"Cold Pick Up", Attraction, And CALIBRATION

One of the reasons that the skill of
being able to do "cold pick up" and
attract women anywhere, anytime is 
so important is because not only
does it open up an INFINITE
AMOUNT OF CHOICES OF WOMEN
for you, it also SAVES YOU
FAR MORE TIME AND ENERGY
than any OTHER method of
success with women.

For example, you may have possibly
heard of what is known as "social
circle" attraction, which, in theory,
is about building up such a huge
social circle that you increase
the amount of women you can
meet through these social contacts.

There is a problem, however, with
the social circle theory, and that
is that it takes PRECIOUS TIME
AND ENERGY away from whatever
ELSE in life it is that you are
TRULY FOCUSING ON.

Success in life, in ANY endeavor,
is about FOCUS on that thing.
And that means if you want to become
the kind of man who is successful in
the REST of his life, you have to
FOCUS on that thing-whether it is
your art, your career, your business,
your education, your whatever.

And the more you conquer and accomplish,
of course the better you feel about yourself,
and of course the more you also wield the
raw attractive quality of POWER as well,
and as you know, women are attracted to
men who radiate power.

So, WASTING TIME on building social circles
STEALS PRECIOUS TIME AND ENERGY AND DESTROYS
your ability to actually ACCOMPLISH on your
REAL "PURPOSE" in life, and on achieving success
in your life-and your success in the
rest of your life fuels your confidence
and also of course attract women as well.

And guess what else?
Studies have PROVEN that the more INTELLIGENT
a person is, the LESS friends that person
usually has, and it has NOTHING to do
with not being ABLE to have friends, but
rather because they don't see the NEED
for it-they don't need emotional support
as much, and don't have the TIME for it.

It's not a COINCIDENCE that most GENIUSES
weren't big on social circles.  

And it's NOT because they all didn't have
social skills, as many of them DID. 

It's because they needed to FOCUS on
what they were doing and didn't have or
even DESIRE to spend precious time
on partying it up when to them the real
party was on focusing on their passion.

Plus, intelligent people are RARE, and
so they need to find OTHER intelligent
people to even have a meaningful friendship
in the first place, which is ANOTHER reason
intelligent people would be WASTING their
time if they spent so much time on making
SOCIAL CIRCLES.

And the TRUTH is that opposites DON'T attract.
The truth is that SIMILARITIES attract,
so as an intelligent person, you want to
find ANOTHER woman who is ALSO INTELLIGENT,
and it is RARE to find OTHER intelligent
people. 

This is why the more intelligent would be
wasting most of their time if they spent
it on building SOCIAL CIRCLES for the purpose
of attracting women.

Plus, there is yet ANOTHER reason why
SOCIAL CIRCLE efforts for meeting women
is not the best path for attracting women-
and that is because as human beings, we
simply were not DESIGNED for having huge
social networks.

In fact, our modern age of having a million
friends on Facebook and having Twitter followers
and Instagram and all that stuff goes AGAINST
our HARD-WIRING.

As human beings, we lived in SMALL TRIBES
for the VAST MAJORITY of our HISTORY on
the EARTH.

We are designed to keep a tight but SMALL
social circle.

This has been PROVEN.
Studies actually SHOW that people who live in
big cities are LESS SOCIAL than those who live
in small towns!

You would think the OPPOSITE, right?
After all, people in BIG CITIES have the
opportunity to meet and socialize with
MILLIONS of people!

But the fact is that people in SMALLER TOWNS
tend to be way more social and friendly than
those in big cities.

When you go AGAINST NATURE, bad things happen.
And guess what else?

In today's ARTIFICIAL communication society that
relies on FACEBOOK, TEXTING, and other social
media instead of GENUINE FACE-TO-FACE interaction,
we are finding that people are being DEPRIVED
of the social skills they need, and that when
people DO meet in person, all that ARTIFICIAL
communication they have had does NOT help
them much at ALL when it comes to FACE-TO-FACE
communication, especially in a meaningful sense
of building deeper social bonds.

In fact, all that artificial communication
SCREWS UP their ability to have MEANINGFUL
DEEPER FACE-TO-FACE communication.

The MILLION friends on FACEBOOK, for example,
usually means LESS friends in REALITY.

We as human beings were not DESIGNED for
having TONS OF SOCIAL CONTACTS. Rather,
we are designed for having TIGHT SOCIAL
CONTACTS WITH JUST A FEW PEOPLE.

