The Attraction-Rapport Paradox

When it comes to attracting women, things
often seem to go AGAINST logic.

And let me bring you a MASSIVE one
today-so massive in fact, that in
some ways THIS is the EPICENTER
of EVERYTHING when it comes to
the actual HOW-TO of attracting
women ANYWHERE, ANYTIME.


It's about using the THREE STATES
OF RAPPORT at the RIGHT time.

These three states of rapport are:

1. NEUTRAL RAPPORT

2. SEEKING RAPPORT

3. BREAKING RAPPORT

So what do MOST men do when they see a
woman they want to attract?

They INSTINCTIVELY go into "SEEKING
RAPPORT" mode.

Things like compliments, agreeing,
doing favors, etc.

The reason men do it is because they
feel they BETTER do it, to get on
her "good" side.

The IRONY is, that this very FEELING
that there is a NEED to get on HER
good side instead of it being the
other way around is the PROBLEM.

And so this feeling is telling the
woman, through your "seeking rapport"
behavior, that you are NOT WORTHY
of her, and so what you are doing
INSTEAD of being worthy is giving her
ALL THESE OTHER THINGS-let's call
them COMPENSATION PRIZES, or CONSOLATION
PRIZES, for not ACTUALLY GETTING
THE REAL THING SHE WANTS.

So OF COURSE if YOU YOURSELF are telling
her that you ARE NOT what she wants,
so of course SHE will feel you are not
what she really wants.

And NO ONE wants the "compensation prize".

In fact, we all want MORE THAN WE THINK
WE ACTUALLY DESERVE.

So human beings aren't even happy with
getting what they SHOULD get; they actually
want MORE than is fair.

Like that line in SCARFACE, "Never underestimate
the other guy's greed!".

So she TOO wants MORE than she feels she SHOULD
get, when it comes to a man in her life, and
here most men are making it clear not only
that they aren't her EQUAL, they are coming
across as BENEATH her!!!!

So OF COURSE she is REPULSED!!!

Now, the trick is to REALIZE also that even
the very FEW men who DO learn this lesson,
STILL usually screw up when they DO try to
apply this idea of breaking rapport.

In their effort to break rapport, they often
come across as MISERABLE, MEAN-SPIRITED,
AND BITTER.

And that is just as bad as "seeking rapport".
It shows LACK of value, because it shows that
something is WRONG, that he is bitter, and
in the very primitive emotional center of
the human mind, that comes across to others,
including the woman, bitterness tends to
automatically be equated to inferiority.

Almost as if the guy must be bitter because
he CAN'T get women.  I'm not saying this is
ACTUALLY what is happening with a guy, but
it comes ACROSS that way to women.

So the trick is to break rapport in a
PLAYFUL WAY, AND TO CALIBRATE THIS PROPERLY.

In my video above, I went into some details about
how to do this as well. And yet, what you have seen 
is truly just the TIP of the ICEBERG.

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Till next time,

Michael Marks