Wednesday, August 17, 2016

Emotional Abundance And Attracting Women

Are you ready for something ULTRA
powerful for attracting women?

First, I have a VIDEO for you on this
topic, but then read BELOW for a
MORE IN DEPTH AND ADVANCED UNDERSTANDING
that goes WAY BEYOND the video.



I have something to tell you that
is actually VERY advanced, and
SUPREMELY powerful.


It is even possible that many guys
won't understand it; but if you
are one of those guys, then just
practice the basic easier stuff
that I teach first, and eventually
this newsletter will make a lot
more sense.

Doing this for so many years has
made something super-clear to me
that is in many ways the
SECRET TO THE UNIVERSE in terms
of getting ANYTHING, including
of course women.

The key is to understand that human
beings are NOT hard-wired to get
EXCITED by anything NORMAL.


This is why the NEWS always is full of
sensational stories, many of them distorted
from the truth in order to make people
get excited.

I'm not just talking about bad news,
but ANY news, like for example some
story about how CHOCOLATE is the new
thing that makes you live longer,
or any other crazy story.

But it goes MUCH further than this,
in human psychology.


We only get MOTIVATED to WANT something
if we feel that thing is WORTH the EFFORT.

And you will notice that ALL THE TIME,
for the VAST majority of people, MOST
things are simply NOT worth the EFFORT.


So they DON'T get those things, because
it AIN'T worth the HELL, in their minds,
that they would have to GO through to get it.

From fitness to academics to career to
relationships, to attracting the opposite sex,
etc, etc, etc.

Hence, MEDIOCRITY RULES.

This is ALSO why you will notice the ENDLESS
appeal to LAZINESS when it comes to selling
ANYTHING.

"GET ABS and EAT LIKE A PIG!"
"SLEEP ALL DAY AND BECOME A MILLIONAIRE!"
"GET THE RELATIONSHIP OF YOUR DREAMS
BY USING THESE THREE MAGIC WORDS!"


Ahhh, well for THAT little EFFORT, well then
a LOT of people suddenly get interested.

Because if the REAL EFFORT involved was revealed,
MOST PEOPLE WOULD JUST SAY 'FORGET IT'.

And the real truth is that to excite people,
people have to feel they are getting something
TREMENDOUSLY MORE THAN JUST BEING 'WORTH IT'
OR A 'FAIR' EXCHANGE OF EFFORT FOR VALUE.

This is why you hear about things like
'TWO for ONE'.

It is based on the GREED that is HARD-WIRED in people.

Well, if you want to attract women, you have
to understand that women are just like anyone
else in the sense that they want something
that they feel is an INCREDIBLE catch for
them!


Like all human beings, women are GREEDY.
HUMANS are GREEDY.

Women simply CAN'T get EXCITED by getting a guy
that they already KNOW they can get.


That's just 'normal' to them, and so they are
DESENSITIZED to that.

They HAVE to FEEL that getting YOU is something
RIDICULOUSLY AMAZING; almost something WRONG
in the sense that they are getting MORE than
they DESERVE.


It CAN'T just be what they feel is a MATCH
for them.

For them to get EXCITED, the truth is they need
to feel that YOU are out of THEIR league!!!!!!!!

This is why most men FAIL with attracting women.

They want things to be FAIR.

But the truth is, you being her TRUE fair match
would not EXCITE her.



YOU HAVE TO GIVE PERCEIVED 'VALUE' WAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY
MORE THAN YOU ARE GETTING.

She has to feel you are WAY BEYOND her grasp,
but that SOMEHOW she has LUCKED OUT on an
OPPORTUNITY to GET YOU if she REALLY TRIES.


The GOOD news is that your ability to GIVE is

FAR BEYOND YOUR WILDEST IMAGINATION.

I don't mean "give" in terms of KISSING UP.
I mean GIVE in terms of BEING DESIRABLE.

The BEST way for you to do this is not only
to ACT the part, by not kissing up to her,
not acting desperate etc, etc, but also
by you TRULY becoming on a DEEP INTERNAL LEVEL
far MORE confident, far MORE witty, far MORE
humorous, far MORE socially skilled, far MORE
empathy that connects you to people and allows
you to create social networks, far MORE sense
of being SECURE, far more ambition, far more
imagination, dreams, hobbies, work ethic,etc.

Now you don't have to be ALL these things,
but the more the better, and MOST importantly,
you must have a PERSONALITY that is BURSTING
with POWER, JOY, AND INSPIRATION.

The reason is because when your personality is
GENUINELY feeling like this, it ends up SHOWING
in everything you do.


And ON TOP of this, are all the other things
that are so important, such as understanding
how to create sexual tension, understanding
female psychology, how women become aroused, etc.

But on that FUNDAMENTAL LEVEL, you must
INTERNALLY be feeling SO POWERFUL and
so TRULY NOT NEEDY yet SO BURNING WITH
LOVE FOR LIFE, that it all ends up
SHOWING in your DEMEANOR when you say
practically ANYTHING to women.


She will SENSE that there is MORE to you
than there is to HER.

And THAT IS WHAT EXCITES HER.

THAT IS WHAT SHE WANTS.
THAT IS WHAT MAKES HER STAY UP AT NIGHT
DREAMING ABOUT A GUY, FANTASIZING ABOUT
A GUY.

And here's the other thing:

Most attractive women can EASILY get men
who have a lot of the external things be
they money, fame, or even model looks.

