cannot over-emphasize just how important it
is to BELIEVE me when I tell you that political
correctness is DESTROYING most men's potential
to attract women.
And the reason why, is because political
correctness works on such a subconscious
level, that you don't even REALIZE what
is causing you to act in the wrong ways
around women you want to attract.
Now, to help me prove the point, I want to
point to some OTHER examples of political
correctness that are EQUALLY insane but
that no one speaks about.
One is in the way universities and colleges
are creating DOLTS in many of the programs
that aren't the maths and sciences, and don't
get me wrong, as I was ONE of those students,
but I was lucky because I happened to SEE
it for what it was.
So, for example, I have a background in education.
And I ain't showing off about it, even though it
was from one of the top Faculties of Education in
the world. I thought we were going to learn how
to teach kids things like MATH, SCIENCE, ENGLISH,
WRITING, even things like PHYSICAL EDUCATION,
HISTORY, etc.
But although there was SOME of that, there was
this INCESSANT INDOCTRINATION EVERY DAY that
kept BOMBARDING us with politically correct
messages, telling us that MEN are EVIL, especially
WHITE men, and how they are the villains throughout
history, and how horrifyingly bad women are treated,
(not around the world, but in our own country-
it was as if we were being taught to HATE our own
country, and also the truth is men commit suicide
more than women here, men are the vast majority
of the homeless, and meanwhile there are more
women in university than men, young women make
even more money than most young men, but NO ONE
mentioned a WORD about that!) and how we must
constantly seek to embrace MULTICULTURALISM because
our own culture is EVIL.
But even that wasn't consistent, as we spent very
little time learning about, for example, ASIAN
culture. I guess the politically correct authorities
felt that Asians were doing too well and so they
could go screw themselves. I'm serious, I really
wondered why this was, considering that learning
about Asian culture would have been actually
USEFUL in today's global society.
And NEVER one good reason for ANY of this.
Especially not when the MAIN thing that
teachers REALLY should be learning is
HOW to best teach students things like
MATH, ENGLISH, WRITING, etc.
And when I looked around me at some of the
student teachers, I was SHOCKED at how many
of them didn't know how to SPELL or do BASIC
math!!! I would spend HOURS helping fellow
candidates learn these things, and of course
no one gave a damn because teachers actually
knowing what they teach doesn't matter in
a politically correct society.
What matters is just PARROTING the politically
correct messages of how evil men are, especially
white men, and how feminism is the greatest
saviour of the human race, and how multiculturalism
is the greatest thing ever, and how we should
hate ourselves for not being more feminist
and more multicultural.
And all the UNIVERSITY FACULTY in the Department
of Education all seemed in LINE with this
POLITICALLY CORRECT message.
And in the end, who suffers the most?
The KIDS who are taught by IGNORANT TEACHERS
who don't even KNOW anything about HOW
to teach, because all they got in teacher's
college was POLITICALLY CORRECT BULLSHIT!
The whole thing made me puke so much that
I got my degree and CUT OUT of that field
so fast it wasn't even funny. I was teaching
the TEACHERS how to do math and how to spell
basic words, because they didn't even know
these things, but the administration didn't
care because helping the actual children
learn didn't matter ONE FREAKING DAMN.
THIS is just the TIP of the iceberg when
it comes to political correctness.
Political correctness makes people do
EVIL things just in order to FIT IN
with the SOCIAL PRESSURE of the environment,
and political correctness MASKS evil
under the guise of doing something NICE.
Notice how political correctness always
SOUNDS so nice on the SURFACE.
Who would NOT want to treat women decently?
Who would NOT want to respect the feelings of others?
Who would TRY to offend people just for the
sake of offending them?
Here in my own country, the previous leader
who did an excellent job with the economy
considering the challenging situation of
2008 he had to deal with, was NOT voted back
in, due to mostly a very politically correct
crowd, and one of the FIRST THINGS this new
leader did when he got into power was make
a statement that he would ENSURE his cabinet
(high political positions in the government)
would be FIFTY-PERCENT WOMEN-this was
made a POLICY. Not a suggestion, but a POLICY.
So, getting the MOST QUALIFIED people to
be in his cabinet---NO, that is NOT important
in political correctness.
Truth, goodness, fairness.
NOT important in a politically correct society.
What is more important is to just FILL UP
the cabinet with FIFTY PERCENT WOMEN,
regardless of whether they REALLLLLLLY
are the best or not. It is simply
POLICY now- "FIFTY PERCENT WOMEN,
and if we don't have FIFTY PERCENT
women who are truly QUALIFIED, WHO
CARES? PUT 'EM IN THERE ANYWAY!!!
WHO CARES IF IT HARMS THE COUNTRY????"
If it happened to be that only 1% of women
were INTERESTED in politics, it wouldn't
matter, according to political correctness
we should TAKE those 1% of women and REALLLY
TRY TO PERSUADE THEM THAT IT'S THE RIGHT
THING TO DO TO TAKE THE POSITIONS EVEN
IF THEY AREN'T INTERESTED--yup, just put
them ALL into the cabinet!
When asked why he did this, his answer
to the media was: "Because it's 2015."
