IMPORTANT SECRET TRUTHS FOR ATTRACTING
WOMEN WHO ARE TOTAL STRANGERS that you
may see ANYWHERE, especially places out
in public like cafes, stores, markets,
public transit, etc.
First, I need to also explain something
to you about myself.
I actually CARE about THE TRUTH.
EVERY SINGLE FAMOUS AUTHORITY ON ANYTHING
is totally SCREWING PEOPLE OVER.
The reason for this is simple:
MASS MARKETING is designed for-you guessed it-THE MASSES.
And the MASSES of people simply are WEAK.
They can be MANIPULATED to BELIEVE something
is true even if it is NOT true, because
most people have NOT EXERCISED their
skills in CRITICAL THINKING in every
area of their lives.
And so telling people LIES that they will
ENJOY BELIEVING is FAR EASIER than telling
people TRUTH in terms of them ACCEPTING
what you say.
Let me give you some examples:
THE FOOD INDUSTRY
So for example, people's perception of eating FAT.
50 years ago, the SUGAR INDUSTRY starting QUIETLY
paying scientists to focus on SELECTIVE RESEARCH
that would seem to point to FAT being the cause
of heart disease, and not anything else, especially
SUGAR.
(Want full details of this? Go here:
http://www.npr.org/sections/thetwo-way/2016/09/13/493739074/50-years-ago-sugar-industry-quietly-paid-scientists-to-point-blame-at-fat )
And so we ended up getting DECADES of INSANITY
pointing to the LOW FAT or even ZERO FAT diet,
and we had this TIDAL WAVE of products entering
stores that all featured the words LOW FAT or
even ZERO FAT.
And this stuff sold to the tune of BILLIONS of dollars.
There was just one problem-LOW FAT does not mean
HEALTHY. LOW FAT can still be LOADED with TONS
OF SUGAR, and be just as destructive as high fat,
and in fact CERTAIN FATS are actually SUPER-HEALTHY
in small amounts.
And yet, the MOST POPULAR HEALTH BOOKS ON DIET
for DECADES were ALL PROMOTING THIS LOW FAT DIET,
and NEVER INFORMING PEOPLE OF THE FULL TRUTH ON
CARBOHYDRATES AND SUGARS.
And why was this so popular?
Because people WANTED to go AGAINST NATURE,
to have TONS OF FAT, or if not TONS OF FAT,
then they could have TONS OF SUGAR according
to the OFFICIAL AUTHORITIES!
After all, it was "SCIENTIFIC RESEARCH", supposedly.
What they didn't know is that it was SELECTIVE
RESEARCH ALL DONE WITH THE GOAL OF MAKING IT SEEM
THAT FAT IS TO BLAME, AND NOT SUGAR.
Scientists who were PAID OFF to say what would be GOOD
for the COMPANIES selling this sugar-loaded stuff.
And if you think the problem is limited to SUGAR,
it's not--it's THE ENTIRE SOCIETY TODAY.
The entire JUNK FOOD INDUSTRY pays off scientists
and pressures health organizations and tries to
influence law and policy so that certain ingredients
in certain popular JUNK FOODS WILL NOT BE BANNED.
Even if this means innocent children being harmed.
And it's not just the food industry, like I said,
it's EVERYTHING.
The TOBACCO industry used to have DOCTORS
making commercials saying that SMOKING
was actually HEALTHY.
It took GENERATIONS of MASSIVE LOBBYING against
the tobacco companies, plus the WIDESPREAD
KNOWLEDGE OF JUST HOW DESTRUCTIVE IT WAS,
for the tobacco companies to finally stop
promoting endless lies and promoting their
product in such massive public ways,
including aiming their product at YOUTH.
But for GENERATIONS, the most popular and
professional SPORTS and FAMILY events and
organizations would often be SPONSORED by
TOBACCO COMPANIES, to associate the tobacco
with GOOD things in people's minds.
People would think, "How bad can tobacco be,
if they promote children's tv shows, sports
events, and our favorite actors in the movies
are smoking?" (Yes, these actors were often
PAID by tobacco companies to DELIBERATELY
be SMOKING in their movies, even when there was NO REASON
their characters would be smoking otherwise.)
