When it comes to success with women,
so much of it truly comes down to
both CONFIDENCE and COURAGE.
And this is true at EVERY STEP
OF THE WAY.
The moment you see a woman you'd
like you to approach.
The moment you want to kiss her.
The moment you want to take things
to a more physical level.
Even the HUMOR that attracts women,
you will notice, is a particular KIND
of humor-it's CONFIDENT humor.
And even in a relationship, there
are things you may want to say, to
do, that you KNOW would probably
make things BETTER, whether it is
in the bedroom or otherwise in
the relationship, but FEAR makes
you REPRESS it all.
And just because this is the simple
truth, does not in any way mean that
having that actual confidence and
courage is EASY.
In fact, our brains are hard-wired
to avoid anything where there is
possible danger. It's our way of
protecting us-it's a survival
instinct!
The problem is that survival instinct
was designed for a very DIFFERENT
environment, where those fears
(such as fear of being eaten up by
a wild beast!) ended up serving us
more than harming us.
Of course, a man needed a MASSIVE
amount of confidence and courage to
thrive back then, too.
Today, things are very different
in our environment, but our brains
and bodies are still stuck in their
primitive forms, and we FEEL
the fears with the same intensity.
What makes this especially crazy when
it comes to attracting women, is that
not only do we need confidence and courage
to do all the right things with women,
but the actual CHARACTER TRAITS themselves
(of confidence and courageousness) are
things that women are HARDWIRED to be
attracted to in men!
In fact, women subconsciously search out
men the moment they meet them to see if
they have this inner confidence.
This makes a lot of sense when you think
about how much confidence and courage it
took to survive and thrive as a man in
ancient times. So women evolved to be
attracted to that.
And what is ESPECIALLY crazy today is that
men are BOMBARDED from BIRTH with messages
that make them feel a LACK of confidence
when it comes to women, because these
messages are all about how EVIL men are
and how women are supposedly so against
the idea of men "picking them up",
approaching them, or in any other way
getting to a physical level with them.
So it's NO WONDER that men are in this
HORRIFYING PROBLEM today.
And so, for that reason, I created a program
that was designed for JUST THAT ONE PURPOSE:
TO DEVELOP, GIVE, AND UNLEASH INSANELY
POWERFUL CONFIDENCE AND COURAGE
IN MEN ESPECIALLY AS IT RELATES TO EVERY
SINGLE ASPECT OF INTERACTING WITH WOMEN
AND ATTRACTING WOMEN.
This program, called Warrior Within, was
delivered LIVE over the course of two days
to a group of men in a conference room in
a hotel in Toronto.
The men in attendance included those who
traveled over a THOUSAND MILES to get there.
And because I knew this program was going
to be something special, I recorded it
so that men all over the world would be
able to benefit from it too.
It truly covered every component of developing
and SHOWING that confidence and courage with
women at EVERY STEP of the process from A to Z,
whether it was the initial pick-up, whether
it was going beyond the pick-up, whether
it was online dating, whether it was getting
OVER an ex-girlfriend, and much, MUCH more.
This program truly is VITAL for any man
who is serious about getting the kind
of woman he wants, and it's vital as well
for KEEPING her, because not only does a
woman search out a man's confidence from the
FIRST MOMENT she meets him, but this
confidence can't just be a short-term
"trick"-it has to be REAL or the
woman's attraction will fade.
And I've just taken a VERY powerful action
to make this program even BETTER, because
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As you can see, this program is not only PACKED (it's approximately 8 HOURS of GOLD) with extremely valuable strategies for what really COUNTS in attracting women, but it also does so with a passion and a sense of joy that is contagious. You are going to ENJOY the process as you become truly powerful in all the ways that attract women.
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Wishing you success with women,
Michael Marks
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Wednesday, August 1, 2018
Sunday, September 24, 2017
Why Political Correctness Destroys Your Attractive Sense Of Humor And Makes You Seem Pathetic To Women
Having a confident sense of humor
is of MASSIVE importance when it
comes to attracting women, both
in the big picture of things and
also in the immediate pick-up.
This is because a confident sense
of humor says ALL THE RIGHT THINGS
about you. And yet, this powerful force
in helping you attract a woman is in
GRAVE JEOPARDY OF BEING WIPED
OUT FROM OUR CULTURE.
A sense of humor says you are SECURE
enough to not have to be SERIOUS all
the time.
It says you are WINNER and that
you have things under control.
Think about people you know who can
NEVER joke about ANYTHING. It usually
stems from INSECURITY and FEAR.
And so subconsciously, by showing a
sense of confident humor to a woman,
you are giving her the message that
you are confident, that you are secure,
that you are an ALPHA MALE WINNER.
Also, a sense of humor helps GREASE
the wheels of any pick-up situation,
no matter how awkward it might seem
on the surface, because she is too busy
being GIGGLY and feeling the ENDORPHINS
to even THINK about the pick-up being
awkward.
So that ALSO helps you as a result of
having a confident sense of humor.
AND YET, IN OUR POLITICALLY CORRECT
CULTURE TODAY, WE ARE BEING STRIPPED
OF THIS SENSE OF HUMOR.
This is because political correctness
today, whether it is third-wave feminism
or any other politically correct movement
that likes to blame others for all their
problems, is fueled by playing the VICTIM
CARD.
And it is impossible to be BOTH the
VICTIM and ALSO be the WINNER who
has a sense of HUMOR.
And so political correctness dictates that
its slaves take the self-perspective of
being VICTIMS, and thus STRIPS THEM
from having a sense of HUMOR.
This is why we have a generation of men today
who act like SNOWFLAKES instead of like MEN.
You can see it in how EVERYTHING today
that used to be ACTION AND FUN TV shows
or movies tends to be ALL OUT SERIOUSNESS.
Compared with the tons of awesome adventure
hero shows for young men back in the 80s,
like THE FALL GUY-where the men were politically
incorrect, loved women, and ALSO had a sense
of HUMOR.
To learn how to GET and SHOW this sense
of confident humor to women, download
my program called Confident Humor
immediately at:
https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/humor-and-attracting-women.html
To learn more about political correctness,
check out this other important video I
made on the topic:
To learn about attracting women by DEFYING
political correctness, download my program
on this CRUCIAL topic by going HERE right NOW:
https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/politically-incorrect-pick-up.html
Till next time,
Michael Marks
is of MASSIVE importance when it
comes to attracting women, both
in the big picture of things and
also in the immediate pick-up.
This is because a confident sense
of humor says ALL THE RIGHT THINGS
about you. And yet, this powerful force
in helping you attract a woman is in
GRAVE JEOPARDY OF BEING WIPED
OUT FROM OUR CULTURE.
A sense of humor says you are SECURE
enough to not have to be SERIOUS all
the time.
It says you are WINNER and that
you have things under control.
Think about people you know who can
NEVER joke about ANYTHING. It usually
stems from INSECURITY and FEAR.
And so subconsciously, by showing a
sense of confident humor to a woman,
you are giving her the message that
you are confident, that you are secure,
that you are an ALPHA MALE WINNER.
Also, a sense of humor helps GREASE
the wheels of any pick-up situation,
no matter how awkward it might seem
on the surface, because she is too busy
being GIGGLY and feeling the ENDORPHINS
to even THINK about the pick-up being
awkward.
So that ALSO helps you as a result of
having a confident sense of humor.
AND YET, IN OUR POLITICALLY CORRECT
CULTURE TODAY, WE ARE BEING STRIPPED
OF THIS SENSE OF HUMOR.
This is because political correctness
today, whether it is third-wave feminism
or any other politically correct movement
that likes to blame others for all their
problems, is fueled by playing the VICTIM
CARD.
And it is impossible to be BOTH the
VICTIM and ALSO be the WINNER who
has a sense of HUMOR.
And so political correctness dictates that
its slaves take the self-perspective of
being VICTIMS, and thus STRIPS THEM
from having a sense of HUMOR.
This is why we have a generation of men today
who act like SNOWFLAKES instead of like MEN.
You can see it in how EVERYTHING today
that used to be ACTION AND FUN TV shows
or movies tends to be ALL OUT SERIOUSNESS.
Compared with the tons of awesome adventure
hero shows for young men back in the 80s,
like THE FALL GUY-where the men were politically
incorrect, loved women, and ALSO had a sense
of HUMOR.
To learn how to GET and SHOW this sense
of confident humor to women, download
my program called Confident Humor
immediately at:
https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/humor-and-attracting-women.html
To learn more about political correctness,
check out this other important video I
made on the topic:
To learn about attracting women by DEFYING
political correctness, download my program
on this CRUCIAL topic by going HERE right NOW:
https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/politically-incorrect-pick-up.html
Till next time,
Michael Marks
Tuesday, January 24, 2017
The DEEPEST Levels Of Attracting Women
A lot of men want to know how to never run out of things to say to a woman, especially when in the initial "pick-up". This article is going to answer that question on a very DEEP level, and it is going to answer SO MUCH MORE on attracting women as well, on a very DEEP level.
Let me just state that I was the first dating coach to teach men how to pick-up and attract women and never run out of things to say, and how to do all this WITHOUT using pick-up lines or memorized routines.
The fact of the matter is, that when you PROJECT both power and warmth, then not only does EVERYTHING you say "work", but also you are able to tap into the most COOL parts of your mind and ALSO have AWESOME things to say as well.
AND, of course, you are also able to use my most ADVANCED concepts as well that will make your conversation EVEN MORE powerful from an attraction standpoint.
Attraction is not a static thing. That's the truth. A woman is either feeling more and more of it for you, or she is feeling less and less. It NEVER stays the same.
