Showing posts with label relationships. Show all posts
Showing posts with label relationships. Show all posts

Sunday, March 24, 2019

The Horrifying Reason Most Men Fail With Women, And What To DO About It

There is a reason that most men fail with women, and it has NOTHING to do with lack of pick-up artist "tactics" such as negs, cocky and funny, or any other superficial external strategy. Rather, it has to do with something much, much deeper. 


From the day they are BORN, men in the western world are BOMBARDED by messages in the media and in their schooling creating an impression that most men are monsters to women-be it in the form of raping women, sexually abusing women, or physically assaulting women. And, of course, men are told that women are HORRIFIED of them.

So who do you think CHANGES the way they behave with women as a result of this INDOCTRINATION since birth? The men who don't give a damn about women, or the men who have empathy and who CARE about women?

That's right-it's the men who CARE about women. These men, the good guys, end up bending over backwards for women, using ULTRA-EXTREME caution in their approach. They CAN'T be confident with women, because even the act of HAVING such confidence would mean they don't understand the HORRIFYING GRAVITY of the picture that has been painted in their minds about how terrible women have it with men. 

So these GOOD MEN end up LACKING confidence, and LACKING in conveying sexuality with women, as a result of TAKING THIS INDOCTRINATION SERIOUSLY and as a result of CARING about women.  

And of course, women are REPELLED by such behavior, and at best can only be FRIENDS with these guys.  Because women just can't feel turned on by men who lack confidence, lack a sense of sexuality, and who act like they are walking on eggshells when it comes time to take things to a sexual level.

But the men who care about NO ONE, who have no empathy, well guess what? They couldn't give a rat's ass about any message from anyone. So they don't get indoctrinated. They are totally comfortable being sexual with women. They are totally confident. And, of course, they find that women LOVE this, and so they get this behavior REINFORCED by women. 

And then these women get ABUSED by these men, and then these women say that all men are jerks.

That is why I made today's new video. It is to DESTROY the LIES promoted by feminism and political correctness. It is to RE-IGNITE your natural sense of masculinity and your PRIDE in BEING A MAN. And by the way, women are attracted to men with PRIDE.

This is ALSO the reason I am working on an important film to WAKE UP society to the horrifying ways in which men are being treated today by so many women. You can help make this film a reality by going here: 

https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/love-bound-movie.html

If you have been born in the western world, you don't even REALIZE how DEEPLY brainwashed you have been. You have no idea how DEEPLY this stuff affects the way you FEEL about yourself and about women, and how deeply this indoctrination screws you up at every step of the way from the first time you walk up to her to the time you are supposed to take things to a more sexual level. 

Beyond watching this video, the BEST things you can do for making sure YOU succeed with women include the following steps:

STEP ONE 

If you haven't already read my very FIRST book, The Dating Wizard, then for the love of all that is sacred in this world, READ IT NOW. This book is ALL about being a MAN with women, in a world that tries to tell you to DESTROY your manhood and your masculinity.   

I'm not exaggerating-this book REALLY IS all about being THE MAN, and you will in fact see how I show you how to UNLEASH your masculinity and embrace it in a way that drives women WILD. 

It's also important to note that I wrote this first book over FIFTEEN years ago, when all the other dating coaches were obsessed with superficial tactics like negs and other things that don't address the REAL ISSUE.  I already saw back THEN how being a MAN was something that our society was trying to VILIFY, and yet I also knew even back then how VITAL it is for men to be masculine in order for women to feel turned on and in order for women to feel feminine. 

And all these issues have actually become EXPONENTIALLY more important since then, making this book even MORE important today than it was then!

It's at:

https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/ebook.html

STEP TWO

At the same time, there is also ANOTHER book that is ESSENTIAL reading.  Even though so many women have been messed up by feminism and political correctness, it is essential to realize that there are still some AMAZING women out there-women with rock-solid morals and women who can appreciate a good man.  If and when you meet a woman like that, you NEED to make sure you communicate with her in a way that still shows you are THE MAN, but ALSO builds the absolutely strongest level of CONNECTION and TRUST as well. 

After all, this is not a woman looking to invest one night of her life, but her actual lifetime  with you.  And the irony is that most of the pick-up artist tactics DESTROY trust. THIS book will show you how to create attraction AND build that supreme level of trust from the very get-go of your first interaction with her so that you set things up right from the start.

It's at:

https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/get-a-great-girl.html

STEP THREE

After reading these two books, it's time to take things to an even HIGHER level.  First, as you now know from today's video and newsletter, the GREATEST obstacle to most men's success with women stems from an issue that goes DEEP into the subconscious, which is the result of a lifetime of being INDOCTRINATED to believe all kinds of destructive lies. 

And so the SOLUTION is REPROGRAMMING YOUR MIND AND YOUR EMOTIONS so that you are RESTORED back to your AUTHENTIC MASCULINE SELF.  To do that at the highest level I suggest you download my most ADVANCED program EVER on what is known as "INNER GAME". 

This program was filmed LIVE, and is called Warrior Within, because it is all about unleashing the power INSIDE of you that has been REPRESSED by years and years of feminist, politically-incorrect indoctrination.

It's at:

https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/warrior.html

STEP FOUR

I have created an entire UNIVERSE of programs, and I believe every single one of them is important for different reasons. For example, once you HAVE your inner game fixed, THEN it can be helpful to understand OTHER aspects of success with women, from learning how to unleash HUMOR, to how to use your VOICE in a way that shows sexuality and confidence and playfulness, to learning the smoothest way to start a pick-up, to learning the smoothest way to transition from one stage to another with a woman from the moment you meet her all the way to getting physical and beyond. 