This is because attractive women are powerful,
and so they can get pretty much anything.

But PERSONALITY is super-damn hard to FAKE.

So it's the ONE thing that attractive women
find HARD to get. 

So let me reveal to you a SECRET for
BECOMING this kind of man:

STOP thinking in terms of the concept of FAIR.

If you want FAIR, then be prepared for NOTHING
special to happen in your life.

EVERY MAN, aside from a few who win things like
lotteries, be it lotteries with money or women
or something else, EVERY MAN who GETS somewhere
amazing has CHANGED his perception of the idea
of FAIR.

You need to EMBRACE the kinds of things that
OTHER men call HARD WORK and instead look
at it is THE WAY TO GET WHAT YOU WANT.

So, for example, let's just say you are currently
pursuing some woman who is NOT reciprocating
your attention.


And you are pursuing her because in your MIND
you are saying how MUCH EASIER it would be to get
HER, rather than DROPPING her and instead putting
in the ACTION to actually get SOMEONE ELSE.

Well, in this case what is happening is the
DESIRE on a subconscious level to SAVE yourself
ENERGY AND TIME, even though the TRUTH is that
the very ACT of pursuing this woman is DRAINING
you of energy and time, and even worse, she
is DRAINING your SELF-ESTEEM because the
act of chasing her without reciprocation
CHIPS AWAY at your self-esteem, making
you become even NEEDIER not only to HER,
but to ALL women you meet.

You have to B*%CH-SLAP yourself and STOP this.

Because what is really going on is a kind
of emotional LAZINESS. A kind of "Well,
I DESERVE to get her, and I want her, and
it would be FAIR if I GOT her"
type of
thinking.

And THAT kind of thinking not only makes
you WEAK and NEEDY, but it actually
SHOWS in your demeanor whether you
like it or not---women can actually
TELL that there is something NEEDY
in you, and that neediness sends out
the SIGNAL to them that YOU don't
REALLY FEEL you are THE PRIZE.


So if YOU don't feel you are the PRIZE,
then OF COURSE you can't expect WOMEN
to be EXCITED about you, when women
and all human beings don't even get
excited by getting what is FAIR!

And meanwhile your neediness is coming
across as inferior to them, which is
A LOT WORSE than just coming across as
a FAIR match.

There are EXTERNAL tricks that people use to
FAKE confidence, to FAKE value. Things like
ending conversations first to show you are
not needy. (Which becomes very immature
quickly and also totally ignores context,
as a truly confident man stays with
the conversation when he can, and goes
when he has to go, or he wouldn't even
be talking to her in the first place.)

But those things don't deal with the more
IMPORTANT ISSUE AND ROOT CAUSE of the
problem-WHICH IS A DEEP EMOTIONAL THING,
and not about some kind of BAND-AID
external trick solution.

And I'm telling you that the best solution
is to CHANGE not only your behaviors, but
the very ATTITUDES that CREATE behaviors
in the first place.

Start thinking about all the things you
THINK about regarding your ability with women,
your ability to do ANYTHING you want to do,
and how many times you are giving into
this BULLSHIT CONCEPT KNOWN AS WHAT IS
'FAIR'.

NOTHING IS FAIR.


You need to be TEN TIMES more CONFIDENT than is "fair"
to expect of you.

You need to be TEN TIMES more PLAYFUL than you
think is FAIR for you.

You need to be TEN TIMES less NEEDY than you
think is FAIR for you.

You need to be TEN TIMES more OUTGOING than you
think is FAIR for you.

You need to be TEN TIMES more PERSISTENT than
you think is FAIR for you.

You need to be TEN TIMES more RESILIENT
than you think is FAIR for you.

And then comes the IRONY, because what will
happen is you will suddenly have not just
ONE incredible woman who wants you, you will
have DOZENS.


And of course THAT will make you even MORE
confident, and then you may find yourself
suddenly not WANTING that woman you thought
you wanted in the first place.

And that will make her want you even MORE.

And now that she wants you so much, you might
suddenly feel that this is all pretty NORMAL
AND FAIR, and now you are suddenly NOT excited
about the idea of getting her anymore.

Because you too, are human.

Now, you can probably see how it becomes
important to figure out what you REALLY
want, and to know when to stop, because
ultimately the whole idea of getting
external goals is ALL a big mind-game
you are really playing with yourself in
terms of motivation and getting excited
to do what is required and still being
excited by what you get when you get it.

But that's another topic entirely.

For now, I have just shared one of the
BIG SECRETS OF THE UNIVERSE for attracting
women endlessly to you.

And as AWESOME as that it is, it's still just
a GLIMPSE into the WORLD of my PREMIUM programs,
and if you haven't get got my latest program,
called THE RULES FOR ATTRACTING WOMEN, then
you MUST do that IMMEDIATELY, at:


https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/rules-for-attracting-women.html

Also, as you can see, SO MUCH of this success
with women is about TRAINING your MIND. And
this is an area where I have special expertise
helping men for over THIRTEEN YEARS.

In private Skype, phone, or in-person consultations
with me, I can help you ELIMINATE the INTERNAL
BARRIERS holding you back from INFINITE SUCCESS
with women.  These consultations are one-on-one
and allow you MAXIMUM SPEED in getting the
results with women you WANT, because the
one-on-one time means everything you learn
is CUSTOMIZED for you.


Customization means ACCELERATED RESULTS IN
ATTRACTING THE WOMEN YOU WANT.

Consultations are at:


https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/consultations.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

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