Attracting A Truly Great Woman

If you are looking to meet and attract a truly
great woman who is not only beautiful
but who would also be the kind of woman
who would make for a fantastic girlfriend,
wife, mother, and life-long supporter, this
is a particularly important newsletter for you.

ONE: POPULARITY DOES NOT EQUAL GOOD

The first thing I need to make absolutely
clear is that the POPULARITY of something
is not always a great indicator of that thing’s
value.  

TWO:
WHEN DEEP DOWN, YOU REALLY ARE PUTTING THE
WOMAN ON A PEDESTAL, YOU END UP SHOWING IT

So, the POPULAR ADVICE for men when it
comes to dating usually boils down to do
ANYTHING to try to get the woman, especially
to get her into bed.  

There are many problems with this approach.
First of all, it puts your MIND in the WRONG
place psychologically.  It puts ALL the value
on HER and none of it on your SELF.

So, even if the tactic involves PRETENDING
that you are high value, the fact is, that underneath
this charade, this game, this tactic, you would
actually feel INFERIOR worth to the woman
you are trying to attract, because, after all,
your mindset is all about how to get the woman
at all costs.

Ironically, this type of approach often ends up
REPELLING women, because women can
SENSE that lack of confidence even if the
guy is VERBALLY saying cocky remarks
or acting “hard to get” on the surface.

THREE: WOMEN ARE USUALLY BETTER AT
READING BODY LANGUAGE THAN MEN

Women are better than men at reading body
language, and this may be because they have
more practice socializing in complex ways
at an earlier age than men, whereas boys
don’t tend to engage as much in those types
of behaviors as they do in things like sports
or other stereo-typically “male” actions.

So, if a guy is FAKING his emotions, women
can SENSE it.

FOUR:
SCREENING IS ABSOLUTELY ESSENTIAL
IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR A WOMAN WITH
GREAT VALUES.
Also, if a guy is trying to get a QUALITY
woman, then it becomes even MORE important
to SCREEN a woman for the right values and
behaviors.

Now, there are some pick up artists that try to
PRETEND they are screening a woman, in order
to SEEM  as if they are NOT desperate for the
woman, but the TRUTH is, this is just a tactic,
they don’t REALLY care about screening, they
just want to get her into bed.

And again, the irony is that FAKING does not
work that well anyway EVEN FOR GUYS THAT
ARE ONLY CONCERNED WITH THE SUPERFICIAL. 

It is for THIS reason that guys who are only
concerned with the superficial would do much
better to be a lot more DIRECT while still showing
some class, as there are some women out there who
are looking for similar promiscuous adventures and
those women will be happy to meet a guy who is
honest and still showing some class.

But if you are looking for something a lot deeper
and a lot more long-term, if you are looking for
the kind of woman to be a true partner in the
deepest sense of the word, SCREENING becomes
INSANELY IMPORTANT.

It is important, first of all, so that you don’t waste
PRECIOUS TIME on the wrong women.

You can EASILY screen out women in just a
brief conversation.  You can be on the lookout
for how she spends her time, including her free
time, you can be on the lookout for what kinds
of things she likes to talk about.

FIVE: GET HER COMFORTABLE TO REVEAL HERSELF,
BY NOT COMING ACROSS AS JUDGMENTAL.

What is on a person’s MIND will often come
out in their CHATTING, if you just let them
feel COMFORTABLE with you.

This is why it is so important that you do NOT
tell a woman right away exactly what you are
looking for OR what you value or hate.

Instead, just have a casual but interesting chat
that gets her emotionally pumped. When people
are emotional they tend to talk more because
they are FEELING the DESIRE to express themselves.

SIX: GET HER EMOTIONAL IN A POSITIVE WAY

So don’t bore a woman to sleep.  Talk about
things that are INTRIGUING or INSPIRING.
Or find something about her so that you can
give her a truly HONEST compliment on
besides her looks. 

By the way, getting her LAUGHING is a GREAT
start, and you can learn more about that 
by going HERE:

http://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/humor-and-attracting-women.html

SEVEN:
STOP COMPROMISING YOUR INSISTENCE ON GREAT VALUES

There’s ANOTHER really important step to
getting a quality woman, and that is to stop
COMPROMISING with yourself on what
you define as GREAT VALUES in a woman.

I swear to it, I personally think that good guys
are living in the WORST TIME IN HISTORY
for finding quality women who are STELLAR
in the traits that are important for relationships,
for marriage, and for raising a family.

I also think that it’s probably pretty hard for
the few quality women who DO exist to find
the RIGHT men who have great values as well,
but since I’m not a woman, I can’t tell you for
sure what it’s like to be a woman who is truly
loyal and faithful and who is looking for a man
who is loyal and faithful.

I don’t think that anyone should be FORCED to
live a lifestyle in which they don’t believe.
Family life is not for everyone.  Marriage is not
for everyone.  Relationships are not for everyone.
And in today’s current society, this is DOUBLY
true.

However, when in the RIGHT relationship, MOST
people tend to report being happier than when they
were single, and most single people are also still
trying to find someone.

EIGHT: THE BIG PICTURE

On a larger scale, a strong RELATIONSHIP is the
bedrock of a strong marriage.  A strong marriage
is a great FOUNDATION for bringing up children
in the right atmosphere. Well-adjusted CHILDREN
grow up into well-adjusted ADULTS.  Well adjusted
ADULTS create a HEALTHY SOCIETY.  A healthy
SOCIETY means a healthy COUNTRY.  A healthy
country can POSITIVELY affect the WORLD as
well.

And the OPPOSITE is true as well.  A screwed-up
perception of how men and women should behave
will screw up EVERYTHING else.

NINE: SOME ELEMENTS OF THE PAST WERE WISER THAN THE PRESENT

Now, there were many things WRONG with society
back in 1950.  I won’t get into them here, as I’m sure
you can figure them out on your own.  But there were
SOME things that were definitely RIGHT.

And one of those things was the GENERAL VIEW
toward relationships. When a man courted a woman,
it MEANT something greater than just how to get
her into bed.  It reflected his desire to COMMIT to
her, to start a FAMILY with her.  It was not just
about the short-term physical.

And women, in general, were looking at men from
a more MATURE perspective.  Just like men, they
were also thinking about the long-term potential,
whether a man would be hard-working or lazy,
and whether he would be a good father, etc.

Not only this, but women were doing this when
they turned 18!  Women were not waiting till they
were twice that age to start thinking about the
important traits in a man. (And many women
today NEVER seem to think about it.)

FAST FORWARD TO 2016, and you have the
following scenario that takes place amongst
SOME women who are SUPPOSED to be
ready for a life-long mature COMMITMENT
and deep-seated love and RESPECT for their
man:

BACHELORETTE PARTIES WITH MEN
STRIPPING AND SHAKING THEIR
YOU-KNOW-WHATS

And I'm not a hypocrite, I don't think that men
who are seriously in love with their future
wives, men who view marriage as sacred,
would think it is appropriate to be holding
stripper bachelor parties either.

Part of the problem is that many women have
abandoned their once PROUD role in society
as protectors of family values.  It used to be that
most women would SHUN the kinds of values that
degrade the deepest levels of connection between
men and women.

