"Cold Pick Up", Attraction, And CALIBRATION

One of the reasons that the skill of
being able to do "cold pick up" and
attract women anywhere, anytime is 
so important is because not only
does it open up an INFINITE
AMOUNT OF CHOICES OF WOMEN
for you, it also SAVES YOU
FAR MORE TIME AND ENERGY
than any OTHER method of
success with women.

For example, you may have possibly
heard of what is known as "social
circle" attraction, which, in theory,
is about building up such a huge
social circle that you increase
the amount of women you can
meet through these social contacts.

There is a problem, however, with
the social circle theory, and that
is that it takes PRECIOUS TIME
AND ENERGY away from whatever
ELSE in life it is that you are
TRULY FOCUSING ON.

Success in life, in ANY endeavor,
is about FOCUS on that thing.
And that means if you want to become
the kind of man who is successful in
the REST of his life, you have to
FOCUS on that thing-whether it is
your art, your career, your business,
your education, your whatever.

And the more you conquer and accomplish,
of course the better you feel about yourself,
and of course the more you also wield the
raw attractive quality of POWER as well,
and as you know, women are attracted to
men who radiate power.

So, WASTING TIME on building social circles
STEALS PRECIOUS TIME AND ENERGY AND DESTROYS
your ability to actually ACCOMPLISH on your
REAL "PURPOSE" in life, and on achieving success
in your life-and your success in the
rest of your life fuels your confidence
and also of course attract women as well.

And guess what else?
Studies have PROVEN that the more INTELLIGENT
a person is, the LESS friends that person
usually has, and it has NOTHING to do
with not being ABLE to have friends, but
rather because they don't see the NEED
for it-they don't need emotional support
as much, and don't have the TIME for it.

It's not a COINCIDENCE that most GENIUSES
weren't big on social circles.  

And it's NOT because they all didn't have
social skills, as many of them DID. 

It's because they needed to FOCUS on
what they were doing and didn't have or
even DESIRE to spend precious time
on partying it up when to them the real
party was on focusing on their passion.

Plus, intelligent people are RARE, and
so they need to find OTHER intelligent
people to even have a meaningful friendship
in the first place, which is ANOTHER reason
intelligent people would be WASTING their
time if they spent so much time on making
SOCIAL CIRCLES.

And the TRUTH is that opposites DON'T attract.
The truth is that SIMILARITIES attract,
so as an intelligent person, you want to
find ANOTHER woman who is ALSO INTELLIGENT,
and it is RARE to find OTHER intelligent
people. 

This is why the more intelligent would be
wasting most of their time if they spent
it on building SOCIAL CIRCLES for the purpose
of attracting women.

Plus, there is yet ANOTHER reason why
SOCIAL CIRCLE efforts for meeting women
is not the best path for attracting women-
and that is because as human beings, we
simply were not DESIGNED for having huge
social networks.

In fact, our modern age of having a million
friends on Facebook and having Twitter followers
and Instagram and all that stuff goes AGAINST
our HARD-WIRING.

As human beings, we lived in SMALL TRIBES
for the VAST MAJORITY of our HISTORY on
the EARTH.

We are designed to keep a tight but SMALL
social circle.

This has been PROVEN.
Studies actually SHOW that people who live in
big cities are LESS SOCIAL than those who live
in small towns!

You would think the OPPOSITE, right?
After all, people in BIG CITIES have the
opportunity to meet and socialize with
MILLIONS of people!

But the fact is that people in SMALLER TOWNS
tend to be way more social and friendly than
those in big cities.

When you go AGAINST NATURE, bad things happen.
And guess what else?

In today's ARTIFICIAL communication society that
relies on FACEBOOK, TEXTING, and other social
media instead of GENUINE FACE-TO-FACE interaction,
we are finding that people are being DEPRIVED
of the social skills they need, and that when
people DO meet in person, all that ARTIFICIAL
communication they have had does NOT help
them much at ALL when it comes to FACE-TO-FACE
communication, especially in a meaningful sense
of building deeper social bonds.

In fact, all that artificial communication
SCREWS UP their ability to have MEANINGFUL
DEEPER FACE-TO-FACE communication.

The MILLION friends on FACEBOOK, for example,
usually means LESS friends in REALITY.

We as human beings were not DESIGNED for
having TONS OF SOCIAL CONTACTS. Rather,
we are designed for having TIGHT SOCIAL
CONTACTS WITH JUST A FEW PEOPLE.