And much, much more. I also have a PRIVATE consultation service where you can get LIVE, customized one-to-one coaching from me where I will answer your questions and help you solve any issues you want fixed in a SNAP. 

And of course, I also have my famous Bootcamp program that is so powerful it has been featured on national television news programs, in national newspapers, and has a GLOWING reputation for its effectiveness. 

You can find out about ALL these programs by going here:

https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/catalog.html

As you can see, I truly care about changing the WORLD when it comes to the way men are being treated. It is the reason I am working on that film to combat the feminist indoctrination. Learn MORE about this film and how to help get it made by going here:

https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/love-bound-movie.html

Until next time, stay cool.

Michael Marks

Thursday, July 13, 2017

Alpha Males And Good Girls

A wise alpha male knows there's nothing more powerful for a man than being with an amazing good girl. 

And yet, like no time before in history, good girls today are PRECIOUS and few. The destruction of values and morals that have stood the test of time for thousands of years is happening right before our eyes. Forces such as third-wave feminism and political correctness are on the ASSAULT against the foundations of our civilization.

"Good girls" are EVERYTHING when it comes to motivating a man to be his best. It's simple, really.  There is no greater HIGH in this world than that which comes from women-it hits men on every emotional level. It's chemical-the release of DOPAMINE is triggered, which makes you feel EXCITED and ELATED. And the release of OTHER important chemicals as well, which make you feel CALM, are triggered.



So it's no wonder that men will DIVE into BATTLE, they will WORK their fingers to the BONE, they will climb the highest MOUNTAIN, in order to win the interest of women.

The PROBLEM is when this drive is not HARNESSED intelligently. The wrong women will drive a man to jump off a building, or to destroy himself in a million other ways emotionally, financially, physically, or spiritually.

But the RIGHT woman will use her power to make a man the BEST he can be.

Let me give you an example. You know the BILLION DOLLAR empires more familiar to audiences as the SUPER HERO films? Well it would not EXIST today if it were not for a great woman, who actually just passed away last week.

Stan Lee, the man who co-created so MANY absolutely ICONIC super heroes such as SPIDER-MAN, X-MEN, HULK, AVENGERS, and FANTASTIC FOUR was at one time a FAILING comic book writer who was about to QUIT comic writing after suffering from depression due to his career FAILURE.

But do you know what his wife, Joan, told him? "Before you quit why don’t you write one comic you are proud of?" It was after this he wrote his FIRST massively successful comic, “The Fantastic Four.” And the rest, as they say, is history.

When a man has the support of a great woman he is attracted to, he has NO FEAR of anything else.  There is no such thing as failure, because he ALREADY HAS what he REALLY needs to survive and thrive emotionally, so his mind is FREE to truly be RESOURCEFUL instead of being bogged down by fear. 

Fear SHUTS DOWN your mind's ability to be at its BEST. This has been PROVEN.

And not only does the right woman liberate you from the fear of failure, but she also motivates you to want to succeed because success is what she truly WANTS for you.

And the story I shared with you today is not an isolated one. If you do the research, you will see how just about EVERY man of accomplishment out there was motivated by the right woman.

This is why I have made sure to focus my work on helping men attract GOOD GIRLS who are the "total package".

And if you haven't yet downloaded my book, Get A Great Girl, then definitely do that immediately at:

https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/get-a-great-girl.html

If you'd like ONE-ON-ONE private coaching to learn how to approach, detect, and attract amazing women who are beautiful inside and out, go here:

https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/bootcamp.html
  
Till next time,

Michael Marks

Tuesday, June 27, 2017

Negative Versus Positive Emotions For Attracting Women

One of the greatest horror stories when it comes to the situation between men and women today is how so many of the very people who are supposed to be EXPERTS on attraction are actually SCREWING UP millions of men with their misguided advice. 

So, for example, if you're a man who has been looking for advice on attracting women, then unless you've been living on MARS for the past decade, you probably have heard of popular pick-up artist advice. 

Perhaps you've read the book The Game. And you probably have heard about strategies such as "negs" which are really thinly-veiled insults also known as back-handed compliments-and of course these things are not compliments at all-they are actually DESIGNED to make a woman feel INFERIOR, to make her feel LESS about herself.

Perhaps you've heard of strategies such as "freeze-outs", designed to make a woman feel punished (by ignoring her) for not getting sexual fast enough. 

Supposedly, this stuff "gets a woman off her pedestal".  

And make no mistake about it, this stuff has been ENTRENCHED into pick-up artist culture for MANY YEARS now, and if you doubt me, you are welcome and free to do the research yourself. 

Now, don't get me wrong. It's not like I think that all women are made from sugar and spice!

In fact, it was after going through YEARS of abuse by women that I WOKE UP to the LIES we were all fed by third-wave feminism and political correctness, and it was that nightmare experience that made me embark on a journey of learning and experience that led to my  creation also known as The Dating Wizard.

And the ANSWER to attracting women is not through NEGATIVE tactics.  The answer is through a combination of the following two things:

ONE:
Making yourself an INFINITE source of incredible emotions she experiences with you.