Today, however, some misguided women feel they have
made "progress" and gained "equality" by trying to
duplicate the behaviors of the most promiscuous men.    

In 1950, you had women thinking CAREFULLY
about how to find and get a man who would
be a great husband and father, and you had 
women who VALUED their chastity, who felt it 
was something SACRED to give to a man...

And women knew this from CHILDHOOD back then.

But TODAY you have many ADULT women who
STILL can’t put it together in their heads that 
a man who is the kind of man who has good
values, who would be a good father, who would
be loyal, and a man who is STRONG enough
and SMART enough to be a great leader, would never
be STUPID enough to marry such a woman.

TEN: THIS IS WHERE I COME IN

Again, THIS is the reason I got INTO this field.

You can even check out EIGHT YEARS' WORTH
OF MIND-BLOWING ARTICLES ON THE SUBJECT at
my ORIGINAL blog at:

http://getagreatgirl.blogspot.com

There have been some people out there who have
promoted the most promiscuous pick up artist
advice on the planet, and then simultaneously
pretend to also be experts on getting a great
girlfriend, but to them it's all just business,
and they would sell you ANYTHING if they
thought they could get you to dish out for it.

What I teach, was not required or needed in 1950. 
Everything I write about now was OBVIOUS back then.

So let me bring this full circle:
If you want a GREAT QUALITY WOMAN, you
better FORGET the popular advice.

If you want to get that RARE kind of woman, you
HAVE to stand APART from the masses.

And again, I do not believe in violence, and I
do not believe in preaching.  Do not try to
CONVINCE any woman who is messed up
on how to be a better woman.

There are some wise women around.  These women
have a lot of courage to stand up for good values.

And these women standing up for good values aren't
just 90 year-old grannies.  These women standing up
for eternal values include women who are intelligent
and attractive university students who are right in the
THICK of this social pressure, and yet they are
RESISTING it COMPLETELY.

ELEVEN: YOU MUST BE THE MAN AND STAY ON COURSE

I PROMISE YOU that there ARE still some
decent women around. But man oh MAN are
you going to have to be the MAN if you
are going to go after a quality woman.

You are going to meet a lot of the WRONG women
along the way.

What is even CRAZIER, is that with the CERTAINTY
and CONFIDENCE in the eternal and powerful values
that you possess, you will find a lot of these WRONG
women actually PURSUING you.

Resisting the urge to give in to the SHORT TERM
pleasure is part of the SEPARATING the men from
the boys, so to speak.  The weak men will give into
these wrong women because the desire for the physical
with them while STILL not having found the RIGHT
woman will be very strong.

But giving in may very well make you LOSE some
of your CERTAINTY, some of your sense of DIRECTION,
some of your CONFIDENCE in your own values.

You are what you THINK AND DO.
So if you give into the wrong women, you will start to
RATIONALIZE and JUSTIFY to yourself all kinds of
nonsense, such as why you need to stay with this wrong
woman.

Meanwhile, the RIGHT WOMAN is out there waiting
as you spend all that time and energy and waste it
on the WRONG woman.  Wasting that time and
energy is something you should not do, because
meeting the RIGHT WOMAN may take a lot of energy
and time, but it is probably the MOST IMPORTANT
THINK YOU CAN DO IN YOUR LIFE besides taking
care of your health and in fact the wrong woman will
harm your health and the right woman will improve it.

TWELVE: TAKING ACTION

Now, let me get down to the NITTY-GRITTY.
I HATE b.s.
I LOVE truth.

And the TRUTH is, that unless you have some special
connection to all the right women, you are going to have
to APPROACH WOMEN and chat with them and get
a sense of who they are.

I repeat:
YOU ARE GOING TO HAVE TO APPROACH WOMEN.

You cannot expect miracles in the sense of you just
sitting at home or expecting women to just appear
out of thin air.  Also, women don’t tend to do the
approaching. This is because most women are
culturally conditioned to be less "pro-active" than
men when it comes to the INITIAL approach.

Women are told that being too assertive in the
initial approach will make them seem less
feminine.

If a woman is interested in a man who is a total
stranger,  usually the most she feels she can do
is INDIRECTLY make herself more available,
i.e. hanging around a certain area for longer than
usual, etc.

And you can’t give yourself excuses, as excuses
won’t help.  If there are no women in one place,
go to another place where there are women.
Keep trying new places till you find places
where you can meet plenty of women.
  
You must SOLDIER on, approaching woman
after woman even in situations that feel awkward.

You have no idea how strong this makes you,
because what happens is that when an EASIER
approach situation comes later, you will JUMP
on it because you will have already had experience
doing so many approaches that were harder from
before.

THIRTEEN: THE INSTANT-DATE

ANOTHER super-important  point is this:
GO FOR THE INSTANT DATE IF POSSIBLE

Getting a phone number is all good and fine, but
if you can, GO FOR THE INSTANT DATE.

What I mean by this is to actually take the
approach as far as possible.  If the chat is
going well, then after a few minutes suggest
that you go for a coffee right then and there,
especially if there is a coffee house nearby.

You have to remember that the woman is a
total stranger, and the more you get a chance
to connect with her, the LESS CHANCE that
later she will wonder just what the heck happened
earlier that day that made her give her number
to a total stranger.

Sometimes a guy will have a great interaction with
a woman,  and the woman will happily give him
her real number, but then later on she will forget
some of the details and she will wonder how on
earth she gave her number to a total stranger.

However, if she has a really LONG chat with you,
she gets a much better perspective of who you are,
and this makes her feel that it is not weird for her
to meet up with you again.

This does NOT mean that getting a woman’s
phone number is not enough.  Many times, it
IS enough, because you can chat on the phone.

I’m just saying that it is even BETTER to try to
get the INSTANT DATE with her in that very
FIRST interaction you have with her.

The right woman IS out there, she is hoping to meet you.
She is NOT a typical woman from today’s society.
She is NOT impressed by the screwed up morals.
She has the ability to THINK CRITICALLY.
      
If you want to attract a woman who is able to
RISE ABOVE THE CRAPOLA VALUES, you
must show that you are the kind of MAN who is
RARE and who is ABOVE the stupidity that is
unfortunately so often POPULAR.

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If you are looking for a woman for a serious relationship
who will treat you RIGHT and be LOYAL to you long-term,
you MUST BE PREPARED on how to go about doing all this.

If you JUST want the physical, this is the EASY part.
There are tons of promiscuous women who are not looking
to commit, every weekend at the clubs, bars, lounges, etc.

But if you want a quality woman who would make for
a great wife, mother, and partner for life, you
NEED TO BE INFORMED.

Almost EVERYTHING you read out there on this subject
by the "attract women" experts is coming from guys
who spend just as much time promoting promiscuity,
typical pick up artists, and their advice is a mish-mush
bunch of contradictions that doesn't make any sense.

I wrote a VERY IMPORTANT BOOK revealing what the
seduction community simply isn't interested in,
and in fact they MOCK men who want to have one
solid relationship with a woman instead of wanting
to sleep around- they like to call men that care
about family values insults-insults such as "being
PATHETIC" compared to having "real fun times"
including "having threesomes" and getting STDs, too!