But alas, once again, TRUTH is the most
PRECIOUS THING OUT THERE, and you will
hear from ALL KINDS OF PEOPLE OUT THERE
how SOCIAL CIRCLE is the BEST WAY TO
ATTRACT WOMEN.

TRUTH IS RARE, and if you want TRUTH
when it comes to attracting quality women,
you should listen to me.

When you have the skill for being able
to attract women ANYWHERE, ANYTIME,
you go about your daily routine in
a way where you naturally meet women,
e.g. doing your grocery shopping
in an area where there are many
women, and you ALSO use your skills at
detecting a woman's intelligence,
personality, and VALUES to
SCREEN for the right kind of
women.

And on that note of TRUTH, I want to
mention something ELSE that is absolutely
CRUCIAL to success in pick-up and attraction,
and that is the ability to SIZE UP A WOMAN
and THE SITUATION in which you find her,
and CALIBRATE properly for all of those things.

By CALIBRATE, I mean that you ADJUST for
the situation.  So you USE what you
have LEARNED about attraction, and you
apply it SPECIFICALLY for the situation
in front of you, because each situation
and each woman may be different.

The OVERALL PRINCIPLES are the SAME,
but you need to TAILOR the principles
for the specific situation and woman
in front of you.

For example, you have to PAY ATTENTION
to her STATE OF MIND.

If she seems a little UNEASY when you
approach her, you probably should work
on CONTINUING TO HELP HER FEEL RELAXED
AND CALM RATHER THAN ON ROCKING THE
BOAT TOO MUCH WITH EDGY HUMOR OR
TOO MUCH COCKINESS.

And so for example, focusing on using
a RELAXING, CALM TONE OF VOICE will be
the MOST IMPORTANT THING TO DO THAT MOMENT.

If she seems SUPER CONFIDENT when you approach
her, then THAT tells you that you can POUR IT ON,
and perhaps GO FURTHER INTO THE LAND OF edgy humor,
being more cocky, and pushing the envelope, while
STILL of course eventually building into more
of a deeper connection as well.

And it is important to calibrate for the
situation as well. Are there a TON of
people all around you and her, on a
crowded train, for example? Well then
it might be best not to start with
a comment that might be funny
if it was just you and her around,
but might be EMBARRASSING OR AWKWARD
for her with everyone LISTENING.

And the truth is, my friend, that it is
THESE SUBTLE NUANCES that make ALL THE
DIFFERENCE BETWEEN SUCCESS AND FAILURE
when it comes to pick-up and attracting
women anywhere, anytime.

And of course, these subtle nuances go
unappreciated by the crowd of men who
don't KNOW much about pick up or women,
and who are impressed when a woman who is
promiscuous, drunk, and at a nightclub
is making out with some random dude.

If a woman is drunk and promiscuous,
(which is also correlated with stds and
with being unfaithful and with substance abuse)
it really has nothing to do with your
finesse and skills at attraction and
at calibration, but rather it is simply
about the woman being easy, available,
and looking for the man most convenient
for her needs for "action" that night.

That stuff really has very little to
do with attraction, and very much to
do with being drunk and promiscuous.

But if you want a quality woman, you MUST
master the art and skill of CALIBRATION.

And you must also learn to DETECT a woman's
traits including her personality, her
intelligence, and her values, which
ALSO can be determined by you once
you have developed the SKILL to
OBSERVE her behavior very carefully.

Women, like all human beings, tend to
GIVE AWAY every last detail about who
they are, from their personality to their
values to their intelligence to their
history, because all these things
MANIFEST THEMSELVES through behaviors,
through comments, through tonalities,
through gestures and facial expressions.

This is one of the reasons BOOTCAMP with me
is so powerful, because in BOOTCAMP you can
actually SEE all these things IN PERSON
on actual women as you master the skill
of pick-up and attraction, by actually
performing pick-up on women in tons of
places like coffee shops, malls, supermarkets,
and transit, with me as your EXCLUSIVE
INSTRUCTOR.

I know there are all kinds of folks out there
promising you the world. I think you can see
from my consistent work over the course of over
THIRTEEN YEARS that I am the LEADER in the field
of actually finding and attracting QUALITY WOMEN.