TWO:
Wisely SELECTING for a good woman who also hasn't been corrupted by third-wave feminism, political-correctness, and postmodernism. (It's all a product of postmodernism.)

And I have to repeat-if ANY GUY thinks that he will actually GET HIMSELF a girlfriend and KEEP her with those negative and famous pick-up artist tactics, he is ABSOLUTELY WRONG, and I want to prove it to you right now. 

So let me CUT THROUGH THE INSANITY right here: Do you know what the RATIO between GOOD experiences versus BAD experiences must be in order for a person to want to be with someone rather than break up with them?

It's TWENTY to ONE.

That's right: TWENTY to ONE.

This stuff has already been STUDIED in both happy couples and conflicted couples, and it's been PROVEN. (You can study the research by Dr. John Gottman if you want all the nitty-gritty details). 

That means that basically, the woman (and you) need to be having positive interactions with each other pretty much ALL THE TIME.

How GOOD do you think a woman is going to feel when she is "NEGGED"? When she is given "FREEZE-OUTS"? 

So you might be wondering-how do those tactics get SO MUCH praise from certain men in the seduction community if they don't work?

The ANSWER is fourfold: 

First of all, 99% of the men don't ACTUALLY take ANY real consistent action to attract women in their lives, so taking ANY action, even a MISGUIDED one, is liable to create SOME response in a woman, compared to ZERO. 

Secondly, when the guy uses this crazy negative stuff, and it is on a woman who is a total STRANGER, the woman still doesn't know if this is how he is ALWAYS FOR SURE GOING TO BEHAVE.  So she hasn't seen the PATTERN in the guy yet, and might actually let it SLIDE.  But that doesn't mean it's HELPING the guy!

Thirdly, the fact the guy THINKS this is a good tactic gives him some confidence, so again, his efforts are going to get SOME result compared to saying NOTHING to her, and this might boost his confidence, and then he might decide to actually STOP the insane tactics and go on to actually doing something less destructive to attract her!

The fourth factor is that a LOT of the women these guys are approaching who are actually RESPONDING AT ALL are women who are promiscuous OR who are drunk or tipsy or BOTH promiscuous AND drunk/tipsy, and so these women are really not having the same standards of behavior because they are NOT looking for anything significant and they are not in their right minds, and they are offering the guy a lot less-in fact they are offering zero loyalty, commitment, dedication, etc.

These TRUTHS are what most men NEVER learn. 

What you WANT in order to attract a woman and keep her attracted, is to be someone who she feels AMAZING around-in terms of her confidence, her sexual appeal, her sense of calm and optimism, her sense of fun and adventure, her sense of the inspirational, her feelings of connection to you, and all that awesome stuff!!!!

And there AIN'T NO WAY IN HELL that is happening with 99.99% of the pick-up artist stuff that is sold by the TON to MILLIONS of men everyday!

So what do MOST guys think is a GOOD ratio of positive to negative interactions with a woman, so that the woman WANTS to be with a guy and stay with a guy? 

Well, most guys think that if they are in a relationship, and they get into an argument with a woman, that the whole thing is OKAY if they then have a GOOD experience together with her. As if a bad experience is "erased" by a good experience.

But that thinking is WRONG.

"The ratio of positive interactions to negative in happy couples is 20 to 1, in conflicted couples is 5 to 1, and in soon-to-divorce couples is .8 to 1. Watching a couple interact when they are not in conflict is the best way to predict their risk for divorce."

So even five positive interactions to one negative interaction is not good enough! In fact, 5 to 1 is a sign of CONFLICTED couples! 

The overall balance has to lean OVERWHELMINGLY to the positively AWESOME side!

And it all makes sense, if you think about it. Human beings are not rational-they are EMOTIONAL.  People don't buy things, for example, just because they think they are going to get back an EQUAL value to what they are paying.

Businesses know this, which is why they aim to get people EMOTIONAL, and to make people FEEL like they are getting back WAY more in terms of VALUE than they are paying for. 

This is why so many companies create promotions such as "two for one" offers.

It's also why you see products that when you buy the large size come out to much cheaper, even if you don't NEED the product in large quantities---it's because people LOVE the feeling of getting WAY MORE than just "fair" or "equal to what I paid".  

Getting WAY MORE THAN THEY DESERVE is what REALLY MOTIVATES people.

It's human greed.

People don't get excited about FAIR.
They get excited about getting WAY MORE THAN IS FAIR.

A woman needs to feel she is getting WAY MORE AWESOME EMOTIONS from being with you than she feels she actually even "should" be getting according to her concept of what is "fair".

This is why any guy using negative tactics on women could NEVER, EVER, EVER use that stuff on a woman who is ready and looking for a REAL RELATIONSHIP, and they could NEVER use that stuff to KEEP a woman either.

In a long-term relationship, there has to be a LOPSIDED emphasis on keeping the ongoing interactions and experiences POSITIVE ones, ranging from how she feels on the telephone talking to you, to making love, to just hanging out.

This is why I have been saying FOREVER, but only a few have listened, that it is not about being a NICE guy or a JERK, but about being a man who is BADASS (which gives her the feeling of getting a real MAN) that actually ALSO shows he CARES about HER (that gives her the feeling of being LOVED) and that knows how to give her a massive range of awesome emotions (that gives her many feelings such as excitement/adrenaline, laughter, wonder, inspiration, connection, etc.). 