But alas, once again, TRUTH is the most
PRECIOUS THING OUT THERE, and you will
hear from ALL KINDS OF PEOPLE OUT THERE
how SOCIAL CIRCLE is the BEST WAY TO
ATTRACT WOMEN.

TRUTH IS RARE, and if you want TRUTH
when it comes to attracting quality women,
you should listen to me.

When you have the skill for being able
to attract women ANYWHERE, ANYTIME,
you go about your daily routine in
a way where you naturally meet women,
e.g. doing your grocery shopping
in an area where there are many
women, and you ALSO use your skills at
detecting a woman's intelligence,
personality, and VALUES to
SCREEN for the right kind of
women.

And on that note of TRUTH, I want to
mention something ELSE that is absolutely
CRUCIAL to success in pick-up and attraction,
and that is the ability to SIZE UP A WOMAN
and THE SITUATION in which you find her,
and CALIBRATE properly for all of those things.

By CALIBRATE, I mean that you ADJUST for
the situation.  So you USE what you
have LEARNED about attraction, and you
apply it SPECIFICALLY for the situation
in front of you, because each situation
and each woman may be different.

The OVERALL PRINCIPLES are the SAME,
but you need to TAILOR the principles
for the specific situation and woman
in front of you.

For example, you have to PAY ATTENTION
to her STATE OF MIND.

If she seems a little UNEASY when you
approach her, you probably should work
on CONTINUING TO HELP HER FEEL RELAXED
AND CALM RATHER THAN ON ROCKING THE
BOAT TOO MUCH WITH EDGY HUMOR OR
TOO MUCH COCKINESS.

And so for example, focusing on using
a RELAXING, CALM TONE OF VOICE will be
the MOST IMPORTANT THING TO DO THAT MOMENT.

If she seems SUPER CONFIDENT when you approach
her, then THAT tells you that you can POUR IT ON,
and perhaps GO FURTHER INTO THE LAND OF edgy humor,
being more cocky, and pushing the envelope, while
STILL of course eventually building into more
of a deeper connection as well.

And it is important to calibrate for the
situation as well. Are there a TON of
people all around you and her, on a
crowded train, for example? Well then
it might be best not to start with
a comment that might be funny
if it was just you and her around,
but might be EMBARRASSING OR AWKWARD
for her with everyone LISTENING.

And the truth is, my friend, that it is
THESE SUBTLE NUANCES that make ALL THE
DIFFERENCE BETWEEN SUCCESS AND FAILURE
when it comes to pick-up and attracting
women anywhere, anytime.

And of course, these subtle nuances go
unappreciated by the crowd of men who
don't KNOW much about pick up or women,
and who are impressed when a woman who is
promiscuous, drunk, and at a nightclub
is making out with some random dude.

If a woman is drunk and promiscuous,
(which is also correlated with stds and
with being unfaithful and with substance abuse)
it really has nothing to do with your
finesse and skills at attraction and
at calibration, but rather it is simply
about the woman being easy, available,
and looking for the man most convenient
for her needs for "action" that night.

That stuff really has very little to
do with attraction, and very much to
do with being drunk and promiscuous.

But if you want a quality woman, you MUST
master the art and skill of CALIBRATION.

And you must also learn to DETECT a woman's
traits including her personality, her
intelligence, and her values, which
ALSO can be determined by you once
you have developed the SKILL to
OBSERVE her behavior very carefully.

Women, like all human beings, tend to
GIVE AWAY every last detail about who
they are, from their personality to their
values to their intelligence to their
history, because all these things
MANIFEST THEMSELVES through behaviors,
through comments, through tonalities,
through gestures and facial expressions.

This is one of the reasons BOOTCAMP with me
is so powerful, because in BOOTCAMP you can
actually SEE all these things IN PERSON
on actual women as you master the skill
of pick-up and attraction, by actually
performing pick-up on women in tons of
places like coffee shops, malls, supermarkets,
and transit, with me as your EXCLUSIVE
INSTRUCTOR.

I know there are all kinds of folks out there
promising you the world. I think you can see
from my consistent work over the course of over
THIRTEEN YEARS that I am the LEADER in the field
of actually finding and attracting QUALITY WOMEN.

There are a lot of people out there who actually
try to imitate me. It's frustrating at times,
and flattering at others, but the bottom line
is that if you want to get the woman of your
dreams, or simply want to be able to attract
women at will, the kind of women that you
can have a great relationship with, there
is simply no one else out there with the
proven credentials, the experience, the
passion, and the focus on getting quality
women.

For bootcamp, email me at michael@thedatingwizardreturns.com
or go to my bootcamp page to learn more at:

https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/bootcamp.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks