Many great things in life come in threes, and I have three SUPER effective strategies for attracting women that I am going to share with you right now! Let's get right to it:
Now let me ask you ask you a question. How IMPORTANT is success with women to you?
How would it FEEL to have a stunning, gorgeous woman, right now, in your arms, and have her be CRAZY HAPPY to be with you?
Personally, I think that being with an amazing woman is one of the GREATEST highs one can ever experience in life.
And I take this field VERY seriously.
I have PUBLICLY PROVEN my abilities to help men in the most ROCK-SOLID way: The largest newspaper in the COUNTRY got a group of men together who really wanted to improve their success with women, including guys that had NEVER approached women before and who had never successfully gotten a woman's number or personal email or an "instant date". (An "instant date" is where you actually take a woman on a date the very moment you approach her!).
And these men didn't just succeed according to ME. A VETERAN journalist from the paper followed their progress over the course of several WEEKS, and the newspaper printed their results independently. That means I had no control over what was said or printed. And these men were so happy they wanted to let the world know how awesome it was to get success with women that they voluntarily reported their successes to the paper, and it was all printed.
You can check it out at:
https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/in-the-news.html
You can also watch live testimonials from even MORE guys who have learned from my programs at:
https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/testimonials.html
Here's something else: I take this field so seriously, that it is a true PASSION of mine. I am THE guy who took the whole "dating coach" field to a new level. Do you know that just a few years ago, practically ALL THE COACHES in the world in this field were telling guys they needed to use pick-up lines and/or memorized routines in order to approach and successfully attract women???
I was the guy that FIRST taught how you can approach and attract women in a far more natural way that didn't require one to have to learn an "act" or "routine".
Also, I was the guy who knew that in most situations where you approach a woman who is a stranger, you WILL need to talk to her and have a conversation. I say this because there was this whole movement that was teaching guys that all you were supposed to do was walk up to a woman and say "I like you". This might work on a woman who ALREADY is attracted to you, but it won't MAKE a woman attracted to you.
All these pick up lines, and other over-simplifications were GIMMICKS that some companies used. Gimmicks rather than what is truly BEST and what is truly most EFFECTIVE.
I have never sold-out to telling guys to go for "gimmicks". And I never tried to trick guys into thinking that getting a promiscuous drunk woman in a bar to kiss you is the SAME thing as actually getting a great, quality woman inside and out.
I care too much about REAL success with women, and I respect the men I work for. So I only give you THE BEST strategies, the best insights, the best advice.
So if you want to be able to attract a great woman, and be able to KEEP her, (which is something most men unfortunately don't realize is important until it's too late), I suggest you choose me as your dating coach, whether that is through my live coaching, or through my downloadable programs for your success with women.
If you are not sure where to start, then DEFINITELY start with my book, The Dating Wizard, at
https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/ebook.html
Of course, you can always decide to NOT take advantage of my coaching and my programs, and be stuck exactly where you are now for the rest of your life. That is your choice.
To find out about all my important programs for your success with women, go here:
https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/catalog.html
To learn about the movie I'm making that is a "cautionary tale" about dating in our modern era today, go here:
https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/love-bound-movie.html
Be cool...
Michael Mars
Monday, July 22, 2019
Wednesday, July 10, 2019
A Complimentary LIVE Personal Consultation With Me
Today I have something AMAZING to tell you:
I'm offering a COMPLIMENTARY personal
consultation with me on ANY matter regarding
pick-up, dating, relationships, or attraction.
This is a truly "no-strings attached" situation.
You will get a ten-minute one-on-one session.
It's your choice-it can be Skype or phone.
Just let me know when you'd like to do it.
This offer EXPIRES on Friday July 12, so
take advantage of it NOW. All you have
to do is email me:
michael@thedatingwizardreturns.com
Right now is summer, and the women
are EVERYWHERE. Take me up on this
offer now and you'll be glad you did.
Want to know more about my credentials and
proven record in helping men? Go here:
https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/in-the-news.html
Want testimonials from real men who have taken
my coaching? Go here:
https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/testimonials.html
Be cool...
Michael Marks
I'm offering a COMPLIMENTARY personal
consultation with me on ANY matter regarding
pick-up, dating, relationships, or attraction.
This is a truly "no-strings attached" situation.
You will get a ten-minute one-on-one session.
It's your choice-it can be Skype or phone.
Just let me know when you'd like to do it.
This offer EXPIRES on Friday July 12, so
take advantage of it NOW. All you have
to do is email me:
michael@thedatingwizardreturns.com
Right now is summer, and the women
are EVERYWHERE. Take me up on this
offer now and you'll be glad you did.