You want to inspire her, you want to make her feel feminine, you want to make love so that her world goes from black and white to COLOR, you want to be able to get her laughing, you want to be able to get her to feel super connected, you want to be, in a SYMBOLIC sense, her "CRACK COCAINE DEALER OF INSANELY AWESOME EMOTIONS" so she becomes ADDICTED to you, and keeps on coming back to you for MORE!

And sometimes, RARELY, there may very well be conflict! But if you navigate through the conflict PROPERLY, (which I also teach), you will both come back even STRONGER emotionally toward each other than before!  

I teach the POSITIVE way to attract a woman from the moment you FIRST see here anywhere, all the way to the RELATIONSHIP as well.

This video gets into it a bit more:


Do YOU want to get yourself a GREAT girlfriend?
Then let me make sure you succeed.

Download my follow up to my original The Dating Wizard book-it's called The Dating Wizard Returns, at:

https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/book.html

And sign up for a SKYPE coaching session with me where I can help you succeed with any and all aspects of attraction and relationships, by going HERE immediately: 

https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/consultations.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

Saturday, June 3, 2017

Climbing Out Of Darkness

One of the BIGGEST MISTAKES that I used to make
regarding the whole idea of attraction is that I
thought you were supposed to be this type of
STOIC, serious guy. Brooding.


I thought this showed that you were TOUGH.
I thought TOUGH was what it was all about.

I didn't see how you could be both TOUGH
and yet PLAYFUL.


Not only that, I was so dark and brooding that
I LIVED in a world of darkness. I dressed in all
black. I felt very CONGRUENT this way too,
especially since I was so pissed off at so many
things.


And the way my interactions were going with the
girls that I liked didn't help any, in fact that
probably made me feel more angry than
anything.


I was this decent guy, who would never cheat
on a girl, who was totally genuine and meant
every word I said, and yet the girls I really
wanted just didn't seem to feel the same
way.


They didn't seem to appreciate any of my
decency, or my serious-mindedness, even though
they kept on SAYING they wanted a serious
guy who wouldn't cheat on them, etc.


So I used to assure them over and over again
that I would NEVER cheat on them, and that
I would ALWAYS appreciate them. I used to
call a girl again and again to show her that
I did NOT take her for granted. To show her
that I was NOT the type of guy that they said
they hated.


Of course, this made the problem worse.
This just pushed the girls away even more,
and this made me even more brooding, angry
and pissed off.


It ultimately EXPLODED one day as I became
totally and completely fed up. I became blunt
with girls, doing NOTHING for them, no favours,
sick and tired of being abused and used.


I was super direct in my 'pick-up' style, basically
just approaching girls and going right into any
conversation and then telling them to give me
their contact info, which they often did.


I gave no compliments because I was sure
girls didn't deserve them. And, in a completely
calm way, (because I really didn't care about
any girl, since I felt they were pretty evil anyway,
so I had no anger, I was more EMOTIONALLY
DEVOID). I disqualified girls for the SLIGHTEST
thing that **I** didn't approve of, in fact I told
them that things wouldn't work out and I meant
it.


I would do this calmly on the way driving them
home. So if a girl pulled out a cigarette for
example, earlier in the evening, she found out
later on the ride home from me, that in my
opinion things wouldn't work out, I often didn't
even explain why, because I didn't care enough
to even let these girls know, since I figured
they were too insensitive to appreciate the
reason anyway.


The key to remember is that I said this super
perfectly calmly, which is something that 99
percent of guys don't do, they get emotionally
involved, which actually BOOSTS THE
GIRLS' EGO, since she feels she got the
guy to REACT to her.


Usually, these girls, who by the way happened
to be INSANELY HOT, then started to CHASE me,
asking me to call them and not to judge them
based on one night. They kept telling me to
call them. To give them a chance.


Which was ironic, because when I was always
doing the chasing, and doing all the work in the
world to make these girls happy and feel good,
they wouldn't give me the time of day.


But in the 'then' new version of myself, I called
girls only when I happened to feel like it, and
didn't call them when I didn't feel like it. I
promised girls nothing, and had more girls
than I could count, so I really didn't mind
much if some of them didn't like the way
I rolled.


So what was the problem?
There were a few problems:

ONE.
These relationships lasted for a VERY SHORT
time.


Most girls are compelled and intrigued and
attracted to a guy who really is THE MAN in
the sense that he is emotionally strong,
doesn't need anything from anybody,
certainly not from a woman. They are
also attracted to the dominance shown
by a guy who leads the show.


However, they also hope to have SOME
connection to the guy. The way I was
behaving made any long-term relationship
impossible.


TWO.
When trying to actually PICK UP girls in
'HAPPY' environments like clubs, (where
TONS of girls hang out) my behaviour wasn't
helping very much. It's just like trying to mix
oil and water, they don't mix.


I hated the music, I hated the whole happy
thing actually. Hated it. Thought it was
'weak'.


So this style was not useful in clubs or lounges.
And there are TONS of girls in these places.

THREE.
 

In general, this whole attitude I had was not
making ME very happy. My attitude was that
chicks were 'evil', and they had to be shown
'who's boss'.


Which is kind of depressing if you really
believe it, which I kinda did at the time.
 

Not a great paradigm or formula for
happiness, on your own, or with women.

All this changed SLOWLY, as I evolved to
gain a far greater and more comprehensive
understanding of attraction.


It took YEARS for me to CLIMB OUT OF
THE DARKNESS.