There are a lot of people out there who actually
try to imitate me. It's frustrating at times,
and flattering at others, but the bottom line
is that if you want to get the woman of your
dreams, or simply want to be able to attract
women at will, the kind of women that you
can have a great relationship with, there
is simply no one else out there with the
proven credentials, the experience, the
passion, and the focus on getting quality
women.

For bootcamp, email me at michael@thedatingwizardreturns.com
or go to my bootcamp page to learn more at:

https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/bootcamp.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

Why Trump's Win Is IMPORTANT For Any Man Wanting A Woman With Good Values

There are some MASSIVELY IMPORTANT points
that I want to let you know about, and they
all have to do with getting yourself a woman
who still believes in fidelity, in family, in
treating a man with respect, and who still
believes in women being feminine and men
being masculine.

The first thing is Trump’s win in the US.
Regardless of your politics, there is something
VERY important to realize about this if you
care about getting a quality girlfriend:

The NUMBER ONE EVIL that has made it
so CRAZY when it comes to getting a
QUALITY GIRLFRIEND and possibly even
a woman that would be “the one” for life
is FEMINISM gone MAD.

So however feminism may have started out as,
the fact is that today it has become a force of
EVIL.

It is one of the greatest examples of
POLITICAL CORRECTNESS.

Political correctness, in a nutshell, is HIDING
the truth and promoting a LIE simply in order
to NOT offend anyone.

The DESTRUCTION of TRUTH is the GREATEST
EVIL that mankind can indulge in.

Truth is sometimes HARD.
But it is the ONLY thing that is REAL.

Working with the TRUTH is the ONLY way to
ACTUALLY solve problems.

And what happens in a culture where political
correctness RULES is that many people
USE political correctness for EVIL and to
SPREAD more lies that serve THEM.

This is because once TRUTH goes out the
WINDOW, the innocent can now be the guilty.
The guilty can now be the innocent.
 
After all, TRUTH DOES NOT MATTER when it
comes to POLITICAL CORRECTNESS.

And for the past several DECADES, we have
been INDOCTRINATED as a society with
POLITICAL CORRECTNESS from the moment
we are BORN.

And it continues in our EDUCATIONAL systems,
and in our social interactions at work and with
friends after work.

We were told things like this:

"Men are aggressors against women.”

"Women are the more INNOCENT gender”

"Men are basically instinctively rapists.”

“Western men are mostly rapists or
wannabe rapists.”

“Women just want to be viewed as
NON sexual objects, ALWAYS.”

“The nuclear family is a form of
PATRIARCHY and male power.”

“Having CHILDREN is a form of SUBJUGATING
WOMEN.”

“The IDEAL for a woman is for her to have
as much POWER and therefore MONEY
as possible.  CAREER is MORE important
than FAMILY since FAMILY is just a male
concept that serves them.”

“Western values are INHERENTLY EVIL
AND INFERIOR TO ALL OTHER VALUES,
THEREFORE WE SHOULD ALWAYS
EMBRACE MULTICULTURALISM AND
OTHER CULTURES ARE ACTUALLY
SUPERIOR TO OURS.”

“Men are evil, aggressive, and violent,
and WHITE MEN are the MOST evil.
No other societies have had terrible
wars-it’s really THE WHITE SOCIETIES
that are the most evil in this regard.”

“In order to be equal to men, women should
EMULATE the absolute WORST examples of
men, and be as promiscuous as possible.”

“Since MEN don’t bear children, neither should
WOMEN as it is UNFAIR that women should
bear children”.
 
THIS is what we have been BOMBARDED with
for SO MANY YEARS.
 
And the fact is, Trump represents many things,
some of them HORRIFYING, (he has LIED
many times himself!)  but he ALSO represents
a big “F-YOU” to POLITICAL CORRECTNESS.

What I mean by this is a big “F-YOU” to the
PRESSURE created by POLITICAL CORRECTNESS.

There has been this MASSIVE pressure created
by political correctness to KEEP SILENT in the
face of all the LIES and CORRUPT VALUES
spread by political correctness.

The PRESSURE exists because the people who
STILL MANAGE TO HAVE NOT BEEN BRAINWASHED
are too SCARED to speak UP, because they see
how EVERYONE ELSE seems to REALLY THINK
that this political correctness stuff is GOOD.

And so the people who have NOT been brainwashed
are afraid of being SOCIALLY OSTRACIZED.

They are afraid of being SHAMED by society.

They are afraid of being socially EXCOMMUNICATED.

