TRANSGRESSION AND THE SACRED: The Truth About Taboo

I have something so important to reveal
to you today, that it's worth it to make
sure you read this newsletter somewhere
in a place where you can really concentrate.

And before I go any further, I want to say
that I am pretty damn sure that this is
going to be yet ANOTHER thing that the
pick-up artist companies out there are
going to make sure they TAKE from my
newsletter right here, and they will
also not give me one OUNCE of credit
for it.

Just like they did before, for example,
I wrote to Neil Strauss BEFORE he published
"The Game", how it is possible to attract
women anywhere WITHOUT using pick-up routines
and pick-up lines, and how to do it all
without manipulation, but he never mentioned
a WORD about this.

Not one SYLLABLE.

And if you were around in the community then,
or if you read the book, you know how
PICK UP LINES and MEMORIZED ROUTINES
were so INDOCTRINATED into guys by their
instructors, it was believed at that time
by 99% of the instructors as THE ONLY AND
BEST WAY TO GO.

Fast forward YEARS later, and it turns out
what I was teaching was 100% CORRECT and
SUPERIOR, and that virtually NO ONE
OUT THERE ANYMORE TEACHES PICK-UP LINES
AND MEMORIZED ROUTINES AS THE BEST WAY
TO GO ABOUT ATTRACTING WOMEN and doing
pick-up.

And not ONE of them gave me an OUNCE of credit
for this.

And there have been A TON of other things
that I gave the community that most didn't
acknowledge, including the way pick-up must
be MODIFIED and CHANGED if you are trying
to attract a truly great girlfriend for
a long-term relationship--things that over
TIME, have been PROVEN and now are ACCEPTED
by anyone who knows ANYTHING about attraction
and pick-up.

The only guy who gave any credit at all
was David DeAngelo, who mentioned that
what I teach allows guys to not only
attract women, but also to build the
TRUST, in a world where many pick-up
tactics actually RUIN the trust.

So it will probably happen here too, on
THIS one that I am going to reveal to
you here.

What I ask you to do is SPREAD this newsletter,
spread this blog, spread the message, to at
least make it worth my while to keep on
doing this publicly, as the other option
is for me to just do this ONLY for myself,
and that would be fine, as it is A REAL
PASSION for me, and I don't do it for
business as my main motivation, but
I can't do it publicly for everyone
for FREE, either.  There are costs
involved in terms of time and money
in doing this for others as well.

So here we go:

You know how all the stuff about being
a "NICE GUY" to women is what guys think
REPELS women?

And how it seems that being LESS of a
"nice guy" to women, e.g. less kissing up,
less seeking approval, all leads to
MORE ATTRACTION from women?

And how this one-the biggest one of all-
which is how women tend to be ATTRACTED
to men who display MORE POLITICALLY INCORRECT
behaviors and attitudes regarding their
views on being sexual with women?

Well, there is a FUNDAMENTAL COMPONENT
of the picture that guys have been missing
from all this, and it is the REASON why
so many men who LEARN pick-up end up
LOSING the women who they INITIALLY
attracted. 

It boils down to TWO THINGS:

ONE:

A woman is HARDWIRED to feel AROUSAL from
very PRIMAL perspectives on sex.

At its core, sex is one of the most
PRIMAL drives, right after the drives
that seek food and shelter.

So, pretending that sex is SOMETHING ELSE
isn't very helpful.  This doesn't mean
that sex doesn't have MORE REFINED
ASPECTS TO IT AS WELL, that our more
EVOLVED brains can APPRECIATE on
an EMOTIONAL level as well.

But REPRESSING the PRIMAL is NOT good
for arousing a woman, for attracting a
woman.

So on a PRIMAL level, women know EXACTLY
what they want. 

But on an EVOLVED AND LOGICAL LEVEL,
they ALSO know they have to be VERY
VERY VERY CAREFUL about WHO they end
up in bed with.

This is, in my opinion, very SMART
and a very GOOD thing that women
DO indeed have this logical level.

So what women want is to GO PRIMAL, but
"GOING PRIMAL" is something they can ONLY
do with a man that they TRULY TRUST and
TRULY RESPECT--unless these women are
INTOXICATED, which explains why so many
men rely on THE CLUB SCENE, because these
women are not in their right minds and
are intoxicated.

And so, for an INTELLIGENT and highly
SELF-AWARE woman, the act of GOING
PRIMAL and being POLITICALLY INCORRECT
in bed with a man, and doing all sorts of
stuff that would make 50 SHADES OF GREY
look like a JOKE, has to be with someone
who is BOTH primal and ALSO 100% worthy
of her TRUST that he will not think
this is the way she wants to be treated
OUTSIDE the bedroom.