And everyone APPLAUDED AROUND HIM after
he said this.
It was as if he had said something truly NOBLE.
Or at least truly WISE.
Did they applaud because this is LOGICAL?
No, that would be impossible, because it
is NOT logical.
They applaud because it is the POLITICALLY
CORRECT THING TO DO.
They applaud because NOT to applaud would
not SEEM right.
It FEELS right, since it FEELS like
"we are finally treating women right".
And how things SEEM, is much more important
to political correctness, than how things ARE.
So for example, in REALITY, FIFTY percent
of the population is female, and they are now
being led by a cabinet that is not fully there
on merit, but on gender. Does that not ultimately
harm EVERYONE??????????????????????????????
Both men and women are now being led by
a cabinet including people who are by
POLICY not there on merit, but rather
on gender.
And when it comes to attracting women,
the whole TOPIC is politically INcorrect.
Think about it: It FEELS morally wrong in our
society to even BE a man, to BE masculine, because
we keep on being told this is WRONG.
It might feel NATURAL to be a man, but most
men keep those feelings BOTTLED up inside,
because SOCIALLY it is considered WRONG.
If you say this in public to women, and even
to many men, you will get NO social approval,
just looks of disbelief and a lot of silence and suppressed emotions.
So most men just can't act like MEN around women.
This is why men act like EFFEMINATE creatures
around women, and it's also why men are doing
HORRIBLY with attracting women.
Of course, the men who KNOW better, and who know
the truth about attraction, just go RIGHT ON acting
like men, not asking permission from anyone, and
that is why women end up with those men and
calling them jerks, but more on that later in this
article.
And what is the POLITICALLY CORRECT way to
even REMOTELY approach the topic of attracting
women at ALL?
Well, to first of all APOLOGIZE for being a MAN.
You do this by in general laughing at all anti-male jokes,
and basically agreeing that feminism is the best thing
EVER.
And secondly, the politically correct thing to do
is to go out of your way to PROVE to a woman that
you are going to be GREAT to her.
So you know, you just keep on trying to be her
BESTEST FRIENDEST EVERRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!
You go purse shopping with her, things like that.
And listen to her stories of how her ex is such
a dog and a pig. You make sure to be there and
listen to all that stuff.
Try to act a little less like a man.
Maybe sign up for some kind of class that she
takes, like ballet or something like that!
That would get you lots of politically correct points.
Ever notice by the way, how women are the ones
who like to say "you get points" for something
you do that they like?
As if the game was winning her, and not the
other way around.
Men don't tend to do that, perhaps because it's
disrespectful.
And what do you think you would get in terms
of RESULTS with women when you adopt the
POLITICALLY CORRECT advice?
NADA.
Nothing.
As far as SEXUALLY attracting women, you can say
KAPUT to that.
It's time to be a MAN again, and that means
stopping the bullshit.
Women DO feel attraction to MEN who BEHAVE like MEN.
And this is why they keep on telling you that so
many men they end up sleeping with are JERKS.
You don't have to be a JERK, but simply not being
POLITICALLY CORRECT is enough to be called a JERK
these days.
But trust me, attracting women has nothing to do
with REALLY being a jerk, it just has to do with
being a MAN.
This is another reason why taking BOOTCAMP
with me is so powerful: It is because you
learn how to waltz right up to women
and attract them on the SPOT just by being
more of a MAN, which these days is now enough
to get you labelled as POLITICALLY INCORRECT.
Are there some guys out there who are REAL jerks?
Yes, but that's not most men, and it's not what
you need to be to attract women.
In Bootcamp, you actually get to
PROVE IT in front of your own EYES.
Any by "PROVE IT" I mean the following
kinds of things happen:
1. The woman gives you her email.
2. She gives you her number.
3. She buys you a drink.
4. She gets girly and giggly with you
even though you are not super funny.
5. She kisses you.
6. She makes out with you---This is
more in clubs, and I'm not a fan of it
due to many reasons including the
alcohol, but in general, the bottom
line is that you can TELL the women
are actually INTERESTED instead of
just saying things such as:
"I have to go".
PLUS, by getting lots of women from meeting
them in person from cold approaches, you
also become SUPER EMPOWERED AND CONFIDENT
AND SECURE.
You learn to COMMUNICATE in a way that
SHOWS you are a MAN.
This brings me to something I'm SURE
you've had happen to you when it comes
to wanting to attract a woman:
ATTRACTIVE WOMEN, HEADPHONES, MOVING
If you look around at beautiful women, you will notice
a LOT of them have headphones on, and you will
notice they do not often stay STATIONARY in
one place for long in places like malls or
stores, etc.
Some guys complain about this, saying it
makes it harder to approach women.
I used to be one of those guys.
But guess what?
Women being hot and being harder to STOP
and to get them into chat mode compared
to getting other women to stop and chat
is NOT a coincidence.
Hotties NEED to make themselves harder to stop
or they will never get to move through the world
without spending ALL DAY talking to EVERY GUY
that sees them.
The HEADPHONES is PART of that.
The headphones are SAYING two things:
One is: "I'm in my own world, please leave me alone".
