The biggest key to
attracting women is to be in the right STATE of mind, or to be even more
accurate, the right COMBINATION of states of mind.
These states include being upbeat, adventurous, secure, sexual, warm, playful,
dominant, and other related states. And you don't have to be in ALL of
those states at all times, but they are all very attractive states, especially
when mixed with you being in a sexual state. The reason why this is so important is because when
you are in these states, you AUTOMATICALLY say and do all the RIGHT
things! You don't have to learn special moves that feel robotic and not
natural.
If you haven't experienced this before, you have no idea how MASSIVELY POWERFUL
this is as an attractant to get women.
And the most powerful way to get into these states of mind is to do the
following things: 1. GET RID OF ALL THE NEGATIVE INFLUENCES IN YOUR
LIFE. 2. FOCUS YOUR MIND ON THE STATES DESCRIBED ABOVE.
So, for example, if you spend just a few minutes FOCUSING on upbeat thoughts,
you will actually start to FEEL that way. Similarly, with getting into that
sexual state. And getting into that playful state, and all the other
states.
There is an old rule of thumb that you should be in the same kind of state that
it takes to sing a song that is about the kind of state you want to be
in. This has nothing to do with your singing ability, it has to do with
the STATE of mind to sing an upbeat song, a sexual song, a playful song, and so
on and so forth.
So don't go out approaching women until you DO this and until you are IN that
state. 3. DESIGN A LIFE THAT YOU ARE EXCITED ABOUT.
Do everything in your power to pack your life with as many experiences each
day, week, month, and year, that help you ACCESS the states of mind described
above. Discover your passions, start giving to people in the
ways that you are best at (there is a massive emotional high that comes from
giving your talents to help people), and push your comfort zone in life so that
you are experiencing the ADRENALINE and the ENDORPHINS that come as a result.
When you are in THOSE STATES OF MIND, you will find it is not only EASY to
approach and attract women, but that you are doing things that you never
THOUGHT POSSIBLE before.
You will go right up to women, you will say things that are "not
expected" and "not the usual" and not following social
convention, and you will find that women LIGHT UP. And it won't hardly matter WHAT you say. It can be a
compliment, it can be almost anything, and it will WORK, because women will
pick up subconsciously on your STATES of mind, and THAT will attract them. And all this goes against the politically correct brainwashing that tells
men to act like DOCILE, CASTRATED, AND EMOTIONLESS beings when approaching
women. Instead, unleash the FULL POWER of your personality
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Till next time,
Michael
If you think that women are attracted to a man's LOOKS, then I have MASSIVE PROOF for you that this is NOT the case and that men have INFINITELY more power to attract women than most men have ever DREAMED of before. I explain all of this and MUCH MORE in a NEW video that is going to BLOW YOUR MIND, right here: There is no better feeling on earth than having the woman of your dreams in your arms. And you can make that reality happen NOW by downloading my new book IMMEDIATELY at: The Dating Wizard Returns - Instant Download To take things to the NEXT LEVEL, sign up for my bootcamp or learn more about it by going here: The Dating Wizard Bootcamp Till next time, Michael Marks, The Dating Wizard
It’s
important to understand that this kind of woman
values
connection far more than the kind of women
for whom
promiscuity and drunken behavior sum up
their
attitude regarding “getting physical”.
So when
I say connect, I mean this on a much,
MUCH
higher level than typically passes for
connection
in the low-level connections where
some
dude is making out with some drunk woman.
You may have heard me explain before how important
congruency is in other aspects of the pick-up, and here
is yet ANOTHER place where CONGRUENCY rules.
Congruency means your actions, your words,
your EVERYTHING lines up consistently,
right down to your MICRO-EXPRESSIONS.
Can
some guys FAKE this?
Maybe,
but faking it takes THOUSANDS of hours
of practice,
and also only works in the short-term.
FAKING
it is simply NOT WORTH THE EFFORT for
most
guys when there is no NEED to fake it because
there
are so many women around who are promiscuous
and who
require virtually no connection.
And the BETTER a woman is when it comes to her
appreciation forbonding,
commitment, and longevity
in relationships, the EASIER it is for her to spot a faker,
and she can do this SUBCONSCIOUSLY.
