Now, there is MORE to success with women as well,
such as the forming of DEEPER BONDS which usually
comes later, but can also be done in the initial pick-up
as well.

This letter, though, shows just how POWERFULLY
you can attract women with this vibe, and with applying
the concept that I teach.

And if you want to learn how to attract the women
of your choice, there are two things you should do
RIGHT AWAY.

First of all, make sure to DEVOUR ALL OF MY MATERIALS.

They are the INSTRUCTIONS for how to attract women,
very much like the DRIVER’S MANUAL is the instruction 
material for drivers.


And different kinds of vehicles that you want to drive
require different kinds of manuals, e.g. motorcycles, 
cars, trucks, construction vehicles, etc.

My material is CRAMMED WITH WHAT YOU REALLY

NEED TO KNOW. The most POWERFUL, and LATEST 
strategies and insights on how to approach, pick-up, 
attract, and keep women.

Make sure you have them ALL, by going here IMMEDIATELY:

https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/catalog.html

The next step is the most effective way to put it all
into PRACTICE in the REAL WORLD by taking my
BOOTCAMP.

BOOTCAMP is like taking the DRIVING LESSONS,
where you now take what you learned from the
driver’s manual and combine it with actual real
life practice DRIVING with an expert instructor.


In bootcamp, you will be approaching women in
all types of environments and places where you
typically find women all the time- coffee shops,
bookstores, transit, taking walks, supermarkets,
and tons of other places!

I will serve as your INSTRUCTOR and save you
YEARS of time from learning it all on your own,
by CORRECTING any errors you are making in
your approaches and in your interactions.

With 13 years experience behind me, I can
immediately detect any errors you are making
and correct them for you so that your pick-ups
WORK.

Plus, in person, I can also SKYROCKET your
“inner game” and answer any questions you have.

The truth about attracting women is that it is not
as simple as just “be yourself” because your
SELF is not something that is STATIC and
something that never changes. 

 
Should someone never LEARN to ride a bike
because at FIRST, their “self” does not know
how to do it?

Should someone not LEARN how to become
FIT, and learn how to work-out, because their
SELF, at first, does not know HOW?

It’s the same thing with learning to attract women.
As long as no one is being hurt or dishonest,
should one not LEARN how to attract women
just because at first, one does not know HOW?

So, as you can see, learning how to attract women
is just like learning ANYTHING ELSE.

Bootcamp is at:

http://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/bootcamp.html
 

Till next time,

Michael Marks
 

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