Want to know more about my credentials and
proven record in helping men? Go here:
https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/in-the-news.html
Want testimonials from real men who have taken
my coaching? Go here:
https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/testimonials.html
Be cool...
Michael Marks
Tuesday, July 9, 2019
The Crazy Easy Secret To Attracting Women
Today I want to reveal to you the greatest
secret of attracting women, something that
is so powerful yet so simple, that almost
NO ONE can believes it is true, which is
why so few people use it.
There is a way to attract women that
works NO MATTER WHAT ELSE may be going
on that you think is an OBSTACLE.
This secret that I am about to reveal to
you boils down to ONE psychological
concept: EMOTION displaces LOGIC.
In a nutshell, if you get a woman feeling
EMOTIONAL enough, ESPECIALLY if you get her
feeling GOOD, she SIMPLY CANNOT HELP BUT
WANT TO BE WITH YOU.
This sounds too crazy to most people.
They think, for example, "Well I tried that!
I tried buying women things, I tried listening
to women's problems, I tried being super-nice,
I tried this and I tried that, and all those
things were supposed to get her feeling
emotional and feeling good!"
The problem is that all these things DEPEND
on the woman, and they don't necessarily make
a woman feel anything, especially if she gets
it all the time from other guys.
The trick is to find out what a woman
really DOES RESPOND to. What her REAL
driving forces are.
And, sometimes, when you just first see
a woman you don't know, you hae no CLUE
what her drives are.
And THAT is why it is SOOOOOOOOOO
powerful to be able to get a woman
LAUGHING as fast as possible, AND
to combine this with confident
humor.
The reason this is SO powerful is because
by getting her LAUGHING, you are getting
her EMOTIONAL. She is FEELING an EMOTION.
And EMOTION displaces LOGIC.
All the logical reasons her mind might
normally give for blocking a man out
of her life now are MEANINGLESS.
And just in case you think I'm exaggerating,
let me PROVE my point to you: Why do you think
BILLION dollar companies use EMOTION in their
marketing campaigns? Why do commercials tend
to use HUMOR so much???? Do you think these
companies are spending this money for CHARITY
to give the advertising companies money?
Of course not, they do it because it WORKS.
And when you are dealing with a woman
you want to attract, by making sure the
humor is also CONFIDENT, you are ALSO sending
her the signal that you are a WINNER, and
that presses a "button" in her head that
says you ARE THE ALPHA MALE AND SHE CAN'T
HELP BUT RESPOND WITH ATTRACTION.
Confident humor is a topic that I
FOCUS on in one of my very SPECIALIZED
programs, called Confident Humor.
at:
https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/humor-and-attracting-women.html
I suggest you download this important
program for your success with women
right away.
Also, right now is summer, and the women
are EVERYWHERE. This is an amazing time
to take my bootcamp program where I will
personally be your coach and ensure you
MASTER the skill of pick-up.
Details of my Bootcamp program are at:
https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/bootcamp.html
Want to know more about my credentials and
proven record in helping men? Go here:
https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/in-the-news.html
Want testimonials from real men who have taken
my coaching? Go here:
https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/testimonials.html
Be cool...
Michael Marks
secret of attracting women, something that
is so powerful yet so simple, that almost
NO ONE can believes it is true, which is
why so few people use it.
There is a way to attract women that
works NO MATTER WHAT ELSE may be going
on that you think is an OBSTACLE.
This secret that I am about to reveal to
you boils down to ONE psychological
concept: EMOTION displaces LOGIC.
In a nutshell, if you get a woman feeling
EMOTIONAL enough, ESPECIALLY if you get her
feeling GOOD, she SIMPLY CANNOT HELP BUT
WANT TO BE WITH YOU.
This sounds too crazy to most people.
They think, for example, "Well I tried that!
I tried buying women things, I tried listening
to women's problems, I tried being super-nice,
I tried this and I tried that, and all those
things were supposed to get her feeling
emotional and feeling good!"
The problem is that all these things DEPEND
on the woman, and they don't necessarily make
a woman feel anything, especially if she gets
it all the time from other guys.
The trick is to find out what a woman
really DOES RESPOND to. What her REAL
driving forces are.
And, sometimes, when you just first see
a woman you don't know, you hae no CLUE
what her drives are.
And THAT is why it is SOOOOOOOOOO
powerful to be able to get a woman
LAUGHING as fast as possible, AND
to combine this with confident
humor.
The reason this is SO powerful is because
by getting her LAUGHING, you are getting
her EMOTIONAL. She is FEELING an EMOTION.
And EMOTION displaces LOGIC.
