The Battle To Stand Up For Men

Wow, it’s only been about four weeks, but it
feels like it’s been FOREVER since last time.

There’s so much I want to tell you, and it won’t
be possible to do it all in one newsletter, but here’s
what I can tell you right now:

As you know, I truly believe that men in the
western world are facing new emotional challenges
that men have NEVER had to deal with before,
and these challenges strike right into the CORE
of a man’s identity, self-concept, and mental
health.

For one thing, the politically incorrect FACT is
that women are attracted to male STATUS and
power. The same is NOT true vice-versa: Men
are NOT attracted to female status and power.

And like no time in history before, men are LOSING
power in EVERY way-politically, financially, academically,
and most importantly EMOTIONALLY.

The RAVAGING effects of this are TRAGIC and
have a MULTITUDE of disastrous effects on men.

For example, there are more women in universities
than men, and this includes in many high-status and
respected fields as well, including fields such as
MEDICINE and LAW.

And OF COURSE there is nothing WRONG with
WOMEN being in these professions-what’s wrong
is that men are dropping out of academics.

And no one cares to even help these men.
For another example, the fact is that it is BOYS
who are suffering in school at an early age, much
more than girls. It is BOYS who are trailing when
it comes to reading skills, for example.

And almost NO ONE GIVES A RAT’S ASS.

Men’s diseases, like prostate cancer, don’t get
a FRACTION of the attention that women’s diseases
like breast cancer do.

All this also sends a subconscious message to men,
and it is this: MEN DON’T MATTER.

Meanwhile women are CONSTANTLY told that
they are “worth it” and that they are the prize
and that men should just be so lucky to even
get a glance from a woman.

And it is MEN who will emotionally suffer,
because on a CORE LEVEL, as human beings,
being WANTED by the opposite gender is
HARD-WIRED into our sense of self-worth,
our confidence, our emotional well-being.

Men don’t CARE if a woman isn’t rich, or isn’t
a doctor, a lawyer, or any other professional.

It is WOMEN who care about these kinds of
things-and though OF COURSE there are
a TON of OTHER ways for men to attract
women, those OTHER ways are ALSO being
attacked and ravaged.

So, for example, even having a basic sense
of healthy sexuality and feeling GOOD about
being a masculine male is under ATTACK
by our politically-correct anti-male culture.

And it starts from the moment a boy is BORN.
I am NOT exaggerating-I have seen the way
our culture is trying to indoctrinate even children
to start believing that males are inherently violent
and evil and need to be reformed while girls are
supposedly innately more civilized and virtuous.

And male health issues are IGNORED by the
media, including the fact that THREE QUARTERS
OF ALL SUICIDES ARE MALE!

Worse still, is that when such issues ARE ever
brought up, (and it is a RARE moment when they
ARE mentioned) most of the world PRETENDS
that they have NO CLUE as to WHY this is-
as if all these horrific issues have NOTHING
to do with male suicide.

Combine all this with the fact that the NUCLEAR
FAMILY has been all but DESTROYED over the
last several decades, resulting in millions of men
growing up without fathers that could show them
the way to be a man. Millions of men growing up
without someone who could instill the confidence
and strength in them that is required to handle life.

Ways of life that have worked for literally THOUSANDS
of years for humanity are being DESTROYED in just
decades, and in recent years being destroyed at
EXPONENTIALLY growing rates.

The honest truth is that being a MAN today is
a HELL of a challenge.

And NO ONE WANTS TO REALLY TALK ABOUT IT.

Over the years, I’ve learned that the way to make
IMPACT is not through FACTS AND FIGURES but
rather through EMOTIONS.

And I have ALWAYS loved movies, and in fact I am
a screenwriter and have served as a film instructor
at several colleges over the years. Movies are about
MAKING THE AUDIENCE EXPERIENCE THE
EMOTIONAL ESSENCE OF A STORY….instead
of just hearing or seeing a bunch of statistics.

And for that reason I have been working for YEARS
on making a MOVIE about the HELL that men are
facing when it comes to dating and relationships.

A lot of work has been going on behind the scenes
for this film- the completion of the script, the search
for the right actors, the right cinematographers, the
right talent in every department.

And YOU can be a PART of this journey. 
This film is going to be produced through a form
of crowd-funding known as “Indiegogo”.

The Indiegogo campaign for this film is about to
LAUNCH very, very soon.

But BEFORE it launches, I’ve set up a special
“PRE-LAUNCH” page where you can get a sneak
preview of what it’s all about, and you can sign
up as a special “early bird” subscriber to get
cool perks from the film at special offers that
will not be available to anyone else!

There’s also a special video from me to you
where I explain what’s going on and how you
can be a part of it.

It’s all at:

https://www.indiegogo.com/projects/love-bound-a-feature-film--2/coming_soon
 
And just because you’ve been so patient
all this time, I’ve also just created an
INSANELY AWESOME BLACK FRIDAY
MADNESS offer for my programs to
give you the EDGE for success with
women in today’s world.

The link for that is here:

https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com

Stay tuned for more announcements about the
film and for more newsletters with important
tips for success with women today.