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Till next time,

Michael Marks

The Truth About Getting An Amazing Girlfriend

There are some INSANELY IMPORTANT things
you absolutely MUST know regarding the METHODS
for attracting women, and these are things that not
only most guys don’t know, but even most PICK
UP ARTISTS DON’T KNOW.

This message includes a NEW VIDEO and an
absolute MUST-READ NEW ARTICLE, and the video
and article each contains DIFFERENT and ABSOLUTELY
VITAL knowledge for your success with women.

The video follows the article:

WHAT’S REALLY HAPPENING IN CLUBS

I wish someone had taught me these things, but
NO ONE, absolutely NO ONE, not even one solitary
SINGLE pick up artist out there, has ever revealed
this, but I am going to teach you something that
I personally uncovered in my years of immersion
in this field.

Not only, as you know, do some of the most promiscuous
women tend to be the most attractive women in the clubs,
but the entire CLUB has been designed to ENCOURAGE
and create a sexual atmosphere.

First of all, regarding promiscuous women, just think
about it for one second:

An attractive woman, from LONG BEFORE she even
STEPS out her door in the morning, is BOMBARDED
by attention from men.

If she is single, her PHONE is blowing up with messages
from every guy she has met since EVER who has her number.

In fact, unless she got a new number they don’t have,
she is probably STILL getting bombarded with new messages
before she even wakes UP in the morning.

Then, all day long, wherever she goes, more attention
and more offers from guys.

Do you REALLY think that an attractive woman who is trying
to find the RIGHT GUY for a REAL RELATIONSHIP needs
to go to a NIGHTCLUB crammed with DRUNK MEN in order
to meet GUYS???????????????????????????????????
OF COURSE NOT!

But hopefully, you already knew that, right?

Because that’s not even my main message.
That’s just hopefully OBVIOUS to any guy, I hope.

My main message is that the club is designed to
ENCOURAGE promiscuity.

It’s not just the ALCOHOL, which of course is a MASSIVE
factor as well.

It’s actually quite ENCOURAGING as a society to see
that WITHOUT the alcohol, most women do NOT jump
into bed with strangers, even in the midst of third-wave
feminist insanity.

It goes against FEMALE NATURE to be that careless
about sleeping with random men.

But ALCOHOL actually INTERFERES with NORMAL
HEALTHY AND SHARP BRAIN FUNCTION.

It SCREWS UP logical thinking.

PLUS, of course, there is the MUSIC.

Do you know how much PSYCHOLOGY is embedded
into the KIND of beats and music that is played?

The rhythm, the BEATS, the level of BASE, is all
DESIGNED to TARGET the erogenous zones.

This is not a joke, this is the truth.

So, now, let’s add this UP:

1. Promiscuous women.
2. Alcohol.
3. Music designed to push the sexual.

If a guy can’t get a promiscuous woman in a CLUB physical,
he can’t get ANY WOMAN PHYSICAL ANYWHERE
ON EARTH.

And yet, still, till this very day, there are guys out there
claiming to be experts on this subject, telling men that
the way to get a great girlfriend is to get "THREE WAY
MAKE-OUTS WITH GIRLS IN CLUBS"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This is HARMING a lot of men who simply don’t KNOW
the FULL TRUTH of what is going on; men who just
want to get great girlfriends.

It’s tough enough SCREENING for LOYAL, QUALITY
GIRLFRIENDS in REGULAR environments, and then
also ATTRACTING THEM AND BUILDING THE NECESSARY
DEEP BONDS FOR A FUTURE WITH HER.

But, like everything else in this world, greed and
exploitation of those who don’t know the TRUTH is
what rules the day for most of the planet.

My work continues to be copied and bastardized by so
many in this field, and they refuse to acknowledge my
contributions to the field, including how to attract women without
using abusive tactics and without using pick up lines, and
also regarding my contribution to this field regarding how
LOYAL  WOMEN WHO ARE LOOKING TO INVEST
THEIR EMOTIONS IN A MAN FOR THE LONG TERM
ARE GOING TO BE REPULSED BY THE OVERLY
PHYSICAL EMPHASIS USED BY MOST PICK UP ARTISTS.

Again, I repeat:
QUALITY WOMEN, THE KINDS WHO ARE LOYAL,
THE KINDS WHO HAVE FAR MORE INVESTED
IN A MAN THAN JUST ONE NIGHT STAND OR
SOME PROMISCUOUS SHORT-TERM AFFAIR,
REQUIRE A LOT MORE EMOTIONAL INVESTMENT
FROM A MAN.

This is no different than if YOU were going to invest
In some MAJOR purchase. You wouldn’t be ENCOURAGED
by a high-pressure aggressive tactic; you would be repulsed.

There is simply too much at stake to make a rash decision.
So too, a woman who is REALLY looking for a man
for the “real thing” will be REPULSED at standard
PICK UP ARTIST TYPE TACTICS.

This is where DATING comes in.
The point of dating is not to see how FAST you
can get a woman physical.

We all know that can happen in SECONDS in a club.

The point of DATING is for YOU to make sure YOU
are learning about the woman, to see if she is RIGHT
for you.

Will she ENHANCE YOUR LIFE or make it a living
NIGHTMARE?

You should WANT to slow things down and not
jump into bed with her.

The IRONY of this, is that this ALWAYS ends up making
women want to sleep with you FASTER.

This is because it actually shows VALUE.
It shows lack of neediness.

Now, that DOES NOT mean that therefore you should
approach women in some ASS-KISSING WAY.

It doesn’t mean that GOOD GIRLS don’t have INFINITELY
powerful drives and desires for the PHYSICAL side of
things.

It doesn’t mean GOOD GIRLS CAN’T APPRECIATE
a man who knows WHEN to be a “BAD BOY”.

It doesn’t mean that you can BORE a woman into ATTRACTION.

It doesn’t mean there isn’t anything to learn.
In fact, getting a GREAT girlfriend requires MORE know-how.

But because everything I am saying here requires
NUANCES AND A BIT OF BRAIN POWER TO APPRECIATE,
MOST MEN WILL NEVER EVEN LET WHAT I AM SAYING
SINK INTO THEIR HEADS.

Most people CAN’T HANDLE ANYTHING THAT ISN’T
BLACK AND WHITE.

They want to hear “YES INSTANT MAKE OUT AND
NAKED CHICK AND EVERYTHING IS GREAT AND
SHE WILL TREAT ME AMAZING AND EVERYTHING
IS GREAT”.

So again, clubs have:

1. More promiscuous women per capita than anywhere
else on earth, and also especially if you are looking for
an ATTRACTIVE woman, you have to ask yourself why
the F an ATTRACTIVE woman needs to go to a CLUB
in order to meet MEN, when she is BOMBARDED by
men 24/7, and like I said even when she is SLEEPING
she is getting INFINITE TEXTS AND EMAILS AND
VOICE MAILS AND MESSAGES FROM MEN!!!!!!

The most desirable, attractive, and loyal women tend to
AVOID clubs for the most part, and perhaps go occasionally
with some friends as something to do, and often it is, for
THESE women, a gigantic waste of time as the kinds of men
Who approach them the most in these places tend to also
be the kind of men who are only interested in the physical.

Remember, LIKE attracts LIKE.
So, it should be no secret that the men and women who really
belong in clubs are the promiscuous ones who also happen to
really like drinking alcohol as well. And of course the kinds of
pick up artists who like to pretend to guys that these women
are no different than any others.