All the logical reasons her mind might
normally give for blocking a man out
of her life now are MEANINGLESS.
And just in case you think I'm exaggerating,
let me PROVE my point to you: Why do you think
BILLION dollar companies use EMOTION in their
marketing campaigns? Why do commercials tend
to use HUMOR so much???? Do you think these
companies are spending this money for CHARITY
to give the advertising companies money?
Of course not, they do it because it WORKS.
And when you are dealing with a woman
you want to attract, by making sure the
humor is also CONFIDENT, you are ALSO sending
her the signal that you are a WINNER, and
that presses a "button" in her head that
says you ARE THE ALPHA MALE AND SHE CAN'T
HELP BUT RESPOND WITH ATTRACTION.
Confident humor is a topic that I
FOCUS on in one of my very SPECIALIZED
programs, called Confident Humor.
at:
https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/humor-and-attracting-women.html
I suggest you download this important
program for your success with women
right away.
Also, right now is summer, and the women
are EVERYWHERE. This is an amazing time
to take my bootcamp program where I will
personally be your coach and ensure you
MASTER the skill of pick-up.
Details of my Bootcamp program are at:
https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/bootcamp.html
Want to know more about my credentials and
proven record in helping men? Go here:
https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/in-the-news.html
Want testimonials from real men who have taken
my coaching? Go here:
https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/testimonials.html
Be cool...
Michael Marks
Friday, July 5, 2019
A Movie That Expresses A Man's View
Hey there,
I just sent out a newsletter a
few minutes ago explaining how
massively important it is to be
in the right state of mind in
order to attract women, and I
discussed some of the most
powerful ways to take IMMEDIATE
action as well as suggested my
Warrior Within program for taking
the most IN-DEPTH strategies for
even GREATER success with women.
And right now, I want to take a
moment to let you know that I
really do understand how what
SHOULD be a simple thing-success
with women-is today truly a challenge
like no other time in history.
There are many, many reasons for this,
but the bottom line is MOST MEN WILL FAIL
to get the kind of success they wish they
could have.
At the same time, there is almost NO ONE
out there bringing this issue into the
MAINSTREAM culture.
Instead, what we get are movies, TV shows,
music, and news that bombards us with
extreme feminist, politically-correct drivel
that seeks to make a mockery out of men-
ESPECIALLY the GOOD men who really actually
care about women.
And for this reason, I have been working
now for YEARS on a film to show what no
one else will show up there on the screen-
to show how far men are being pushed to
the edge today.
I’m working on completing this film this
summer, but I need your help. Even though
every single person on this film’s team is
dedicated and working to keep costs down
to a minimum, it simply CANNOT be made for
NOTHING.
There are costs associated with renting
film locations, costs for renting equipment,
costs associated with providing food for
for these incredible people that are
generously giving of their time, expertise,
and energy day after day and night after night.
So, ANYTHING you can do to help out would be
MASSIVELY appreciated, and not only that,
but more importantly you are helping to finally
get a film made that shows the OTHER SIDE
instead of the infinite insane feminist
politically correct LIES we get in the
media 24/7.
All you have to do is simple: Donate what you
can through PayPal to my PayPal email address.
It’s michael@thedatingwizardreturns.com
And you can find out more about the film by
going here:
https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/love-bound-movie.html
You really will make a difference, no matter what
you can contribute.
Thanks, and I’ll see you again soon.
Till next time,
Michael Marks
I just sent out a newsletter a
few minutes ago explaining how
massively important it is to be
in the right state of mind in
order to attract women, and I
discussed some of the most
powerful ways to take IMMEDIATE
action as well as suggested my
Warrior Within program for taking
the most IN-DEPTH strategies for
even GREATER success with women.
And right now, I want to take a
moment to let you know that I
really do understand how what
SHOULD be a simple thing-success
with women-is today truly a challenge
like no other time in history.
There are many, many reasons for this,
but the bottom line is MOST MEN WILL FAIL
to get the kind of success they wish they
could have.
At the same time, there is almost NO ONE
out there bringing this issue into the
MAINSTREAM culture.
Instead, what we get are movies, TV shows,
music, and news that bombards us with
extreme feminist, politically-correct drivel
that seeks to make a mockery out of men-
ESPECIALLY the GOOD men who really actually
care about women.
And for this reason, I have been working
now for YEARS on a film to show what no
one else will show up there on the screen-
to show how far men are being pushed to
the edge today.
I’m working on completing this film this
summer, but I need your help. Even though
every single person on this film’s team is
dedicated and working to keep costs down
to a minimum, it simply CANNOT be made for
NOTHING.