She
has spent YEARS of her life simply being HER,
and she
is a person who CARES about these
things,
so she has had THOUSANDS of hours of
LIFE
PRACTICE simply seeing and naturally observing
the
behaviors of the men she has dated and spoken
with
over the years.
So by
this point in time, she has a very refined
INSTINCT
that can detect the INCONGRUENCIES
in
guys that are shady and who don’t REALLY
mean
what they are saying in the connection
part
of the conversation.
I have
to wonder when I hear and see so-called
“pick
up experts” telling guys that they can get
GREAT
FAITHFUL WOMEN anytime they want,
while
SIMULTANEOUSLY speaking out of the
OTHER
side of their mouths saying how
AWESOME
it is to sleep around with tons of
women.
Trust me, as Aristotle said:
"We are what we repeatedly do.
Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit.”
Or, as I say:
YOU ARE AS YOU THINK AND DO.
And again, do NOT underestimate the power of the
MOST TINY SUBTLETIES HERE.
This is because it is ONLY those
subtleties that
DEFINE and SEPARATE those who are AUTHENTIC
from those who are not.
And
the reason so many people get fooled by
so-called
experts is because it can take YEARS
to
DETECT the difference between someone who
knows
what they are talking about and someone who
does
not.
Often,
the only way to tell is to become at least proficient,
if not
an expert,one’s self.
But let me prove how important LITTLE
differences are:
Do you think Michael Jordan was really A HUNDRED
TIMES better than average player on the court?
Or even 50 times better?
Or TEN times better?
Do you think the FASTEST man alive is really a
HUNDRED times faster than the other runners?
Or even ten times?
Or even five times?
Or even just TWICE?
In reality, he’s often just MILLISECONDS faster.
The
REAL truth, is that the difference is not
NEARLY
as much as you think it is.
BUT, to get even a LITTLE bit better,
takes a
a WHOLE LOT.
EFFORT.
FOCUS. DISCIPLINE. COMMITMENT.
The
same thing happens in any successful area.
One
might argue that the original Star Wars film,
(Episode
4), is no different than a hundred other
sci-fi
films taking place in space, with battles,
action,
and special effects.
But the truth is, there are COUNTLESS tiny subtleties
that most people aren’t consciously aware of that went
into the making of the film at every level, from the
script to the design of the every last character and
vehicle, from the music to the casting, from the effects
to the locations and the editing, and so on and so forth.
All the tiny subtleties add up to one
MASSIVE but unconscious
effect experienced by the VIEWER.
Just like all the tiny subtleties that you express in your
micro-expressions, body language, and tonality add
up to one MASSIVE but subconscious effect on a
woman.And all these
subtleties can only be generated
properly from the DEEPEST LEVELS of your emotions
and your inner game.
They are too subtle and too numerous to
try to
actually do each one consciously.
It would be absurd, i.e. “So now, move your left
eye-brow up by one-thousandth of a millimetre”
and “breathe .001% slower and deeper”, etc.
This is why you must be super-careful to
adopt,
regarding women, yourself, and attraction,
the
RIGHT beliefs and perspectives, and to
know the
full truth about women and attraction, because
your
KNOWLEDGE, BELIEFS and EMOTIONS regarding women (which are things that the current environment of political correctness HIDES from most men) will automatically SHOW UPinto your corresponding MICRO-EXPRESSIONS, body language and tonalities- and THESE are the BIGGEST things that matter when it comes
toATTRACTING women.
The
WINNING in life in any area is really
about
the TINY SUBTLETIES that may seem
like
very LITTLE to the UNTRAINED eye, ear,
or
mind, but that are OBVIOUS and MASSIVE
to
anyone who KNOWS that field.
And GOOD, FAITHFUL, LOYAL women know ALL
ABOUT being good, loyal, and faithful, on a very
instinctive level; they can SNIFF IT OUT on a guy
without even being CONSCIOUS of it.
They have had their entire lives to
practice.
So,
the UNTRAINED person might superficially
REPEAT
A FEW WORDS he heard from
a
valid source on how to go about getting a
great
woman or a great relationship, and then
THINK
he can fool and immediately go and
get
and keep any good woman he wants, after
living
a life of wild abandon and not giving a damn
about
things like bonding, commitment, and relationships,
but
REALITY doesn’t work that way.