 









I grew to understand that attraction has
NOTHING to do with being a jerk. It has
to do with making a girl feel you are
SUPERIOR to her, and yet it also has to
do with making her feel that you in fact
really DO LIKE her, for she has something
special about her.
 

Superior does NOT mean abusive
at ALL.


It's just a FACT that people are attracted
to that which they feel is SUPERIOR.
 

So says ME.

I also grew to understand that YOUR STATE
OF MIND is the GREATEST POWER ON
EARTH you can possibly EVER have with
women.


This state of mind is a combination of BEING
IN AN AWESOME MOOD, of KNOWING
that you are DESIRABLE, and of feeling
SEXUAL as well as of feeling DOMINANT.

When you are operating in THIS DIMENSION,
then you are in a WHOLE NEW BALL GAME.
 

Seriously, no goddamn exaggerations, it's a
WHOLE - NEW - BALLGAME.


Suddenly, you no longer have to 'run game'
on women. YOU are all the game you need.
YOU have BECOME what attraction IS.


And your attitude toward women changes
as well. The reason this happens is because
you are not only getting results, but you
also finally 'get' that attraction is not about
being MEAN.


Ultimately, it's about making women feel
GREAT, which happens because YOU feel
great (which is VERY different than the
stereotypical 'nice guy' who actually feels
very down and inferior). You are able to
make women feel great because you
KNOW IN YOUR GUT that you are
THE guy who will make her feel GREAT.

But the thing is, WHAT IF YOU ARE FEELING
LIKE TOTAL CRAP???????


If state of mind is SO CRITICAL for
success in your interactions with women,
then what the hell should a guy do if he is
feeling like total crap???


Should he stay home and say affirmations
to himself?
 

Should he tell a girl that he is feeling crappy,
that he is having an 'off day'?

NO!

The answer is that he should IMMEDIATELY
GO OUT FROM THE HOUSE AND GO INTERACT
WITH WOMEN AS BEST HE CAN.


Yup. 
THIS is what he should do.

Otherwise, he will just go DEEPER into his
negativity, and by focusing on it, he will only
make it WORSE.


And NEVER, EVER EVER give in to the negative
emotions. WEATHER THE STORM with everything
you've got.


For example if some EX-GIRLFRIEND who
treated a guy like crap is making a guy feel
bad, then the BEST thing he can do is GO OUT
AND INTERACT WITH WOMEN!!!


And even if he feels like crap while he is
doing this, he is doing the BEST AND MOST
EFFICIENT THING for his success and for his
state of mind to change.


The reason for this is because interacting with
women requires ALL OF YOUR SENSES TO
BE ENGAGED.


Your sense of timing, your sense of humor,
your visual senses, your alertness and dominance,
your tone of voice and vocal abilities.


YOUR FOCUS IS THUS PUT IN THE RIGHT PLACE:
YOUR INTERACTIONS WITH WOMEN, rather than
some negative PAST event or even some negative
current emotion.


As a brilliant friend I know explains, don't REPRESS
the thoughts, but don't FOCUS on them either!

THERE IS NO INSTANT PERFECTION.

But there is the QUICKEST route to GETTING
to that powerful state of mind-- a state
of mind that is the combination of several
specific emotions.


And that's through DOING IT, through DOING
pick up, and through interacting with women.


And of course, not only are you concentrating
your focus away from the negative LIES in
your brain, but chances are that you will also
get POSITIVE feedback from women if you
take advantage of the things that I teach,
which will VALIDATE your sense of self-esteem
and self-worth.


This will BLOW TO BITS the feelings
of insecurity that were causing you the
negative feelings in the first place!!!


And of course, you should ALSO be immersing
your life with POSITIVE sources of energy and
you must CUT OFF the negative sources of energy,
you must Do EVERYTHING in your power to avoid
negative people and negative sources.


Your mind should be fed a diet of EMPOWERING
input, i.e. music that is 'THE MAN' approved.

Blow the wuss music the hell out of the water. 

For now, you can't take chances.


Also, remember that chances are if any woman
ever did something CRUEL to you, (this is different
than simply not being attracted), chances are
INSANELY HIGH that she did this to you because
SHE FELT INSECURE. She felt horrible, so
she wanted YOU to feel horrible. It was her
CONTRIVED PLAN to make you feel like
crap.

It was CONTRIVED, it's not what you are
REALLY worth, it's what she WANTED YOU
to THINK you are worth.


Insecurity is the cause of all hell and bad
personalities. Yes it's true. It's the cause
of both behaviour that is FAKELY NICE
and also behaviour that is MEAN.
 

Both of which are "anti-attractants".

Notice how both FAKE NICE, i.e. a guy
that kisses a woman's ass because he
feels inferior, is not 'nice', it's just a feeling
of inferiority, and notice also how being
MEAN is ALSO a reflection of someone
feeling inferior inside and thus feeling
the NEED to put down others so that
they will (in his mind) accept him or
her as superior or at least worthy.


Either way, BOTH are not the ways to achieve
optimum attraction.


If you want to gain the GREATEST POWERS
of attraction with women, you MUST learn
to achieve a very specific state of mind that
is the product of a unique COMBINATION
of several emotions.


And if you want to learn exactly HOW to
ACHIEVE this state of mind, it's up to
YOU to take action. I can think of no finer
way for you to do this than by IMMEDIATELY
downloading my eBook-
The Dating Wizard Returns, at:

https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/book.html

Inside, you'll learn:
-How to trigger attraction in ANY WOMAN instantly.
-How to approach women and create 'instant dates.'
-How to get physical.
-How to handle tests.
-How to create a powerful sense of connection.
-And much, much more.