And again, even DOCTORS used to OFFICIALLY
SAY ON TV THAT SMOKING WAS HEALTHY!!!!!!!
Even the SECURITY OF THE PLANET is affected by
BULLSHIT AUTHORITIES giving BAD ADVICE.
So for example, there were very LOGICAL,
educated, caring people who STUDIED the
TRUTH about the situation of terrorism.
LONG BEFORE 9/11, they kept on WARNING
that an attack like 9/11 was imminent,
and that the government and industries
needed to STOP SPENDING BILLIONS OF
DOLLARS ON OIL THAT ENDED UP FUNDING
TERRORIST ORGANIZATIONS.
But THESE experts NEVER GOT MUCH PUBLICITY.
That's because CHEAP OIL mattered MORE to
many huge industries than the security of
their own country. Higher costs for oil would
mean they would have to lose profits to their
competitors who would still buy the cheap oil.
And consumers don't want to hear about how
they are going to have to pay more for oil,
either. Their brains don't FULLY FATHOM the full
magnitude of the problem because SHORT-TERM
GAIN outweighs LOGIC and LONG-TERM PAIN.
This all stems back from the fact that long-term
planning wasn't very important for ancient mankind,
as the lifespan was pretty damn short and there
were IMMEDIATE threats all the time, so SHORT-TERM
thinking in that time was good, but it's not good
any longer.
Having to spend ONE PENNY more on alternative
energy or domestic oil was something "SO
HORRIBLE" for most people that they DISCARDED
and made FUN of those experts who kept on
giving REAMS OF SOLID EVIDENCE for how
the situation was escalating and how something
like 9/11 was IMMINENT.
So, instead, we just heard from the FAMOUS
AUTHORITIES, telling people that EVERYTHING
WAS GREAT REGARDING SECURITY AND HOW THERE
WAS NO REAL TERRORIST PROBLEM.
And when I say the FAMOUS experts on EVERYTHING,
I do mean just about EVERYTHING, including the
ECONOMY.
So, for example there WERE VERY INTELLIGENT,
EXPERIENCED, WISE people WARNING about the
IMPENDING ECONOMIC MELTDOWN OF 2008.
But NONE OF THESE GUYS got ANY MAJOR
ATTENTION AT ALL.
One of those guys trying to WARN people
was named STEVE EISMAN.
There is a MOVIE about this called THE BIG SHORT,
about him and a group of others who SAW it all
coming, and who had TONS AND TONS of SOLID EVIDENCE,
but NOBODY LISTENED.
Nobody listened because GREED is more powerful
than LOGIC, even if that GREED results in
TOTAL ECONOMIC DESTRUCTION.
They don't SEE the truth, the destruction.
EMOTION blocks out LOGIC.
So instead, we had the FAMOUS EXPERTS,
all of them saying how AWESOME it was,
to just KEEP ON BUYING HOUSES and borrowing
money from the bank to buy more houses, etc.
And the BANKS themselves kept on telling
everyone that EVERYTHING WAS FINE and
everyone was going to be RICH--even if they
had NO MONEY OR PLAN ON HOW TO PAY BACK
THE LOANS!!!
Similarly, when it comes to FITNESS, there
have been COUNTLESS gimmicks sold on television,
each one with some FAMOUS FITNESS CELEBRITY
ENDORSING THE PRODUCT.
And all with claims about being SUPERIOR to the
CLASSIC FITNESS PLANS of things like calisthenics,
lifting weights, swimming, running, etc.
(For a CLASSIC approach to GENUINE FITNESS,
get my program by clicking here.)
So, when it comes to ME, you might be HAPPY
to notice that I am actually NOT the most
FAMOUS attraction expert- I'm not the most
famous person out there coaching men on how to
attract amazing, beautiful, faithful women
for long-term relationships.
Let's take the most famous book on this
subject, it's called The Game.
I could have easily written the same material
in that book, as I was around back then too,
and knew all about that stuff.
There was just one problem: I KNEW THAT
PICK-UP LINES were NOT the best way to attract
women. So I couldn't write that kind of stuff.
And The Game is CRAMMED with that kind of
stuff- routines to memorize, pick up lines,
negs, etc. And it was a "New York Times
Best-Seller".