And yet, even THIS is only the WARM-UP to
LEVEL TWO, which is THIS:

A MAJOR REASON THAT BREAKING TABOOS, OR BEING
POLITICALLY INCORRECT REGARDING THE SEXUAL,
HAS SO MUCH POWER IS BECAUSE SHE VALUES
THE OPPOSITE 99% OF THE TIME IN HER LOGICAL LIFE,
AS OPPOSED TO HER SEXUAL AROUSAL LIFE.

Let me explain it further:
In order for any TABOO to have EFFECT,
there must be something of VALUE being
TRANSGRESSED IN THE FIRST PLACE!!!!!

So, for example, regarding something like
DOMINATION and SUBMISSION, the truth is that
if a woman REALLY felt she wanted a man to
OWN HER and CONTROL HER, and that this was
THE WAY THINGS SHOULD BE ALL DAY LONG, there
would be NOTHING "politically incorrect" or
taboo here by doing the SAME thing in bed.

There would be NOTHING "SACRED" being
"transgressed" here, so it would have
NO AROUSAL OR PSYCHOLOGICAL IMPACT on
her.

What MAKES the whole thing SPECIAL is that
she actually VALUES the OPPOSITE in many ways,
which is what makes THIS taboo she is breaking
with you SUPER EROTIC and SUPER SPECIAL--
something she can ONLY do as long as SHE
values the REAL THING, of for example
GREAT RESPECT, in the FIRST PLACE.

The only way the whole behavior can be
a "transgression" is if she REALLY feels
there is something SACRED being "transgressed."

I put the word in quotes because NOTHING
evil is happening, it is a feeling, and
a very powerful and intoxicating feeling.
And the feeling can only EXIST if the truth
is that on a very deep level she VALUES
being a "good girl".

This is why some of the most sexually fun
women are women who really DO respect themselves
and who really DON'T outwardly show any wild
behaviors.

If they were wild all the time, there would be
very little WILD about doing the exact same thing
in bed.

Now, imagine you are that woman.
Imagine how HARD it is to find a man who UNDERSTANDS
all this.

These women either meet guys who are timid, or guys
who think they are "all that and a bag of chips"
because they learned how to put on an arrogant
act.

What makes something TRULY AROUSING to a woman is
a man who APPRECIATES exactly how SPECIAL it is
that SHE is UNLEASHING herself, and who UNDERSTANDS
that this is not a reflection of her being some
kind of wacko, but rather a reflection of how
sacred she holds things like love, respect, etc.

Without her real desire and appreciation of things
like love, respect, tenderness, etc, there can be
no MAXIMUM EROTICISM from her engaging in behavior that
is RAW AND ANIMALISTIC AND PURELY PRIMAL.

This is why it is SO IMPORTANT to give a woman
both sides of the spectrum.

This means she MUST KNOW YOU RESPECT HER.
And the key for you is to do this WITHOUT EVER RESORTING TO
KISS-UP BEHAVIOR, but you MUST MUST MUST MUST MUST REMEMBER
HOW IMPORTANT IT IS TO BUILD UP THE MOST SERIOUS TRUST, THE
MOST SERIOUS CONNECTION, if you want to REALLY have something
where it is so special that NO OTHER GUY ON THIS EARTH CAN
COME CLOSE to being for her WHAT YOU ARE FOR HER.

So don't go around using cocky behavior without ALSO
incorporating the DEEPEST ELEMENTS OF BONDING AND
CONNECTION- unless you don't really care to have
a woman CRAZY ABOUT YOU.

Remember--what MAKES the TABOOO work is the fact that
she actually, on every logical level, and even many
emotional levels (just not the sexual one), VALUES
THE OPPOSITE OF THE TABOO!

This is the REAL meaning behind "NOT JUDGING A WOMAN" FOR THIS.

Just because she gets AROUSED from it doesn't mean she
AGREES with it as the way things should be OUTSIDE
of the sexual zone.

Here are some important words to help capture the essence
of what you as a man need to convey:

INFINITE RESPECT.
INFINITE LOVE. (not sappy, just genuine good will)
NO APOLOGY FOR BEING SEXUAL.
POLITICALLY INCORRECT COMMUNICATION REGARDING THE SEXUAL.

Now, learning all the SUBTLETIES for how to
CONVEY ALL THIS is the NEXT STEP.

If you would like to learn how to attract women,
you can speak with me LIVE on the phone or SKYPE
where I will coach you through ANY aspect of the
attraction process, including with any specific
woman who is on your mind.

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Till next time,

Michael Marks