So you have to ask yourself a question: Which do you prefer, a woman feeling she is "settling" for you for "practical" reasons and her attraction thus eroding for you day by day, or a woman feeling that she MUST HAVE you?
In the real world, attraction doesn't care about the politically correct b.s. definition of it. Ultimately, REAL attraction feels like a NEED, it's not some kind of thing that is "nice" to have. It feels as if you NEED it.
THAT'S what attraction is.
So, if you are going to actually make a woman FEEL this level of attraction, you have to first understand just where the BAR is in terms of what IS a confident secure fun intriguing guy.
Because of the ocean of guys who still kiss up to women, her mind's default setting is set to politely and quickly vaporize all guys who approach her. The only way you are going to overpower that setting is if your behavior and style clearly and immediately indicate that there is something very different about you, in a cool way.
I want to put an END to any notion that you can get the kind of results you want with only a half-assed attitude about this stuff. It's really important to realize the full REALITY of an attractive woman.
And the EFFECT it has on how she THINKS. You have to be in the same reality to understand it, which is what actually ultimately happens when you get good at this stuff.
And TRULY being great at self-acceptance is the seed where it all begins. It unleashes infinitely attractive power.
But when you have been BRAINWASHED buy society for so many years, as most good guys have been since the day were born, it is ABSOLUTELY CRUCIAL to have an EFFECTIVE METHOD on how to get back to being the ULTIMATE version of you in terms of how you communicate from your body language, your tonality, your sense of fashion, your sense of humor, and just about everything else you do to communicate.
It can be impossible to do this alone, because these dimensions of yourself are currently UNRECOGNIZABLE to you. It's been so long since you've ever FELT them, but they are still there, lying dormant, awaiting to be AWOKEN.
Bu this is like giving SALTY PRETZELS instead of water to a man dying of THIRST, and then wondering why he doesn't seem to appreciate it.
Women are EMOTIONALLY DYING OF THIRST for some masculine confidence, wit, humor, and leadership, as well as for some sexual tension, unpredictability, intrigue, fun, and excitement.
Instead, guys are giving women the opposite, because as guys they want assurance, permanence, and reliability, since they have been dunked in the matrix illusion of "scarcity of women" and the matrix illusion that as men they don't have the same intrinsic worth in society as women.
And even when guys DO hear solid advice, such as "be like women" in the sense of being hard to get, guys do it wrong, because they are doing it with the wrong INTENT.
They are doing it almost with a sense of ANGER. As if they are "getting back" at women, as if it's tit for tat, pardon the pun.
It's not about that at ALL.
When you do it like that, you are totally INCONGRUENT with what attraction IS. That TOTALLY ruins the vibe.
Does the GENERAL worry about the remarks of some guy ranked as just a private?
That's why although attraction ultimately IS about perceived value and superiority, the irony is that to ACHIEVE this EFFECTIVELY, you have to FEEL there is NO power gap between you and a woman to begin with.
That's why the problem is not "being nice". In fact, some guys who act like jerks are CLEARLY coming across as insecure and that's just as bad as being "too nice".
It's all the FILTER that the behavior is being passed through. If it is insecurity, it makes ANY behavior look repulsive. If it's security, it makes any behavior look cool. So that's why when you are with your GOOD friends, you all can tease around and it actually BONDS you all.
Because it's clear that it's not malicious.
If you FEEL a power gap between you and a woman, your emotions will give you away in infinite micro expressions and forms of body language, and your emotions will betray you by the way you live your life.
She will see that you are actually bitter, etc.
Think about it: When you are totally under control and relaxed and confident, you speak and move with less hurried rush and you never run out of "things to say".
In fact, it seems bizarre to even worry of "having things to say". You start to realize that your secure, inspired, or fun mood is what is fueling your ability to have a great conversation, enabling you to access all the parts of your mind that give you infinite "material".
You also start to realize that this vibe you are giving off results in "energy-return" from the woman, as you and her ping-pong the energy, vibes, and conversation back and forth, each of you enjoying this interaction.
So if you saw a woman you were interested in you wouldn't feel it's some kind of RACE or some kind of CONTEST.
You would roll up casual and laid back, and your conversation wouldn't be about trying to MAKE anything happen, but rather about reflecting your inner vibes, mood, state, etc.
The result of quality "game" is that you wouldn't be afraid to say something NICE to a woman when you FELT it, but you would also not be NEEDY for a woman who was hot, so complimenting her on her LOOKS would instinctively not be the first thing that you did.
This idea of not kissing up to a woman based on her looks would be instinctive to you, you would not even feel the emotional desire or impulse to focus too much on her looks. It's the neediness and scarcity and lack of perspective that creates these wrong behaviors in the first place.
And if you saw she was really into you, which she most likely would be as a result of all this, you wouldn't feel the need to ROB HER of the pleasure of WONDERING about you, (which is what needy guys do out of their fear of losing her) of the pleasure of not knowing everything about you, and of the pleasure of wondering if she "had" you or not.
You would UNDERSTAND that once you are secure in your own value, it's actually FUN to not know right away that you "have" someone, and yet you would also know how far to push this and not to push this into the realm of the absurd, cruel, or just plain dorkyish.
Let me give you a real life example, of how REAL CONFIDENCE in your value is reflected POWERFULLY and instinctively. This example actually took YEARS for me to fully realize the full effect of.
I remember a girl from many years ago, before I got into this stuff. A girl who I felt I was "lucky" to be with at the time.
Even though I was getting mistreated, I thought I was "lucky" because I had fallen under the brainwashing spell of society to believe that a woman who was attractive was scarce, (which isn't even true at all) and that men had to "work" to "prove themselves" to women, because women were "innocent" while men were just sex-hungry animals.
Anyway, not to get into a whole life-story here, I remember once waking up a BIT to the reality of what was going on, but still not GETTING it enough to rise from the ashes of that life. But I had managed to come to the conclusion that her behavior wasn't very good, even though I thought I was still "lucky" to have her because most guys I knew couldn't get an equally hot woman EVER.
And with me, it happened then. It didn't happen all at once, but slowly.
I basically confronted her with the fact her behavior was pretty atrocious, and politely told
her that after I stripped away the attraction I felt for her, I honestly couldn't think of one reason I was with her.
I WANTED to have a reason, and I even said something like "what are the good things about you?" (And of course, by this time, she had already taken the power for granted, so this was interpreted by her not as challenging her, but as me HOPING for goodness.)
Well, her response was a calm: "Not much."
This had a profound effect on me, causing reverberations of learning that lasted with me for years. I remember at the time, feeling all this ANGER, and yet, there was NOTHING I could do, for, after all, she was not trying to resist my argument that she was no good.
In fact, by DOING THIS, she was actually INDIRECTLY saying "I don't NEED to prove myself, and I don't CARE to either. And, in fact, I AM good for nothing EXCEPT the ONE THING THAT COUNTS: ATTRACTION."
And it was very spontaneous.
When was the last time a woman asked YOU something about yourself and your reply was that you weren't good for much?
You see, on the SURFACE it sounds like self-deprecation. And I don't recommend it for beginners, because beginners are usually SO congruent with INFERIOR beliefs, that when they say a self-deprecating comment, it will be taken SERIOUSLY to mean inferiority.
Because you are saying all the right things about yourself. Now, this doesn't mean to be abusive, i.e. if a woman is REALLY feeling HURT by you, and she asks you what is the good side of you, etc. Don't be a bastard at a time like that.
But you have to understand the UNDERLYING message here, which is your BELIEFS about yourself create your BEHAVIORS. Which create your REALITY.
The answer of "nothing much" was an EMOTIONAL communication. The kind that is EFFECTIVE. Not the useless kind that is LOGICAL.
At the time, I honestly felt that she really couldn't help it, i.e. that this was her REAL personality, but that she still had value.
And I couldn't figure this out at the time. I figured this was just her personality. Until one day I couldn't take it anymore.
I finally came to the conclusion that NO WOMAN on earth was worth being with if I couldn't get some basic level respect. Even if "wasn't her fault".
So I didn't get angry, I actually REALLY thought that this girl was useless to me, because her attractiveness was no longer worth it, and even though she "couldn't help it" I figured that it wasn't my job to be her therapist, and that I had already tried for years to "rehabilitate" her cold ways.
Well, the interesting thing is that, because I TOTALLY BELIEVED that this woman was of NO USE to me, and because I TOTALLY BELIEVED it was not her fault, I was TOTALLY CONGRUENT when I told her "This is over, and I don't hate you either."
Because it implies that she has no worth to you, and it robs her of her sense of superior value. How can she have value if she is worthless to you? Your relative value to hers becomes superior.
Boom.
Attraction is born.
It wasn't a "technique" I learned, it was how I really felt. Within DAYS, suddenly YEARS of supposedly INGRAINED behaviors in her TOTALLY REVERSED themselves. To say the least, she started behaving the way a person who respects another person behaves.
I won't go into the details, but suffice to say, apparently she COULD "help it" a lot all those years. She proved she could be the warmest, most giving woman on the planet, most dedicated, most COMMITTED woman to making it WORK.
In fact, I couldn't find a place to HIDE from her, she found me wherever I was. This actually didn't make me happy.
What it did do was prove to me that I had wasted YEARS of my life ACCEPTING substandard behavior and heartache and indignity because I thought that was "just the way it is", when in reality a woman could be TOTALLY capable of being every bit as perfect as a SAINT.
For the next several YEARS, I totally started doing WHATEVER I wanted to with women. My new my beliefs were cemented, and consequently, my new behaviors were repeated with tons of different women, with the same powerful results, ad infinitum.
Most women were great RIGHT OFF THE BAT, since my frame was solid before they could possibly have a chance to doubt it.
But even the few who started off as trying to be "challenging" in return to me, eventually melted pretty fast, if I had repeated chances to interact with them. My frame took over, because I REALLY believed in it, it was not some type of act.
This is NOT ego here. This is just a FACT. Go and try it in the real world and you can confirm this.
I picked up women however *I* wanted to, never giving them ANY privileges, never for a SECOND thinking any of them were "special". I made ALL the decisions, teased them, didn't take them overly seriously.
I didn't smile like an approval-seeking geek around women, because I honestly didn't think they had superior opinions, I thought of them as primarily being very smart and feisty when it came to feigning superiority, mystique, innocence and value, and in getting men to chase them because of this.
Instead of thinking of what gift to buy a woman, I focused on my own goals, my own things, FIRST, and I also dumped women at the slightest thing, which ALWAYS resulted in them only chasing me HARDER.
I ENTERED the same level of reality that I thought was exclusively reserved for women, But the power of that reality had become MY REALITY.
I learned some pretty crazy stuff too, such as if you REALLY want to stop a woman from being with you, the best way is to kiss UP to her. And make sex predictable, boring, and regular.
The only thing that all that serious stuff ends up doing for a guy, if done in the early stages at least, is making a woman think the guy is inferior. And also, serious stuff tends to be formal and official and correct and it lacks all those fun and erotic feelings of breaking the rules!
It's just gotten a little out of hand these days, but the reality is that how sexy would it be if it were the opposite, i.e. if women just ripped off their clothes for you within minutes of meeting them, if they acted like typical desperate GUYS????
The fact of the matter is that women are damn smart, and throughout history they trumped the men who thought they could control women. Men figured they were in power, but women learned to use sexuality as the ULTIMATE power. They were slow to give it away, they knew how to cloud the secrets to female sexuality in mystery, making it more appealing and desirable and adding all kinds of illusions about it to make it seem more special.
And men FELL for it ALL, they fell for it GOOD, they fell for it BIG TIME.
And women are not so stupid as to give all that power away in a world of "equality". It's more like "yeah, thanks for making us equals now but we'll keep the sexual power superiority thank you very much". Women wouldn't feel more attraction to men by GIVING men all the power, women only feel that attraction by you EXHIBITING SOME OF THAT POWER.
And this as well as most of women's behavior is not even CONSCIOUS totally. It's been INTERNALIZED. So women are totally CONGRUENT with everything they do.
Regarding the idea of women making their "gift" of sex something "special" and "rare", this is why being labeled a "slut" is something she will avoid at all costs. (It's actually often very DIFFERENT in the bedroom sometimes, because the FORBIDDEN ASPECT of something, which is RESTRICTING a behavior, i.e. being a slut, then becomes far more DESIRABLE and erotic, hence the appeal of talking dirty).
But otherwise, i.e. when doing a cold approach pick up where you are both total strangers, you have to be massively careful not to do ANYTHING that would imply she is a slut, yet you also have to still ensure that conversation has indirect sexual vibes to it, which is not the same as talking dirty. I go into detail on this in my materials.
Being labeled a slut is such a negative thing because it strips AWAY women's power which comes from their image, i.e. that they have a "special" sexuality that is only given to a "rare" guy who "earns" it.
And AGAIN, I repeat, these ideas are INTERNALIZED to most women, so they BELIEVE it, so they are CONGRUENT with it. It's not like women feel they are using a "technique".
And THIS is what you must pick up from women, the fact that the beliefs are INTERNAL. AND you must learn from women how to present your entire reality in the most attractive light, otherwise the reality is that you are portraying yourself as INFERIOR, and perception is reality when it comes to these things.
We are talking about LEARNING new skills AND debrainwashing yourself, to reset the internal wiring back to the way it is meant to be.
You're going to have to go out and APPLY the things I teach you, and at first it might not be easy. You might have a fragile ego and it might get hit emotionally by women, and yet you are only going to get TOUGHER and emotionally stronger if you follow through in the way I suggest, ultimately leading you to the point where your WORDS match your FEELINGS.
It's WORTH it. It's the ONLY way. If you don't put in your dues, and you don't work on INTERNALIZING your game, and if you don't work on your ability to create COOL EMOTIONS in women, well then YOUR uncool emotions will ruin your game no matter how cool your "lines" are or your memorized "tactics".
Incongruity is always evident to people, even if they are not consciously aware of it. So the incongruity in a guy who is SAYING cool things but hasn't paid his dues developing the internal stuff, will never fool most women.
You have to get to the point that your EMOTIONS really ARE feeling the same stuff ABOUT YOURSELF that a hot woman feels regarding HER intrinsic value.
In my life, I keep only the best people around me, (although it's hard at times to find the time to just "hang out") we all make each other's FOUNDATIONS stronger by pushing each other, encouraging each other, and reminding each other to stay on track when we veer off the right MENTAL FRAME for a situation.
Now, believe it or not, all this stuff should be considered part of FOUNDATION LEVEL understanding. You NEED to have this understanding to create SOLID and CONSISTENT attraction with the kind of women that make your heart pound.
This is the level where you are able to understand the nuances and subtleties of a woman's behavior in a way that will give you such power that you genuinely feel EMPATHY for the woman in front of you, no matter who she is.
And you will be congruent with it, because it will come from your knowledge that you can give her the GREATEST gift she has ever experienced- which is EMOTIONAL fulfillment. When you KNOW you have something AWESOME to GIVE, you are bathed in an infinite sense of calm and security.
This is MORE than just losing any neediness. It's about also being able to GIVE a woman what she EMOTIONALLY NEEDS, for REAL.
This will enable you to not only create massive attraction, but also a DEEP sense of connection that most QUALITY women are YEARNING for.
Emotions are the ONLY truth that matters in this arena.
And you are going to be the biggest GIVER she ever had, because you are going to be GIVING her EXACTLY what she NEEDS to feel INSANELY GREAT.
And believe me, when you can do THAT to a woman, she won't just be attracted to you. She will be OBSESSED with you. So this is responsibility that you must take with great sincerity.
And if you are ready to gain the most advanced level of skill and understanding with women on the face of this earth, SIGN UP FOR BOOTCAMP with me NOW.
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Till next time,
Michael Marks
Let me just state that I was the first dating coach to teach men how to pick-up and attract women and never run out of things to say, and how to do all this WITHOUT using pick-up lines or memorized routines.
The fact of the matter is, that when you PROJECT both power and warmth, then not only does EVERYTHING you say "work", but also you are able to tap into the most COOL parts of your mind and ALSO have AWESOME things to say as well.
AND, of course, you are also able to use my most ADVANCED concepts as well that will make your conversation EVEN MORE powerful from an attraction standpoint.
Attraction is not a static thing. That's the truth. A woman is either feeling more and more of it for you, or she is feeling less and less. It NEVER stays the same.
So you have to ask yourself a question: Which do you prefer, a woman feeling she is "settling" for you for "practical" reasons and her attraction thus eroding for you day by day, or a woman feeling that she MUST HAVE you?
In the real world, attraction doesn't care about the politically correct b.s. definition of it. Ultimately, REAL attraction feels like a NEED, it's not some kind of thing that is "nice" to have. It feels as if you NEED it.
THAT'S what attraction is.
Attraction Is Primal, It's Not "Nice"
When you feel MASSIVE ATTRACTION for a woman, it's not some kind of, "oh that is nice" feeling. It's A HECK OF A LOT more than that. It's PRIMAL. And THAT'S what you want women to feel for you.So, if you are going to actually make a woman FEEL this level of attraction, you have to first understand just where the BAR is in terms of what IS a confident secure fun intriguing guy.
Because of the ocean of guys who still kiss up to women, her mind's default setting is set to politely and quickly vaporize all guys who approach her. The only way you are going to overpower that setting is if your behavior and style clearly and immediately indicate that there is something very different about you, in a cool way.
I want to put an END to any notion that you can get the kind of results you want with only a half-assed attitude about this stuff. It's really important to realize the full REALITY of an attractive woman.
The Reality Of How An Attractive Woman Thinks
The REALITY of having infinite guys WORSHIP her and willing to SERVE her and TAKE abuse from her. And the EFFECT that has on a woman in terms of what is attractive to her.And the EFFECT it has on how she THINKS. You have to be in the same reality to understand it, which is what actually ultimately happens when you get good at this stuff.
And TRULY being great at self-acceptance is the seed where it all begins. It unleashes infinitely attractive power.
But when you have been BRAINWASHED buy society for so many years, as most good guys have been since the day were born, it is ABSOLUTELY CRUCIAL to have an EFFECTIVE METHOD on how to get back to being the ULTIMATE version of you in terms of how you communicate from your body language, your tonality, your sense of fashion, your sense of humor, and just about everything else you do to communicate.
It can be impossible to do this alone, because these dimensions of yourself are currently UNRECOGNIZABLE to you. It's been so long since you've ever FELT them, but they are still there, lying dormant, awaiting to be AWOKEN.
Where I Come In
That's where I come in. My programs and materials are the most powerful resources on the planet for massively changing your life with women. You will learn all the NEW skills required for success, and you will also REGAIN the REAL you that you don't even realize is waiting, begging, and SCREAMING inside of you to come out and LIVE.You Will Notice Results Immediately
You will get improved results in your reactions with women IMMEDIATELY, and the changes and improvements will CONTINUE to become stronger and stronger for the rest of your life. The only thing YOU have to supply is the practice.What Women Want Vs. What Guys Want
Guys keep giving WOMEN what GUYS would want, in the typical guys' frame of scarcity and desperation.Bu this is like giving SALTY PRETZELS instead of water to a man dying of THIRST, and then wondering why he doesn't seem to appreciate it.
Women are EMOTIONALLY DYING OF THIRST for some masculine confidence, wit, humor, and leadership, as well as for some sexual tension, unpredictability, intrigue, fun, and excitement.
Instead, guys are giving women the opposite, because as guys they want assurance, permanence, and reliability, since they have been dunked in the matrix illusion of "scarcity of women" and the matrix illusion that as men they don't have the same intrinsic worth in society as women.
And even when guys DO hear solid advice, such as "be like women" in the sense of being hard to get, guys do it wrong, because they are doing it with the wrong INTENT.
They are doing it almost with a sense of ANGER. As if they are "getting back" at women, as if it's tit for tat, pardon the pun.
It's not about that at ALL.
When you do it like that, you are totally INCONGRUENT with what attraction IS. That TOTALLY ruins the vibe.
The Vibes Of Attraction
Attraction is about giving off the awesome emotional vibes of having MASSIVE AWESOME COOL SEXY VALUE. How the heck can someone have VALUE and yet be the kind of person who gets UPSET? You can only get upset if you are LOSING.Does the GENERAL worry about the remarks of some guy ranked as just a private?
That's why although attraction ultimately IS about perceived value and superiority, the irony is that to ACHIEVE this EFFECTIVELY, you have to FEEL there is NO power gap between you and a woman to begin with.
That's why the problem is not "being nice". In fact, some guys who act like jerks are CLEARLY coming across as insecure and that's just as bad as being "too nice".
It's all the FILTER that the behavior is being passed through. If it is insecurity, it makes ANY behavior look repulsive. If it's security, it makes any behavior look cool. So that's why when you are with your GOOD friends, you all can tease around and it actually BONDS you all.
Because it's clear that it's not malicious.
If you FEEL a power gap between you and a woman, your emotions will give you away in infinite micro expressions and forms of body language, and your emotions will betray you by the way you live your life.
She will see that you are actually bitter, etc.
Putting It All Together
The REAL power of attraction comes from PUTTING IT ALL TOGETHER, from the way you dress, to the comfort you have with being sexual, to the sense of humor you have, to the way your voice projects, to the very way you MOVE, and much, much more.Think about it: When you are totally under control and relaxed and confident, you speak and move with less hurried rush and you never run out of "things to say".
In fact, it seems bizarre to even worry of "having things to say". You start to realize that your secure, inspired, or fun mood is what is fueling your ability to have a great conversation, enabling you to access all the parts of your mind that give you infinite "material".
You also start to realize that this vibe you are giving off results in "energy-return" from the woman, as you and her ping-pong the energy, vibes, and conversation back and forth, each of you enjoying this interaction.
So if you saw a woman you were interested in you wouldn't feel it's some kind of RACE or some kind of CONTEST.
You would roll up casual and laid back, and your conversation wouldn't be about trying to MAKE anything happen, but rather about reflecting your inner vibes, mood, state, etc.
Developing Your Identity
One of the most important elements of high level "game" is simply a byproduct of who you ARE. It's your identity. Once you are ARE in the right state, quality "game" is the uninterrupted flow of your own mood and energy outwards.Women's Psychology, Culture And Human Emotion
Quality "game" however is ALSO about understanding some important things about women and female culture so that you understand the real critical issues they need to know that you are aware of, and quality "game" is ALSO about understanding HUMAN EMOTION in general, including YOUR OWN emotions.The result of quality "game" is that you wouldn't be afraid to say something NICE to a woman when you FELT it, but you would also not be NEEDY for a woman who was hot, so complimenting her on her LOOKS would instinctively not be the first thing that you did.
This idea of not kissing up to a woman based on her looks would be instinctive to you, you would not even feel the emotional desire or impulse to focus too much on her looks. It's the neediness and scarcity and lack of perspective that creates these wrong behaviors in the first place.
And if you saw she was really into you, which she most likely would be as a result of all this, you wouldn't feel the need to ROB HER of the pleasure of WONDERING about you, (which is what needy guys do out of their fear of losing her) of the pleasure of not knowing everything about you, and of the pleasure of wondering if she "had" you or not.
You would UNDERSTAND that once you are secure in your own value, it's actually FUN to not know right away that you "have" someone, and yet you would also know how far to push this and not to push this into the realm of the absurd, cruel, or just plain dorkyish.
Becoming A True Natural
In fact, a MAJOR component of attraction is a result of the behaviors you exhibit that flow from the way you THINK, which is based on the way you see yourself and the world.Let me give you a real life example, of how REAL CONFIDENCE in your value is reflected POWERFULLY and instinctively. This example actually took YEARS for me to fully realize the full effect of.
I remember a girl from many years ago, before I got into this stuff. A girl who I felt I was "lucky" to be with at the time.
Even though I was getting mistreated, I thought I was "lucky" because I had fallen under the brainwashing spell of society to believe that a woman who was attractive was scarce, (which isn't even true at all) and that men had to "work" to "prove themselves" to women, because women were "innocent" while men were just sex-hungry animals.
Anyway, not to get into a whole life-story here, I remember once waking up a BIT to the reality of what was going on, but still not GETTING it enough to rise from the ashes of that life. But I had managed to come to the conclusion that her behavior wasn't very good, even though I thought I was still "lucky" to have her because most guys I knew couldn't get an equally hot woman EVER.
The Rise Of Self-Esteem
For all men who are in the ABYSS of abuse by women, and eventually get OUT, there has to be a point at which the BEATEN corpse of your self-esteem somehow is REINCARNATED and it's bloody heart begins to slowly PUMP again. Even though it is barely alive, your inner voice HEARS it.And with me, it happened then. It didn't happen all at once, but slowly.
I basically confronted her with the fact her behavior was pretty atrocious, and politely told
her that after I stripped away the attraction I felt for her, I honestly couldn't think of one reason I was with her.
I WANTED to have a reason, and I even said something like "what are the good things about you?" (And of course, by this time, she had already taken the power for granted, so this was interpreted by her not as challenging her, but as me HOPING for goodness.)
Well, her response was a calm: "Not much."
This had a profound effect on me, causing reverberations of learning that lasted with me for years. I remember at the time, feeling all this ANGER, and yet, there was NOTHING I could do, for, after all, she was not trying to resist my argument that she was no good.
In fact, by DOING THIS, she was actually INDIRECTLY saying "I don't NEED to prove myself, and I don't CARE to either. And, in fact, I AM good for nothing EXCEPT the ONE THING THAT COUNTS: ATTRACTION."
And it was very spontaneous.
When was the last time a woman asked YOU something about yourself and your reply was that you weren't good for much?
You see, on the SURFACE it sounds like self-deprecation. And I don't recommend it for beginners, because beginners are usually SO congruent with INFERIOR beliefs, that when they say a self-deprecating comment, it will be taken SERIOUSLY to mean inferiority.
Untangling The Matrix
But once you GET IT, internally, and your body language, tonality, lifestyle, and BEHAVIORS show that you know that indeed you are VERY desirable, well if you THEN were to say you were worth "nothing much" in RESPONSE to a woman TRYING to get you to prove your worth to her, the results would be powerful as hell.Because you are saying all the right things about yourself. Now, this doesn't mean to be abusive, i.e. if a woman is REALLY feeling HURT by you, and she asks you what is the good side of you, etc. Don't be a bastard at a time like that.
But you have to understand the UNDERLYING message here, which is your BELIEFS about yourself create your BEHAVIORS. Which create your REALITY.
The answer of "nothing much" was an EMOTIONAL communication. The kind that is EFFECTIVE. Not the useless kind that is LOGICAL.
At the time, I honestly felt that she really couldn't help it, i.e. that this was her REAL personality, but that she still had value.
And I couldn't figure this out at the time. I figured this was just her personality. Until one day I couldn't take it anymore.
I finally came to the conclusion that NO WOMAN on earth was worth being with if I couldn't get some basic level respect. Even if "wasn't her fault".
So I didn't get angry, I actually REALLY thought that this girl was useless to me, because her attractiveness was no longer worth it, and even though she "couldn't help it" I figured that it wasn't my job to be her therapist, and that I had already tried for years to "rehabilitate" her cold ways.
Well, the interesting thing is that, because I TOTALLY BELIEVED that this woman was of NO USE to me, and because I TOTALLY BELIEVED it was not her fault, I was TOTALLY CONGRUENT when I told her "This is over, and I don't hate you either."
Because it implies that she has no worth to you, and it robs her of her sense of superior value. How can she have value if she is worthless to you? Your relative value to hers becomes superior.
Boom.
Attraction is born.
Beliefs Create Reality
I didn't realize it at the time, but I had GROWN internally, my beliefs about my own value and hers had changed. My beliefs had become more ATTRACTIVE.It wasn't a "technique" I learned, it was how I really felt. Within DAYS, suddenly YEARS of supposedly INGRAINED behaviors in her TOTALLY REVERSED themselves. To say the least, she started behaving the way a person who respects another person behaves.
I won't go into the details, but suffice to say, apparently she COULD "help it" a lot all those years. She proved she could be the warmest, most giving woman on the planet, most dedicated, most COMMITTED woman to making it WORK.
In fact, I couldn't find a place to HIDE from her, she found me wherever I was. This actually didn't make me happy.
What it did do was prove to me that I had wasted YEARS of my life ACCEPTING substandard behavior and heartache and indignity because I thought that was "just the way it is", when in reality a woman could be TOTALLY capable of being every bit as perfect as a SAINT.
The Power Of Learning
The only thing that made it NOT a waste was the super powerful learning experience that it was for me.For the next several YEARS, I totally started doing WHATEVER I wanted to with women. My new my beliefs were cemented, and consequently, my new behaviors were repeated with tons of different women, with the same powerful results, ad infinitum.
Most women were great RIGHT OFF THE BAT, since my frame was solid before they could possibly have a chance to doubt it.