Our behaviors SHAPE our minds and emotions
and
actions on the DEEPEST of levels.
The greatest predictor of one’s future behavior is one’s
past behavior. We are what we think and do.
And although we can always CHANGE our path,
it would be INSANE to advise one to do the OPPOSITE
of what gets the BEST results in obtaining the results
one desires.
A lifetime spent on LOW LEVEL bonding
trains you to
FEEL on a low level of human bonding, to
think on
a low level of human bonding, and to feel
WEIRD
going into a higher level of human
bonding.
And so a woman who is FAITHFUL AND LOOKING
FOR A FAITHFUL MAN will SNIFF this stuff out
in the wrong guy FAST.
His real attitudes and beliefs formed over years
and years will SHOW in subtle ways in micro-expressions
in his face.He might
make a split-second frown when he
hears about commitment, he might have this strange
look in his eyes that is only a THOUSANDTH of a second
long, but that the woman detected on the most powerful
subconscious level.
Remember, human COMMUNICATION has had
A LONG, LONG, LONG time to develop, and the
ability of humans to communicate to each other
has developed into the most complex of all the
other living creatures on the planet.
It is the reason that humans can mate
face-to-face
instead of just from behind like most
animals.
This was and is not a coincidence; it is because
human communication is a MASSIVE part of
mating, and because the FACE can communicate
TRILLIONS of bits of data to the other person
about how we feel and what we are thinking.
And, the other person SUBCONSCIOUSLY processes
all these signals we are giving off, which is why people
get “FEELINGS” about people instead of reams of raw
data that they can articulate.
This is because humans usually aren’t CONSCIOUSLY
aware of what every single tiny bit of communicated data was,
and where it came from, and which body language motion
from the other person delivered it, etc.
Do you
see now how the most typical “pick-up artist”
advice
in terms of lifestyle and attitude toward relationships
is the
EXACT OPPOSITE of the REAL way to pick-up
a
quality woman?
The
very language and mentality floods your
brain
with all the wrong thoughts and emotions,
which
end up SHOWING CLEARLY to a woman!
They show like a BLARING RED SIREN
to her! And then the so called “experts” start
to call these women bad names when the
interaction doesn’t go well!
They say, “Oh, she’s cold, she didn’t want to
go jump into bed.She
must have emotional
issues. She must not be a liberated woman.”
And
this kind of insanity is then spread and
taught
to millions of men, all of whom get
so
brainwashed that they make sure to vote
with a
big “Thumbs Up” on any insanity
preached-
again, because they can’t tell
the
difference since these guys don’t have
the
experience to know the difference between
good
advice and bad advice, and faithful women
and
unfaithful women, and the winning lifestyle
and
the losing lifestyle when it comes to getting
a
faithful woman.
In the video in this article, I demonstrate a powerful
strategy and a powerful FRAME to use when going
to approach a woman that you want to turn into a
great girlfriend.
It is
POWERFUL and will BLOW AWAY any
“competition”
from other guys who are trained
in the
typical way, by those who continue to taint
the
minds of good men who just want to meet
and
attract good women.
They
want you to think that drunk promiscuous
women who
disrespect traditional values are the
same
thing as women who care about relationships,
family,
and other traditional values.
And if you think THAT is powerful, just
wait till you see what is in my new book,
called THE DATING WIZARD
RETURNS.
It BOLDLY GOES WHERE NO OTHER
“ATTRACT WOMEN” TEACHINGS HAVE
GONE BEFORE. You see, every thought and emotion you have
ends up showing. So, if you feel nervous, if you feel women are not as sexual as you, if you feel women cannot be trusted, if you feel clueless, if you feel like you can't be manly enough for a woman, and EVERY OTHER EMOTION >and thought that is relevant to dating, attraction, >and "getting physical" all ends up having an EFFECT.
It either ENHANCES the attraction or WEAKENS it. My book will make sure you get all this stuff RIGHT in your own head and emotions so that you SHOW all the right micro-expressions, body language, and tonalities that ATTRACT the women you want.
I took it upon myself to ANSWER all the important
questions on how to meet, attract, and keep a great
woman, while still living in OUR politically correct