Download it all at:

https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/book.html

And if you would like to get the MASSIVE POWER
of PERSONAL ONE-ON-ONE COACHING

with me, where I will focus exclusively
on you, on taking you past any sticking
points so that you can achieve your
goals as fast as possible, you can now
arrange this by going to:


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And if you are ready for the IMMERSION EXPERIENCE,
where you will be pushed to your limits and then
taken WAY BEYOND what you thought was ever
possible, it's time for you to sign up for my
EXCLUSIVE ONE-TO-ONE BOOTCAMP.


These bootcamps are sold out for
several weeks, so if you are interested
in signing up for this summer, let me
know asap.


Get all the details at:

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My eBook and my services truly form
the DNA of attraction, and I look forward
to hearing your success stories!


Till next time,

Michael W. Marks

Tuesday, May 23, 2017

Why Showing "Modern" Women You Want A Relationship REPELS Them, And What To DO About It

There are two incredibly important new videos
for you today that reveal key insights into 
TRUE success with women that NO ONE
else out there discusses or reveals.

They BOTH concern the fact that getting
the kind of woman who actually is going
to be RELATIONSHIP worthy is TOTALLY
DIFFERENT in almost every single way
than "hooking up" with most of the 
attractive yet promiscuous women 
you meet today.

This TRUTH is the MOST HIDDEN
SECRET IN ALL OF THE PUA UNIVERSE
BECAUSE RELATIONSHIPS ARE TOO
COMPLEX AND REQUIRE TOO MUCH
EMOTIONAL DEVELOPMENT TO BE
MARKETABLE TO A MASS AUDIENCE
THAT IS HORNY AND IMPATIENT.



Men, partly due to many so called "PUAs"
or "pick up artists" out there, THINK that
there is something SPECIAL to learn
regarding "hooking up" with women.
 
The truth is, promiscuity among women
is so high today, that there is NO NEED
for any "tricks" to be performed by men
to get these women, and in fact, the 
MORE you try HARD, and the MORE
you try to show how you would be this
great guy to her, the WORSE it is,
because she isn't LOOKING to commit
to 99.999999999999999999999999%
of men till she is truly out of options.

This is thanks to feminism and political
correctness.

These women think commitment is a loss
of FREEDOM. 

These women, thanks to being bombarded
by feminist propaganda that keeps on telling
them how they are ALWAYS THE PRIZE
no matter what, end up feeling that men are 
just SOOOOO LUCKY TO EVEN GET A
CHANCE TO TALK TO THEM.

These women sleep around quite a bit,
and the STD rates PROVE it - click this sentence itself for stats.

So, being a typical pick up artist really means
LOWERING YOUR MORAL STANDARDS
in terms of things like actually having a
FAITHFUL, LONG-TERM RELATIONSHIP.

It's JUST about sleeping around, and if you 
want those kind of women, you have to make
it CLEAR that you are NOT looking for a deep
serious relationship.

You have to actually go against your own
values and pretend to be some guy who 
has ZERO interest in emotions, in bonding,
in relationships, in family, in raising children,
etc.

Because all THOSE things, to soooooo many
feminist-brainwashed women today, are 
ATTACKS on her FREEDOM, on her PROMISCUITY,
and on her CAREER.  

What SHE wants is CAREER, TRAVEL,
AND SEX. And a lot of PROZAC to 
combat the depression that she finds
herself in when all these things don't
amount to much in terms of actually
feeling any real satisfaction at the
end of the day and when feminism
fails them and has no answers.

But if you are looking for the REAL THING,
for a woman who takes PRIDE in her 
femininity, who ENJOYS being GOOD
to her MAN, to a man who she has
CAREFULLY CHOSEN because of his
CHARACTER, then you need to RAISE
YOUR STANDARDS, and take a
very DIFFERENT approach, which
is where I come in.   

Make sure you DOWNLOAD my book
Get A Great Girl, IMMEDIATELY, at:

https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/get-a-great-girl.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

Sunday, May 7, 2017

Self-Optimization For Ultimate Success With Women And Life

One of the biggest things I learned
when it comes to the whole topic of
women is that many of the principles
that help with women actually help
you with LIFE as well-whether it is
your career, your business, your
health and fitness, and just about
anything else where you want to
truly OPTIMIZE yourself.


Developing BELIEF in yourself.
Finding your own infinitely powerful MOTIVATION
that gives you ENDLESS energy.
Developing razor-sharp SOCIAL skills.
Being able to ADAPT and SPONTANEOUSLY
react EFFECTIVELY to any situation.
Radiating CHARISMA.

These things turn out to be UNIVERSALLY
powerful for success in ANY area.


And, because women are attracted to the
OVERALL package as opposed to just one
thing in a man, the more you OPTIMIZE
yourself in ALL these ways, the
BETTER you will do with women as
well.

So you get the benefit of OPTIMIZING
yourself AND also of course attracting
women even MORE in the process.


And it's also easier to have super-solid
confidence when you know your entire
reality is ROCK-SOLID.

It is for this reason, that I have created
my new coaching service for SELF-OPTIMIZATION.
That means I will help you get
EVERYTHING in your life OPTIMIZED
for MAXIMUM SUCCESS.