By the way, if you think this means that all you need to do
to meet great women is to just pick up any woman OUTSIDE
of a club, that is equally misguided.

It’s just that women who aren’t in clubs, who are just going
about their lives and who you can meet at any time during
the day or night as they are out there living their lives and
shopping, relaxing, etc, have a CHANCE of being the kinds
of quality women that you can actually have a great relationship
with.

2. And clubs have the ALCOHOL which screws up
thinking, and the only women who are FINE with this
happening in the same place and time where they
are meeting MEN are women who DON’T GIVE A RAT’S
ASS about ANYTHING responsible, disciplined, or logical
that is required for a successful long-term relationship.

3. And the MUSIC, especially the BASE, is DESIGNED
to strike at the erogenous zones!

And still, today, in the year 2016, there are STILL guys
out there who somehow think that making out with
a woman in a club is SYNONYMOUS WITH GETTING
A GREAT GIRLFRIEND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

In fact, clubs are so insane in this regard, that even the
PROMISCUOUS women tend to behave VERY DIFFERENTLY
outside the club!!!

Another thing I want to make clear is the
DESTRUCTIVE IMPACT ON TRUST THAT
USING ANY NEGATIVE TACTICS WILL HAVE
on any man's long-term success with women.

So, for example, a lot of pick up artists like
to do something they call “spiking the energy”
of an interaction by saying something that is
a bit of an INSULT to the woman.

They say this is just to CATCH HER ATTENTION,
if she is an ATTRACTIVE woman who has, in
these guys’ opinions, “seen it all” in terms of
approaches from men.

But this SPELLS TOTAL DISASTER FOR ANY
MAN LOOKING FOR A REAL QUALITY GIRLFRIEND
INSTEAD OF A WOMAN WHO WILL WREAK HAVOC
WITH HIS MIND.

The reason is because of TRUST.
Without TRUST, all relationships are DOOMED.
DOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOMED.

And no matter how SUBTLE, the insult given is
REVERBERATING in her mind on a SUBCONSCIOUS
LEVEL for long, long, LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOONG
after it has been uttered.

It is like a silent TROJAN HORSE.
It enters her mind, and even if she tries to ignore it.
It makes her DISTRUST you.

And lack of trust leads to fear.
Fear leads to anger.
And anger leads to the DARK SIDE.

She will PUNISH that man, eventually.
She will find the thing that hurts him the MOST.
Whether that is humiliating him or cheating on him
or unleashing some otherworldly demonic evil upon
him, she WILL do it.

But of course, for men who don’t give a RAT’S ASS
about getting a REAL GIRLFRIEND and a successful
long-term relationship, NONE OF THIS MATTERS.

Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.
There IS another way.
It takes more wisdom.
The way to is unleash so many POSITIVE EMOTIONS
in her, including of course the erotic ones, but so much
more as well, that she becomes ADDICTED to you.

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IMMEDIATELY. I designed this book for men living in
TODAY’S WORLD, where women have been bombarded
by brainwashing from the most extreme forces of feminism.

This book allows you to not only ATTRACT women but
also to help make sure she CONTINUES to treat you
right.  The book shows you how to deal with ALL
the major issues that tend to happen not only during
the pick-up, but even into the RELATIONSHIP as well.

This book is REQUIRED for SMOOTH SAILING when
it comes to EVERY STEP OF THE WAY with attracting
women. That means not only the pick-up, but also
KEEPING them attracted, and also for making sure
they treat you WELL for the LONG-TERM, too.

Download it NOW:

http://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/book.html

If you are already in a relationship or dating a woman
and you want some expertise on ANY matter in this
area, you can also get a private consultation with me
by going here:

http://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/consultations.html

Till next time.

Michael Marks

Revolutionary NEW Bootcamp! New Video! Mind-Blowing REVELATIONS on Attracting Women!

It's been a while, and MAN is there BREAKTHROUGH news for you!

First of all, I have an INSANELY POWERFUL new BREAKTHROUGH BOOTCAMP that makes  MASTERY of pick-up and attracting women EVEN EASIER THAN EVER BEFORE for ANY MAN. 

Instead of telling you all the details here, just check it out for yourself NOW by going HERE immediately:

http://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/bootcamp.html

Next, I also have a GOLDEN new video for you.  It's all about the power of something I call "SELF-GENERATED SOCIAL PROOF": 



Think about how POWERFUL the effect that SOCIAL INFLUENCE is on just about EVERYONE. 

It truly MAKES or BREAKS people's sense of happiness, meaning, and the very purpose of LIFE for most people!

One of the craziest things is how there were MILLIONS if not BILLIONS of people complaining how they have no privacy due to the government.  But then, what is the most popular form of media today? 

SOCIAL MEDIA.  Social media like FACEBOOK. Twitter. Instagram. Vine. 

Why is this? Supposedly people wanted MORE privacy, but they are then VOLUNTARILY GIVING OVER EVERYTHING, EVERY LAST DETAIL OF THEIR LIVES INCLUDING WHAT THEY ATE FOR LUNCH, OUT TO THE PUBLIC!

The reason is because people are MASSIVELY affected by the need for SOCIAL approval. 

The most PAINFUL forms of emotions do NOT usually come from TANGIBLE ISSUES or physical pain. They come from SOCIAL status, SOCIAL isolation, and SOCIAL rejection. (credit: Kelly McGonigal)

So powerful are these forces, that people will GENUINELY FEEL that the most arbitrary, even DESTRUCTIVE things, are the most AWESOME THINGS, if the SOCIAL ENVIRONMENT deems it "awesome"! 

What is desirable and cool all depends on whatever people think will make them "cool". 
In countries where people have less money, for example, instead of being rich, a person might be considered "awesome" if he is an expert at some ARBITRARY sport than in ANOTHER country is meaningless! 

And all this means that if YOU start exerting SOCIAL PROOF on YOURSELF through what you learn from MY teachings, you can RULE when it comes to pick up and attracting the women of your CHOICE.

Sign up for my NEW BOOTCAMP NOW, by going here IMMEDIATELY:

http://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/bootcamp.html

And if you haven't yet downloaded my ABSOLUTELY ESSENTIAL BOOK, then do that NOW:

http://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/book.html

If you have any emergency situation with any woman you need addressed IMMEDIATELY, you can get a consultation with me ASAP by going HERE:

http://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/consultations.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

Creating The VIBE That Attracts Women

The most important thing for attracting women
is creating something known as the VIBE.

This means stimulating their EMOTIONS in 
a relaxed, positive way that includes getting 
them to experience feeling turned on, feeling 
excited, feeling laughter, feeling just the right 
degree of safety, feeling intrigued, feeling 
adventurous, and many other emotions.

You don't need to stimulate all these emotions
at once, although many of them can combine
at once to create an even more powerful effect.

Notice that just the plain "feeling aroused"
is not it alone, and this is because for women
emotions tend spill into each other and create
new experiences that are even more meaningful.

A student of mine explains EXACTLY how he used
what he learned from me both in my book and in
my bootcamp to successfully pick-up and attract
women this way.

His letter is MASSIVELY helpful for ANY guy
who wants to know how EASY it can be to
attract the most incredible women on Earth!