But the more important one, a SUBCONSCIOUS level,
is this: "IF YOU ARE THE KIND OF MAN THAT I WANT
THAT MEANS YOU ARE THE KIND OF MAN THAT WILL
NOT LET HEADPHONES STOP YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"
So if you DECIDE TO GIVE INTO THAT, you have
just made yourself part of the MAJORITY of
men who DO NOT GET ANYWHERE with her.
Imagine that. Only in our POLITICALLY CORRECT
times, could something like HEADPHONES be
enough to SCARE THE LIVING DAYLIGHTS out of
most men from approaching a woman.
It's as if the headphones turn her into
a GODZILLA threat.
Similarly, these hotties MOVE around more, they
KNOW if they stop for long enough, FOR SURE
they will get a LOT of needy men who have no clue
about how to behave, and ALSO that these men
will get upset if she has to leave without
giving them the number, etc.
So hotties PREVENT a lot of problems this way.
DO NOT GIVE INTO THESE ARTIFICIAL BARRIERS.
JUST OPEN UP THE CONVERSATION ANYWAY, and
do it RIGHT.
Women know you are approaching them, just make
sure you approach them in a way that makes them
GLAD you did.
THE IMPORTANCE OF CONGRUENCY
There's one more thing I want to mention today:
It is all about something known as CONGRUENCY.
When opening up a conversation with a woman
who is a total stranger, you can SCREW IT ALL
UP even if you do EVERYTHING ELSE RIGHT but
you fail to show CONGRUENCY.
Congruency simply means that your WORDS are
CONSISTENT with your BODY LANGUAGE and tonality.
So, let's say a guy is at a bookstore and starts
chatting to a woman about a book she is reading
and he PRETENDS to be interested in the book
but he is not really interested in it.
Most likely, his FACIAL expressions will reveal
some discomfort or disdain or boredom with it,
from the way his eyebrows furl or the crinkles
in his forehead or the way his glance moves
around unsteadily, or the way his voice shows
a lack of genuine interest, etc.
On the other hand, if a guy actually SAYS
that he knows NOTHING about that topic but
is curious what she finds interesting about
it, he will sound CONGRUENT if this is the
truth about the situation.
A woman sensing CONGRUENCY in a man is a BIG thing.
One of the BIGGEST problems in "pick ups" or
'cold approaches' on women who are total strangers
is coming across as "sketchy" - as UNTRUSTWORTHY.
Women WANT to meet men, but they also want
to be SAFE.
So a guy who is the most innocent guy in the
world, and who just wants a woman and just
wants to impress her, but who is not being
CONGRUENT with her, will trigger her ALARMS.
She does not KNOW the reason he is not being
congruent is rather innocent, i.e. that he
likes her. All she knows is something is NOT
true about the situation.
This is a bit similar to how dogs sense a
person's fear, and it often agitates the
dog, even if the REASON the person feels
fear is BECAUSE of the dog, and not because
the person wants to attack the dog!
All the dog knows is that something is WRONG.
The flip side is also true.
If you are being CONGRUENT, you can use almost
ANYTHING to get a woman into you.
Here's an example from bootcamp:
At a store, the song "Fields of Gold" by Sting
was playing softly over the loudspeakers.
In the moment, I just felt MAN, THIS SONG IS
REALLY CLASSIC STUFF, IT'S CALMING, IT'S
GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOD STUFF.
So I just turned to the woman, who was in middle
of her own thing, reading a book, and I said,
"Isn't this song beautiful?"
And I MEANT it.
I said it SLOW, and said the word "beautiful"
as if the word beautiful was ITSELF sacred.
I was truly totally congruent with it.
I've loved that song since it first came out.
And now she FEELS it.
She is soaking it in.
And she goes "Yes, it really is".
This woman was YOUNG, so I said the next totally
TRUE and congruent thought I had, which was:
"That's pretty cool you know this song,
because you seem pretty young".
So then she tells me that she has her parents
to thank for that, they brought her up with
great music. We chat a bit about how Lady Gaga
was actually influenced by her parents who
played their music around the house, including
music by Bruce Springsteen, etc.
At that point, I introduce myself and
extend my hand. She smiles and introduces
herself as well as we shake hands. We
continue chatting about things that
RESONATE such as having classic values,
timeless music, and inspiration.
I use this example because it was NOT
genius; it WAS, however, very CONGRUENT.
Being totally congruent also means you
do not use pick-up lines, because pick-up
lines run the risk of a guy feeling he
is "doing an act", which means not being
congruent to his real identity.
After a while, I had to end it, because
the point was illustrated and my client was
ready to do some more approaches of his own.
(He got the number of a sexy, slim but shapely
woman who wanted him so badly that she was
not afraid to reveal she had NO PLAN for
SATURDAY NIGHT and wanted to know what HE
was doing! And to prove it was a real number,
he actually called her right away, and her
phone rang on her right then and there!)
And if you are reading this right now, I
promise you that what you have just read,
as powerful as it is, is just the TIP
of the ICEBERG.
My BOOTCAMP is going to equip you with
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Till next time,
Michael Marks
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