Here is my original CanadaAM interview from many years ago, and notice how I explain how important it is to LISTEN to the woman when picking up a woman because it allows you to provide the most powerful feedback, and how the host explains this using the terms "you can pick up ON what they're saying" instead of just being so focused on "picking up women" in the generic sense of being too OUTCOME dependent:
And NO ONE ELSE has ever used this term
in any public clear way as a regular thing...but of course this too was
copied like all my other good stuff, without giving me an ounce of
credit. So this guy puts up a video of Neil Strauss, saying he "picks up
ON Jessica Alba" because his original title was probably something insane like "Neil Strauss PICKS UP Jessica Alba" when OBVIOUSLY he doesn't and she goes back home and makes love to her actual man!
Quick question--so he GOT BRITNEY SPEARS, RIGHT???? RIGHT???? HE HAS TONS OF PROOF THAT BRITNEY SPEARS WAS DREAMING ABOUT HIM AND THEY MADE LOVE!!!!
In reality-zero proof, even zero proof of A SHRED of proof of ANYTHING regarding "seducing" Britney Spears. Not that she represents the kind of woman that had her act together in any respect.
But it doesn't matter! Because 99% of the guys who worshiped and who worship these guys don't even seriously TALK to women or even PLAN TO TALK to women-they would rather just spurt out some memorized lines and they would rather live vicariously through the "legendary" stories and youtube videos of their pick up artist gods, and then go back to discussing which guru is the best,-----but far be it from them to actually try to get a GOOD GIRL, a woman who isn't promiscuous, drunk, etc, which is what 99% of the women in most pick up artist videos are-either half drunk or tipsy or out at the clubs or just plain old fake videos from the moment they hit "record".
Getting a great woman might take some REAL SOCIAL SKILLS!!!!!! And that would be WAYYY too much to ask these guys to learn.So these "gurus" just give them the easy bait--"HERE'S HOW TO GET LAID TONIGHT!!! ALL WOMEN ARE THE SAME, AND ANY WOMAN THAT DOESN'T WANT TO JUMP INTO BED WITH YOU IS A WOMAN WITH SERIOUS ISSUES THAT IS A PRUDE!!!"
This particular detail regarding "picking up ON what women are saying" as opposed to "picking up women"...might sound like a little detail, but in a way that is even more of
a sign of how even the little nuances of ANYTHING I am associated with later gets taken
and used to try to whitewash the trashy pick-up artist crowd....Neil isn't picking up on anything here regarding Jessica Alba...
And more importantly, never an ounce of credit given to me regarding how important it is to listen to the woman as opposed to memorizing pick up lines..(and remember, at the time Strauss gave this interview, he was FRESH off the fame of his book The Game that was TOTALLY about PICK--LINES, NEGS, AND MEMORIZED ROUTINES.
And again-this is ESPECIALLY crazy
considering that this particular Jimmy Kimmel interview is from the time
of the book The Game, where the ENTIRE FOCUS IS ON MANIPULATIVE TACTICS
AND THE LAST THING ON EARTH WAS ABOUT TRULY RESPECTING A WOMAN AND
ACTUALLY REALLY LISTENING SO YOU CAN HAVE A GENUINE CONVERSATION THAT
I was the guy who got RID of pick-up lines when the entire pick-up artist movement was BRAINWASHED and WORSHIPED the "gurus" who SWORE that using pick up lines and memorized ROUTINES was the BEST AND ONLY way to go to attract women!
I was also the guy who LONG BEFORE DAVID DEANGELO'S "ManTransformation" program, was teaching men that if you want to get a GOOD woman, it's going to be VERY different than just learning how to get into bed quickly with a promiscuous woman.
And I was the guy who also taught that it's not about "direct" or "indirect" but about actually having a full, strong, warm, intelligent, caring, compelling personality conveyed in the space of a relatively brief conversation, and I taught how you can learn to do this SPONTANEOUSLY.
And I was the guy who showed how most of the pick-up methods popular at the time such as "push and pull", or "cocky and funny", or "negs", were RUINING trust even if they were creating SOME attraction in SOME of the situations, and I not only taught how to create attraction while SIMULTANEOUSLY building trust, but I also proved it in front of journalists from major newspapers ranging from the Toronto Star to the Globe and Mail.
And yet, do these pick-up artist companies give any credit to me, even though they have had to re-write their ENTIRE books on pick-up because of me? Of course not, as that might mean actually doing the right thing, and considering these guys were perfectly happy to screw up guys by teaching them the kind of advice that would cause the VERY BEST WOMEN--the kind of women you would really want as your "ONE AND ONLY"--- to RUN AWAY from any guy who used those insane tactics that DESTROY trust--it's not surprising they wouldn't do the right thing by giving me credit either for all the good things I've done for men who REALLY want to get a great woman.
So, if you REALLY want to learn, from a guy who truly IS the best when it comes to helping men get GREAT women, you should probably contact me or at least visit my site:
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