The entire message is tremendously informative,
and I have highlighted sections that I think are
of PARAMOUNT significance:

LETTER FROM A READER/BOOTCAMP STUDENT

Hey Michael,

Just had to write in to you, to tell you how
you have transformed my life with women.

I still can’t believe that a few short weeks ago,
I was living in despair, misery, and loneliness after finding
out that the girl I have had a crush on for years
is now “seriously” dating some new guy.

She works at the same company I do, she is
beautiful. She’s a petite dyed blonde, the most
feminine giggle you have ever heard, the most
sweet voice on the face of this earth, and the
drop-dead curves on her in every place a man
could ask for.

And she’s a great personality, too. Completely
down-to-earth; not stuck up at all.

We have been friends for three years- or should I
say I have been her “girlfriend” as I was the
one she would come to for support as she
would come crying revealing her bad dates
and relationship issues to me.

All that time, I thought she would eventually see
what was right in front of her, a guy that was caring
and devoted to her best interests, always.

And somehow, she just bypassed me and went
from one bad boyfriend to some totally new guy.

That’s when I discovered you and your new book
online. I devoured it in one sitting, and at first it
was too much for me to accept, it had my entire
vision of women and reality upside down, and
yet it confirmed what I had suspected on some
gut level for so many years.

So I read it again, and again. And again.
Four times I read your book, Michael, and
each time it hit me like a locomotive.

I started to realize how I had been screwing up
every single opportunity I ever had with women,   
including this one that I had my heart set on.

Constantly trying to appeal to women by doing everything
except what really counts- getting their emotions pumping!

All those years, I was still trying to appeal to women
based on a male perspective of things, so I would
try to improve my looks by being in the gym, and
try to make more money, and also try to provide
logical reasons for her to be with me, like being
supportive, giving her good advice in life, etc.

Your book truly blew open my mind to how
off-track I was in terms of creating attraction,
and your tips on creating the sexual vibe
and on just how far we can go with this
when interacting with women got my mind
racing and excited to try them out on real
women!

So I started following the tips you gave for changing
my internal emotional baseline, so that I am truly
exuding the right combination of “vibes”.

And I started doing this while also “pushing the envelope"
in my interactions with women I would see anywhere, and
it was as if I had suddenly been shifted to an alternate reality,
where instead of getting pissed off and slapping me
across the face, women were melting and flirting back
with me! 

One gorgeous waitress I had only flirted with, wrote her
number along with a borderline explicit dirty message,
on the receipt, which I had almost thrown out when
I got home because I didn’t even know she had done
that!

Well, before this point, I had wasted enough years
doing things the way I thought they were supposed
to work, and I wasn’t going to waste one more second
of my life being less than I could be with women, so I
signed up for your bootcamp that same night- I knew your stuff
would work, and I wanted to get to my full potential
with women as absolutely fast as possible.

I believe you only live once, and so every second counts.
Why wait years to have the greatest level of ecstasy with
women when I could have it now?

For your readers, I’d like to impart the moment of bootcamp
that left the most permanent effect on me that I will take with
me for the rest of my life.

We were walking along the sidewalk downtown,
you and I, discussing some of the finer details
regarding creating the all-important “vibe” that
swallows women up into your reality and makes
them never want to leave- when the most heavenly
creature entered my reality.

She had just stepped out of a taxi, and was walking up
ahead of us, a pony-tailed brunette, about 5 foot 6, clad
in baby-blue short-sleeves and a tasteful white skirt that
showed off her lightly tanned, shapely, womanly legs,
in strapped black heels that accentuated her feminine
calves.

Just the sight of her instantly shot my pulse into orbit.

I took your subtle nod as my cue to go into action, and
I knew, in a humorous way, you would never forgive me
for not taking action!

So I stepped up my stride and quickly caught up
to her, when I realized she was even more beautiful
than she looked from afar. About 26 or 27, angelic face, 
a bit like Mila Kunis, her arms and legs were toned-she
had clearly spent time in the gym. 

And curves that made it difficult for me to even think! 

She was truly "poetry in motion". 

And here is the part your readers need to understand:
What I said next came with unbridled passion, sincerity,
and joy for life. I truly felt more alive in the presence of
this woman than I had felt in my entire life. 

Also, rather than interpreting my exploding heartbeat
in a way that would cause me to give into fear, I took
what you said and interpreted it as a sign my body was
giving me everything it had to be my best and give me
as much energy, resourcefulness, and ingenuity as
required to succeed.

I told her what was on my mind:

“You have to stop”.
And I slowed down to a stop.

At first, she didn’t know what was going on.
So I repeated myself.
“You have to stop’”

She looked at me curiously as she slowed down
and then stopped walking!

Step one accomplished. I had this woman now
stopped and giving me opportunity.

Your readers should also realize the power of this,
because by getting her to stop, and not chasing her,
it sends off a message of your own power and your
own internal state of mind. It shows just how mch
you know that you are worth every bit of her time.

So naturally, this makes a woman feel better
about the interaction than stopping for some guy
who himself feels unworthy of her.
 
I continued:

“You are a woman who makes a man feel like
a man; and there is no way on Earth I am going to
let you slip through my fingers without the greatest
battle and effort of all time, anywhere, everywhere”.

Now, I admit, that some of this came from my conversations
with you, but it was not conscious, it was subconsciously
“stealing” from my conversations with you where you had
taught me earlier. 

But as you said, the key was my state of mind as I delivered
the message, as she would pick up subconsciously on
my full intent and meaning regardless of the words if
the feeling was truly there in my gut.

Her expression went from curious and concerned to
lit up with a really warm smile! She understood fully.

I also knew from you how important it was to continue
the interaction because it’s not enough to break the
ice; otherwise these women would be going out with
every guy!

So I started to work on building the foundation.
I took in the cues, including her toned muscles,
and accomplished humor and connection at once:

“Whoa! (pointing to her biceps) Are you a bodyguard?!
I could use a bodyguard! Too many women are always
after my body and I need protection! Especially from
a woman who could appreciate my mind and not treat
me like meat!”

To this, she started laughing, and looked me
straight in the eyes:

“Is that such a problem? What’s wrong with that?”

“It’s a huge problem! What if I want to make a living
Using my mind? No one will take me seriously!”

She laughed even harder! She totally got it!

Michael, as you taught me, turning around the entire
third-wave feminism thing on its head is so powerful!
It’s powerful because women really are as sexual as
men, and because especially attractive women are
so confident that they need to meet men who are
also as confident and who aren’t going to fall for the
“helpless female victim” perception of all women that
so many men have.

These women are so confident, they absolutely want
men who can have fun with them, and play and push
the envelope, and who understand that women are
even more sexual than men!

By playing up the angle of me being the one trying to
push women away, there was just the right amount of
challenge for her, combined with the natural chemistry
of man and woman, plus of course there was my sincere
compliments by sheer virtue of the fact I had opened
her in such a direct way about her feminine beauty
and how it made me feel more alive than ever.

Women really do want the pick up to be done in a way that
is not vulgar, that shows class, that shows personality.
Which makes so much sense as it just feels so much
better this way for everyone involved!

And yes, part of what I said again came from things
you taught me, but I wasn’t trying to repeat lines or
routines, I was just naturally drawing on the themes
and principles about women you had taught me.