And this is the GREATEST WAY TO CONTROL PEOPLE-
by making them feel SHUT OUT of SOCIETY.
 
So if you DARE to QUESTION a woman who preaches
the FEMINIST horrifying beliefs and values, you are
IMMEDIATELY considered EVIL.

And even if the woman you are speaking to on some
DEEP level actually AGREES with you, her FEAR of
being socially outcast TAKES OVER and she will
rather reject you and condemn you than agree with
you and risk losing social status.

Women care MORE about social status than men do,
and even men care about it to a high degree.

Women care about it MORE because historically
women have had to rely on OTHERS for survival
a bit more than men.

This may be why women tend to also respond
with attraction so strongly to men who RADIATE POWER.

It's why famous feminists like Jane Fonda
got married to POWERFUL MEN-men who
were WAY MORE than just EQUALS to these
women.  The facts speak for themselves.

But it seems that there WERE enough MENTALLY
STRONG SURVIVORS of the POLITICAL CORRECTNESS
WAR that were SO FED UP with the total FAILURES
of the POLITICAL CORRECTNESS CROWD and
were so FED UP with being TOLD THEY WERE
EVIL AND THAT THEY WERE IDIOTS AND
THAT THEY WERE ALL A BUNCH OF RACIST,
WOMEN-HATING, IGNORANT SLOBS, that they
finally TOOK ACTION and managed to BARELY
get a guy in power who they might NOT LIKE,
and who they may even DESPISE, but who at 
least was a man who ISN’T AFRAID
OF BEING POLITICALLY INCORRECT.
 
And more importantly, who wouldn't make THEM
feel shame about SPEAKING their OWN minds-
MINDS THAT FEEL SOMETHING DIFFERENT
THAN THE POLITICALLY CORRECT DRIVEL
THEY HAVE BEEN FORCED TO CONSUME
FOR DECADES NOW.  
 
So although there are plenty of FOOLS who
may speak their mind, there are also some
WISE AND INFORMED MEN AND WOMEN
who want the FREEDOM to COMMUNICATE
and not be SILENCED and INSULTED or
SHAMED.

Political correctness has not just harmed MEN.

It has harmed the FAMILY, and therefore it harms
the very FABRIC of the entire COUNTRY by
affecting the boys and girls and the men and
women as they grow up.

And it has harmed the NATIONAL SECURITY of
the country by DOWNPLAYING THE SEVERITY
of THREATS to it by foreign forces by pretending
that any foreign culture is still SUPERIOR to their
own-no matter how much it wants to usurp our own
values and our own culture.

There is no other culture on EARTH that is
so SELF-DESTRUCTIVE as the west has been
to ITSELF. It's been a self-hating culture.

You won't find any other culture on EARTH
that exists this way, because it CAN'T.

Yet somehow we are supposed to be HAPPY
that we are DESTROYING our own culture
to make everyone else happy.

So, although this is just a start, this is
an important TIME to start SPEAKING YOUR VOICE
on YOUR beliefs in things like men being treated
with RESPECT by women. On things like
appreciating values such as FAMILY, LOYALTY,
AND STRONG BONDS RATHER THAN PROMISCUITY.

Don't start talking about politics with
a woman you are trying to attract-for that
just follow the strategies in my materials-
but when out in general talking to people,
SUPPORT THE VOICES OF TRADITIONAL VALUES.

As the NEW forces of sanity become more
and more present, the feminists will start
to sing a different tune or disappear
altogether.

And unfortunately a lot of PICK UP ARTIST
culture actually PROMOTES the feminist
agenda, by encouraging women to be
promiscuous and by rewarding those women.
By the way, notice how Trump himself
chose women from countries that have
NO history of feminism.

If he was just using his MONEY to get
women, he could have SO EASILY gotten
an American woman who was gorgeous.

But he SPECIFICALLY chose a woman from
a country where feminism never corrupted
the women in it.

He didn't NEED to go outside the west
to get a woman, but he SPECIFICALLY did
so.  It's because of the VALUES, the
emphasis on FAMILY. He may not be a
saint, but he KNEW where he had a
higher chance of getting a woman
with the right VALUES.

There is a reason CONSERVATIVE values
are called conservative.

They are the values that have LASTED AND
WORKED FOR MILLENNIA.

They are in AGREEMENT with NATURE.

Promiscuity, feminism, political correctness,
and unbridled, unquestioned, uncritical forms of
multiculturalism that seek to DESTROY the
host culture- all these things go AGAINST
NATURE.