But even the few who started off as trying to be "challenging" in return to me, eventually melted pretty fast, if I had repeated chances to interact with them. My frame took over, because I REALLY believed in it, it was not some type of act.
This is NOT ego here. This is just a FACT. Go and try it in the real world and you can confirm this.
I picked up women however *I* wanted to, never giving them ANY privileges, never for a SECOND thinking any of them were "special". I made ALL the decisions, teased them, didn't take them overly seriously.
I didn't smile like an approval-seeking geek around women, because I honestly didn't think they had superior opinions, I thought of them as primarily being very smart and feisty when it came to feigning superiority, mystique, innocence and value, and in getting men to chase them because of this.
Letting Go Of The Bitterness
But I slowly let go of the bitterness as I realized that this was just the way women learned to work their way through the world since time immemorial, and that it was men who had given the extra power to women without adjusting to this change themselves.Instead of thinking of what gift to buy a woman, I focused on my own goals, my own things, FIRST, and I also dumped women at the slightest thing, which ALWAYS resulted in them only chasing me HARDER.
I ENTERED the same level of reality that I thought was exclusively reserved for women, But the power of that reality had become MY REALITY.
I learned some pretty crazy stuff too, such as if you REALLY want to stop a woman from being with you, the best way is to kiss UP to her. And make sex predictable, boring, and regular.
Being Formal Ruins The Vibe
I also started to see how most guys really act around women, and I could SENSE the vibe that they were creating, because I could finally see how RIDICULOUS and REPULSIVE their behavior was to a woman who NEEDED a challenge, who needed something COMPELLING, something more emotionally powerful, something more FUN, as opposed to all these guys who were so serious!The only thing that all that serious stuff ends up doing for a guy, if done in the early stages at least, is making a woman think the guy is inferior. And also, serious stuff tends to be formal and official and correct and it lacks all those fun and erotic feelings of breaking the rules!
The Biggest Things To Learn From Women
The reality is that, if you think about it, women have in a way given men a GIFT in terms of the erotic joy that comes about from actually GETTING a woman who behaves sexy, hard to get, who is playful, fun, confident, etc. The more women behave as if they are forbidden, the more emotional kick you get when you DO get them. Now, be smart and give women the same thing.It's just gotten a little out of hand these days, but the reality is that how sexy would it be if it were the opposite, i.e. if women just ripped off their clothes for you within minutes of meeting them, if they acted like typical desperate GUYS????
The fact of the matter is that women are damn smart, and throughout history they trumped the men who thought they could control women. Men figured they were in power, but women learned to use sexuality as the ULTIMATE power. They were slow to give it away, they knew how to cloud the secrets to female sexuality in mystery, making it more appealing and desirable and adding all kinds of illusions about it to make it seem more special.
And men FELL for it ALL, they fell for it GOOD, they fell for it BIG TIME.
And women are not so stupid as to give all that power away in a world of "equality". It's more like "yeah, thanks for making us equals now but we'll keep the sexual power superiority thank you very much". Women wouldn't feel more attraction to men by GIVING men all the power, women only feel that attraction by you EXHIBITING SOME OF THAT POWER.
Women Want Men Who Know All This
If a woman has to TEACH you this, then she doesn't want you.And this as well as most of women's behavior is not even CONSCIOUS totally. It's been INTERNALIZED. So women are totally CONGRUENT with everything they do.
Regarding the idea of women making their "gift" of sex something "special" and "rare", this is why being labeled a "slut" is something she will avoid at all costs. (It's actually often very DIFFERENT in the bedroom sometimes, because the FORBIDDEN ASPECT of something, which is RESTRICTING a behavior, i.e. being a slut, then becomes far more DESIRABLE and erotic, hence the appeal of talking dirty).
But otherwise, i.e. when doing a cold approach pick up where you are both total strangers, you have to be massively careful not to do ANYTHING that would imply she is a slut, yet you also have to still ensure that conversation has indirect sexual vibes to it, which is not the same as talking dirty. I go into detail on this in my materials.
Being labeled a slut is such a negative thing because it strips AWAY women's power which comes from their image, i.e. that they have a "special" sexuality that is only given to a "rare" guy who "earns" it.
And AGAIN, I repeat, these ideas are INTERNALIZED to most women, so they BELIEVE it, so they are CONGRUENT with it. It's not like women feel they are using a "technique".
And THIS is what you must pick up from women, the fact that the beliefs are INTERNAL. AND you must learn from women how to present your entire reality in the most attractive light, otherwise the reality is that you are portraying yourself as INFERIOR, and perception is reality when it comes to these things.
Applying What You Learn
Now, for YOU to get to that point where it ALL feels totally instinctive, I'm not going to bull*&^% you, you are going to have to WORK at it for a bit. You WILL notice SERIOUS results IMMEDIATELY, but for FULL effect, you are going to have to practice. That means practicing on women whenever you can. Typical MAJOR results for most guys take a few weeks, with new levels of success being reached every few months.We are talking about LEARNING new skills AND debrainwashing yourself, to reset the internal wiring back to the way it is meant to be.
You're going to have to go out and APPLY the things I teach you, and at first it might not be easy. You might have a fragile ego and it might get hit emotionally by women, and yet you are only going to get TOUGHER and emotionally stronger if you follow through in the way I suggest, ultimately leading you to the point where your WORDS match your FEELINGS.
Internalizing Your "Game"
Your "GAME" will become so tight that in fact it will not be much of a GAME at all, it will be INTERNALIZED. And it will be congruent.It's WORTH it. It's the ONLY way. If you don't put in your dues, and you don't work on INTERNALIZING your game, and if you don't work on your ability to create COOL EMOTIONS in women, well then YOUR uncool emotions will ruin your game no matter how cool your "lines" are or your memorized "tactics".
Incongruity is always evident to people, even if they are not consciously aware of it. So the incongruity in a guy who is SAYING cool things but hasn't paid his dues developing the internal stuff, will never fool most women.
You have to get to the point that your EMOTIONS really ARE feeling the same stuff ABOUT YOURSELF that a hot woman feels regarding HER intrinsic value.
In my life, I keep only the best people around me, (although it's hard at times to find the time to just "hang out") we all make each other's FOUNDATIONS stronger by pushing each other, encouraging each other, and reminding each other to stay on track when we veer off the right MENTAL FRAME for a situation.
Now, believe it or not, all this stuff should be considered part of FOUNDATION LEVEL understanding. You NEED to have this understanding to create SOLID and CONSISTENT attraction with the kind of women that make your heart pound.
Take Yourself To The Next Level
Beyond this level, rests an even DEEPER level of understanding and skill. This level is part of what I like to call the INFINITE BEYOND. It includes an understanding of the deepest recesses of a woman's desire and in fact ALL her emotions.This is the level where you are able to understand the nuances and subtleties of a woman's behavior in a way that will give you such power that you genuinely feel EMPATHY for the woman in front of you, no matter who she is.
And you will be congruent with it, because it will come from your knowledge that you can give her the GREATEST gift she has ever experienced- which is EMOTIONAL fulfillment. When you KNOW you have something AWESOME to GIVE, you are bathed in an infinite sense of calm and security.
This is MORE than just losing any neediness. It's about also being able to GIVE a woman what she EMOTIONALLY NEEDS, for REAL.
This will enable you to not only create massive attraction, but also a DEEP sense of connection that most QUALITY women are YEARNING for.
Women's Deepest Desires
Most guys don't realize how important it is for a woman to have both, because they don't understand that raw SEX is easy for a woman to get. As a result, her self-esteem does not depend on it at all. Therefore ultimate sexual desire in a woman can only be unleashed when you ALSO know how to satisfy her other intense emotions, because the REALITY is that all these emotions are VERY MUCH connected. One unlocks the door to the other.Emotions are the ONLY truth that matters in this arena.
And you are going to be the biggest GIVER she ever had, because you are going to be GIVING her EXACTLY what she NEEDS to feel INSANELY GREAT.
And believe me, when you can do THAT to a woman, she won't just be attracted to you. She will be OBSESSED with you. So this is responsibility that you must take with great sincerity.
And if you are ready to gain the most advanced level of skill and understanding with women on the face of this earth, SIGN UP FOR BOOTCAMP with me NOW.
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Till next time,
Michael Marks
Sunday, September 25, 2016
Pulling Women Into YOUR Reality
The most important thing for attracting women
is creating something known as the VIBE.
This means stimulating their EMOTIONS in
a relaxed, positive way that includes getting
them to experience feeling turned on, feeling
excited, feeling laughter, feeling just the right
degree of safety, feeling intrigued, feeling
adventurous, and many other emotions.
This causes a woman to STOP everything else
she is doing and be obsessed with just ONE
thing: YOU.
You don't need to stimulate all these emotions
at once, although many of them can combine
at once to create an even more powerful effect.
Notice that just the plain "feeling aroused"
is not it alone, and this is because for women
emotions tend spill into each other and create
new experiences that are even more meaningful.
A student of mine explains EXACTLY how he used
what he learned from me both in my book and in
my bootcamp to successfully pick-up and attract
women this way.
His letter is MASSIVELY helpful for ANY guy
who wants to know how EASY it can be to
attract the most incredible women on Earth!
The entire message is tremendously informative,
and I have highlighted sections that I think are
of PARAMOUNT significance:
LETTER FROM A READER/BOOTCAMP STUDENT
Hey Michael,
Just had to write in to you, to tell you how
you have transformed my life with women.
I still can’t believe that a few short weeks ago,
I was living in despair, misery, and loneliness after finding
out that the girl I have had a crush on for years
is now “seriously” dating some new guy.