Till next time,

Michael Marks

Why Political Correctness Is The Greatest Threat To Our Civilization

For over fifteen years, I've been warning men of the horrifying dangers of third-wave feminism and of political correctness, and how important it is to RESIST these forces in order to attract women. And yet, as absolutely DESTRUCTIVE as these forces are when it comes to this area of life, the truth is that the evil of political correctness actually goes even further: It is a clear and present danger to our very CIVILIZATION itself.  

Political correctness is the greatest threat to our civilization because it is destroying the very FOUNDATIONS of our civilization: Free speech, logic, education, the ability to defend our way of life, and the natural sexual bond between men and women.


If you would like to know more about how to DEFY political correctness in the RIGHT way when it comes to attracting women, then I seriously suggest you get my program called "Politically Incorrect Pick-Up" at:

https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/politically-incorrect-pick-up.html

And if you would like personal coaching with me on ANY issue regarding attracting women, dating, relationships, or about political correctness, you can arrange one-to-one Skype coaching (or phone coaching if you prefer) with me by going here:

https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/consultations.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks 

The TRUTH On What Makes Women "Fall In Love" With Men

Today, I have THREE new videos for you, and EACH ONE is PURE GOLD for attracting women. Rather than give you a whole long introduction, let's just get into it, shall we?

FIRST: THE SELF-RESPECTING WAY TO ATTRACT WOMEN
 
NEXT:
A POWERFUL WAY TO SHOW CONFIDENCE TO A WOMAN


FINAL MIND-BUSTER: THE TRUTH ON WHAT MAKES WOMEN FALL IN LOVE WITH MEN


Before I end today's blog posting, I want to also mention one more thing: I believe that more than EVER, you need to SCREEN the women you date, in order to find the RIGHT one. It is for THIS reason more than anything else that I believe "dating" is ESSENTIAL. 

Too many men are trying to RUSH the process, and this actually works against them for several reasons-it creates a sense of desperation, which ruins the attraction, and just as importantly, rushing prevents you from SCREENING properly.  

Also, women actually get MORE turned on when they know you are screening them. So not only is it something you really should do to screen out the wrong women, but it actually turns women on knowing that not just any woman can get with you!

To contact me, email me at: michael@thedatingwizardreturns.com

If you haven't downloaded my books, video programs, and audio programs for SKYROCKETING your success with women, go here immediately:

https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/catalog.html

Sincerely,

Michael Marks

Why Attracting Women Today Is Different Than Any Other Time In History

There truly has never been a time in history like there is at the present moment regarding the "perfect storm" of factors that make it VERY challenging for men to attract women if men aren't prepared for what to do.


There are MANY different reasons for this situation. I also think that, so far, no one else has truly explained what all the challenges are, and unfortunately this has resulted in over-simplifications of what is occurring at the present moment. Also, most if not all of these challenges, if ignored, will only become even more problematic with time if unaddressed. 

So, for that reason, today I have put forward a video that deals with all the major challenges that are facing men today when it comes to attracting women. Not every man is affected by every one of these factors, but I believe each one of these issues is crucial to understand and to be aware of in order that we as a society can move forward to true progress, as it is in the best interests of everyone, both men and women.

To learn about all the ways I can help you skyrocket your success with women, including my live coaching services and digital download programs, just go here:

https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/catalog.html

Sincerely,

Michael Marks

The LIE Of "Toxic Masculinity"

"Toxic masculinity" is a horrifying term that is based on lies promoted by our politically-correct culture- a culture that tries to turn men into women and women into men, with the result being that both men and women are REPULSED by each other. This is because women are attracted to MASCULINE men and men are attracted to FEMININE women. 


To attract women, STAY MASCULINE and REJECT the concept of "toxic masculinity". 

To learn more about coming across as a MAN in a politically-correct world that tries to REPRESS your masculinity, download my program called "Politically-Incorrect Pickup" immediately at:

https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/politically-incorrect-pick-up.html

Till next time, 

Michael Marks

Saving Humanity From The Disease Of Feminism

Feminism really IS a disease. Just like diseased cells attack and destroy healthy cells in a body, feminism destroys the healthy masculinity in men and the healthy femininity in women that is ESSENTIAL for the survival of the human race.  

We all know that evolution affects society-e.g. people are hardwired to get hungry, so we have things like restaurants, and we know men are hardwired to desire attractive women, women are hardwired to desire powerful men, and so we have as a result of that things like Victoria's Secret and things like business schools where men try to learn how to become super-successful-but SOCIETY also affects EVOLUTION as well. 

For example, if a group of people are oppressed in an effort to wipe them out, they will either be wiped out, or they may adapt, and evolve and become even stronger in an evolutionary sense by gaining some survival advantage.

Society is very much a LIVING THING, just like a living body.  And society, just like a living body, can have diseases. 

And FEMINISM is an example of SOCIETY affecting EVOLUTION.  