And enough people got SICK of these things
to band together to try to CHANGE the current
nightmare and the path of SELF-DESTRUCTION
that we are on as a society.

They didn’t love Trump, but they loved that
he was someone who wouldn’t SILENCE
them or try to SHAME them into SILENCE.

It is also of MASSIVE significance to note
how WRONG the “mainstream view” on Trump was.

They said he was racist and hated women.
The truth is he had HUGE numbers of
people from ALL RACES who voted for
him. HUGE numbers.

He also had TONS of women who voted for
him.

The politically correct crowd will surely try to
SHAME these people as well, calling them
IDIOTS and DEPLORABLES.

They also said he was a WAR MONGER.

The truth is that within HOURS of his winning
the election, the first GIANT moves toward
PEACE with RUSSIA were made, helping
to PREVENT a second Cold War.

And they all said that HILLARY would win
in a LANDSLIDE.

And just about EVERY talk show host made
fun of Trump, saying he would NEVER win.

This is yet ANOTHER example where the
POPULAR experts got it ALL WRONG.

One more thing-regarding POWER.
Women respond to POWER much more than
MEN do.
Men tend to care MORE about a woman’s LOOKS
and her LOYALTY.

And yet, POWER is something NO ONE
ever wants LESS of. Everyone wants MORE
of it.

So OF COURSE the forces of FEMINISM and
political correctness, especially those who are
using it for SELFISH AND DESTRUCTIVE
purposes are not going to GIVE IT UP so easily.

They will try EVERY TRICK IN THE BOOK
to try to TURN the tide BACK.

They will try to make Trump look like he is the
head of the Ku Klux Klan. They will try to make
anyone who isn’t politically correct look EVIL,
and they will lie, they will distort, they will shame,
they will abuse.

So make no mistake about it-this is a battle
for POWER.

And if you, as a man, care about having
a normal relationship with a woman, if
you care about the NUCLEAR FAMILY,
if you care about things like TRUTH,
and if you care about having POWER-
the very POWER that women are
attracted to in men-then THIS is
a most IMPORTANT time to STAND UP
for the TRADITIONAL MAN, FOR
TRADITIONAL VALUES, AND FOR THE
TRADITIONAL WOMAN OF COURSE
AS WELL- A WOMAN WHO HAS BEEN
MADE ALMOST EXTINCT HERE IN THE
WEST.

If you would like to learn more, just go here:

https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/

Till next time,

Michael Marks

Conquering Social Pressure & Getting "A Good Girl"

I have an absolutely CRUCIAL new video
for you today that goes DEEP on MANY
vital aspects for TRUE success with
women. 

It explores how to successfully approach
and attract women, and how to bring out the
BEST in a woman in terms of her values,
and it goes ULTRA DEEP into overcoming
the greatest BARRIER that most men have-
and it is something that is INTERNAL,
not external.

So, without further ado:



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Michael Marks
 

Attracting A Truly Great Woman

If you are looking to meet and attract a truly
great woman who is not only beautiful
but who would also be the kind of woman
who would make for a fantastic girlfriend,
wife, mother, and life-long supporter, this
is a particularly important newsletter for you.

ONE: POPULARITY DOES NOT EQUAL GOOD

The first thing I need to make absolutely
clear is that the POPULARITY of something
is not always a great indicator of that thing’s
value.  

TWO:
WHEN DEEP DOWN, YOU REALLY ARE PUTTING THE
WOMAN ON A PEDESTAL, YOU END UP SHOWING IT

So, the POPULAR ADVICE for men when it
comes to dating usually boils down to do
ANYTHING to try to get the woman, especially
to get her into bed.  

There are many problems with this approach.
First of all, it puts your MIND in the WRONG
place psychologically.  It puts ALL the value
on HER and none of it on your SELF.

So, even if the tactic involves PRETENDING
that you are high value, the fact is, that underneath
this charade, this game, this tactic, you would
actually feel INFERIOR worth to the woman
you are trying to attract, because, after all,
your mindset is all about how to get the woman
at all costs.

Ironically, this type of approach often ends up
REPELLING women, because women can
SENSE that lack of confidence even if the
guy is VERBALLY saying cocky remarks
or acting “hard to get” on the surface.