She works at the same company I do, she is
beautiful. She’s a petite dyed blonde, the most
feminine giggle you have ever heard, the most
sweet voice on the face of this earth, and the
drop-dead curves on her in every place a man
could ask for.
And she’s a great personality, too. Completely
down-to-earth; not stuck up at all.
We have been friends for three years- or should I
say I have been her “girlfriend” as I was the
one she would come to for support as she
would come crying revealing her bad dates
and relationship issues to me.
All that time, I thought she would eventually see
what was right in front of her, a guy that was caring
and devoted to her best interests, always.
And somehow, she just bypassed me and went
from one bad boyfriend to some totally new guy.
That’s when I discovered you and your new book
online. I devoured it in one sitting, and at first it
was too much for me to accept, it had my entire
vision of women and reality upside down, and
yet it confirmed what I had suspected on some
gut level for so many years.
So I read it again, and again. And again.
Four times I read your book, Michael, and
each time it hit me like a locomotive.
I started to realize how I had been screwing up
every single opportunity I ever had with women,
including this one that I had my heart set on.
Constantly trying to appeal to women by doing everything
except what really counts- getting their emotions pumping!
All those years, I was still trying to appeal to women
based on a male perspective of things, so I would
try to improve my looks by being in the gym, and
try to make more money, and also try to provide
logical reasons for her to be with me, like being
supportive, giving her good advice in life, etc.
Your book truly blew open my mind to how
off-track I was in terms of creating attraction,
and your tips on creating the sexual vibe
and on just how far we can go with this
when interacting with women got my mind
racing and excited to try them out on real
women!
So I started following the tips you gave for changing
my internal emotional baseline, so that I am truly
exuding the right combination of “vibes”.
And I started doing this while also “pushing the envelope"
in my interactions with women I would see anywhere, and
it was as if I had suddenly been shifted to an alternate reality,
where instead of getting pissed off and slapping me
across the face, women were melting and flirting back
with me!
One gorgeous waitress I had only flirted with, wrote her
number along with a borderline explicit dirty message,
on the receipt, which I had almost thrown out when
I got home because I didn’t even know she had done
that!
Well, before this point, I had wasted enough years
doing things the way I thought they were supposed
to work, and I wasn’t going to waste one more second
of my life being less than I could be with women, so I
signed up for your bootcamp that same night- I knew your stuff
would work, and I wanted to get to my full potential
with women as absolutely fast as possible.
I believe you only live once, and so every second counts.
Why wait years to have the greatest level of ecstasy with
women when I could have it now?
For your readers, I’d like to impart the moment of bootcamp
that left the most permanent effect on me that I will take with
me for the rest of my life.
We were walking along the sidewalk downtown,
you and I, discussing some of the finer details
regarding creating the all-important “vibe” that
swallows women up into your reality and makes
them never want to leave- when the most heavenly
creature entered my reality.
She had just stepped out of a taxi, and was walking up
ahead of us, a pony-tailed brunette, about 5 foot 6, clad
in baby-blue short-sleeves and a tasteful white skirt that
showed off her lightly tanned, shapely, womanly legs,
in strapped black heels that accentuated her feminine
calves.
Just the sight of her instantly shot my pulse into orbit.
I took your subtle nod as my cue to go into action, and
I knew, in a humorous way, you would never forgive me
for not taking action!
So I stepped up my stride and quickly caught up
to her, when I realized she was even more beautiful
than she looked from afar. About 26 or 27, angelic face,
a bit like Mila Kunis, her arms and legs were toned-she
had clearly spent time in the gym.
And curves that made it difficult for me to even think!
She was truly "poetry in motion".
And here is the part your readers need to understand:
What I said next came with unbridled passion, sincerity,
and joy for life. I truly felt more alive in the presence of
this woman than I had felt in my entire life.
Also, rather than interpreting my exploding heartbeat
in a way that would cause me to give into fear, I took
what you said and interpreted it as a sign my body was
giving me everything it had to be my best and give me
as much energy, resourcefulness, and ingenuity as
required to succeed.
I told her what was on my mind:
“You have to stop”.
And I slowed down to a stop.
At first, she didn’t know what was going on.
So I repeated myself.
“You have to stop’”
She looked at me curiously as she slowed down
and then stopped walking!
Step one accomplished. I had this woman now
stopped and giving me opportunity.
Your readers should also realize the power of this,
because by getting her to stop, and not chasing her,
it sends off a message of your own power and your
own internal state of mind. It shows just how mch
you know that you are worth every bit of her time.
So naturally, this makes a woman feel better
about the interaction than stopping for some guy
who himself feels unworthy of her.
I continued:
“You are a woman who makes a man feel like
a man; and there is no way on Earth I am going to
let you slip through my fingers without the greatest
battle and effort of all time, anywhere, everywhere”.
Now, I admit, that some of this came from my conversations
with you, but it was not conscious, it was subconsciously
“stealing” from my conversations with you where you had
taught me earlier.
But as you said, the key was my state of mind as I delivered
the message, as she would pick up subconsciously on
my full intent and meaning regardless of the words if
the feeling was truly there in my gut.
Her expression went from curious and concerned to
lit up with a really warm smile! She understood fully.
I also knew from you how important it was to continue
the interaction because it’s not enough to break the
ice; otherwise these women would be going out with
every guy!
So I started to work on building the foundation.
I took in the cues, including her toned muscles,
and accomplished humor and connection at once:
“Whoa! (pointing to her biceps) Are you a bodyguard?!
I could use a bodyguard! Too many women are always
after my body and I need protection! Especially from
a woman who could appreciate my mind and not treat
me like meat!”
To this, she started laughing, and looked me
straight in the eyes:
“Is that such a problem? What’s wrong with that?”
“It’s a huge problem! What if I want to make a living
Using my mind? No one will take me seriously!”
She laughed even harder! She totally got it!
Michael, as you taught me, turning around the entire
third-wave feminism thing on its head is so powerful!
It’s powerful because women really are as sexual as
men, and because especially attractive women are
so confident that they need to meet men who are
also as confident and who aren’t going to fall for the
“helpless female victim” perception of all women that
so many men have.
These women are so confident, they absolutely want
men who can have fun with them, and play and push
the envelope, and who understand that women are
even more sexual than men!
By playing up the angle of me being the one trying to
push women away, there was just the right amount of
challenge for her, combined with the natural chemistry
of man and woman, plus of course there was my sincere
compliments by sheer virtue of the fact I had opened
her in such a direct way about her feminine beauty
and how it made me feel more alive than ever.
Women really do want the pick up to be done in a way that
is not vulgar, that shows class, that shows personality.
Which makes so much sense as it just feels so much
better this way for everyone involved!
And yes, part of what I said again came from things
you taught me, but I wasn’t trying to repeat lines or
routines, I was just naturally drawing on the themes
and principles about women you had taught me.
And I’m sure in a very short time I will be creating
completely new ideas on the fly spontaneously
based on the truth and concepts you taught me.
At this point in the conversation, I had given her
the most sincere compliments and delivered it with
feeling, with passion, and with confidence, and we
both felt so good, that it was easy to start getting
to know each other.
I also used other things you had taught me.
Before meeting you in bootcamp, I might have said
something like “Are you a personal trainer?” because
of her toned body.
But you taught me to avoid the obvious for many
reasons. First of all, the obvious tends to get overplayed,
which means a million guys probably say the same thing
and therefore there is less of an emotional HIT from that
kind of comment.
Secondly, the so-called obvious is often not true.
So what I did was, I actually said that I bet most guys
think she is a personal trainer, but that I knew she was
probably something else, and I made a joke like she is
bent on taking over the world.
She giggled and told me she was actually a nurse,
and on her way to the gym, because she works the
night shift!
I then couldn’t resist the opportunity for more fun!
I told her that we could play doctor and patient later,
to which she again started laughing, and then I got
even more emotions pumping by telling her to get
her might out of the gutter and that I had meant
in terms of the health insurance information, that
we could discuss the boring financial issues involved!
She then punched me playfully in the arm, to which
I yelled out in mock pain and told her that I was definitely
going to call my lawyer and have her make me a rich
man as a result of this.
The next part of this is the part that will forever be
burned into my memory:
She commanded me to take out my phone!
Her actual words were:
“Okay mister, what is your name?”
“Andrew”.
“Andrew, give me your phone”.
Cautiously, I took out my phone and placed it in her waiting,
open palm.
She keyed in her number and her own phone rang
from her purse. She took her phone out and called
my own phone back.
She holds up my phone and puts it in front of my eyes:
“You have my number. Use it. Call me.”
Before parting, we embraced her for a long
moment in a tight hug, and I didn’t push further,
in order to keep things from getting out of control
in the wrong place.
I felt like I had entered a science-fiction realm, where
I was sucked into a worm-hole into another dimension,
where I was being catapulted past endless realities
and across space and time, to a universe where
there were no rules, no laws, aside from one:
Make what you want, happen.
Now, I had to come back to my own city after bootcamp,
but I am still in touch with this amazing woman.
More importantly, the confidence and the lessons
learned from bootcamp, including of course from
that particular experience, will stay with me forever,
and I currently have three incredible women that
I am seeing, and for the first time in my life, I have
a “quality” problem with women, in that I must decide
which of these women I truly think is best, because
I love them all.
Michael, you have changed my life, and for
your readers, they should know that bootcamp
truly will give them the power to attract the kind
of women most men only dream about.
If it wasn’t for your book and your bootamp,
I would still be rotting away in misery, pining
over one woman, when an entire universe of
gorgeous, superior, amazing women were out
there for me, for the taking.
Thank you, Michael.
Andrew, Los Angeles
My Comments:
Thank you, first of all for that detailed and truly
informative email that helps guys understand the
HOW part of applying what I teach.