There are costs associated with renting
film locations, costs for renting equipment,
costs associated with providing food for
for these incredible people that are
generously giving of their time, expertise,
and energy day after day and night after night.
So, ANYTHING you can do to help out would be
MASSIVELY appreciated, and not only that,
but more importantly you are helping to finally
get a film made that shows the OTHER SIDE
instead of the infinite insane feminist
politically correct LIES we get in the
media 24/7.
All you have to do is simple: Donate what you
can through PayPal to my PayPal email address.
It’s michael@thedatingwizardreturns.com
And you can find out more about the film by
going here:
https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/love-bound-movie.html
You really will make a difference, no matter what
you can contribute.
Thanks, and I’ll see you again soon.
Till next time,
Michael Marks
Climbing Out Of Darkness
One of the BIGGEST MISTAKES that I used to make
regarding the whole idea of attraction is that I
thought you were supposed to be this type of
STOIC, serious guy. Brooding.
I thought this showed that you were TOUGH.
I thought TOUGH was what it was all about.
I didn't see how you could be both TOUGH
and yet PLAYFUL.
Not only that, I was so dark and brooding that
I LIVED in a world of darkness. I dressed in all
black. I felt very CONGRUENT this way too,
especially since I was so pissed off at so many
things.
And the way my interactions were going with the
girls that I liked didn't help any, in fact that
probably made me feel more angry than
anything.
I was this decent guy, who would never cheat
on a girl, who was totally genuine and meant
every word I said, and yet the girls I really
wanted just didn't seem to feel the same
way.
They didn't seem to appreciate any of my
decency, or my serious-mindedness, even though
they kept on SAYING they wanted a serious
guy who wouldn't cheat on them, etc.
So I used to assure them over and over again
that I would NEVER cheat on them, and that
I would ALWAYS appreciate them. I used to
call a girl again and again to show her that
I did NOT take her for granted. To show her
that I was NOT the type of guy that they said
they hated.
Of course, this made the problem worse.
This just pushed the girls away even more,
and this made me even more brooding, angry
and pissed off.
It ultimately EXPLODED one day as I became
totally and completely fed up. I became blunt
with girls, doing NOTHING for them, no favours,
sick and tired of being abused and used.
I was super direct in my 'pick-up' style, basically
just approaching girls and going right into any
conversation and then telling them to give me
their contact info, which they often did.
I gave no compliments because I was sure
girls didn't deserve them. And, in a completely
calm way, (because I really didn't care about
any girl, since I felt they were pretty evil anyway,
so I had no anger, I was more EMOTIONALLY
DEVOID). I disqualified girls for the SLIGHTEST
thing that **I** didn't approve of, in fact I told
them that things wouldn't work out and I meant
it.
I would do this calmly on the way driving them
home. So if a girl pulled out a cigarette for
example, earlier in the evening, she found out
later on the ride home from me, that in my
opinion things wouldn't work out, I often didn't
even explain why, because I didn't care enough
to even let these girls know, since I figured
they were too insensitive to appreciate the
reason anyway.
The key to remember is that I said this super
perfectly calmly, which is something that 99
percent of guys don't do, they get emotionally
involved, which actually BOOSTS THE
GIRLS' EGO, since she feels she got the
guy to REACT to her.
Usually, these girls, who by the way happened
to be INSANELY HOT, then started to CHASE me,
asking me to call them and not to judge them
based on one night. They kept telling me to
call them. To give them a chance.
Which was ironic, because when I was always
doing the chasing, and doing all the work in the
world to make these girls happy and feel good,
they wouldn't give me the time of day.
But in the 'then' new version of myself, I called
girls only when I happened to feel like it, and
didn't call them when I didn't feel like it. I
promised girls nothing, and had more girls
than I could count, so I really didn't mind
much if some of them didn't like the way
I rolled.
So what was the problem?
There were a few problems:
ONE.
These relationships lasted for a VERY SHORT
time.
Most girls are compelled and intrigued and
attracted to a guy who really is THE MAN in
the sense that he is emotionally strong,
doesn't need anything from anybody,
certainly not from a woman. They are
also attracted to the dominance shown
by a guy who leads the show.
However, they also hope to have SOME
connection to the guy. The way I was
behaving made any long-term relationship
impossible.
TWO.
When trying to actually PICK UP girls in
'HAPPY' environments like clubs, (where
TONS of girls hang out) my behaviour wasn't
helping very much. It's just like trying to mix
oil and water, they don't mix.
I hated the music, I hated the whole happy
thing actually. Hated it. Thought it was
'gay'.
So this style was not useful in clubs or lounges.