THREE: WOMEN ARE USUALLY BETTER AT
READING BODY LANGUAGE THAN MEN

Women are better than men at reading body
language, and this may be because they have
more practice socializing in complex ways
at an earlier age than men, whereas boys
don’t tend to engage as much in those types
of behaviors as they do in things like sports
or other stereo-typically “male” actions.

So, if a guy is FAKING his emotions, women
can SENSE it.

FOUR:
SCREENING IS ABSOLUTELY ESSENTIAL
IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR A WOMAN WITH
GREAT VALUES.
Also, if a guy is trying to get a QUALITY
woman, then it becomes even MORE important
to SCREEN a woman for the right values and
behaviors.

Now, there are some pick up artists that try to
PRETEND they are screening a woman, in order
to SEEM  as if they are NOT desperate for the
woman, but the TRUTH is, this is just a tactic,
they don’t REALLY care about screening, they
just want to get her into bed.

And again, the irony is that FAKING does not
work that well anyway EVEN FOR GUYS THAT
ARE ONLY CONCERNED WITH THE SUPERFICIAL. 

It is for THIS reason that guys who are only
concerned with the superficial would do much
better to be a lot more DIRECT while still showing
some class, as there are some women out there who
are looking for similar promiscuous adventures and
those women will be happy to meet a guy who is
honest and still showing some class.

But if you are looking for something a lot deeper
and a lot more long-term, if you are looking for
the kind of woman to be a true partner in the
deepest sense of the word, SCREENING becomes
INSANELY IMPORTANT.

It is important, first of all, so that you don’t waste
PRECIOUS TIME on the wrong women.

You can EASILY screen out women in just a
brief conversation.  You can be on the lookout
for how she spends her time, including her free
time, you can be on the lookout for what kinds
of things she likes to talk about.

FIVE: GET HER COMFORTABLE TO REVEAL HERSELF,
BY NOT COMING ACROSS AS JUDGMENTAL.

What is on a person’s MIND will often come
out in their CHATTING, if you just let them
feel COMFORTABLE with you.

This is why it is so important that you do NOT
tell a woman right away exactly what you are
looking for OR what you value or hate.

Instead, just have a casual but interesting chat
that gets her emotionally pumped. When people
are emotional they tend to talk more because
they are FEELING the DESIRE to express themselves.

SIX: GET HER EMOTIONAL IN A POSITIVE WAY

So don’t bore a woman to sleep.  Talk about
things that are INTRIGUING or INSPIRING.
Or find something about her so that you can
give her a truly HONEST compliment on
besides her looks. 

By the way, getting her LAUGHING is a GREAT
start, and you can learn more about that 
by going HERE:

http://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/humor-and-attracting-women.html

SEVEN:
STOP COMPROMISING YOUR INSISTENCE ON GREAT VALUES

There’s ANOTHER really important step to
getting a quality woman, and that is to stop
COMPROMISING with yourself on what
you define as GREAT VALUES in a woman.

I swear to it, I personally think that good guys
are living in the WORST TIME IN HISTORY
for finding quality women who are STELLAR
in the traits that are important for relationships,
for marriage, and for raising a family.

I also think that it’s probably pretty hard for
the few quality women who DO exist to find
the RIGHT men who have great values as well,
but since I’m not a woman, I can’t tell you for
sure what it’s like to be a woman who is truly
loyal and faithful and who is looking for a man
who is loyal and faithful.

I don’t think that anyone should be FORCED to
live a lifestyle in which they don’t believe.
Family life is not for everyone.  Marriage is not
for everyone.  Relationships are not for everyone.
And in today’s current society, this is DOUBLY
true.

However, when in the RIGHT relationship, MOST
people tend to report being happier than when they
were single, and most single people are also still
trying to find someone.

EIGHT: THE BIG PICTURE

On a larger scale, a strong RELATIONSHIP is the
bedrock of a strong marriage.  A strong marriage
is a great FOUNDATION for bringing up children
in the right atmosphere. Well-adjusted CHILDREN
grow up into well-adjusted ADULTS.  Well adjusted
ADULTS create a HEALTHY SOCIETY.  A healthy
SOCIETY means a healthy COUNTRY.  A healthy
country can POSITIVELY affect the WORLD as
well.

And the OPPOSITE is true as well.  A screwed-up
perception of how men and women should behave
will screw up EVERYTHING else.

NINE: SOME ELEMENTS OF THE PAST WERE WISER THAN THE PRESENT

Now, there were many things WRONG with society
back in 1950.  I won’t get into them here, as I’m sure
you can figure them out on your own.  But there were
SOME things that were definitely RIGHT.