And I’m sure in a very short time I will be creating
completely new ideas on the fly spontaneously
based on the truth and concepts you taught me.

At this point in the conversation, I had given her
the most sincere compliments and delivered it with
feeling, with passion, and with confidence, and we
both felt so good, that it was easy to start getting
to know each other.

I also used other things you had taught me.
Before meeting you in bootcamp, I might have said
something like “Are you a personal trainer?” because
of her toned body.

But you taught me to avoid the obvious for many
reasons. First of all, the obvious tends to get overplayed,
which means a million guys probably say the same thing
and therefore there is less of an emotional HIT from that
kind of comment.

Secondly, the so-called obvious is often not true.

So what I did was, I actually said that I bet most guys
think she is a personal trainer, but that I knew she was
probably something else, and I made a joke like she is
bent on taking over the world.

She giggled and told me she was actually a nurse,
and on her way to the gym, because she works the
night shift!

I then couldn’t resist the opportunity for more fun!
I told her that we could play doctor and patient later,
to which she again started laughing, and then I got
even more emotions pumping by telling her to get
her might out of the gutter and that I had meant
in terms of the health insurance information, that
we could discuss the boring financial issues involved!

She then punched me playfully in the arm, to which
I yelled out in mock pain and told her that I was definitely
going to call my lawyer and have her make me a rich
man as a result of this.

The next part of this is the part that will forever be
burned into my memory:

She commanded me to take out my phone!
Her actual words were:
“Okay mister, what is your name?”
“Andrew”.
“Andrew, give me your phone”.

Cautiously, I took out my phone and placed it in her waiting,
open palm.

She keyed in her number and her own phone rang
from her purse. She took her phone out and called
my own phone back.

She holds up my phone and puts it in front of my eyes:
“You have my number. Use it. Call me.”

Before parting, we embraced her for a long
moment in a tight hug, and I didn’t push further,
in order to keep things from getting out of control
in the wrong place.

I felt like I had entered a science-fiction realm, where
I was sucked into a worm-hole into another dimension,
where I was being catapulted past endless realities
and across space and time, to a universe where
there were no rules, no laws, aside from one:
Make what you want, happen.

Now, I had to come back to my own city after bootcamp,
but I am still in touch with this amazing woman.

More importantly, the confidence and the lessons
learned from bootcamp, including of course from
that particular experience, will stay with me forever,
and I currently have three incredible women that
I am seeing, and for the first time in my life, I have
a “quality” problem with women, in that I must decide
which of these women I truly think is best, because
I love them all.
 
Michael, you have changed my life, and for
your readers, they should know that bootcamp
truly will give them the power to attract the kind
of women most men only dream about.

If it wasn’t for your book and your bootamp,
I would still be rotting away in misery, pining
over one woman, when an entire universe of
gorgeous, superior, amazing women were out
there for me, for the taking.

Thank you, Michael. 

Andrew, Los Angeles

My Comments:

Thank you, first of all for that detailed and truly
informative email that helps guys understand the
HOW part of applying what I teach.

For anyone reading this, did you notice what
DIDN’T come up in the ENTIRE conversation?

NONE of the things that most guys think is part
of a real conversation. The part where you go on
and on about your job, about you trying to say how
cool you are, or about how much you appreciate
serious things, or about how you try to prove
your worth.

NONE of that.

Instead, Andrew just focused on what actually
WORKS to get EMOTIONS pumping in women.

He also did this from a place that was empowering
for HIM as well.  He didn’t memorize jokes. He
didn’t try to put himself down to be the butt of a joke.

He also didn’t shy away from showing he was a
MAN interested in her as a WOMAN. No apologies
for that at all.
 
In fact, that was the very FIRST thing he did, he
showed immediately he was approaching her out
of his natural desire as a man, so there was no
confusion in her mind about what was going on.

And since he gave HIMSELF permission, she
found it easy to ALSO give him permission, and
she found it easy to give HERSELF permission to
be a woman and not a robot.

And he made the process fun, and never LET UP.
When he told her to get her mind out of the gutter,
he did something UNEXPECTED, which means
she had an even STRONGER emotional reaction
to it, and that emotion was POSITIVE; it was a shock
but a good kind of shock. A playful innocent funny
shock!

These kinds of behaviors are EXTRAPOLATED
by women subconsciously; they can’t help but
feel that THIS is the way you are EVERYWHERE,
that you are a fun, sexual guy, who they will
have a great time with, in regular life, in the bedroom,
EVERYWHERE. 
 
And there is the INDIRECT message given off
by these behaviors which also says that since
you are SOCIALLY SAVVY in general as well,
which means that you are good with people,
and this tells her that you are going to be good
with EVERYONE in her life as well.

So it’s all PLUS PLUS PLUS in terms of the
MASSIVE benefits this kind of interaction means
for you when it comes to women.

Now, there is MORE to success with women as well,
such as the forming of DEEPER BONDS which usually
comes later, but can also be done in the initial pick-up
as well.

This letter, though, shows just how POWERFULLY
you can attract women with this vibe, and with applying
the concept that I teach.

And if you want to learn how to attract the women
of your choice, there are two things you should do
RIGHT AWAY.

First of all, make sure to DEVOUR my new book.
It is the INSTRUCTIONS for how to attract women,
very much like the DRIVER’S MANUAL is an instruction 
for drivers on the rules of the road.

This book contains ALL-NEW strategies and insights on
how to approach, pick-up, attract, and keep women.

Download it immediately at:

http://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/book.html

The next step is the most effective way to put it all
into PRACTICE in the REAL WORLD by taking my
BOOTCAMP.

BOOTCAMP is like taking the DRIVING LESSONS,
where you now take what you learned from the
driver’s manual and combine it with actual real
life practice DRIVING with an expert instructor.

In bootcamp, you will be approaching women in
all types of environments and places where you
typically find women all the time- coffee shops,
bookstores, transit, taking walks, supermarkets,
and tons of other places!

I will serve as your INSTRUCTOR and save you
YEARS of time from learning it all on your own,
by CORRECTING any errors you are making in
your approaches and in your interactions.

With 13 years experience behind me, I can
immediately detect any errors you are making
and correct them for you so that your pick-ups
WORK.

Plus, in person, I can also SKYROCKET your
“inner game” and answer any questions you have.

The truth about attracting women is that it is not
as simple as just “be yourself” because your
SELF is not something that is STATIC and
something that never changes. 
 
Should someone never LEARN to ride a bike
because at FIRST, their “self” does not know
how to do it?

Should someone not LEARN how to become
FIT, and learn how to work-out, because their
SELF, at first, does not know HOW?

It’s the same thing with learning to attract women.
As long as no one is being hurt or dishonest,
should one not LEARN how to attract women
just because at first, one does not know HOW?

So, as you can see, learning how to attract women
is just like learning ANYTHING ELSE.

Bootcamp is at:

http://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/bootcamp.html
 
Till next time,

Michael Marks
 

True Stories That Taught MAJOR Lessons On Attracting Women

My inbox has been FLOODING with questions and
comments, so let's get this party started!