And there are TONS of girls in these places.
THREE.
In general, this whole attitude I had was not
making ME very happy. My attitude was that
chicks were 'evil', and they had to be shown
'who's boss'.
Which is kind of depressing if you really
believe it, which I kinda did at the time.
Not a great paradigm or formula for
happiness, on your own, or with women.
All this changed SLOWLY, as I evolved to
gain a far greater and more comprehensive
understanding of attraction.
It took YEARS for me to CLIMB OUT OF
THE DARKNESS.
I grew to understand that attraction has
NOTHING to do with being a jerk. It has
to do with making a girl feel you are
SUPERIOR to her, and yet it also has to
do with making her feel that you in fact
really DO LIKE her, for she has something
special about her.
Superior does NOT mean abusive
at ALL.
It's just a FACT that people are attracted
to that which they feel is SUPERIOR.
So says ME.
I also grew to understand that YOUR STATE
OF MIND is the GREATEST POWER ON
EARTH you can possibly EVER have with
women.
This state of mind is a combination of BEING
IN AN AWESOME MOOD, of KNOWING
that you are DESIRABLE, and of feeling
SEXUAL as well as of feeling DOMINANT.
When you are operating in THIS DIMENSION,
then you are in a WHOLE NEW BALL GAME.
Seriously, no goddamn exaggerations, it's a
WHOLE - NEW - BALLGAME.
Suddenly, you no longer have to 'run game'
on women. YOU are all the game you need.
YOU have BECOME what attraction IS.
And your attitude toward women changes
as well. The reason this happens is because
you are not only getting results, but you
also finally 'get' that attraction is not about
being MEAN.
Ultimately, it's about making women feel
GREAT, which happens because YOU feel
great (which is VERY different than the
stereotypical 'nice guy' who actually feels
very down and inferior). You are able to
make women feel great because you
KNOW IN YOUR GUT that you are
THE guy who will make her feel GREAT.
But the thing is, WHAT IF YOU ARE FEELING
LIKE TOTAL CRAP???????
If state of mind is SO CRITICAL for
success in your interactions with women,
then what the hell should a guy do if he is
feeling like total crap???
Should he stay home and say affirmations
to himself?
Should he tell a girl that he is feeling crappy,
that he is having an 'off day'?
NO!
The answer is that he should IMMEDIATELY
GO OUT FROM THE HOUSE AND GO INTERACT
WITH WOMEN AS BEST HE CAN.
Yup.
THIS is what he should do.
Otherwise, he will just go DEEPER into his
negativity, and by focusing on it, he will only
make it WORSE.
And NEVER, EVER EVER give in to the negative
emotions. WEATHER THE STORM with everything
you've got.
For example if some EX-GIRLFRIEND who
treated a guy like crap is making a guy feel
bad, then the BEST thing he can do is GO OUT
AND INTERACT WITH WOMEN!!!
And even if he feels like crap while he is
doing this, he is doing the BEST AND MOST
EFFICIENT THING for his success and for his
state of mind to change.
The reason for this is because interacting with
women requires ALL OF YOUR SENSES TO
BE ENGAGED.
Your sense of timing, your sense of humor,
your visual senses, your alertness and dominance,
your tone of voice and vocal abilities.
YOUR FOCUS IS THUS PUT IN THE RIGHT PLACE:
YOUR INTERACTIONS WITH WOMEN, rather than
some negative PAST event or even some negative
current emotion.
As a brilliant friend I know explains, don't REPRESS
the thoughts, but don't FOCUS on them either!
THERE IS NO INSTANT PERFECTION.
But there is the QUICKEST route to GETTING
to that powerful state of mind-- a state
of mind that is the combination of several
specific emotions.
And that's through DOING IT, through DOING
pick up, and through interacting with women.
And of course, not only are you concentrating
your focus away from the negative LIES in
your brain, but chances are that you will also
get POSITIVE feedback from women if you
take advantage of the things that I teach,
which will VALIDATE your sense of self-esteem
and self-worth.
This will BLOW TO BITS the feelings
of insecurity that were causing you the
negative feelings in the first place!!!
And of course, you should ALSO be immersing
your life with POSITIVE sources of energy and
you must CUT OFF the negative sources of energy,
you must Do EVERYTHING in your power to avoid
negative people and negative sources.
Your mind should be fed a diet of EMPOWERING
input, i.e. music that is 'THE MAN' approved.
Blow the wuss music the hell out of the water.
For now, you can't take chances.