Feminism goes against nature, and just like WHITE BLOOD CELLS in the body, which are only 1% of all the blood cells, fight off diseased cells and fight off infections, bacteria, and other foreign invaders that are harming the body, so too the 1% of men and women who RESIST feminism and political correctness by EMBRACING their natural masculinity and femininity, will ultimately save our society. 

They will also be the ones who prevail in the gene pool while those following the feminist slant will wipe themselves out because feminism goes against nature and survival.

To learn more, or if you have any dating or relationship situation you want handled PRONTO, you can arrange for a personal consultation with me, where you will get the benefit of my fifteen years in this field-fifteen years of CONSISTENTLY taking the science of attraction to new levels. Imagine the power of all that serving YOUR interests.

A consultation with me is PERSONALIZED for your specific situation, which means you get TAILOR-MADE strategies and advice for you that is PERFECT for ensuring YOUR success with women.

It's at:

https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/consultations.html

To download my DIGITAL programs that are the absolute BEST programs in the world for your success with women, go here:

https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/catalog.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

Unleash Your WILD Side To Turn Women ON

One of the greatest secrets to attracting women, to breaking the ice with women anywhere, and to making women feel AROUSED and uninhibited around you, is for YOU to UNLEASH YOUR REPRESSED WILD SIDE.  

The great news is that you already HAVE this IN you!  It's already THERE! It's just REPRESSED by years and years of conditioning that comes from political correctness,
as well as from third-wave feminism. 

Inside of you right now is INFINITE masculinity, INFINITE fun, infinite SEXUALITY.

It's who you REALLY are.

And THIS is what women not only want, but NEED from you, to help THEM also unleash THEIR sexuality around you and to help THEM be free from the repression holding them back from enjoying who they REALLY are.

In my new video today, I explain this further and give EXAMPLES of this so that you can understand what I mean 100%.


And if you like what you just saw, imagine what will happen when you get my PREMIUM programs on getting the women you want. I seriously suggest you download ALL of my programs on success with women-each one is DIFFERENT and you will be THANKFUL
you got it the next time you see a woman you want to attract. 

They're at:

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And to take your success beyond the STRATOSPHERE as FAST as possible, sign up for BOOTCAMP today.

Bootcamp is where the pedal hits the metal.  It's FULL BLAST, hands-on learning, where you master the skills of attracting AMAZING "total package" women in just 2 days.

BOOTCAMP is at:

https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/bootcamp.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

Confidence And Overcoming Fear With Women Is About NEGATIVE Thinking, NOT Positive Thinking!

When it comes to attracting women, the truth is you were already BORN with the most sophisticated, advanced, powerful methods INSTINCTIVELY. This is because, in the same way we have OTHER instincts that are primal, so too THIS instinct is primal, because it is so important to human SURVIVAL. 

Without this instinct, the human race would be GONE.  

The problem is that in our modern era, so many men have had all their useful "attract women" instincts REPRESSED by political correctness and third-wave feminism. 

And so, one of the major aspects of my approach to helping men is helping men UNLEASH their NATURAL INSTINCTS with women that have been honed to MASSIVELY ADVANCED LEVELS over the many generations since DAY ONE of men attracting women! 

This doesn't mean that there aren't ALSO MIND-BLOWING insights into female psychology and attraction techniques that I teach as well, it just means that a LOT of these things would actually be happening NATURALLY if you TRULY got rid of the FEAR.

This is so important to understand, because of the way the brain is HARDWIRED.
Simply put, when faced with stress, it will either want to FIGHT, FLEE, or FREEZE.

And ANY of those three reactions SHUTS DOWN your natural instincts for attracting women. You can't THINK when you are feeling the stress from the fear. You end up becoming either ANGRY, or wanting to GET AWAY, or you just FREEZE up. 

This might be good when faced with some kind of PHYSICAL threat like a BEAR attacking you, but it's DESTRUCTIVE when trying to attract women.

And guess WHAT? 

The REAL way to overcome this repression, and to overcome this FEAR that holds you back with women, is NOT to try to PUMP yourself up with "positive talk"!  You've probably already TRIED that and it never worked!

The REAL SOLUTION is to actually FOCUS ON THE WORST OF THE FEAR, and to actually EMBRACE it!!!

Check out this  video where I explain this:
 
As cool as this video is, it is just the TIP of the ICEBERG of the FULL picture of how this all works, and just a GLIMPSE into everything else I teach to help you SKYROCKET your success with women.

To learn more about OBLITERATING your fears with women, including OBLITERATING APPROACH ANXIETY, download this program at:

https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/approach-anxiety.html

To learn LIVE on real women how to PICK UP women ANYWHERE, sign up for my Dating Wizard BOOTCAMP at:

https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/bootcamp.html

EVERY SINGLE ONE OF MY PROGRAMS is PACKED with CRUCIAL INFORMATION and PURE GOLD on attracting women, and I suggest you can download them ALL at:
  
https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/catalog.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks    

Attracting Women With Old School Values

I have some things to tell you about attracting women
that are probably the most IMPORTANT yet HIDDEN
truths on this subject.

A quick reminder, first of all, for TORONTO guys
to REGISTER NOW for a special mini-seminar
tomorrow. I realize it’s short notice, but you
definitely are going to want to MAKE it to this:

http://turnontoronto.com/events/unleashing-man-within/

Till this day, I still wonder about the reason that
supposed dating experts, other pick up artists,
and dating coaches do NOT reveal what I
am about to tell you. I wonder if it is because
they don’t know, or if it is because they don’t
want YOU to know.

Here’s what it is:

A woman who is attractive, who is intelligent,
and who ALSO shares OLD SCHOOL values
is not exactly EASY TO FIND these days,
especially in the countries where feminism
has spread like wildfire.

These good women, however DO still exist,
even in feminist countries, which are basically
most countries in the western world.

So let me tell you a bit about what I mean
first of all when I say OLD SCHOOL VALUES.

It includes, but is not limited to, the following:

1. She is NOT promiscuous.

Instead, sleeping with a man is actually
SOMETHING SACRED to her.

This is a big deal, actually.

First of all, a woman who sleeps around a lot has
a CHEAP attitude toward it. But a woman with
old school values has:

2. A STRONG BELIEF IN COMMITMENT

A woman WITHOUT this has a CASUAL attitude
about sleeping with men.

So many of today’s women in our society HAVE
this casual attitude toward sleeping around.

That means the idea of sleeping with you, even
if she does it, really doesn’t mean all THAT MUCH.

It means ZERO in terms of her actual commitment
to you.

3. FREE OF SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED INFECTIONS

Promiscuous women have another problem:
Promiscuity tends to be linked to high-risk behavior.

That includes things like gambling, taking drugs,
and unprotected sex.

And by the way, promiscuity or a careless
attitude toward unprotected sex, means a
HIGH CHANCE of her having a sexually
transmitted infection or disease.

This is also a MUCH more common problem
in women and men than the media would have
you know.  They probably don’t want to start
a panic, but if you look up the actual statistics,
it is MIND-BLOWING.

This stuff is NOT a joke. We're talking
long-term consequences ranging from
cervical cancer in women to throat
cancer in men, to sterility and a ton
of other horrifying links.

And wouldn’t you know it, so MANY of the
videos showing certain guys making out with
women very quickly are with women that are
in places where drinking alcohol is a key
part of the action.

Or in these videos, the women are at least tipsy
if not drunk.

AND these are the kinds of places where so often
it is so easy to find promiscuous women.

4. WOMEN WITH OLD SCHOOL VALUES ARE
NOT SLAVES TO A DESIRE FOR ATTENTION

Remember, that a gorgeous woman who has her
act together psychologically is usually trying to
CUT DOWN on the amount of ATTENTION
she is getting.

The LAST THING A GORGEOUS WOMAN WITH OLD
SCHOOL VALUES NEEDS is the attention of a bunch
of club-going men who can’t get attention from
women in any other way.

Now, you can also find drunk, promiscuous women
ANYWHERE, but it’s even easier to find them in clubs.

Also, promiscuity IS in FACT linked to INFIDELITY
in both men AND women.

And does it take a ROCKET SCIENTIST to also
figure out that getting physical with a woman who
is drunk, who is promiscuous, and who has a
cheat and cheap attitude about being in an
exclusive relationship is really NOT some kind
of WIN for a man?

Attracting a woman with SUPERIOR values IS
very much a DIFFERENT THING.
The typical stuff you see on the web, on YouTube,
will actually REPULSE and DISGUST the very
BEST women-the kind of women that men who
KNOW ABOUT THIS SUBJECT all agree on
as being a higher caliber of character AND
beauty.

And it’s about a lot more than just finding women
in NON-CLUB environments.

You can still find plenty of the WRONG WOMEN
outside of clubs as well, especially in our feminist
society that teaches women to abandon all
the old-school values of loyalty, fidelity, family,
and long-term thinking.

But when you DO find SUPERIOR WOMEN,
and they DO still exist, you can bet that these
women are looking for a COMPLETELY DIFFERENT
TYPE OF GUY than the kind of guy that the
MAINSTREAM PICK-UP ARTIST MOVEMENT
tries to CONVINCE YOU TO BE.
We live in a free society, and I appreciate that.
As long as people don’t harm others, they should be free.

They are free to do what they want.
But YOU are also free to get the kind of woman YOU want.

And if YOU want a woman who is not sleeping
around, who is not into heavy drinking, who is
not into drugs, who is not into cheating, who
is instead into FAMILY VALUES, and into
loyalty, respect, and long-term relationships
that actually THRIVE rather than decay,
you need to become the kind of man that
is EVEN MORE CONFIDENT than the confidence
projected by mainstream pick-up tactics.
This is because GOOD VALUES today are
ON THE DECLINE.

And that means you must be SO CONFIDENT
and SO SECURE in your MORALS AND VALUES
that you are able to STAY ON TARGET as you
go on your journey to attract the RIGHT WOMEN
instead of giving into the first successes you get
with women-because those FIRST successes you
get with women are probably NOT the right women.

Statistically, especially today, the chances of the
first woman or women you meet being the women
with the RIGHT values is VERY LOW.