"Hey Michael,

Big fan here. Just been reading your articles,
and absorbing some of your ideas. I love the
notion of igniting certain emotions in women,
even though I am STILL trying to get over the
fact that physical looks plays second fiddle
to what emotions you create in women, and how
you make them FEEL.

Just years and years of brainwashing and
certain beliefs I've formed because of
society/media that I'm trying to overcome.

You know how that goes.

Anyway, I was wondering if you could take
some time to tell me a quick story from
YOUR personal experience about a woman
you attracted that really.....either made
you FINALLY realize (or it just drove home
the point) just how powerful igniting
intense feelings and emotions in women
can really do. Maybe not even from your
life, maybe a very memorable moment from
one of your students where you saw a
beautiful woman get so attracted, she
acted in a way that even surprised you.

You don't have to give an exact play by play
of the moment, but details would be nice:)

I'd love to hear from some of your very
memorable moments in attracting women.

Thank you,

AJ"
 
Hey AJ,

Thanks for the kind words. Regarding your
first point on "trying to get over the
fact that physical looks plays second fiddle
to what emotions you create in women, and how
you make them FEEL" --yes, and sometimes I
think the biggest problem is that guys
cannot get themselves to BELIEVE this
truth.

It reminds me of a scene in The Empire
Strikes Back where Luke is trying to
use the Force to raise his X-Wing fighter
out of the mud, and eventually gives up,
saying that it's too big. 

Yoda, this little old green creature,
then calmly uses the Force and raises
the spacecraft smoothly out of the mud.

Luke says "I can't believe it", to which
Yoda replies: "That is why you fail."

This is what puts men into a situation
known as "learned helplessness", which
is actually something ANOTHER reader wrote
in to me about, which you will see hopefully
in another newsletter, and is another
super-important topic you will find
dealt with in my new book.

The IGNITING of emotions really IS the
key. 

LESSON NUMBER ONE
 
One of the biggest lessons in my life came
when I had reached the end of my patience
in a long-term relationship with a woman
who was abusive to me for four years.

I had tried every book on relationships,
every tactic on the planet that was
out there, trying so hard to be good,
because I genuinely thought that women
just wanted nice guys, and also this
woman kept saying she did not want to
break up, but she never had time for me,
never a kind word to say, never showed
respect, couldn't even get a birthday
card on my birthday- she had to send her
mom out to take care of that stuff.

And in public she wouldn't even admit
she was my girlfriend to most people
except her closest friends.

And she was always busy with HERSELF.
How to get more PERSONAL FINANCIAL SUCCESS
for herself.

So after trying EVERYTHING else, I finally
embraced the fact that I would rather be
single and alone than be with her and
get my self-esteem beaten down one more
BIT.

It was not a "tactic" to get her back.

It was not an ultimatum.

It was real. I meant every bit of it.
And I was not angry-not one bit.
Sad, possibly scared I would never
meet anyone else, but not angry.

And the response from her at first was
"MAJORLY PISSED OFF".

Notice, it wasn't sadness on her part.

It was more like, "How DARE you attempt
to gain back some DIGNITY for yourself?
You're going to STAY with me, because 
I am the one in CONTROL of EVERYTHING!" 

That lasted for about two or three days.

That was followed by the most INTENSE displays of
EFFORT on her part to win me back. Suddenly,
every single thing she hadn't done in four
YEARS of taking me TOTALLY FOR GRANTED
she was now able to do.

She had tons of time to spend with me.
She got me gifts.

I couldn't even find a way to ESCAPE her.
She would pop up at the gym at any hour
I happened to be there.  I could be there
at 4 in the morning, and she would show up.

This was a huge lesson to me; as it taught me
that a woman's behavior could change DRASTICALLY
as a result of your OWN behavior.

But it took even MORE YEARS for me to realize
WHY this worked so well.

It was because of the EMOTIONS I had stirred in
her by ENDING the relationship. She suddenly felt
more DRAMA with me than she had EVER felt before.

There was urgency, excitement, challenge,
pride, jealousy, fear, love, anger, arousal,
ALL AT ONCE.

Me being there at her beck and call and being
absolutely totally devoted to her and the relationship
above all else for four years did NOTHING emotionally
to her.

But THIS, this did EVERYTHING.

So, while emotions are powerful for both men and
women, they are MORE POWERFUL on women when it
comes to the area of ATTRACTION to the opposite
gender.

This is also something that some men EXPLOIT
and why some men ABUSE women, including
INNOCENT women.

It's also the reason I have worked so hard to
create a system for attracting women that
draws on HARD-WIRED FEMALE PSYCHOLOGY
while NOT being abusive in the slightest.

In today's feminist society, men, ESPECIALLY
MEN THAT ARE HONEST AND WANT TO TREAT WOMEN WELL,
they NEED to have my book in order to succeed
at attracting women.

Getting back to the real-life example above,
my SITUATION hadn't changed. I didn't get
better looking, I didn't make more money,
I only changed my BEHAVIORS.

LESSON NUMBER TWO

After that relationship, the rose-colored glasses
perception that I USED to have about all women
just wanting men that would treat them great
and be loyal, etc, etc, was GONE.

So I would be far more RUTHLESS when dating.

I remember the first time I saw the impact of this
on a new woman. She was a Slavic gorgeous creature
that easily would put most models to shame.

I saw her at the gym, and started making FUN
of her for the light weights she was using.

She didn't get angry, she just immediately
started smiling, giggling, and asking me
questions on how to do things right.

So that was a shocker. She was HAPPY
and GIGGLY and FEMININE and more OPEN
to me AFTER I had shown her the OPPOSITE
of everything feminists kept telling men
on how to treat women.

I also remember saying out loud to some guy
that I could tell everything about a woman's
personality in about 30 SECONDS of hearing her
talk. 

And I noticed her EYES GO WIDE when
I said this.

I suggested to her on my way out that she
go home with me.  Not home as in "to bed"
but that she take a ride home from me
instead of what she was going to do,
which was to walk home.

I didn't ASK. I just SUGGESTED and didn't
do it with a smile.

And she IMMEDIATELY agreed.
By the way, she was not only gorgeous, she
was EXTREMELY INTELLIGENT, almost like the
cliche of those Bond film women from
Eastern Europe who are super-intelligent
and also super beautiful.

In the car, I suggested we meet up for a
game of pool that night.  Which was funny
because I hardly even play. She agreed,
and later that night, when she pulled out
a cigarette, I immediately told her that
things would not work out between us.

I was calm, I just had no desire for a
smoking woman in my life. I had nothing
against her; she may have been a SAINT.

I just knew that I didn't want a woman who smoked.

She kept on INSISTING that I give her a chance,
and she kept on asking why I felt things wouldn't work.

I didn't even tell her, because I truly was not
needy for her approval, and truly didn't want her
to attempt to quit just for me, or to try to convince
me why I should give her a chance.

In the car ride home, she wrote down her number
and kept INSISTING that I give her a chance.

She would not take no for an answer!!!

Now, what blew my mind was how this woman who was
INSANELY GORGEOUS, was begging for me to give her
a chance, and I had done NOTHING to earn this special
treatment.  Meanwhile, when I had TORTURED MYSELF
to do nothing but GIVE AND GIVE AND SHOW MASSIVE
RESPECT to a woman, I couldn't get her to find
the time or energy or desire to give ANYTHING
of herself.