And one of those things was the GENERAL VIEW
toward relationships. When a man courted a woman,
it MEANT something greater than just how to get
her into bed.  It reflected his desire to COMMIT to
her, to start a FAMILY with her.  It was not just
about the short-term physical.

And women, in general, were looking at men from
a more MATURE perspective.  Just like men, they
were also thinking about the long-term potential,
whether a man would be hard-working or lazy,
and whether he would be a good father, etc.

Not only this, but women were doing this when
they turned 18!  Women were not waiting till they
were twice that age to start thinking about the
important traits in a man. (And many women
today NEVER seem to think about it.)

FAST FORWARD TO 2016, and you have the
following scenario that takes place amongst
SOME women who are SUPPOSED to be
ready for a life-long mature COMMITMENT
and deep-seated love and RESPECT for their
man:

BACHELORETTE PARTIES WITH MEN
STRIPPING AND SHAKING THEIR
YOU-KNOW-WHATS

And I'm not a hypocrite, I don't think that men
who are seriously in love with their future
wives, men who view marriage as sacred,
would think it is appropriate to be holding
stripper bachelor parties either.

Part of the problem is that many women have
abandoned their once PROUD role in society
as protectors of family values.  It used to be that
most women would SHUN the kinds of values that
degrade the deepest levels of connection between
men and women.

Today, however, some misguided women feel they have
made "progress" and gained "equality" by trying to
duplicate the behaviors of the most promiscuous men.    

In 1950, you had women thinking CAREFULLY
about how to find and get a man who would
be a great husband and father, and you had 
women who VALUED their chastity, who felt it 
was something SACRED to give to a man...

And women knew this from CHILDHOOD back then.

But TODAY you have many ADULT women who
STILL can’t put it together in their heads that 
a man who is the kind of man who has good
values, who would be a good father, who would
be loyal, and a man who is STRONG enough
and SMART enough to be a great leader, would never
be STUPID enough to marry such a woman.

TEN: THIS IS WHERE I COME IN

Again, THIS is the reason I got INTO this field.

You can even check out EIGHT YEARS' WORTH
OF MIND-BLOWING ARTICLES ON THE SUBJECT at
my ORIGINAL blog at:

http://getagreatgirl.blogspot.com

There have been some people out there who have
promoted the most promiscuous pick up artist
advice on the planet, and then simultaneously
pretend to also be experts on getting a great
girlfriend, but to them it's all just business,
and they would sell you ANYTHING if they
thought they could get you to dish out for it.

What I teach, was not required or needed in 1950. 
Everything I write about now was OBVIOUS back then.

So let me bring this full circle:
If you want a GREAT QUALITY WOMAN, you
better FORGET the popular advice.

If you want to get that RARE kind of woman, you
HAVE to stand APART from the masses.

And again, I do not believe in violence, and I
do not believe in preaching.  Do not try to
CONVINCE any woman who is messed up
on how to be a better woman.

There are some wise women around.  These women
have a lot of courage to stand up for good values.

And these women standing up for good values aren't
just 90 year-old grannies.  These women standing up
for eternal values include women who are intelligent
and attractive university students who are right in the
THICK of this social pressure, and yet they are
RESISTING it COMPLETELY.

ELEVEN: YOU MUST BE THE MAN AND STAY ON COURSE

I PROMISE YOU that there ARE still some
decent women around. But man oh MAN are
you going to have to be the MAN if you
are going to go after a quality woman.

You are going to meet a lot of the WRONG women
along the way.

What is even CRAZIER, is that with the CERTAINTY
and CONFIDENCE in the eternal and powerful values
that you possess, you will find a lot of these WRONG
women actually PURSUING you.

Resisting the urge to give in to the SHORT TERM
pleasure is part of the SEPARATING the men from
the boys, so to speak.  The weak men will give into
these wrong women because the desire for the physical
with them while STILL not having found the RIGHT
woman will be very strong.

But giving in may very well make you LOSE some
of your CERTAINTY, some of your sense of DIRECTION,
some of your CONFIDENCE in your own values.

You are what you THINK AND DO.
So if you give into the wrong women, you will start to
RATIONALIZE and JUSTIFY to yourself all kinds of
nonsense, such as why you need to stay with this wrong
woman.