But most guys are so desperate for success with
women, that as soon as they get ANY OPPORTUNITY,
they will become enslaved to the first women they
meet that are attracted to them.

And it means you must ALSO know how to
CONNECT with women on a higher level,
because when you finally DO meet that
amazing woman, she is going to need a lot
more than JUST the attraction, she is going
to need your ability to CONNECT on a
powerful level.
CONNECTION is of such importance in addition
to attraction, because she is thinking LONG-TERM.

There needs to be that actual connection so
that in addition to sex, BEING with you is
something she absolutely ENJOYS.

And by the way, the ability to connect with ANY
human being is actually something most people
aren’t that great at, even when it’s NOT the opposite
sex, so you can imagine how most men and women
screw up when it comes to connecting to the
OPPOSITE sex!

In bootcamp with me, you will learn how to do it
ALL with women, from attraction to connection,
from the moment you spot her anywhere to
getting her intensely connected and wanting
you to NEVER leave, you will get the most
complete training in these skills from me in
a ONE-TO-ONE ratio, which means you
get the most CUSTOMIZED bootcamp
anywhere.

Bootcamp is the REAL WORLD. You learn
and actually prove it in front of your own eyes
on women you approach EVERYWHERE
in the bootcamp.
Bootcamp is at:

https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/bootcamp.html

If you haven’t yet downloaded my BOOK
on attracting quality women, do that now at:

https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/book.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

What You Can Do In Just Two Hours Of Skilled Pick-Up With Quality Women

I want to show you the SHORTEST path, the
QUICKEST path, the most EFFICIENT path
to getting the woman or women you WANT.

In a nutshell, the answer is:

GO OUT AND APPROACH WOMEN AND SHOW
THEM A WINNING PERSONALITY.

Now, those words are PREGNANT with information,
with meaning, with power, and they involve many
different skills, ESPECIALLY in our CURRENT
feminist society.

But make no mistake about it, ACTION must be
taken, you MUST approach women, you MUST
talk to them, and you MUST demonstrate that
winning personality.

And you have to do all this very FAST, because
she is a total stranger, and the window of opportunity
each time tends to be very BRIEF.

THAT is where the skill is.

It’s not such a big deal if you have endless hours
to get to know a  woman.  In those cases, you just have
to show that winning personality but you don’t have
to do it so FAST.

But when approaching women who are total strangers,
you have to do all this very EFFICIENTLY.

Whether she is standing next to you on the bus
or waiting in line at the bank or at the supermarket,
the WINDOW OF OPPORTUNITY lasts only
MOMENTS, sometimes even less.

So your ability to get her LOCKED INTO a conversation
with you where she WANTS to continue talking to you
is MASSIVELY important.

One of the challenges involved in approaching women
who are total strangers is the nervousness and fear
that accompanies taking this action, and then this
fear not only makes you want to AVOID taking
action, it also SCREWS UP your very actions-
the fear impedes your ability to THINK straight,
to BE funny, to BE witty, to SHOW sexuality,
etc, etc.

This fear goes AWAY when you take a lot of ACTION.
When you approach a lot of women, over and over
again, and when you confront your various fears
HEAD ON as much as possible for as long as possible.

There is so substitute for taking ACTION.
It builds up your IMMUNITY to fear, to anxiety, to
you various concerns regarding approaching women.

And the TRUTH is also that you learn MORE from
so called “failure” than you do from success!

I would NEVER in a million YEARS take away all
the valuable lessons I’ve learned from the approaches
where I didn’t get the woman!

First of all, each interaction with each new woman is
ANOTHER woman’s personality that you have experienced
and that you can now better relate to in the future with
similar women.

ALSO, each “failure” makes you LESS concerned about
FAILURE as you start to realize that EMOTIONALLY it
is really NO BIG DEAL.

And the SOONER you realize that, the SOONER you
can learn to actually FOCUS on what happened in the
interaction, and what YOU could to IMPROVE the next
time.

For example, was your TONALITY showing confidence?
Or did you vocal pitch start to rise in approval-seeking?

Were you focused on BEING PRESENT and observing
and listening instead of just being focused on giving her
an ACT or some memorized pick-up line?

Did you open the conversation up with something NEGATIVE
instead of positive, funny, intriguing, or at least neutral?

And so on and so forth.

When guys talk about the process of pick-up and being
nervous about it, what they don’t realize is that this
can actually be THE MOST FUN THING EVER.

I myself STILL do this even when not in professional mode,
for myself, SIMPLY to keep the PICK-UP SKILLS sharp.

And the FEELING is WAY MORE ENTHRALLING THAN
ANY VIDEO GAME!

This “game” is "3-D" because it’s REAL LIFE.
It’s EXCITING.
It requires you to use your INTELLECT, your GUTS, your
WIT, your HUMOR, your MASCULINE nature, and more!

So I ALWAYS look at this as a SKILL-BUILDING exercise
rather than getting all caught up on DID I GET THE WOMAN
IN THIS INTERACTION THIS TIME OR NOT??????????

Scientific studies have PROVEN that SKILL is acquired
MUCH FASTER when you simply FOCUS not on the
PERFECT OUTCOME but on just the SKILLS THEMSELVES.

You might be wondering what the difference is.
The difference is that if you focus on the OUTCOME,
your mind is always thinking about the END and not
the MOMENT.

And to have the HIGHEST chance of GETTING the
DESIRED OUTCOME, you actually must NOT be
focused on the outcome, and instead focused on whatever
is most important in that specific MOMENT.

A scientific study analyzed two groups of people who
were creating POTTERY for ONE WEEK.

In one group, each person had to create only ONE
work of pottery, but to try to make it PERFECT.

In the other group, each person was told to create
AS MUCH QUANTITY as possible-to create as many
works of pottery as they could, and NOT be concerned
about making them perfect.

In the end, based in third-party objective judges, guess
which group created the more beautiful, impressive work?

It was NOT the group focused on PERFECTION.
Rather, it was the group focused on QUANTITY.
The reason for this is that these people kept on PRACTICING.
And they weren’t obsessed with the OUTCOME, they were
instead obsessed with focusing on the basic skills of the
PRACTICE.

So to me, that is yet ANOTHER reason to ENJOY
the PROCESS of the pick-ups.

But let me go even FURTHER.

Let me talk to you about a day that some guys might
think is a "BAD DAY". 

Just recently, I decided to spend a couple hours doing pick-up
just for the fun of it, almost like an experiment to see how much
practice and opportunity I could squeeze into 2 hours.

So I went to the busiest supermarket that I could think of,
where beautiful women often are found. It was a bit late in
the day, so unfortunately that would mean that it wouldn’t
be at PEAK time, and that means less women too.

But rather than be negative, I just focused on what could
be done.

While I was there, I spotted a statuesque blonde,
and based on my experience, I already knew that
her level of beauty (she was a TEN, definitely),
in the western world, probably meant that she 
was likely an actress or a model, and to be honest,
I DON’T PREFER this, because it’s only in the
western world where as soon as a woman is attractive,
she thinks she MUST cash in on it.

This is the case about 90 percent of the time with
women who are EXTREMELY attractive-I’m talking
far MORE than is required.

Seriously, I don’t think most men really CARE all that
much at all once a woman is just ATTRACTIVE.

She doesn’t have to be EXTREME.

Anyway, back to this woman.

Obviously, there are exceptions, including
women who truly have the passion for the creative
and artistic aspects of these careers, and who
work extremely hard at it, and who also work
extremely hard in school beforehand to have
a balanced education and appreciation for
life in general.

Now, the more years you do this, the more you
sense very, VERY quickly, and the more you
learn to CALIBRATE yourself very finely.

So, because I have been doing this for so many
years, I actually often say things VERBALLY
that are the OPPOSITE of what my body language
and TONALITY are saying.
So I approach her in the produce section, and
tell her something along the lines of actually
being SCARED to talk to her.

And she IMMEDIATELY breaks into a smile and
starts EXCUSING the way she looks, saying that
she feels unattractive today, and basically is
IMMEDIATELY qualifying herself.

Again, the reason this works is because my TONALITY
and facial expression is 97 percent of the message,
and on those channels I am coming across as actually
a LITTLE TOO CONFIDENT, so the 3 percent with my
words helps make it just right.

And again, this woman is DEFINITELY a TEN
on the superficial level.

Then, I find out she actually is not only a PROFESSIONAL
actress, but that she is a STAR on a MAJOR show on the
CW network, and currently FILMING during the week, not
too far away from this very place where we are talking.
It turns out she also graduated with a double major from
an extremely prestigious university, and that she graduated
in the top 10% of her class. (I did my homework on her
after the fact.)  And she doesn’t even live in the city,
but was filming here.

After chatting for a while and discussing our backgrounds,
it turns out she has a boyfriend, and it turns you may know
who he is in terms of seeing him on screen.

So, I ask you, was that some kind of TERRIBLE thing?
Is life so TERRIBLE because I didn’t get the FIRST
gorgeous woman I met of the day, who is something
extraordinary, inside and out?
Of course not.
It was another interaction, another chance to keep
the skills on opening, on spiking attraction, on
creating the bonds, etc.

And it was yet one more woman with her own nuances
of personality that help broaden my understandings and
reference points regarding women and human beings
in general.

And it was FUN.

And that FUN in ITSELF also helps BOOST my state
of mind for the NEXT interaction.

So on I go to yet ANOTHER supermarket, just for fun,
and because it’s close by.

Well, here we have a woman who, in some ways,
is EVEN HOTTER.

How is this possible?

Well, she isn’t the STEREOTYPE, but in terms of
what MEN REALLLLY want, she may even be HOTTER.

She isn’t blonde, she’s dark haired, but she is
athletic looking and toned and curvaceous to
the point that you would think she would
cause ACCIDENTS from people seeing her
while doing anything from just walking to
driving to anything else, because they would
TOTALLY LOSE FOCUS AND JUST BE
STARING AT HER.