Everyone said he was the GREATEST PICK UP ARTIST.
He was the MOST FAMOUS.
But YEARS LATER, the truth came out.
The truth was that PICK UP LINES are NOT the
best way to attract women, because women are
attracted to certain CHARACTERISTICS, not
CERTAIN WORDS.
And even the author of that book himself
years later said that the best way to
attract women is NOT through pick up
lines.
And then even in that very book, at the very
end, he himself acknowledges that for getting
a great woman for a great relationship, all
that stuff with the pick-up lines actually
REPELS THE BEST WOMEN.
And of course, if you look on the internet,
you will notice how often the videos showing
'experts' doing pick up are usually with DRUNK women
because DRUNK women are LACKING THE COGNITIVE
SKILLS TO EVEN THINK ON ANY LEVEL AT ALL.
Plus, of course, there are also endless staged
videos designed to fool guys into thinking they
are legit, etc.
But none of this changes THE FACT that the BULLSHIT
is always the MOST FAMOUS STUFF.
This is because whether it is PICK UP LINES,
or seeing an attractive woman get PHYSICAL
right AWAY with a guy, the "famous advice" makes
it all seems so EASY, and it makes it seem all
women will get PHYSICAL with you almost INSTANTLY.
And most men WANT IT TO BE SO FAST AND SO EASY,
so they BELIEVE in the BULLSHIT.
Me, on the other hand, I know the TRUTH,
which is that to REALLY pull off a successful
'pick-up' with a gorgeous woman you see
somewhere out in public in a random moment,
you are BEST OFF to go for the 'SLOW COOK'
instead of trying to get her MAKING OUT
with you right then and there.
You have to actually get a REAL CONVERSATION STARTED.
You have to KEEP THE CONVERSATION GOING.
You have to make sure NOT to commit any of the
'CARDINAL SINS' while chatting with her, such
as qualifying yourself, being submissive,
showing insecurity, being vulgar, etc.
You have to discover things about her and
SINCERELY validate her on them and ADD
meaningful commentary on HER personality.
And it helps BIG TIME to get her laughing and intrigued.
Only THEN, do you go for her number.
Can you VIOLATE these rules and sometimes succeed?
Sure, but that's like saying, "Can you sometimes
get away with running through red lights?"
Maybe, but you IGNORE these rules at your own peril.
In my programs, I focus on TRUTH.
I avoid the popular marketing gimmicks.
You won't see me pairing up with all sorts of
other 'experts', even though this would increase
marketing potential, because usually this means
DILUTING the truth, by exposing you to BULLSHIT.
I care about your RESULTS with women,
and I value your TIME, so I ONLY
give you the ABSOLUTE BEST for
attracting women. QUALITY women.
So let me repeat the most important thing
for attracting a woman in a pick-up situation
where you see her out in public somewhere:
YOU MUST HAVE A FULL-BLOWN AND EFFECTIVE
CONVERSATION WITH HER, and THIS HAS NOTHING
TO DO WITH GOING FOR MAKE-OUTS.
You have to KEEP THE CONVERSATION GOING,
doing all the RIGHT things and none of the
WRONG things.
Most guys won't even START conversation.
Even fewer guys will start it RIGHT.
And even fewer guys can CONTINUE conversation with her.
And even fewer guy can CONTINUE conversation RIGHT.
They don't know how to get her laughing.
They don't know how to CONNECT in a meaningful way.
They will "run out of things to say", for example,
and they will either EJECT and leave, or they will
do something THAT RUINS the attraction, like
qualifying themselves, showing off, saying something
vulgar, submissive, or socially repulsive.
Doing this all properly requires CALIBRATION,
which means knowing not only what to do, but
HOW MUCH to do, and WHEN to do it.
If you do that, you will GET HER, my friend.
Men are now learning from me with SKYPE CONSULTATIONS
and in PERSON in my LIVE BOOTCAMPS where I coach
you and you actually pick up real women in all kinds
of public places.
BOOTCAMP is at:
https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/bootcamp.html
CONSULTATIONS are at:
https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/consultations.html
For a CATALOG of all my HOME STUDY programs, go HERE:
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Till next time,
Michael Marks
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