I know I have used the things I've learned
to not only date and have relationships with
incredible women, but also to make breakthroughs
in other parts of my life, from my film-writing
work in the movie business, to personal breakthroughs
emotionally and physically.

If you would like to OPTIMIZE your LIFE,
I suggest you sign up for personal coaching
with me, where I can help you via Skype,
phone, or in person.


Email me at michael@thedatingwizardreturns.com
with the details of what you want to improve,
and I will get back to you within 24 hours
on how we can get started.

Till next time,

Michael Marks

Saturday, May 6, 2017

The HELL Men Face That Feminists IGNORE

When it comes to true success with women, nothing is more important than actually getting yourself a GOOD woman. No matter how gorgeous a woman looks, no matter how "fast" you are able to progress with her, it all is MEANINGLESS if she is the kind of woman who will make your life MISERABLE. 

On the other hand, getting a woman who really is the total package will fire up your engines like nothing else on EARTH in terms of adding joy, motivation, and satisfaction to your life. 

Well, today, that is harder than ever unless you are both informed and skilled when it comes to women. Like no other time in history, women in the western world are BOMBARDED with propaganda that VILIFIES men as abusers and rapists, and that ELEVATES and praises women for almost ANYTHING, and worst of all, that often gives women HORRIFIC advice that causes men to actually be REPELLED from them.  

I'm talking about things like telling women that men don't care about whether a woman is promiscuous or not, and that tells women to push off finding a good relationship and to instead be obsessed with career, money, traveling, partying, and casual sex during their youth instead of finding a good, loyal man who will treat them right.



And then on top of all this, women have no CLUE as to what is REALLY going on with men, and how it is MEN who are the victims of suicide in 4 out of every 5 cases of suicide!  

Can you imagine if this was REVERSED? If it was WOMEN who were the ones committing suicide in 4 out of every 5 cases??? There would be a NATIONAL CRISIS alert, and EVERYONE would know how HORRIFYING of an issue it was.

Meanwhile, when it is MEN who are killing themselves, NO ONE GIVES A RAT'S ASS!
No one even KNOWS about it!!!

And did you know that most of the HOMELESS are also MEN, and not women?

But all you hear about are how the only victims out there, are WOMEN.

And did you know that women assault men too? When was the last time you heard about THAT? 

And if men are so EVIL, then why is it that so many women are ASSAULTING men without FEAR of men FIGHTING BACK? After all, if men are so evil, then these women should be TERRIFIED of men using superior strength to truly BEAT THESE ASSAULTING WOMEN BACK TO A PULP, right?

So in fact, these women are relying on the DECENCY of most men to HOLD BACK, to actually RESTRAIN THEMSELVES EVEN WHEN BEING ATTACKED BY WOMEN. That includes things like being kicked in the groin, which can be very painful as any person with an ounce of comprehension knows.

And why is it, if men are so evil, and so powerful, that men LET WOMEN GET AWAY with making a MOCKERY out of, and TRIVIALIZING, female assaults on men?

All these things show you how WARPED our society has become, and how what should be considered evil is now considered perfectly fine.  And it is in THIS kind of world, where MILLIONS AND MILLIONS of feminist women think this is all FINE, that men are trying to have NORMAL relationships with women.  

Is it any WONDER why thing are not working out? Is it any WONDER why there are movements like MGTOW? Is it any WONDER why so many men are ABANDONING the thought of being with women who are RAISED in a society that teaches them that men are PUNCHING BAGS TO BE ABUSED?

It is in THIS world that I grew up, and it is the reason why I have never been obsessed with just sex, but rather with helping men find and attract GOOD WOMEN.

Getting a GOOD woman is very DIFFERENT today than it was in previous generations. 

And to learn MORE about getting an AMAZING woman, I suggest you download my book 30 Days To An Amazing Woman, at:

https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/30-days-to-an-amazing-woman.html

For a personal consultation with me on ANY matter to do with women, go here:

https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/consultations.html

For BOOTCAMP to learn how to detect, approach, and attract amazing women who are the total package, go here:

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To download all my PREMIUM downloadable programs which you must pay for, go here:

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For TESTIMONIALS from men who have USED my programs to get success with women, go here:

https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/testimonials.html

To see reports in the news of me and my work getting men success with women, go here:

https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/in-the-news.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks 

Tuesday, March 7, 2017

"The Pick Up That Wasn't There" And Other MASSIVE Revelations On Attracting Women

There is an ENORMOUS amount of crucial insights into success with women that I want to share with you today, and there are TWO new videos on this as well.

The first thing I want to tell you is that TRUE attraction, the kind that doesn't require a woman to be drunk or promiscuous or desperate, is about a TON of TINY NUANCES that all come TOGETHER to create FULL IMPACT.

The subtleties involve everything from your vocal tonality, to your deep understanding of women, to your ability to "feel" out the vibe in the moment (which comes from accurately reading her body language), to your ability to TIME things right.

Timing means for example knowing whether it is the right time to get more physical, or the right time to simply increase the comfort stage, or whether it is the right moment for teasing her playfully. It also includes the WAY in which you build the connection with her (is it smooth and natural feeling, or is it a forced "yeah, me too!" statement).

And it is also about your own confidence in your self and your own attitude toward life, and much, MUCH more.