Meanwhile, the RIGHT WOMAN is out there waiting
as you spend all that time and energy and waste it
on the WRONG woman.  Wasting that time and
energy is something you should not do, because
meeting the RIGHT WOMAN may take a lot of energy
and time, but it is probably the MOST IMPORTANT
THINK YOU CAN DO IN YOUR LIFE besides taking
care of your health and in fact the wrong woman will
harm your health and the right woman will improve it.

TWELVE: TAKING ACTION

Now, let me get down to the NITTY-GRITTY.
I HATE b.s.
I LOVE truth.

And the TRUTH is, that unless you have some special
connection to all the right women, you are going to have
to APPROACH WOMEN and chat with them and get
a sense of who they are.

I repeat:
YOU ARE GOING TO HAVE TO APPROACH WOMEN.

You cannot expect miracles in the sense of you just
sitting at home or expecting women to just appear
out of thin air.  Also, women don’t tend to do the
approaching. This is because most women are
culturally conditioned to be less "pro-active" than
men when it comes to the INITIAL approach.

Women are told that being too assertive in the
initial approach will make them seem less
feminine.

If a woman is interested in a man who is a total
stranger,  usually the most she feels she can do
is INDIRECTLY make herself more available,
i.e. hanging around a certain area for longer than
usual, etc.

And you can’t give yourself excuses, as excuses
won’t help.  If there are no women in one place,
go to another place where there are women.
Keep trying new places till you find places
where you can meet plenty of women.
  
You must SOLDIER on, approaching woman
after woman even in situations that feel awkward.

You have no idea how strong this makes you,
because what happens is that when an EASIER
approach situation comes later, you will JUMP
on it because you will have already had experience
doing so many approaches that were harder from
before.

THIRTEEN: THE INSTANT-DATE

ANOTHER super-important  point is this:
GO FOR THE INSTANT DATE IF POSSIBLE

Getting a phone number is all good and fine, but
if you can, GO FOR THE INSTANT DATE.

What I mean by this is to actually take the
approach as far as possible.  If the chat is
going well, then after a few minutes suggest
that you go for a coffee right then and there,
especially if there is a coffee house nearby.

You have to remember that the woman is a
total stranger, and the more you get a chance
to connect with her, the LESS CHANCE that
later she will wonder just what the heck happened
earlier that day that made her give her number
to a total stranger.

Sometimes a guy will have a great interaction with
a woman,  and the woman will happily give him
her real number, but then later on she will forget
some of the details and she will wonder how on
earth she gave her number to a total stranger.

However, if she has a really LONG chat with you,
she gets a much better perspective of who you are,
and this makes her feel that it is not weird for her
to meet up with you again.

This does NOT mean that getting a woman’s
phone number is not enough.  Many times, it
IS enough, because you can chat on the phone.

I’m just saying that it is even BETTER to try to
get the INSTANT DATE with her in that very
FIRST interaction you have with her.

The right woman IS out there, she is hoping to meet you.
She is NOT a typical woman from today’s society.
She is NOT impressed by the screwed up morals.
She has the ability to THINK CRITICALLY.
      
If you want to attract a woman who is able to
RISE ABOVE THE CRAPOLA VALUES, you
must show that you are the kind of MAN who is
RARE and who is ABOVE the stupidity that is
unfortunately so often POPULAR.

If you are REALLY SERIOUS about mastering the
skills on how to approach women MOST EFFECTIVELY
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If you are looking for a woman for a serious relationship
who will treat you RIGHT and be LOYAL to you long-term,
you MUST BE PREPARED on how to go about doing all this.

If you JUST want the physical, this is the EASY part.
There are tons of promiscuous women who are not looking
to commit, every weekend at the clubs, bars, lounges, etc.

But if you want a quality woman who would make for
a great wife, mother, and partner for life, you
NEED TO BE INFORMED.

Almost EVERYTHING you read out there on this subject
by the "attract women" experts is coming from guys
who spend just as much time promoting promiscuity,
typical pick up artists, and their advice is a mish-mush
bunch of contradictions that doesn't make any sense.

I wrote a VERY IMPORTANT BOOK revealing what the
seduction community simply isn't interested in,
and in fact they MOCK men who want to have one
solid relationship with a woman instead of wanting
to sleep around- they like to call men that care
about family values insults-insults such as "being
PATHETIC" compared to having "real fun times"
including "having threesomes" and getting STDs, too!

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Till next time,

Michael Marks