For anyone reading this, did you notice what
DIDN’T come up in the ENTIRE conversation?
NONE of the things that most guys think is part
of a real conversation. The part where you go on
and on about your job, about you trying to say how
cool you are, or about how much you appreciate
serious things, or about how you try to prove
your worth.
NONE of that.
Instead, Andrew just focused on what actually
WORKS to get EMOTIONS pumping in women.
He also did this from a place that was empowering
for HIM as well. He didn’t memorize jokes. He
didn’t try to put himself down to be the butt of a joke.
He also didn’t shy away from showing he was a
MAN interested in her as a WOMAN. No apologies
for that at all.
In fact, that was the very FIRST thing he did, he
showed immediately he was approaching her out
of his natural desire as a man, so there was no
confusion in her mind about what was going on.
And since he gave HIMSELF permission, she
found it easy to ALSO give him permission, and
she found it easy to give HERSELF permission to
be a woman and not a robot.
And he made the process fun, and never LET UP.
When he told her to get her mind out of the gutter,
he did something UNEXPECTED, which means
she had an even STRONGER emotional reaction
to it, and that emotion was POSITIVE; it was a shock
but a good kind of shock. A playful innocent funny
shock!
These kinds of behaviors are EXTRAPOLATED
by women subconsciously; they can’t help but
feel that THIS is the way you are EVERYWHERE,
that you are a fun, sexual guy, who they will
have a great time with, in regular life, in the bedroom,
EVERYWHERE.
And there is the INDIRECT message given off
by these behaviors which also says that since
you are SOCIALLY SAVVY in general as well,
which means that you are good with people,
and this tells her that you are going to be good
with EVERYONE in her life as well.
So it’s all PLUS PLUS PLUS in terms of the
MASSIVE benefits this kind of interaction means
for you when it comes to women.
Now, there is MORE to success with women as well,
such as the forming of DEEPER BONDS which usually
comes later, but can also be done in the initial pick-up
as well.
This letter, though, shows just how POWERFULLY
you can attract women with this vibe, and with applying
the concept that I teach.
And if you want to learn how to attract the women
of your choice, there are two things you should do
RIGHT AWAY.
First of all, make sure to DEVOUR ALL OF MY MATERIALS.
They are the INSTRUCTIONS for how to attract women,
very much like the DRIVER’S MANUAL is the instruction
material for drivers.
And different kinds of vehicles that you want to drive
require different kinds of manuals, e.g. motorcycles,
cars, trucks, construction vehicles, etc.
My material is CRAMMED WITH WHAT YOU REALLY
NEED TO KNOW. The most POWERFUL, and LATEST
strategies and insights on how to approach, pick-up,
attract, and keep women.
Make sure you have them ALL, by going here IMMEDIATELY:
https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/catalog.html
The next step is the most effective way to put it all
into PRACTICE in the REAL WORLD by taking my
BOOTCAMP.
BOOTCAMP is like taking the DRIVING LESSONS,
where you now take what you learned from the
driver’s manual and combine it with actual real
life practice DRIVING with an expert instructor.
In bootcamp, you will be approaching women in
all types of environments and places where you
typically find women all the time- coffee shops,
bookstores, transit, taking walks, supermarkets,
and tons of other places!
I will serve as your INSTRUCTOR and save you
YEARS of time from learning it all on your own,
by CORRECTING any errors you are making in
your approaches and in your interactions.
With 13 years experience behind me, I can
immediately detect any errors you are making
and correct them for you so that your pick-ups
WORK.
Plus, in person, I can also SKYROCKET your
“inner game” and answer any questions you have.
The truth about attracting women is that it is not
as simple as just “be yourself” because your
SELF is not something that is STATIC and
something that never changes.
Should someone never LEARN to ride a bike
because at FIRST, their “self” does not know
how to do it?
Should someone not LEARN how to become
FIT, and learn how to work-out, because their
SELF, at first, does not know HOW?
It’s the same thing with learning to attract women.
As long as no one is being hurt or dishonest,
should one not LEARN how to attract women
just because at first, one does not know HOW?
So, as you can see, learning how to attract women
is just like learning ANYTHING ELSE.
Bootcamp is at:
http://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/bootcamp.html
Till next time,
Michael Marks
is creating something known as the VIBE.
This means stimulating their EMOTIONS in
a relaxed, positive way that includes getting
them to experience feeling turned on, feeling
excited, feeling laughter, feeling just the right
degree of safety, feeling intrigued, feeling
adventurous, and many other emotions.
This causes a woman to STOP everything else
she is doing and be obsessed with just ONE
thing: YOU.
You don't need to stimulate all these emotions
at once, although many of them can combine
at once to create an even more powerful effect.
Notice that just the plain "feeling aroused"
is not it alone, and this is because for women
emotions tend spill into each other and create
new experiences that are even more meaningful.
A student of mine explains EXACTLY how he used
what he learned from me both in my book and in
my bootcamp to successfully pick-up and attract
women this way.
His letter is MASSIVELY helpful for ANY guy
who wants to know how EASY it can be to
attract the most incredible women on Earth!
The entire message is tremendously informative,
and I have highlighted sections that I think are
of PARAMOUNT significance:
LETTER FROM A READER/BOOTCAMP STUDENT
Hey Michael,
Just had to write in to you, to tell you how
you have transformed my life with women.
I still can’t believe that a few short weeks ago,
I was living in despair, misery, and loneliness after finding
out that the girl I have had a crush on for years
is now “seriously” dating some new guy.
She works at the same company I do, she is
beautiful. She’s a petite dyed blonde, the most
feminine giggle you have ever heard, the most
sweet voice on the face of this earth, and the
drop-dead curves on her in every place a man
could ask for.
And she’s a great personality, too. Completely
down-to-earth; not stuck up at all.
We have been friends for three years- or should I
say I have been her “girlfriend” as I was the
one she would come to for support as she
would come crying revealing her bad dates
and relationship issues to me.
All that time, I thought she would eventually see
what was right in front of her, a guy that was caring
and devoted to her best interests, always.
And somehow, she just bypassed me and went
from one bad boyfriend to some totally new guy.
That’s when I discovered you and your new book
online. I devoured it in one sitting, and at first it
was too much for me to accept, it had my entire
vision of women and reality upside down, and
yet it confirmed what I had suspected on some
gut level for so many years.
So I read it again, and again. And again.
Four times I read your book, Michael, and
each time it hit me like a locomotive.
I started to realize how I had been screwing up
every single opportunity I ever had with women,
including this one that I had my heart set on.
Constantly trying to appeal to women by doing everything
except what really counts- getting their emotions pumping!
All those years, I was still trying to appeal to women
based on a male perspective of things, so I would
try to improve my looks by being in the gym, and
try to make more money, and also try to provide
logical reasons for her to be with me, like being
supportive, giving her good advice in life, etc.
Your book truly blew open my mind to how
off-track I was in terms of creating attraction,
and your tips on creating the sexual vibe
and on just how far we can go with this
when interacting with women got my mind
racing and excited to try them out on real
women!
So I started following the tips you gave for changing
my internal emotional baseline, so that I am truly
exuding the right combination of “vibes”.
And I started doing this while also “pushing the envelope"
in my interactions with women I would see anywhere, and
it was as if I had suddenly been shifted to an alternate reality,
where instead of getting pissed off and slapping me
across the face, women were melting and flirting back
with me!
One gorgeous waitress I had only flirted with, wrote her
number along with a borderline explicit dirty message,
on the receipt, which I had almost thrown out when
I got home because I didn’t even know she had done
that!
Well, before this point, I had wasted enough years
doing things the way I thought they were supposed
to work, and I wasn’t going to waste one more second
of my life being less than I could be with women, so I
signed up for your bootcamp that same night- I knew your stuff
would work, and I wanted to get to my full potential
with women as absolutely fast as possible.
I believe you only live once, and so every second counts.
Why wait years to have the greatest level of ecstasy with
women when I could have it now?
For your readers, I’d like to impart the moment of bootcamp
that left the most permanent effect on me that I will take with
me for the rest of my life.
We were walking along the sidewalk downtown,
you and I, discussing some of the finer details
regarding creating the all-important “vibe” that
swallows women up into your reality and makes
them never want to leave- when the most heavenly
creature entered my reality.
She had just stepped out of a taxi, and was walking up
ahead of us, a pony-tailed brunette, about 5 foot 6, clad
in baby-blue short-sleeves and a tasteful white skirt that
showed off her lightly tanned, shapely, womanly legs,
in strapped black heels that accentuated her feminine
calves.
Just the sight of her instantly shot my pulse into orbit.
I took your subtle nod as my cue to go into action, and
I knew, in a humorous way, you would never forgive me
for not taking action!
So I stepped up my stride and quickly caught up
to her, when I realized she was even more beautiful
than she looked from afar. About 26 or 27, angelic face,
a bit like Mila Kunis, her arms and legs were toned-she
had clearly spent time in the gym.
And curves that made it difficult for me to even think!
She was truly "poetry in motion".
And here is the part your readers need to understand:
What I said next came with unbridled passion, sincerity,
and joy for life. I truly felt more alive in the presence of
this woman than I had felt in my entire life.
Also, rather than interpreting my exploding heartbeat
in a way that would cause me to give into fear, I took
what you said and interpreted it as a sign my body was
giving me everything it had to be my best and give me
as much energy, resourcefulness, and ingenuity as
required to succeed.
I told her what was on my mind:
“You have to stop”.
And I slowed down to a stop.
At first, she didn’t know what was going on.
So I repeated myself.
“You have to stop’”
She looked at me curiously as she slowed down
and then stopped walking!
Step one accomplished. I had this woman now
stopped and giving me opportunity.