And what was REALLY crazy here, is that she
was not dressed in some sleazy way, but somehow
her curves showed in all her clothing so she combined
INSANELY SEXY with STILL BEING TASTEFUL.

Just totally BURNING hot.

She was in the snacks and chips aisle, and I
playfully teased her on how long it was taking
her to decide as she kept staring at the different
types of flavors of chips on display.

So I told her in mock seriousness that these
are very serious decisions, and that she shouldn’t
RUSH it, that she should be very careful to get it
RIGHT.

She starts laughing and turns to me, and then
after TEASING her in this PLAYFUL way, I
bridged into a bit of a compliment and bit of
connection by asking if she was a fitness
instructor, based on the fact she can get away
with eating this stuff. 

So she immediately starts explaining that she’s
actually not, she works in a completely “normal”
job, and then we start to get into her background,
as she’s new to the country, and BINGO my mind
goes off THAT explains it, a woman who is even
HOTTER than the first and not an actress, and
WHADDAYA KNOW she is NOT from the west
at ALL.

In other words, NO THIRD WAVE FEMINISM.

TOTALLY warm, totally friendly, totally sexy,
totally awesome, no third-wave feminist corruption.

But, it turns out she is getting all this stuff to make
dinner for her boyfriend, and that is perfectly normal,
as why would a woman like this have to be single?

Women like this CAN be single, and some are,
but statistically, you have to meet SEVERAL WOMEN
till you meet a woman like this who is also single.
Well, again, that was SECOND experience of the day,
so far not even a full HOUR has passed by.

Is this so TERRIBLE???
Is this REJECTION????

I can tell you one thing, if THIS is something a guy
can’t TAKE, then he doesn’t HAVE the kind of
personality that a woman in demand CRAVES
in a man!
Personally, I’m having a BLAST!

And I am not above learning as well, and I go over
the interaction in my mind to see where I could
possibly be even sharper or more polished for
the next time around.

Next, I’m on the subway platform. It is BUSY.
But man, there are tons of MEN and not
enough WOMEN!

And some women, but ZERO chemistry that
I feel for.

And then, in WALTZES in this FEMININE FIGURE
in a SHORT red SKIRT and short sleeve red shirt,
and red heels. Curly long brunette hair. Red lipstick.

Late 20s.

Now, remember, it is SUMMER and VERY HOT.

And it’s so interesting:
As you know that every man in his HEAD just
HAS to be thinking about her she enters their
line of sight.

There is no WAY to NOT be ENGULFED in the
SENSORY OVERLOAD to your brain’s emotional
CIRCUITS. 


And yet NO ONE does ANYTHING.
A few men kind of sort of LOOK.

It is AMAZING, how the POWER she is RADIATING
and yet how NO ONE is doing ANYTHING.

And then I’m thinking, "Hey wait a second, is that
me TOO? Am I ALSO not doing anything?"
So, I don’t BOTHER trying to PRE-PLAN and figure
it all out, like most guys do.

I KNOW that it is not a SIN to find her ATTRACTIVE.

So I just walk right up to her.
And she is wearing headphones, of course.
And I open her up with the first thought on my mind.
And remember, TONALITY is everything.

As I say the first few words, she takes off her headphones.
(Notice that I don’t even WAIT for her to take them off,
instead I take the attitude that she WILL take them off.)

So I casually, (CASUALLY), say to her:
“So, just curious, do most guys just MELT around you?
I’m imagining that’s what happens, judging by what’s
going on around here.”

She IMMEDIATELY starts to smile and act like
a schoolgirl.

And now that I have SAID those words, I have created
an INTERNAL picture of myself that I now feel COMPELLED
to live up to, to TRULY NOT MELT and act the same way
as if she was ANY OTHER WOMAN.

Think WOLVERINE from X-Men.

So she replies:

“Noooo.  But thank you. Why do you say that?”

Anyway, we end up getting into a conversation,
about men and women, and masculine and feminine
polarity, and how so few people tend to understand
this anymore, and how important it is for attraction.

And she is LOVING it.

And her TRAIN comes and stops. It then PASSES BY and she
not only makes NO EFFORT to stop the conversation,
SHE KEEPS FUELING THE CONVERSATION!
So I decide to take her number and continue this later,
but she tells me that she has a boyfriend and then
IMMEDIATELY starts acting apologetic!!!!

She pulls out her phone and says “I’m really telling you
the truth, I want to show you,” so she can show me the
pics of her and him.

And I never even asked her or doubted her.
It was almost as if she was saying that she had no
choice, that she couldn’t take things further but she
WANTED to STAY. 

So I ask, HOW BAD IS THAT?
Is THAT SOMETHING HORRIBLE?

And by the way, I’m fully aware of sleazy tactics to
try to get past this kind of thing, but I don’t do that crap.

Most importantly, all these interactions not only
give you more CONFIDENCE, but that you give
you more COMPETENCE as well, and more
reference points for female psychology as well.

And they REINFORCE in your head how being
a MAN is what women WANT from you, and not
this namby-pamby apologetic attitude for even
BEING A MAN when you approach them.