Also, remember that chances are if any woman
ever did something CRUEL to you, (this is different
than simply not being attracted), chances are
INSANELY HIGH that she did this to you because
SHE FELT INSECURE. She felt horrible, so
she wanted YOU to feel horrible. It was her
CONTRIVED PLAN to make you feel like
crap.
It was CONTRIVED, it's not what you are
REALLY worth, it's what she WANTED YOU
to THINK you are worth.
Insecurity is the cause of all hell and bad
personalities. Yes it's true. It's the cause
of both behaviour that is FAKELY NICE
and also behaviour that is MEAN.
Both of which are "anti-attractants".
Notice how both FAKE NICE, i.e. a guy
that kisses a woman's ass because he
feels inferior, is not 'nice', it's just a feeling
of inferiority, and notice also how being
MEAN is ALSO a reflection of someone
feeling inferior inside and thus feeling
the NEED to put down others so that
they will (in his mind) accept him or
her as superior or at least worthy.
Either way, BOTH are not the ways to achieve
optimum attraction.
If you want to gain the GREATEST POWERS
of attraction with women, you MUST learn
to unleash INSANELY GOOD EMOTIONS.
And if you want to learn exactly HOW to
ACHIEVE this state of mind, it's up to
YOU to take action. I can think of no finer
way for you to do this than by downloading
my most IN-DEPTH program on deep
internal change, called "Warrior Within",
at:
https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/warrior.html
And if you would like to get the MASSIVE POWER
of PERSONAL ONE-ON-ONE COACHING
with me, where I will focus exclusively
on you, on taking you past any sticking
points so that you can achieve your
goals as fast as possible, you can now
arrange this by going to:
https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/consultations.html
Be cool...
Michael Marks
Questions? Email me at michael@thedatingwizardreturns.come
regarding the whole idea of attraction is that I
thought you were supposed to be this type of
STOIC, serious guy. Brooding.
I thought this showed that you were TOUGH.
I thought TOUGH was what it was all about.
I didn't see how you could be both TOUGH
and yet PLAYFUL.
Not only that, I was so dark and brooding that
I LIVED in a world of darkness. I dressed in all
black. I felt very CONGRUENT this way too,
especially since I was so pissed off at so many
things.
And the way my interactions were going with the
girls that I liked didn't help any, in fact that
probably made me feel more angry than
anything.
I was this decent guy, who would never cheat
on a girl, who was totally genuine and meant
every word I said, and yet the girls I really
wanted just didn't seem to feel the same
way.
They didn't seem to appreciate any of my
decency, or my serious-mindedness, even though
they kept on SAYING they wanted a serious
guy who wouldn't cheat on them, etc.
So I used to assure them over and over again
that I would NEVER cheat on them, and that
I would ALWAYS appreciate them. I used to
call a girl again and again to show her that
I did NOT take her for granted. To show her
that I was NOT the type of guy that they said
they hated.
Of course, this made the problem worse.
This just pushed the girls away even more,
and this made me even more brooding, angry
and pissed off.
It ultimately EXPLODED one day as I became
totally and completely fed up. I became blunt
with girls, doing NOTHING for them, no favours,
sick and tired of being abused and used.
I was super direct in my 'pick-up' style, basically
just approaching girls and going right into any
conversation and then telling them to give me
their contact info, which they often did.
I gave no compliments because I was sure
girls didn't deserve them. And, in a completely
calm way, (because I really didn't care about
any girl, since I felt they were pretty evil anyway,
so I had no anger, I was more EMOTIONALLY
DEVOID). I disqualified girls for the SLIGHTEST
thing that **I** didn't approve of, in fact I told
them that things wouldn't work out and I meant
it.
I would do this calmly on the way driving them
home. So if a girl pulled out a cigarette for
example, earlier in the evening, she found out
later on the ride home from me, that in my
opinion things wouldn't work out, I often didn't
even explain why, because I didn't care enough
to even let these girls know, since I figured
they were too insensitive to appreciate the
reason anyway.
The key to remember is that I said this super
perfectly calmly, which is something that 99
percent of guys don't do, they get emotionally
involved, which actually BOOSTS THE
GIRLS' EGO, since she feels she got the
guy to REACT to her.
Usually, these girls, who by the way happened
to be INSANELY HOT, then started to CHASE me,
asking me to call them and not to judge them
based on one night. They kept telling me to
call them. To give them a chance.
Which was ironic, because when I was always
doing the chasing, and doing all the work in the
world to make these girls happy and feel good,
they wouldn't give me the time of day.
But in the 'then' new version of myself, I called
girls only when I happened to feel like it, and
didn't call them when I didn't feel like it. I
promised girls nothing, and had more girls
than I could count, so I really didn't mind
much if some of them didn't like the way
I rolled.