So that was a big lesson.

LESSON THREE
 
This one happened in a bootcamp.  

An attractive young woman was waiting for
the train at the subway station and I
mentioned to my client that he might
want to apply what he had been learning
earlier in terms of approaches for this
situation.

He asked for me to demonstrate, so I
approached her using all the detailed
concepts I speak about, but my main point
here is not to focus on me or that but
rather to focus on what happened.

She seemed to be a bit nervous, and
it can be a bit intimidating sometimes
when two guys are so close to one woman
depending on the time of day, the amount
of other people there, etc.

Anyway, she was slowly getting more into the
conversation, laughing, but I could tell she
was still a bit uncomfortable, so I made it
clear that I was not there to take advantage
of the situation where she was by herself, and
I let her walk in the train as she was still
smiling, and I did not follow her.

As my client and I got in the train, I sat down
beside this other attractive woman, totally laid
back and began a conversation with her, again
using all the principles I speak about.

Now this girl was totally relaxed with it,
smiling and laughing and having a great time.

Well guess what happened next?

Suddenly, from HALFWAY ACROSS THE TRAIN,
the original woman from the subway platform
starts leaning in toward us from her seat
and joins in the conversation, giving her
opinion about something I had been talking
to her about five minutes earlier!

Normally that would have been a dead
conversation by now. But no, there she is,
smiling and speaking loudly as if we had
never stopped chatting, even though the
whole train could probably hear her. And
trust me, she was not some psycho. She
had just gone from being a shy slightly
nervous woman to wanting to GET WITH
THE PROGRAM!

Pretty soon, we had both women in conversation
with us, competing playfully for our attention,
going from complete strangers to discussing
things like who would be the better girl to
marry depending on which girl was a better
cook and had more money or ambition and was
better with kids had the better education
and who was just more fun to hang with. LOL.

ALL BECAUSE SHE SAW THAT WE
WERE NOT TAKING ADVANTAGE OF
HER, THAT WE WERE NOT DESPERATE,
AND MOST IMPORTANTLY, THAT
ANOTHER WOMAN THOUGHT WE
WERE COOL AND FUN TO BE WITH.

This is the power that comes from both
YOU knowing that you have choices, and
from WOMEN knowing that you have choices.

In the example above, by seeing another
woman feel comfortable and trusting us and
having a great time, the original woman felt
a SURGE in all those emotions of attraction
and trust.

And by the way, if getting two women who are
total strangers not only to you but to each
other, can all be having a great time with you
within 5 minutes, think about what can be done
in a longer time frame in malls, bookstores,
and cafes!

Also, don't get the wrong idea here, as
this concept actually goes FURTHER than
the "social proof" concept, and in a nutshell,
SOCIAL PROOF means that an individual will be
INFLUENCED by the feelings and opinions of OTHERS.

The truth is that if you are TRULY CERTAIN
OF YOUR DESIRABILITY, then you give off what I call
"IMPLIED SOCIAL PROOF".  A woman subconsciously
feels that there is no way you can be this
confident unless OTHERS feel this way too
about your desirability.

LESSON FOUR
 
This one also comes from bootcamp.

My student and I were at a patio lounge
and he had his eye on two women chatting
with each other.

We were on a patio on the roof of the club,
and these two knockouts were there, and I
started chatting with one of the girls
and the other girl starts saying “It’s
my friend’s birthday and we’re supposed
to just spend time together”, etc., etc.

And I just playfully kept it going, NEVER
getting SERIOUS even ONCE, because I knew
that in this environment, playful is easy
and key, even though her friend INSISTED
that this girl would NOT talk to me.

I don't remember all the details but I
think my remarks including everything from how
one should not be deprived of joy on their
birthday, especially when that joy included
getting to be in my presence, how I just
wanted to spread the party vibe and how her
friend deserved to get the very best on her
birthday.

Finally, after about FOUR MINUTES of
me not giving in, the ‘birthday girl’ who
was not supposed to talk to me, ended
up actually breaking free from her friend
and her first words were:

“Oh my god! You’re so RUDE!!!
I LOVE IT!"

And she comes OVER and embraces me!!
She left her friend in the DUST!

Needless to say, there was no competition
after that. How many guys would gladly
EMBRACE so much resistance????

The trick is to EMBRACE it all and have
MORE fun with that than if it was going
EASILY!

By the way, this has nothing to do with
ME- ANY GUY CAN DO THIS ONCE HE
“GETS” WHAT’S GOING ON IN THE
INDIVIDUAL SITUATION WITH THESE
WOMEN.

LESSON FIVE

This one really takes the cake.
One student of mine who got so good at this
stuff came back for a second and third bootcamp,
each time taking things to new levels.

And on the third bootcamp, the goal was
to focus on simply WILLING things into
reality.  What I mean by this, is saying
and doing anything, and having it all
TOTALLY ACCEPTED AND WANTED by women.

So, we were in a bookstore. He walked
RIGHT UP to a beautiful woman, and TOLD
her to give him her palm.

He did NOT do the whole serious palm reading thing.
He turned it into a playful thing, saying how
one line on her palm was a ROAD, and that SNOOPY
was crossing the road, and all sorts of other
COMPLETE NONSENSE!

Now, here I am, the INSTRUCTOR, and I myself
am being blown away by what happens next.

Not only is she SUPER-RELAXED about this TOTAL
STRANGER walking up to her out of NOWHERE
and then GIVING HIM HER HAND to hold in what
is clearly NOT a SERIOUS palm-reading, and
she is TOTALLY COOL with it, but he then
makes ZERO SMOOTH OF A TRANSITION TO
TELLING HER TO GIVE HIM HER NUMBER.
 
She writes down her number IMMEDIATELY.
Her eyes are so glazed over with desire, she
truly appears HYPNOTIZED. 

He could have kept her there FOREVER.
She was SMITTEN. 
She was hanging on his every word.

But all he was talking about was SNOOPY.
This was NOT hypnosis. 
This was a man totally CONGRUENT with being with a woman.

This is one of the biggest things that most 
guys never comprehend, which is how the
most powerful things you can do regarding
attraction are SUBTLE.  So subtle that most
people can't even SEE what you DID to 
attract the woman.

And THAT, if anything, was the "hypnosis". 
She was so compelled by her attraction, 
NOTHING else mattered. 

And just to show this was GENUINE ATTRACTION,
he had SIMILAR events occur to him throughout
the ENTIRE bootcamp. 

What this showed me was how so much of this
is in the DEEPEST RECESSES of your MIND. 

Even the whole idea of transitioning from
normal talk is also NOT EVEN REALLY REQUIRED,
you can do pretty much ANYTHING when you
are feeling CONGRUENT about it, meaning that
you don't feel conflicted or weird about it.

And by the way, he did so well that he ended
up meeting an amazing woman not long after, and
I just found out some incredible news from him
that he has had a baby boy with her!
 
And I now realize that there are TONS and TONS
and TONS more examples of massive things that
I witnessed that taught me so much, but I could
end up writing an entire BOOK here instead of
a newsletter!

Well, it looks like those other letters that came
in will have to wait, as I ended up going way overboard
on this letter, but it was such a great question
I couldn't help it! 

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Till next time,

Michael Marks