Your readers should also realize the power of this,
because by getting her to stop, and not chasing her,
it sends off a message of your own power and your
own internal state of mind. It shows just how mch
you know that you are worth every bit of her time.
So naturally, this makes a woman feel better
about the interaction than stopping for some guy
who himself feels unworthy of her.
I continued:
“You are a woman who makes a man feel like
a man; and there is no way on Earth I am going to
let you slip through my fingers without the greatest
battle and effort of all time, anywhere, everywhere”.
Now, I admit, that some of this came from my conversations
with you, but it was not conscious, it was subconsciously
“stealing” from my conversations with you where you had
taught me earlier.
But as you said, the key was my state of mind as I delivered
the message, as she would pick up subconsciously on
my full intent and meaning regardless of the words if
the feeling was truly there in my gut.
Her expression went from curious and concerned to
lit up with a really warm smile! She understood fully.
I also knew from you how important it was to continue
the interaction because it’s not enough to break the
ice; otherwise these women would be going out with
every guy!
So I started to work on building the foundation.
I took in the cues, including her toned muscles,
and accomplished humor and connection at once:
“Whoa! (pointing to her biceps) Are you a bodyguard?!
I could use a bodyguard! Too many women are always
after my body and I need protection! Especially from
a woman who could appreciate my mind and not treat
me like meat!”
To this, she started laughing, and looked me
straight in the eyes:
“Is that such a problem? What’s wrong with that?”
“It’s a huge problem! What if I want to make a living
Using my mind? No one will take me seriously!”
She laughed even harder! She totally got it!
Michael, as you taught me, turning around the entire
third-wave feminism thing on its head is so powerful!
It’s powerful because women really are as sexual as
men, and because especially attractive women are
so confident that they need to meet men who are
also as confident and who aren’t going to fall for the
“helpless female victim” perception of all women that
so many men have.
These women are so confident, they absolutely want
men who can have fun with them, and play and push
the envelope, and who understand that women are
even more sexual than men!
By playing up the angle of me being the one trying to
push women away, there was just the right amount of
challenge for her, combined with the natural chemistry
of man and woman, plus of course there was my sincere
compliments by sheer virtue of the fact I had opened
her in such a direct way about her feminine beauty
and how it made me feel more alive than ever.
Women really do want the pick up to be done in a way that
is not vulgar, that shows class, that shows personality.
Which makes so much sense as it just feels so much
better this way for everyone involved!
And yes, part of what I said again came from things
you taught me, but I wasn’t trying to repeat lines or
routines, I was just naturally drawing on the themes
and principles about women you had taught me.
And I’m sure in a very short time I will be creating
completely new ideas on the fly spontaneously
based on the truth and concepts you taught me.
At this point in the conversation, I had given her
the most sincere compliments and delivered it with
feeling, with passion, and with confidence, and we
both felt so good, that it was easy to start getting
to know each other.
I also used other things you had taught me.
Before meeting you in bootcamp, I might have said
something like “Are you a personal trainer?” because
of her toned body.
But you taught me to avoid the obvious for many
reasons. First of all, the obvious tends to get overplayed,
which means a million guys probably say the same thing
and therefore there is less of an emotional HIT from that
kind of comment.
Secondly, the so-called obvious is often not true.
So what I did was, I actually said that I bet most guys
think she is a personal trainer, but that I knew she was
probably something else, and I made a joke like she is
bent on taking over the world.
She giggled and told me she was actually a nurse,
and on her way to the gym, because she works the
night shift!
I then couldn’t resist the opportunity for more fun!
I told her that we could play doctor and patient later,
to which she again started laughing, and then I got
even more emotions pumping by telling her to get
her might out of the gutter and that I had meant
in terms of the health insurance information, that
we could discuss the boring financial issues involved!
She then punched me playfully in the arm, to which
I yelled out in mock pain and told her that I was definitely
going to call my lawyer and have her make me a rich
man as a result of this.
The next part of this is the part that will forever be
burned into my memory:
She commanded me to take out my phone!
Her actual words were:
“Okay mister, what is your name?”
“Andrew”.
“Andrew, give me your phone”.
Cautiously, I took out my phone and placed it in her waiting,
open palm.
She keyed in her number and her own phone rang
from her purse. She took her phone out and called
my own phone back.
She holds up my phone and puts it in front of my eyes:
“You have my number. Use it. Call me.”
Before parting, we embraced her for a long
moment in a tight hug, and I didn’t push further,
in order to keep things from getting out of control
in the wrong place.
I felt like I had entered a science-fiction realm, where
I was sucked into a worm-hole into another dimension,
where I was being catapulted past endless realities
and across space and time, to a universe where
there were no rules, no laws, aside from one:
Make what you want, happen.
Now, I had to come back to my own city after bootcamp,
but I am still in touch with this amazing woman.
More importantly, the confidence and the lessons
learned from bootcamp, including of course from
that particular experience, will stay with me forever,
and I currently have three incredible women that
I am seeing, and for the first time in my life, I have
a “quality” problem with women, in that I must decide
which of these women I truly think is best, because
I love them all.
Michael, you have changed my life, and for
your readers, they should know that bootcamp
truly will give them the power to attract the kind
of women most men only dream about.
If it wasn’t for your book and your bootamp,
I would still be rotting away in misery, pining
over one woman, when an entire universe of
gorgeous, superior, amazing women were out
there for me, for the taking.
Thank you, Michael.
Andrew, Los Angeles
My Comments:
Thank you, first of all for that detailed and truly
informative email that helps guys understand the
HOW part of applying what I teach.
For anyone reading this, did you notice what
DIDN’T come up in the ENTIRE conversation?
NONE of the things that most guys think is part
of a real conversation. The part where you go on
and on about your job, about you trying to say how
cool you are, or about how much you appreciate
serious things, or about how you try to prove
your worth.
NONE of that.
Instead, Andrew just focused on what actually
WORKS to get EMOTIONS pumping in women.
He also did this from a place that was empowering
for HIM as well. He didn’t memorize jokes. He
didn’t try to put himself down to be the butt of a joke.
He also didn’t shy away from showing he was a
MAN interested in her as a WOMAN. No apologies
for that at all.
In fact, that was the very FIRST thing he did, he
showed immediately he was approaching her out
of his natural desire as a man, so there was no
confusion in her mind about what was going on.
And since he gave HIMSELF permission, she
found it easy to ALSO give him permission, and
she found it easy to give HERSELF permission to
be a woman and not a robot.
And he made the process fun, and never LET UP.
When he told her to get her mind out of the gutter,
he did something UNEXPECTED, which means
she had an even STRONGER emotional reaction
to it, and that emotion was POSITIVE; it was a shock
but a good kind of shock. A playful innocent funny
shock!
These kinds of behaviors are EXTRAPOLATED
by women subconsciously; they can’t help but
feel that THIS is the way you are EVERYWHERE,
that you are a fun, sexual guy, who they will
have a great time with, in regular life, in the bedroom,
EVERYWHERE.
And there is the INDIRECT message given off
by these behaviors which also says that since
you are SOCIALLY SAVVY in general as well,
which means that you are good with people,
and this tells her that you are going to be good
with EVERYONE in her life as well.
So it’s all PLUS PLUS PLUS in terms of the
MASSIVE benefits this kind of interaction means
for you when it comes to women.
Now, there is MORE to success with women as well,
such as the forming of DEEPER BONDS which usually
comes later, but can also be done in the initial pick-up
as well.
This letter, though, shows just how POWERFULLY
you can attract women with this vibe, and with applying
the concept that I teach.
And if you want to learn how to attract the women
of your choice, there are two things you should do
RIGHT AWAY.
First of all, make sure to DEVOUR ALL OF MY MATERIALS.
They are the INSTRUCTIONS for how to attract women,
very much like the DRIVER’S MANUAL is the instruction
material for drivers.
And different kinds of vehicles that you want to drive
require different kinds of manuals, e.g. motorcycles,
cars, trucks, construction vehicles, etc.
My material is CRAMMED WITH WHAT YOU REALLY
NEED TO KNOW. The most POWERFUL, and LATEST
strategies and insights on how to approach, pick-up,
attract, and keep women.
Make sure you have them ALL, by going here IMMEDIATELY:
https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/catalog.html
The next step is the most effective way to put it all
into PRACTICE in the REAL WORLD by taking my
BOOTCAMP.
BOOTCAMP is like taking the DRIVING LESSONS,
where you now take what you learned from the
driver’s manual and combine it with actual real
life practice DRIVING with an expert instructor.
In bootcamp, you will be approaching women in
all types of environments and places where you
typically find women all the time- coffee shops,
bookstores, transit, taking walks, supermarkets,
and tons of other places!
I will serve as your INSTRUCTOR and save you
YEARS of time from learning it all on your own,
by CORRECTING any errors you are making in
your approaches and in your interactions.
With 13 years experience behind me, I can
immediately detect any errors you are making
and correct them for you so that your pick-ups
WORK.
Plus, in person, I can also SKYROCKET your
“inner game” and answer any questions you have.
The truth about attracting women is that it is not
as simple as just “be yourself” because your
SELF is not something that is STATIC and
something that never changes.
Should someone never LEARN to ride a bike
because at FIRST, their “self” does not know
how to do it?
Should someone not LEARN how to become
FIT, and learn how to work-out, because their
SELF, at first, does not know HOW?
It’s the same thing with learning to attract women.
As long as no one is being hurt or dishonest,
should one not LEARN how to attract women
just because at first, one does not know HOW?
So, as you can see, learning how to attract women
is just like learning ANYTHING ELSE.
Bootcamp is at:
http://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/bootcamp.html
Till next time,
Michael Marks
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