So what was the problem?
There were a few problems:
ONE.
These relationships lasted for a VERY SHORT
time.
Most girls are compelled and intrigued and
attracted to a guy who really is THE MAN in
the sense that he is emotionally strong,
doesn't need anything from anybody,
certainly not from a woman. They are
also attracted to the dominance shown
by a guy who leads the show.
However, they also hope to have SOME
connection to the guy. The way I was
behaving made any long-term relationship
impossible.
TWO.
When trying to actually PICK UP girls in
'HAPPY' environments like clubs, (where
TONS of girls hang out) my behaviour wasn't
helping very much. It's just like trying to mix
oil and water, they don't mix.
I hated the music, I hated the whole happy
thing actually. Hated it. Thought it was
'gay'.
So this style was not useful in clubs or lounges.
And there are TONS of girls in these places.
THREE.
In general, this whole attitude I had was not
making ME very happy. My attitude was that
chicks were 'evil', and they had to be shown
'who's boss'.
Which is kind of depressing if you really
believe it, which I kinda did at the time.
Not a great paradigm or formula for
happiness, on your own, or with women.
All this changed SLOWLY, as I evolved to
gain a far greater and more comprehensive
understanding of attraction.
It took YEARS for me to CLIMB OUT OF
THE DARKNESS.
I grew to understand that attraction has
NOTHING to do with being a jerk. It has
to do with making a girl feel you are
SUPERIOR to her, and yet it also has to
do with making her feel that you in fact
really DO LIKE her, for she has something
special about her.
Superior does NOT mean abusive
at ALL.
It's just a FACT that people are attracted
to that which they feel is SUPERIOR.
So says ME.
I also grew to understand that YOUR STATE
OF MIND is the GREATEST POWER ON
EARTH you can possibly EVER have with
women.
This state of mind is a combination of BEING
IN AN AWESOME MOOD, of KNOWING
that you are DESIRABLE, and of feeling
SEXUAL as well as of feeling DOMINANT.
When you are operating in THIS DIMENSION,
then you are in a WHOLE NEW BALL GAME.
Seriously, no goddamn exaggerations, it's a
WHOLE - NEW - BALLGAME.
Suddenly, you no longer have to 'run game'
on women. YOU are all the game you need.
YOU have BECOME what attraction IS.
And your attitude toward women changes
as well. The reason this happens is because
you are not only getting results, but you
also finally 'get' that attraction is not about
being MEAN.
Ultimately, it's about making women feel
GREAT, which happens because YOU feel
great (which is VERY different than the
stereotypical 'nice guy' who actually feels
very down and inferior). You are able to
make women feel great because you
KNOW IN YOUR GUT that you are
THE guy who will make her feel GREAT.
But the thing is, WHAT IF YOU ARE FEELING
LIKE TOTAL CRAP???????
If state of mind is SO CRITICAL for
success in your interactions with women,
then what the hell should a guy do if he is
feeling like total crap???
Should he stay home and say affirmations
to himself?
Should he tell a girl that he is feeling crappy,
that he is having an 'off day'?
NO!
The answer is that he should IMMEDIATELY
GO OUT FROM THE HOUSE AND GO INTERACT
WITH WOMEN AS BEST HE CAN.
Yup.
THIS is what he should do.
Otherwise, he will just go DEEPER into his
negativity, and by focusing on it, he will only
make it WORSE.
And NEVER, EVER EVER give in to the negative
emotions. WEATHER THE STORM with everything
you've got.
For example if some EX-GIRLFRIEND who
treated a guy like crap is making a guy feel
bad, then the BEST thing he can do is GO OUT
AND INTERACT WITH WOMEN!!!
And even if he feels like crap while he is
doing this, he is doing the BEST AND MOST
EFFICIENT THING for his success and for his
state of mind to change.
The reason for this is because interacting with
women requires ALL OF YOUR SENSES TO
BE ENGAGED.
Your sense of timing, your sense of humor,
your visual senses, your alertness and dominance,
your tone of voice and vocal abilities.
YOUR FOCUS IS THUS PUT IN THE RIGHT PLACE:
YOUR INTERACTIONS WITH WOMEN, rather than
some negative PAST event or even some negative
current emotion.
As a brilliant friend I know explains, don't REPRESS
the thoughts, but don't FOCUS on them either!
THERE IS NO INSTANT PERFECTION.
But there is the QUICKEST route to GETTING
to that powerful state of mind-- a state
of mind that is the combination of several
specific emotions.
And that's through DOING IT, through DOING
pick up, and through interacting with women.