NONE of these things, however, on their own, are ever IN HER FACE in a really "showy" way.  NONE of these things should ever feel like you are doing something that feels non-natural. NONE of these things should come across as SENSATIONALISTIC or WEIRD or OVER THE TOP.

It doesn't even look like a pick-up! Which is why I call it "THE PICK-UP THAT WASN'T THERE"! It doesn't "feel" like anything strange is going on-it doesn't feel like there is some big "pick-up" happening.

When a woman is being approached and attracted properly by an expert, it actually looks very much like the man and woman HAVE KNOWN EACH OTHER A LONG TIME; it all seems SUPER SMOOTH and very NORMAL.  

It's a bit like how a true martial arts expert knows that a real take-down or real street fight is NOT flashy. You hardly see anything, and then it's all over.  Yet, TONS of tiny nuances in timing, in performance, in decision making, in technique, have all been delivered.  To the naked eye, it almost seems like nothing happened, except the awesome result. 

Same thing with a proper pick up and attraction. It all happens very quickly, and it seems as if the woman just already "liked" the guy, because it's so hard to determine WHAT the guy did.  But in reality, he did things on the HIGHEST LEVEL.

Unfortunately, though, so much of the PUA community is about GETTING MEN'S ATTENTION, not women's attention.  And so GETTING MEN'S ATTENTION on the internet especially, has to do with SHOWING OVER THE TOP, SENSATIONALISTIC, BIZARRE, SHOCKING, EXTREME behavior in a pickup.

And because so many men are misguided, they don't understand what is really going on. They will assume that a woman in a club who is drunk, tipsy, or promiscuous is the same thing as an amazing loyal woman who is looking to have a fantastic faithful relationship with an amazing guy.

Also, there is a TEMPTATION to believe that some technique that sounds MEAN or MANIPULATIVE ON A SUBCONSCIOUS LEVEL, such as "negs" against women, is the SOLUTION.  The temptation comes from INSECURITY and from thinking that the only answer to attract women has to be something to "even the score"--which in itself stems from NOT UNDERSTANDING FEMALE PSYCHOLOGY.

Men think they don't have what it takes to attract women, so the only answer is to NEG them or be MEAN in some way, to somehow bring "women's over-estimation of themselves" down so that there is a more level playing field. But women don't base their attraction on that, they base their attraction on HOW MUCH POWER THEY FEEL YOU ARE RADIATING, ALONG WITH HOW MUCH CONNECTION YOU BUILD WITH THEM.

And those two things have NOTHING to do with "negs" or any other kind of OBNOXIOUS behavior. In fact, for the very BEST women, those "negs" and OBNOXIOUS behavior will DESTROY any chances with them!!!!

The MOST POPULAR pick-up videos on the internet are usually the WORST advice, FULL of THIS kind of obnoxious behavior. The same way the PUA community never mentions the physical hazards of promiscuity as well- including the fact that 7 out of 10 sexually active people WILL GET HPV.  Yes, 7 out of 10. It's not just the PUA community that is blind to this fact; it is also MAINSTREAM society.

I have always been focused on making men the BEST they can be.  FORGET the average, forget mainstream society, mainstream tends to be VERY IGNORANT. Just look at the news most people follow. There is no reason for ANYONE to be stuck in the land of AVERAGE, when they can be AMAZING.

In today's new video, I ALSO discuss KEY insights into how to use humor in a way that is not only funny, but that ATTRACTS women as well, and that makes it SUPER EASY to open up conversations with women anywhere!

Plus, I discuss the TRUTH about political correctness, which is CRUCIAL for understanding in our era of third-wave feminism that corrupts many women and that brainwashes and weakens so many men.

PLUS, you will learn how having a CONFLICT with a woman is no reason for weakening her attraction to you-it can, if resolved, lead to bringing you together in a way that is MORE POWERFUL THAN EVER, increasing the attraction and the bond a hundredfold!

You'll ALSO learn how to USE YOUR BODY in a way that TRIGGERS UNSTOPPABLE CONFIDENCE that takes only TWO MINUTES! Imagine using this right before approaching women!!!! 

PLUS, I have ANOTHER VIDEO that shows you a special insight into HOW A GREAT WOMAN tests a man, which is something that NO OTHER DATING COACH EVER TOLD YOU AND THAT IS ABSOLUTELY CRUCIAL.

So let's get to it! Here we go:



As you can see, I am OBSESSED with the TRUTH on how to attract AMAZING WOMEN. No gimmicks, no phoney come-ons, no "hypnosis". Just hard-core ATTRACTION, with the kind of women that TRULY enhance your life.

If you haven't yet taken a bootcamp with me, it's time to do so. Men from all over the PLANET are coming to me to take this program, because they not only know the quality of what I teach and have seen the testimonials, but they also know that I give PRIVATE ONE-ON-ONE instruction, which means EVERYTHING IN BOOTCAMP IS CUSTOMIZED FOR YOUR BENEFIT IN MASTERING THE SKILL OF ATTRACTING WOMEN.

BOOTCAMP is at:

https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/bootcamp.html

And if you haven't yet downloaded my eBooks and audio programs, do that NOW. These are not just "extras", these are VITAL programs on attracting women, that make sure you have the EDGE when it comes to everything from HUMOR, to BONDING, to SCREENING, to HOW TO PHYSICALLY ESCALATE, to SKYROCKETING YOUR INNER GAME, and much, MUCH more. 

They are all an absolute MUST if you want to be the BEST with women.

They're at:

https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/catalog.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

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