So then I decide to do ONE more approach,
as it is getting near the two hour mark.

This one is in yet ANOTHER supermarket,
as that was my theme for the day it seems,
but don’t get me wrong, as I love bookstores,
transit, walking anywhere outside, it’s ALL
great stuff.  Today just HAPPENED to be
the supermarket theme.

And I see ANOTHER beautiful woman, with
dark hair and trademark central/east-European
beauty, in jean shorts and short sleeves,
balancing about 8 different items in her hands
instead of just getting a grocery cart. Probably
started with one item, and then that realization
that happens to all of us when we are in the
grocery store- that we need more stuff.

At this point now, I am so COMFORTABLE
doing this, that I know I can get away with saying
almost ANYTHING and my delivery and facial
expression including tonality of course will
CONVEY the all the NUANCES AND SUBTLETIES
that are important.

No matter WHAT I SAY, she will FEEL my
EXACT STATE OF MIND DOWN TO THE MOST
SUBTLE NUANCES, including sexual flirtation,
confidence, genuine interest and empathy,
and playfulness.
So I end up giving her a whirlwind of comments,
where she reacts to each one, and I INCREASE
the fun each time.

So first I start with an actual compliment, because
I know she won’t take it the wrong way, also because
I can tell from her looks that she is from either central
Europe or Eastern Europe, and again, I can tell that
she is probably NEW because of the subtleties of
how she is sizing up the various aisles and items
in the store.
I tell her that is cuter than the average person in these
aisles, and she enjoys it in that feminine way.

She speaks with that warmth, that feminine energy.
It’s crazy, it’s so awesome.

Women that don’t pretend that they want to be MEN.

Women that don’t spend every waking moment
saying “YOU GO GIRL” when women do things
that are crass, vulgar, or imitate masculinity
instead of celebrating their own femininity.

Then there is this moment of awkward silence.

But trust me, she is damn confident.
So I know this, and I tell her, “Can you talk?”
And she LAUGHS really hard at this.

I start telling her that I want a woman where she
and I don’t have to talk, that it’s too much work,
and that I prefer we just read minds.

She eats this stuff up, and then starts telling
me yes, she can talk, and she asks the same
about me, and I tell her that I don’t talk much.
She knows I’m joking, but isn’t 100% sure, which
is part of the fun.

Turns out she is a really cool person, not only
is she not stuck up, but she is a great DJ, and
also she is pretty seriously into Muay Thai!
And this is the thing- feminists like to say how women
from non-feminist countries are weak, but the truth
is they are confident as hell; they just aren’t brainwashed
to hate men. That’s all.

And there ARE still MANY awesome women
born here in the west; I’m just saying you have to
SCREEN even more carefully among them, and also 
if you are very SMART, and you have
studied my books and programs, you can get
the VAST MAJORITY of women even born in
the west attracted to you, and you can take
them PAST their feminist brainwashing if
you focus on ATTRACTION and not on
some kind of logical argument against
third-wave feminism.

Oh yeah, I almost forgot to mention:
Rather than play games, I asked her if she was
single, and she was, and we exchanged numbers
and then I accidentally pulled her hair when I
tried to help her unload the groceries in her hands
onto a nearby shelf so that she could type in my
number into her cell.

And she showed a great playful attitude toward that
as well, telling me how she had come from a party
where all these kids were pulling her hair, and I
told her that with me she would get all that fun
and much more.

So there you go, that was a two-hour experience,
and it just so happened that the last one was the
one where it took off.

Now, imagine if you approached women
EVERY DAY with the MAXIMUM skill.
How long do you think it would take before
you met an AMAZING woman where the
attraction was MUTUAL and it was
BURSTING AT THE SEAMS with
INTENSITY?

NOT VERY LONG AT ALL.
Probably just a few DAYS.
I depends on how often you actually APPLIED
yourself, but it really could happen in just ONE
day, and certainly within a couple of WEEKS.

THIS is the power of combining SKILL with
ACTION and PERSISTENCE.

And the BEST way for you to get these skills
is BOOTCAMP with me.

In BOOTCAMP, you will get what you NEED
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You will develop the MENTAL TOUGHNESS
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You will develop the SKILLS to spark attraction,
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You will learn to have INFINITE things to say
that are either intriguing, witty, or playful, and
you will learn how to KNOW when it’s time to
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can actually just keep on talking to her and
having a DATE with her RIGHT THEN AND
THERE where you FIRST approached her!

The power of being able to attract women
at will is so powerful, it SPILLS over into
the REST of your life as well, as you have
FAR GREATER CONFIDENCE in EVERYTHING
once you have this part of your life handled.

The reason is because since THIS part of your
life is the one that is HARDWIRED for your brain
to be most concerned with, suddenly you have this
INCREDIBLE SURPLUS OF BRAIN POWER AND
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DRAINING you.  It’s HANDLED, so now all that
POWER can go into kicking-ass at everything
else you do in life!
Get this part of your life HANDLED.

And remember, with me, you are learning how to
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Till next time,

Michael Marks