And of course, not only are you concentrating
your focus away from the negative LIES in
your brain, but chances are that you will also
get POSITIVE feedback from women if you
take advantage of the things that I teach,
which will VALIDATE your sense of self-esteem
and self-worth.
This will BLOW TO BITS the feelings
of insecurity that were causing you the
negative feelings in the first place!!!
And of course, you should ALSO be immersing
your life with POSITIVE sources of energy and
you must CUT OFF the negative sources of energy,
you must Do EVERYTHING in your power to avoid
negative people and negative sources.
Your mind should be fed a diet of EMPOWERING
input, i.e. music that is 'THE MAN' approved.
Blow the wuss music the hell out of the water.
For now, you can't take chances.
Also, remember that chances are if any woman
ever did something CRUEL to you, (this is different
than simply not being attracted), chances are
INSANELY HIGH that she did this to you because
SHE FELT INSECURE. She felt horrible, so
she wanted YOU to feel horrible. It was her
CONTRIVED PLAN to make you feel like
crap.
It was CONTRIVED, it's not what you are
REALLY worth, it's what she WANTED YOU
to THINK you are worth.
Insecurity is the cause of all hell and bad
personalities. Yes it's true. It's the cause
of both behaviour that is FAKELY NICE
and also behaviour that is MEAN.
Both of which are "anti-attractants".
Notice how both FAKE NICE, i.e. a guy
that kisses a woman's ass because he
feels inferior, is not 'nice', it's just a feeling
of inferiority, and notice also how being
MEAN is ALSO a reflection of someone
feeling inferior inside and thus feeling
the NEED to put down others so that
they will (in his mind) accept him or
her as superior or at least worthy.
Either way, BOTH are not the ways to achieve
optimum attraction.
If you want to gain the GREATEST POWERS
of attraction with women, you MUST learn
to unleash INSANELY GOOD EMOTIONS.
And if you want to learn exactly HOW to
ACHIEVE this state of mind, it's up to
YOU to take action. I can think of no finer
way for you to do this than by downloading
my most IN-DEPTH program on deep
internal change, called "Warrior Within",
at:
https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/warrior.html
And if you would like to get the MASSIVE POWER
of PERSONAL ONE-ON-ONE COACHING
with me, where I will focus exclusively
on you, on taking you past any sticking
points so that you can achieve your
goals as fast as possible, you can now
arrange this by going to:
https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/consultations.html
Be cool...
Michael Marks
Questions? Email me at michael@thedatingwizardreturns.come
Monday, July 1, 2019
How Women Test Men And How To Respond
Today I have a super-practical and important nugget of advice for successfully meeting women and making sure the pick-up goes smoothly. All women test men, and most of the time they are testing for two things-to see how serious you are about them and to see if you are a cool guy that behaves like a man. And I'm going to show you how to respond to these tests so that you pass with flying colors.
As you can see, I get right to the point-super effective and super efficient. Do you want the same level of efficiency and power for ALL your interactions with women you want to attract? If you do, I have some fantastic news for you.
The most POWERFUL element to attracting women is your DEEP INTERNAL LEVEL confidence with women, and for men who don't have special training, that is truly a challenge today like no other time in history, as men are brainwashed today by endless messages telling them how bad they are and how perfect women are. It starts from BIRTH and NEVER STOPS.
To SOLVE this, I have created my most IN-DEPTH program on deep inner confidence with women. It is called Warrior Within, and it's a video program that was filmed LIVE as men came from around the world to attend it in person. You can now have this program at your FINGERTIPS and download it INSTANTLY.
This is the program that every man ought to have if he wants success with women today.
And it's at:
https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/warrior.html
Till next time,
Michael Marks
Questions? Email me at michael@thedatingwizardreturns.com
As you can see, I get right to the point-super effective and super efficient. Do you want the same level of efficiency and power for ALL your interactions with women you want to attract? If you do, I have some fantastic news for you.
The most POWERFUL element to attracting women is your DEEP INTERNAL LEVEL confidence with women, and for men who don't have special training, that is truly a challenge today like no other time in history, as men are brainwashed today by endless messages telling them how bad they are and how perfect women are. It starts from BIRTH and NEVER STOPS.
To SOLVE this, I have created my most IN-DEPTH program on deep inner confidence with women. It is called Warrior Within, and it's a video program that was filmed LIVE as men came from around the world to attend it in person. You can now have this program at your FINGERTIPS and download it INSTANTLY.
This is the program that every man ought to have if he wants success with women today.
And it's at:
https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/warrior.html
Till next time,
Michael Marks
Questions? Email me at michael@thedatingwizardreturns.com
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